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MGTOW: A One Way Road 

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@Vention1MGTOW
@Vention1MGTOW 9 лет назад
Yeah, sex with a condom is pointless and sex without a condom is crazy. Thats a big part of why I no longer bother with it.
@thinking-ape6483
@thinking-ape6483 9 лет назад
Immortal words Lord Vention, henceforth I shall use them in reverence to you.
@Vention1MGTOW
@Vention1MGTOW 9 лет назад
ThinkingApe-TV LOL, Thanks. Use it all you want.
@coweatsman
@coweatsman 9 лет назад
***** Gold diggers? Who wants them? I don't don't do prostitution either in its formal sense or general informal sense. Too many risks and I'm not just talking about STIs. I'm talking relationship complications. Life is simpler being celibate.
@Vention1MGTOW
@Vention1MGTOW 9 лет назад
***** *>That should be carved in marble stones the placed on the facades of libraries and other relevant public buildings along with quotes from Thomas Jefferson and Abraham Lincoln. Srsly.* LOL. That's an honor. Thanks!
@thinking-ape6483
@thinking-ape6483 9 лет назад
Vention1MGTOW I agree with him; henceforth it shall be used in eternal reference to TEH Vention1!
@honestycounts9352
@honestycounts9352 9 лет назад
For most guys the following statement applies: "Don't try and teach a pig to sing; it just wastes your time and annoys the pig. "
@Erokizzle
@Erokizzle 9 лет назад
It's incredibly interesting how an anti-establishment attitude often coincides with an interest in exercise and nutrition. It's also refreshing to hear you reference ketogenic diets and heavy weightlifting. Funny how a tendency to question what's conventionally accepted leads you to what actually works.
@particleconfig.8935
@particleconfig.8935 4 года назад
Yes the anti- mainstream establishment attitude actually makes the individual's brain think for its own survival. The internet is our think-tank.
@RaineErasmusWalker
@RaineErasmusWalker Год назад
Something something Ted Kazinsky something something a society creates depressed people and sells them medicine to cure depression
@MultiShadow1979
@MultiShadow1979 9 лет назад
I would say we are all alone on this planet as individuals, and it is often only before dying that we realize this. Most MGTOW in some sense realize this, because the one main emotional outlet we have is taken away.. women. Obviously women themselves get a pass in observing this fact, in that all of society basically caters to them, and for the most part there is always someone who will be there for them if they are ever lonely. Most men don't want to deal with this fact, hence the drug-like addiction to female validation.. and why they look at anyone who doesn't share the addiction as some an addict would look at some "square" who is against drugs. The best thing you can do is utilize the fact that most men are addicts and most women are oblivious, to your advantage. While they are running around chasing the same futile relationships, that means less competition for you in achieving your own goals and finding more stable methods of gaining happiness.
@japlha
@japlha 9 лет назад
I've almost given up on talking about this stuff. It falls on deaf ears. A friend of mine was complaining to me how stressful his relationships with woman are. Then, in mid-sentence, started hitting on our waitress. I asked him "What are you doing man?" He got this confused deer in headlights look. He quickly laughed it off but it's as if believes he must always be "on" the hunt for the next disappointment. What pains me the most is his experiences with women are causing him real health problems. Another friend regularly sends me pictures of women along with captions like "Oh man she's so hot!". I'm passive about it and don't respond. I hope he gets the message. The silly thing is every time I meet them we go through the same cycle. They complain about women, I explain why, they acknowledge it then they step into the ring again for the next round of battery. I think they don't want to believe what I tell them and quite literally forget it. I really don't have anything in common with these guys or any of the men I know in my life. But I'm trying to help my brothers Anyways, thanks for the video. As always well said.
@japlha
@japlha 9 лет назад
***** Yes. They want to think their situation is different. Or the woman they want is different. Stardusk and Barbarossa have spoken about this at length. I think most men are unable to give up this fantasy. And perhaps that's a good thing for the continuation of our species but at the cost of a man's freedom.
@paulconboy4803
@paulconboy4803 5 лет назад
I've got similar friends, they can't comprehend Mgtow, so I let them "rinse cycle repeat" their endless cycles of female interactions / relationshits !!
@ilarionastreos6823
@ilarionastreos6823 4 года назад
I can relate to that bro
@starc.
