Reading Strangers' Most Sorrowful Moments 

Parents who molest their children or force their children to molest others...there are no words for how evil that is.

After I told my mother that I was raped, I remember hearing her on the phone tell her friend that because I’m a man, I should’ve defended myself and she wished that I’d never been born because of the shame I brought on our family. I was 15 at the time and I ran away from home and never went back.

i will never understand how instead of parents comforting suicidal children/teenagers, they blame you and tell you that there is no reason to feel that way because ‘you have everything’.

Bro, they did my man dirty putting him in the thumbnail like that lol

I'll never understand parents who know that their child is suicidal yet don't help them.

I feel like she ate her daughter's ashes so her daughter could in a strange way be with her forever.

Alternate title: "How to give some random strangers depression."

To the people who have been called ugly.. “No one is born ugly, we're just born in a judgemental society.” ― Kim Namjoon

Dang the person who their father died after their suicide attempt will forever feel guilt for his death

Sucks for the guy in the thumbnail now everyone thinks he ate his daughters ashes

My dad sexually abused me at the age of 3, I'm now 16 and he's long gone, but I still feel like I'm the one who did the bad thing.

I’m only 13 and I’ve been taught more about how to be safe from being raped and kidnapped then about math

*casually scrolling* _thumbnail: i ate my daughter’s ashes_

I don't know if the person who was forced to molest their cousins when they were 8 years old will ever read this, but I really hope they know that they are a victim too. I can only imagine the shame they feel, but your father, a grown ass man, is responsible for this, not you. You were EIGHT, and forced into doing something you did not and could not consent to. You are not the abuser, HE is. I genuinely hope you find the help and solace you need as a sexual assault victim.

My mom is alive, healthy, and well. But I'm crying, in freaking tears at the thought that one day, she will be gone. Mommy, I love you. I love you. Please don't leave me. Please.

I’m honestly disgusted by how people are making fun of the “I ate my daughter’s ashes” one. I’m not saying I’m justifying it, but it was probably their unusual way of grieving. I’m all for dark humour but all those jokes are not okay wtf, the parent could be reading the comments right now, it’s no laughing matter.. edit: just wanna confirm that I don’t excuse this kind of behaviour, it’s totally not okay to eat someone’s ashes even if it’s a “sentimental” thing. please get help if you do so or else it could develop into something worse, even if it wasn’t out of bad intention/grief. I wish those in a similar situation the best. things get better.

I love when some of them actually give a real response to what they're reading.

It's so alarming to know so many kids can't wait to escape a place that is supposed to be their home.

That person that said they are a molester, they were a victim themselves.

The stepmom one hurt me because I also have ADHD and ADD and when I was 12 my dad met her and was married 3 days before my birthday and I didn’t like her because one day I overheard her on the phone tell someone “ my stepson is dumber than a rock” and for years she picked on me and broke me to pieces and that stuck with me and caused me to drop out of my sophomore year and when I turned 18 my father kicked me out and I lived with my friend for 2 weeks before returning back to school to get my deploma and I am now 24 and still talk to my dad and I have told him why I flunked out and he apologized for kicking me out but I do not have any contact with his wife and now make 80,000 a year doing pipeline rehabilition. TO ALL WHO HAVE READ THIS YOU ARE STRONG AND DON’T LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHER WISE.

I’m 20, never been in a relationship, never been kissed. Being raped before I get to make this choice is my biggest fear.

Whoa, that person who ate their daughter's ashes.

I've also experienced being called ugly, by my uncle back then in front of our relatives, mostly because I had severe acne. The worst part is that my dad just laughed it out and my mum did nothing.

Now the internet gonna think, this poor dude ate his daughters ashes

I know this is hella annoying but I get pissed when guy rape isnt taken serious as much as female rape

i sat at my friend's funeral and in his mothers eulogy she mentioned that although he never brought a partner home, he had told her he liked redheads. she looked at me. i had a feeling he liked me, and i liked him back. i never got to tell him.

The parent ate their daughters ashes to feel close to her. To be one with her. Don't judge unless you have a child.

