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I'm a writer and I absolutely agree that human beings are indeed in Flux. I've noticed how much difficulty rigid personalities have in their interactions with society. Also I live in South Africa where people with characteristics that in the past would have been sanctioned and even stigmatized have either sunk to their lowest point barely existing in poverty while others are extremely successful.
Thabk you Dutton! Never heard of you before but very glsd to have your questions. New to sams content as well but having someone else prompt his mind has been revealing. Think i have cptsd and narcacistic and phyotic traits. Im still figuring out what is subclinical and what is from trauma. I really related to the joke of psychopathy and narcacism, having both being the best of both worlds 😅 If we make fun of the guests in the comments i can't imagine Prof Sam will get many more. ❤
Ever since I was in a relationship with who I suspected as a covert malignant narcissist, I keep seeing amplified narcissistic traits in other people. I always try to see the good in people but this is becoming a problem for me as I find it hard to trust people. How can I find fix this?
I think what Vaknin would tell you is that you have to give people a chance, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't do so judiciously. That is what I remember from watching Vaknin. Anyway, I hope things get better for you.
Sounds like you were a bit traumatized and are naturally more fearful of others now. That's normal. Time will probably help to heal much of that. I don't know what to tell you, apart from hanging in there and waiting it out.
That's why helicopter parenting is so cruel to the development of children. Equally leaving babies in certain creche facilities denies children time to bond with their parents and is very unstimulating for children. I worked in such a place and I saw how this practice seemed to cause ADHD or withdrawal in children who might have developede normally if the environment early in life had been better for them.
Please record another video on what happens when you discard the narcissist first, in more detail and ideally 3 hours long!!! I broke up with him in a conference, we’re both popular in our discipline. And it was the first time I had more admirers than him. One evening he started acting funny, avoiding me etc. and before I let him devalue me I broke up with him the same night, after months of giving chances. Next day I told all our colleagues in the conference that I broke up with him and he didn’t want that. Since he’s tried to communicate with some stories on instagram etc but no “hoovering” happened a year now. We met recently in another conference and he was all over me. I tried to avoid him again. He started sending me reels etc but I’ve not continued. I was the only woman to break up with him and among the few ex es not keeping in touch or entertaining him. But I do miss him sometimes. I’ve done great steps with your videos. Why is he still in my mind despite I broke up?
You broke up with him in a way that makes your false self look good. If you do not have narcissistic disorder, now take the step of breaking up in a way that is good (truly of benefit) to your real self. They (NPD'd people) bring out the false self, but those of us who do not have the fullblown disorder, can get back to the real self, and administer true moved on, peace.
In a lot of his videos he does a little acting with a costume and voice and such based on the topic of the video. I love it. But yeah, I can definitely see what you mean with his attire here, I dig it though.
@@amirsoltany9561 Vaknin is a narcissist, he doesn't care, why would he be offended? His false self is perfect and brilliant. Jolly heretic is just a useful mirror for him.