@starc. 2 года назад
they can't really hear what you're saying because the pussy is still too good and too close and they haven't lost enough to see the problem
@vwasson6725
@vwasson6725 Год назад
I only speak about this stuff with 1 or 2 people who I know will not reject me for my views. Others don't hear about it from me unless they ask me directly. Usually only happens once, but sometimes I'll come across that one person who is highly interested in getting their head wrapped around the concept.
@TheSolasion
@TheSolasion 8 лет назад
This video hit close to home for me. I'm 23 going on 24 and recently I lost a friend that I've known since he was 11 years old (4 year difference between him and I) to a girl. The evolutionary takeover is complete and he's lost to me. I've lost another friend in the same manner and while it saddens me, frankly, I don't give much of a shit anymore.
@GDX2470
@GDX2470 5 лет назад
how'd everything end up going brotha? i feel i'm reaching a "crossroads" with many childhood friends. thanks in advance brotha
@FallouFitness_NattyEdition
@FallouFitness_NattyEdition 5 лет назад
I lost my best friend of 20 years bro. Known the guy since we were 7. I hope things have gotten better for you.
@starc.
@starc. 2 года назад
hoes before bros had the same experience with someone younger was trying to help out
@festuswilliams654
@festuswilliams654 4 месяца назад
Nothing in this universe goes on forever, so to think otherwise is like another strand of blue pill ism. Relationships and friendships..even black holes are predicted to evaporate. Non of us have long. Try and find people of similar mindsets..even then you'll find other areas of conflict that you may not agree upon. Acceptance goes a long way.
@ralfrudiger7276
@ralfrudiger7276 Месяц назад
how is it going?
@brendanthebdog
@brendanthebdog 9 лет назад
By virtue of being autistic I barely bought into conventional society and conventions from inherent physiology. Becoming MGTOW wasn't even a lifestyle choice, it was merely letting natural tendencies prevail. For some men becoming MGTOW may seem like Neo's liberating choice in the Matrix. And for others, it's like Ciphers lament and disillusionment about taking the red pill. But, Western civilization; taken as a whole, is so profoundly broke that it can't possibly be fixed. MGTOW is just accepting reality for what it is and then bending the rules to change reality within your own personal sphere of influence. On another note, as far as being MGTOW is concerned I've never had any "what's the meaning of existence" conversations with women I was sexually attracted to. Just as I've never had any in-depth conversations with with cats or trees. Lamenting the loss of something one never had in the fist place is just crazy. The companionship was merely an illusion propped up by sexual attraction, probably always has been. Now, there are just men who can endure or embrace the resulting celibacy from the refusal to deal with women romantically.
@creamstonmcdickinballs4069
@creamstonmcdickinballs4069 2 года назад
Bang on comment bro I don’t care if it’s seven years ago this is genius how you put it
@xAudiolith
@xAudiolith Год назад
Superbly put
@micosstar
@micosstar 11 месяцев назад
autism is so cool, one interpretation could be that it's a sort of natural deviance from society, in this topic, a "natural MGTOW"@@creamstonmcdickinballs4069
@aristein88
@aristein88 9 лет назад
So many good points made in this video. All of them resonate with me. A few of them: -The more I understand women, that less I am able to connect emotionally with any of them. And, without an emotional connection, a woman is really just an object to be used in masturbation. Hardly worth the effort, expense, time, all the pandering needed, etc. And, when you add in the huge risks, sex just isn't worth dealing with anymore. -I distain conversing with most people today. It is like a ritual chant of small talk. Nobody cares, and nobody is really even paying attention, they are just going through the motions. Their small talk is just so devoid of meaning or sincerity. It's actually a shock when I encounter someone asking something sincerely, or stating something of meaning. -I had the same issue with my brother who likes to put on holiday dinners (mostly to show off his big house full of stuff). A few years ago, he got so carried away that he couldn't even tell us what day or time he wanted me and my father to come over for that particular holiday (about 4 times a year). He did this several times in a row. He would say something like "it is either going to be Friday or Saturday, I am not sure what time. I will call you on Friday and let you know when I can do it". I told him that didn't work for me. He tried to paint me as ungrateful for not appreciating his efforts to have a holiday dinner. I told him "look, you get approximately 140 days off work a year. If you can't set aside half a day on at least 3 or 4 of those 140 days, then this just isn't important enough to bother with. And, don't give me the ungrateful bit, because it costs me about $20 worth of gas and 3 hours of my time just to get there (and back). I can have a pretty good dinner right here for $20 and spent my time on other things if this isn't important to you. I am not going to put my life on hold for days waiting to drop everything at a moments notice to come have dinner with you". I had to skip 3 holiday dinners before he got the point.