“The only thing they can’t take away from you is your own willingness to give yourself to another person” I cried.. I cried SO much 💔

That first one where he saw the suicide note and did nothing was heartbreaking. That man doesn't deserve to have any children

"To experience a violent kind of shattering of your own personal boundaries is probably one of the most heartbreaking things that can happen."

"For you it's 5 minutes but for me it's forever" -Anonymous For those who have been raped may you be comforted stay strong and if nobody cares I care

The man with the empathy sweatshirt (was talking about the person who was saving themselves for marriage but was raped at a party) was so poetic in his advice. It shook me

ate their own child’s ashes... that’s so sad she must have been hurting so bad for her to want her daughter that close to her

It’s crazy how nobody is talking about the person who was forced to abort her baby. That was a child that she was carrying, and had to end the life of because she was forced. Leave any relationship where your partner makes decisions for you that aren’t to better yourself.

Virginity is a construct. For women, the Hymen can be broken via sex, or through a tampon, or just running. Therefore the hymen isn’t a purely sexual thing, because it can be broken during day to day activities like stretching, making the idea of virginity, simply an idea. If you were raped, you still have your virginity. Virginity is only taken when two parties consent, and is purely an idea or an emotional thing, but has no physical signs or implications, meaning if you were forced, you’re still a virgin.

My lowest point was back when I was 16. Every single day I wished and prayed to die before my next birthday. The pressure from school, self expectations and being over weight was crushing me. I had depression and anxiety, but never noticed the signs until much later. Worst part is I actually told my mom about it, and she just scolded me and told me to stop saying non sense. She didn't take me seriously at all, even tho I was close to taking my own life. Now after 4 years, I've picked myself back up and learned how to take care of myself and my mental health. I'm glad I'm still here and somehow survived those dark times.

The first one got me. My father was also abusive and knew I had suicidal thoughts... but he ended up dying by suicide years later. Now I understand why he couldn’t face me, he was having the same issue.

“I hope I can leave the house when i become a teenager.” That was so heartbreaking to hear🙁

Everyone: genuinely heartbreaking stories That one girl: I’m leading on four innocent guys because instead of getting help with my heartbreak I’ve chosen to take it out on others

Different people grieve in different ways. I’m sure anyone would be distraught after losing a child. We do strange things when we’re sad.

That WhatsApp group hurt me, can't imagine my best mate stabbing me in the back. Damn 1.8k!

honestly hurts knowing that so many people are struggling and nobody knows about it / edit: if anyone wants to talk my instagram is @durucilligol just DM me. take care guys

"i still love him and i hate myself" No no no HATE him and love yourself instead UNO REVERSE CARD BRUH

I cried everytime the man with the "empathy" shirt gave his insight. He has a beautiful soul. Thank you for this video.

Why is no one talking about the father that died of a cardiac arrest because of his child's suicide attempt? I don't even want to imagine the guilt and shame he or she felt. If he/she is looking at this comment, I hope you don't blame yourself too much because your father is at a better place now and I'm pretty sure he won't blame you. Stay strong and positive ❤️

To people who think they're ugly cause of a selfie, selfies make everyone look ugly if they're not taken properly (believe me, i know), don't let a picture define if you're pretty or not.

2:25 "Nobody deserves to be robbed of so much" Nope, nobody does, but it sure as hell happens a lot. Shout out to all my survivors out there, we got this, we're strong and not alone. If you have been assaulted and not yet come forward please, please do so, it's hard, so hard, but please, don't give your abuser the power of you doing this alone. Sending love to everyone out there.

the ashes one absolutely broke me. the level of grief you'd have to be in to do that is crazy.

To the rape victim: I understand yur situation I've been there. When you find that one person you want to be intimate with, you will consider them as losing your virginity to them. I dont let my rape define me, I lost my virginity to whom I chose to have an emotional encounter with that I gave myself to, not the man that took something from me. It gets better. Stay strong. It doesnt define you.

jubilee stay getting folks in they feels

The Asian guy around 2:15 hit me hard with how no one can take away your willingness to give yourself to someone. Really deep.