@JayeDeBlack
@JayeDeBlack 9 лет назад
Learning from mistakes should make going your own way much easier.
@lemontea2065
@lemontea2065 5 лет назад
"The only woman who'd accept an unemployed man..." Yeah, a draft horse HAS TO work.
@Scappo
@Scappo 9 лет назад
I've noticed that whenever a friend of mine starts a relationship with a woman, they tend to drift away in terms of time spent just hanging out...and when I finally do get to hang out with that friend for a halfway decent period of time (let's say, an afternoon) his thoughts are occupied not by the act of social male bonding, but with what his girlfriend/wife is currently doing...whether the woman is worried...what the woman wants him to pick up on the way home for dinner etc. Either that, or the woman is constantly messaging the friend via text...for whatever reason. I also notice the compromises these friends start making. Stuff they said they'd never do, I see them doing "for my wife" or "for my babe...". Compromising personal standards for the sake of a woman? Ridiculous. These days, when a friend of mine says they've found "the one" or that "I'm seeing this really nice girl", and ESPECIALLY when they say "She's pregnant...I'm so happy!...", I simply say "good luck with that, man", and don't go out of my way to contact them again. If they wanna contact me and make an effort to keep the friendship then I'll match the effort they put in, but through trial and error I've realized that a man cannot go his own way and have friends that are married/ seeing someone/ has kids. My worst nightmare is that all my current good friends disappear into the night with some woman, breed, and are never to be seen or heard from again.
@Enmity28
@Enmity28 8 лет назад
+Scappo This is quite a bitter pill to swallow. I'm dealing with this shit at the moment with my best friend and its tough because I suffer from terrible social anxiety, so my social circle is fairly limited. I guess i'll have to go out there and make new friends for now and leave this friend to his new mistress. Its unfortunate, but its the only way... sigh.
@Ricki_Snow
@Ricki_Snow 4 года назад
Amén
@aben8192
@aben8192 Год назад
Why do you think it seems like married men and single men drift apart once kids and a wife enter the picture? This has happened to me and just barley realized the phenomenon now that I’m into my late 20s. Truly fascinating observation
@Scappo
@Scappo Год назад
@@aben8192 Put simply- time. A woman sucks up every spare minute a man has. A child sucks up what seconds may have remained...every moment spent with a friend is a moment a man could have been spending with his woman or child. Guilt drives him to spend as much time as possible with his family or woman because it's the "right thing to do". This is why I don't go to any extra effort to try, because that might make things for my friend even worse as he'd feel like he's letting ME down by not spending time with me. These days I've embraced the hermit lifestyle and I don't regret it.
@Autonomous15
@Autonomous15 Год назад
@@aben8192 I think it's pathetic of these men that can't seem to find even 1 day a month to hang out. Don't they ever need their space? Their women are parasites.
@dwarfshortage244
@dwarfshortage244 9 лет назад
I've lost more female friends than male friends since going my own way. Telling a woman I do not condone marriage or having children (in a traditional manner) seems to be their kryptonite. Most shrink away and some get angry. A lot of my male friends agree with what I say, but still can't seem to overcome the pressures of society telling them they have to get married or 'settle down' and 'look after' their woman.
@donragnar8430
@donragnar8430 5 лет назад
Stardusk, your body of work has always helped me strive to be the best man I can be on the MGTOW path.
@quantumaxe6468
@quantumaxe6468 9 лет назад
this also makes getting a job really difficult. it all depends now on how much crap you can tolerate and contribute to. i wish MGTOWs could get together to help each other out. only thing that worries me is someone going Cypher. the brain power wasted on chatting about useless stuff can be put to use to learn so much more.
@h.e.pennypacker2037
@h.e.pennypacker2037 6 лет назад
Well said brother. I live the same way. The juice ain’t worth the squeeze.
@michaelthompson9119
@michaelthompson9119 9 лет назад
You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
@allenspacer5345
@allenspacer5345 9 лет назад
Yep, the smart ones will drink the dumb ones will die of thirst.
@BlackHatTy
@BlackHatTy 9 лет назад
This video reminds me of my best friend in college. I introduced him to his wife and he went into such an obsession we drifted away. he never even invited me to the wedding. She's 100 lbs heavier now and her teeth rotted out of her mouth so at least there was a silver lining to it...ha. Excellent video.
@starc.
@starc. 2 года назад
best friend that you introduced to his future wife never even invited you for the marriage wow makes it sound like as if he didn't even view you as a friend let alone best friends as you viewed him
@ggalton1084
@ggalton1084 9 лет назад
Enlightening video as always, Stardusk. Unfortunately I'm at an age (mid-twenties) where the peer pressure to engage in the mating ritual--whether low investment (ONSs and FWBs) or high investment (LTRs)--is astronomically high, and where avoiding engagement can be very costly socially; I'm sure many younger MGTOW are in that same boat. Unfortunately, every friend/acquaintance I have--from teens to 40s--is reflexively beholden to his biological urges, and none of them seem to have sufficient introspective or observational capacity to be otherwise. As an addendum, the formal, brick-and-mortar workplace--which, if I'm not mistaken, you seem to have basically escaped from at the moment--is a whole 'nother ballgame. In particular, I imagine being a Sexual Dissident in a male-dominated line of work--such as the skilled trades--could be a nightmare, unless one plays his cards right (or just shuts his mouth and nods his head and smiles in proper coordination at the correct moments). I don't think it would be possible to advance in those lines of work without tacitly agreeing that pussy is the be-all end-all of male existence (after all, who would want to work with/promote a guy who's not "one of the guys"?). As someone looking into the skilled trades myself, I guess I just have to keep faking it until I'm able to (hopefully) manumit myself from the drudgery of formal employment. I don't think putting up a hugely dissonant facade for 40 years is good for one's physical or mental health....
@Paul-yn2zy
@Paul-yn2zy 6 лет назад
I might be one of those subscribers you'd never want to talk to, but I still enjoy what you have to say.
@popmop1234
@popmop1234 11 месяцев назад
0:00: 🔁 Going your own way is a one-way path with no turning back, and it can lead to the loss of friendships. 0:00: Going your own way means not engaging in conventional forms of life. 0:12: The speaker's friend changed his number and was difficult to contact. 1:08: The friend was planning to visit a female friend in New York City. 1:46: The speaker expressed frustration about only having 15 minutes to talk to his friend. 2:49: The speaker emphasizes that once you go your own way, there's no turning back. 3:22: The fallout of going your own way can result in the loss of friendships. 3:44: Loss of friendships may not be malicious and can happen naturally. 4:49: 🤔 The speaker discusses how his decision to go his own way has affected his friendships, particularly with a friend who cannot understand his choices. 4:49: The speaker's friendship with a high lord of budgetary smiting has not been affected by his decision to go his own way. 6:37: The friend is unable to understand the speaker's choice to no longer have sex. 7:27: The speaker used to engage in sexual relationships but found them unfulfilling. 7:34: The speaker believes that men can understand women's perspectives better than women can understand men's perspectives. 8:35: 💡 The speaker discusses the challenges of maintaining friendships and family relationships as a MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) advocate. 8:35: The speaker talks about the difficulties of explaining his lifestyle choices to friends who do not understand or support his decision to be MGTOW. 9:08: He mentions a friend who is considering cohabitation despite his previous disastrous experience with it. 10:03: The speaker highlights the limited topics of conversation he has with different friends based on their interests. 11:10: He mentions receiving messages from men who struggle with acceptance from their family members regarding their MGTOW lifestyle. 11:56: The speaker emphasizes that understanding is not necessary for family relationships and suggests living one's own life while maintaining a connection with family. 12:01: He discusses the lack of concern from his parents about his private life and how they prioritize genetic bonds over intellectual understanding. 12:52: The speaker concludes that while friendships may fade away, it is important to live authentically and not let the opinions of others dictate one's choices. 13:59: 📺 The importance of maintaining online relationships and friendships with like-minded individuals in the MGTOW community. 13:59: Maintaining online relationships and friendships with men going their own way is vital. 14:51: The MGTOW phenomenon is primarily an online phenomenon. 15:54: Building and maintaining online relationships and friendships is the most important social endeavor for MGTOW individuals. 16:11: Real-life relationships and friendships may wither and wane over time. 16:17: MGTOW is a one-way road with no u-turns. 17:01: The human mating ritual can be seen as a definition of insanity. 17:18: People often engage in the same relationship patterns despite repeated failures. 18:13: 🤔 The video emphasizes the importance of maintaining online relationships and friendships, especially for those who don't find support or understanding in their real-life relationships. 18:13: Fostering relationships and friendships online is necessary due to the geographical separation between people. 19:03: Maintaining online relationships is crucial for those with family members who don't understand them. 19:33: Many people are stuck in a perpetual loop of insanity, while MGTOW advocates going their own way. 19:47: It's unfortunate if there is no common ground or understanding with others, but it's okay to let them go. 20:09: The speaker's friend is likely to repeat the cycle of failed relationships. 20:15: The video concludes with a reminder to enjoy the weekend, especially if it's snowing. Recap by Tammy AI
@BadUrbanKarma
@BadUrbanKarma 19 дней назад
Once you truly "see", meaning that you understand something so well that it has fundamentally changed you, you can't really "unsee" it. Knowledge just doesn't work in that fashion. My point... Your friend is stuck in the loop because he is fundamentally unchanged, despite the words he has heard from you. I used to have a boss that would have hour long strategic conversations with me. Afterwards, I would think, "Maybe, now, he will understand." During the conversation, he showed every marker of cognition, but, within 24 hours, like an episode of Groundhog Day, it was like our conversations never happened. That boss, I guess, just was not capable of changing, of integrating the knowledge into his worldview.