My mom's best friend's dog attacked me infront of my parents. Everybody knows that I have Cynophobia. When the dog attacked me, my parents didn't even try to save me from it and they didn't say anything to the dog's owner although it attacked me right infront of their eyes.

Due to the first one, I thought this video was going to be a joke..😬

POV: You HAD to click on the video because you sat there staring at the thumbnail for a good 10 seconds.

When I was around 4-5 I was forcefully kissed and just recently opened up to my mom because I never really trusted my dad for the stuff he did to abuse my mom and about a week ago he passed away from a heart attack in his sleep and I hate myself for not telling my dad and being closer to my dad. My parents have always been worried about me since my suicidal thoughts and tendencies and I feel like I can't open up about my insecurities. So please if your reading this please appreciate the people you have before they are gone and know that people are there for you when you need help. Don't be like me and open up to people about how you feel and how much you hurt. They will help you through whatever you go through and to the people who don't struggle with these things: if you see someone your close to become withdrawn or sad or distant try to talk to them and help cheer them up. ❤

my most painful moment is when I asked my mom why she hit me and she plainly answered "because you look like your father I suppose" I was 10 at the time. I had also only met my dad twice, I didn't even know what he looked like.

Its sad how you can see people get visibly sadder while reading this.

"I realised I am a molester" No, they're really not. They didn't want that to happen and the dad is the molester for forcing that to happen

To the person whose friend distanced themselves after opening up about your feelings, I understand you. I had this friend (F1) that I got close to because I was her helper when she moved to our city. We used to hang out every lunch and recess. We had the same classes, we went to the same clubs. I saw her as family. But then on 2018, another friend (F2) of mine started getting really depressed. I would spend all my time trying to aid him while still carrying my own life and problems. It felt like I was driving a boat, and I had to pull a drowning person out of the water while still making sure the boat was stable. It was the longest year of my life and the most exhausting. But after months, F2 took his own life on 10/17/19. Since I was the one aiding him, I felt completely devastated and a failure. I had promised F2 that I wouldn't rest until his life was stable, and I failed to fulfill that promise. F1 knew about F2, but didn't seem to care after I told her about his passing and how horrible I felt. That's when I thought there was something off with her. Then, at the beginning of 2020, F2's fiancé (F3) became depressed as well. Even though I was disgusted with myself, I couldn't just stand aside, so I helped him as well. One day in April, he just texted us his friends messages that hinted he might do something so we panic texted him to make sure he was ok. I was so desperate not to lose him too that I was shaking and hyperventilating, and I texted F1 to help us. But she didn't. Instead, she said "he'll be fine, you're overreacting." F3 and I texted for a while as I tried to keep him online until 911 could get to his house, but F1 kept messaging me and my phone lagged, which made me panic even more. F1 tried to tell me about an argument she had with her mom, but I grew way too anxious and texted her that I was busy with an emergency, and that her usual arguments with her mom weren't as important that moment as F3's life that was at risk. F3's last message to me was "I never thought you were a failure," before he stopped texting me. For the next minutes, I was so scared I was speechless and looking blankly at my phone, waiting for a message about his wellbeing. When his cousin texted me "there was blood everywhere," I knew that he was gone. I texted F1 infuriated, knowing that had she helped us, F3 may be still alive today. I told her about F3's death and she just started arguing with me like "oMg ThIs AgAiN?" I explained to her months later about how badly my mental health was going (i would have nightmares on a nightly basis, I would hallucinate often, and I was irrationally afraid of my friends) and how that scared me. I told her that I was sorry for yelling at her, and I explained what happened with F2 AND F3 in detail and how their deaths haunted me every day. She blamed me and distanced herself ever since. I had texted her to seek help because my parents don't believe in psychology and I was afraid I might as well end myself one day, and she left me alone.

My father and my mom abuse me daily verbally and physically and one day my dad said why did i have u if i had a son it would not like you, it hurts man it hurts bieng a kid going through all this

People who suffer from Bulliying or etc bad condition... i just wanna say... i love you guys.. you're strong ...

And this is why movie lines like "I'm a girl who wears men's size 13 nikes, beat that" shouldn't be a thing. 🤣🤣 lol Edit: (Is this better? 👀)

That guy talking about how giving yourself is the thing that matters; you deserve the world

This one really hurt. I'm glad that my parents loved me. This makes me miss them even more now. This is why it's important to cherish every moment with your parents while you still have them.

These stories hit me right in the heart...its sad that the girls bestfriend said that to her. My bestfriend revealed his problems to me and I supported him and even went to therapy with him when he asked me too. I stood up to his bipolar father and all. 2 years later I got the courage to tell him about my issues and he's really been there for me. I really value our relationship, now I'm just waiting for him to come back from bootcamp

The woman who ate her daughter's ashes was like the one is strange addiction where her husband died and ate his ashes. It's like a way of grief I think. It might be weird for us but those people are grieving so much for their loss. THey need to find some relief.

Honestly, the raw humanity in this video made me emotional.

I can't get over the stepmother situation. The fact that the child isn't even a teenager and already feels like breaking their self away from someone they used to look up to is heartbreaking.

Omg this is so horrible, i hope those people can seek help 😥

I don't like how insensitive the comments are about the mother eating her daughter's ashes. I'm gonna assume most of y'all laughing or minimizing it is out of genuine ignorance. Theres a psychological component to this happening, and it's actually a lot more common than people think. People deal with loss and grief in different ways. The eating of the ashes is often a symbolic way of comforting people dealing with grief. Often associated with the thinking pattern of "I miss you so much, I want you to always be a part of me". Just think of how much that person is suffering from the loss, to the point where they eat their ashes. It's no different than someone not entering the room of a lost loved one, keeping clothes that smell like them and routinely sniffing them to give the comfort of their presence still existing, abandoning the area entirely because the pain of them being there hurts too much, keeping old videos, recordings, voicemails, literally dying from a broken heart. I can go on and on. Overall, I hope the mother doesn't read the comments of the insensitivity. I hope she heals the best way she can. I hope she's seeking therapy to help cope with her loss. 💗 I hope she can say her daughter's name again with tears of joy instead of sadness and pain.

“A shattering violation of your own personal boundaries” that was well said

These made me cry. Feels super nice. Honestly these people are so amazing.

when my mom asks me what’s wrong i just say I’m tired cause i don’t have the heart to tell the lady who gave me life that i don’t want it no more.

I felt that girl who got raped I too was raped like a month ago (I’m in high school) by the person I loved and trusted the most and i was also saving myself ,he knew that yet he did it anyway even when I didn’t want. He left me with scars on my body and pain physically and mentally. And it’s harder in my country to tell anyone that so I just had to live with it. Just a lot of violence and disrespect to love I have given to him and to me as a person in general. He knew that I couldn’t do anything about so why not having fun? Knowing how much women are weak in my country is just sad. Now I’m just living my life at the age of 17 with depression acting like I’m ok in front of my family and friends because I can’t do anything about it .🤷🏻‍♀️ (Sorry for my bad English tho)

I'm literally crying this is so heartfelt

I wish there was a word for ‘evil’ inside and out horrible people are everywhere

Why can't people genuinely be as kind and less judgmental in real life as these good humans in this video ?

I didn’t really know where else to ask this so Does anyone else not tell people about things they’re dealing with out of fear of being “a typical depressed teen”? I rarely tell people about things I’m dealing with because I know most people are just gonna go “oh it’s just part of growing up” and they’ll think I’m exaggerating for attention.

This really told me how blessed I am. A lot has happened in my life, that is so so scary. But so many people have it worse. It encourages me to keep my head up, and move on. I'm always going to try my best to help people in anyway I can, My mother gave me a name that actually means "My helper". And that's all I want to do, because I know how it feels to not have help when you really need it.

The one that hurt the most is hearing about the fathers cardiac arrest due to the suicide attempt. I’ve been suicidal for all of my life that I can remember, and my Dad is the most important person in the world to me. He’s my best friend, mentor, he means the world to me. He’s there even when it means being against the world, he’s proud of me when no one else even acknowledges me…he just sees me for me, and we don’t even need to talk to show support or love. The day my dad dies is the day I lose all hope. He’s already had two heart attacks. I’m so scared for him…I bawl my eyes out now just at the thought, I have no clue just how incredibly broken I’ll feel when it happens…

Jubilee is doing so much with our feelings

2:40 that's the most amazing response ive ever heard to a rape confession. I can't understand what its like to be a victim so I may be completely wrong, but i think its so important to emphasise to a victim of any form of abuse or misfortune who feels powerfless, to specifically tell them what power they DO have.

sometimes i watch videos like this to remember that my life my have struggles but there are people whom are in a worse position than me. that i need to not only be constructive towards myself but towards others. i’m sorry for all of you who are feeling pain, i love you all. each and everyone of you is beautiful and courageous. ❤️

I just want to give all of these people a hug

I felt that last one, it was my moms birthday and clumsily drop a bowl in front of me at her party. My mom gets mad at saying I was holding my phone and not paying attention to the bowl. I really wasn’t holding anything, someone else asks if I was okay. Hearing the words “are you okay?” Was shocking, because whenever I was clumsy my parents would get mad. After that I ran up to my room and started crying. Hearing someone else ask if I didn’t get hurt made me cry, my own mom got mad instead of asking if I was okay.

The one about the abortion hit home...big time. I almost thought I wrote it.

After watching a few videos like these I've realised how impactful ur words can be in someone else's life so no matter in how much of a bad mood u are pls always, ALWAYS be mindful of what u are saying to others. For u it might be just "Oh, I was in bad mood and so I said it, IK they won't take it to their heart" type of thing but for someone it could be triggering and heartbreaking yk. If you can't help them then choose to say nthng. USE YOUR WORDS ONLY WHEN U FEEL IT'S BETTER THAN SILENCE ❤️❤️

It's crazy how I can cry over these things and feel the pain although I haven't experienced any

Nobody gonna talk about the one dating four guys at once for “coping”, knowing it’s wrong, NOT feeling guilty, and then nothing is said of it? There are things I’m understanding of but this is just inexcusable. She’s exploiting multiple men and their feelings for her own benefit and just using them to “cope” with something that happened years ago. This is wrong and vile and the person responsible is disgusting, no excuses

Why do I feel like they’re reading their own secrets...

It is awful how lonely you can feel even when you are surrounded by people... It is not comforting to be even in a group of people if you cannot be authentic and venerable in front of those people.

The amount of empathy/sympathy these people have, make my heart feel-

I feel so bad for the 8 year old who molested his cousin. I get that it was still wrong, but like the guy said you were an 8 year old you really couldn’t consent to anything. ): edit: don’t get me wrong I 100% feel bad for the cousin as well

I told my best friend about me cutting and my issues with my parents,and after two years,as she slowly distanced herself from me, now the whole class knows about it , which made me develop trust issues...

I saw Jubilee vids popped up on my RU-vid bout few months ago, but never had the guts to watch it, cause I knew that if I did, I'd cried and had panic attacks from all the sorrows. But somehow I ended up watching all these videos and couldn't do anything but cried for them.

The things people will do out of pure heartbreak... it’s just so hard to even imagine that level of pain

I don’t feel bad for the girl dating four guys tbh.

I think that the only one who gave good advice was the CEO.

My mother’s ex and the father of my younger sisters used to hit my mom and I. I remember when he puts his hands on me. He hit me in the face and busted my tooth into my lip (i still have a scar years later) my mother tells me that it was discipline and that I deserved it. But all that happened was I said what seemed like a “bad word”at the time like “butt” or “pee” (I was around 7) I remember less about him hurting her but still enough. My mother now tells me that none of it happened and tries to tell me that I was young and couldn’t remember because of how young I was, but our other family members recall him hitting her. Most of my family believes that she is lying or blocking it out. She still makes me feel like I’m crazy about it to this day and sometimes I start to believe her

Got, I'm crying now- this hit me in the feels