@FelixUna
@FelixUna 9 лет назад
The illusion of "I'm on my way to happiness with this woman" is very strong when you are caught up in a relationship and off course the man wants to believe its true. Also from where he is standing the alternative looks bleak.
@coweatsman
@coweatsman 9 лет назад
I can think of the angler fish wiggling what looks like a nice morsel and then SNAP!
@FelixUna
@FelixUna 9 лет назад
coweatsman Women even use phrases like "to snag a man" so your angler fish analogy is spot on.
@WilliamMartinez-vq2bn
@WilliamMartinez-vq2bn 2 месяца назад
I ended a 2 year courtship with a good woman,,because her girls 13 and 16 had was is ingratitude and indifference. And disrespect Off the charts i said hell to the no. I have to much love and self respect it hurt a lot but my security and peace and tranquility are priceless its been 60days and i have zero regrets!!!!
@StanleyBrunswick
@StanleyBrunswick 3 дня назад
Good! Single mothers are single for a REASON!
@SamGirgenti
@SamGirgenti 9 лет назад
Great video, thank you. Similar things are happening to me it's nice to know I'm not the only one!
@victorashul
@victorashul 4 года назад
"i could be into hamsters and they wouldn't care" - LMAO :))))
@vwasson6725
@vwasson6725 Год назад
*shrugs* We each have our choices. Friends who choose to disassociate with me over my beliefs/opinions, has always been respected. I've unfriended some people over a difference of life standards that they adopted later in life. Not usually though. Only those who try too hard to convert me to their views. *shrugs* I've been a "What you see is what you get." type of person for decades and I just don't give a shit if others don't like who/what I am. You know the gruff/blunt people that you meet in life/work? I've always respected and got along with them. I've heard many times that people didn't understand how I could hang out /work with some people. At the bottom of it all is that I like real people period. I can respect their views.
@castlebravo1467
@castlebravo1467 5 лет назад
I'd read Vilar SO long ago that much of what I am now is part of who I am, as my identity.
@whyareyoufollowingme1588
@whyareyoufollowingme1588 4 года назад
incredulity noun: incredulity the state of being unwilling or unable to believe something.
@luismoreira8045
@luismoreira8045 Год назад
I love your Chanel brother I’m 31 years old single father. I have learn heaps from your videos keep it brother greetings from Brazil 👊
@Jbroglydecap
@Jbroglydecap 9 лет назад
Finally a good sound quality!!
@williamturner01
@williamturner01 9 лет назад
Thanks for the video and the thoughts.
@Torgo1969
@Torgo1969 9 лет назад
We should always thank Thor, and Oden of course, the wisest god of all. Under the winter skies we stand glorious, and with Oden on our side we are Victorious!
@OhioDan
@OhioDan 7 лет назад
I'm guessing this situation didn't end well for his friend.
@Guyjharrison
@Guyjharrison 9 лет назад
Great Video.... Made me think. Is it that us men have not been taught to break away from the female dependency? IE. Mother son relationship. I am no brilliant man, but something with the sub-conscious and phsychy that continues if some sort of "Males Rights of Passages" is not performed. MGTOW seems to be an avenue for men to regain or find masculine power within themselves and grow as men with the help of other men. Thanks and take care.
@metal0n0v
@metal0n0v 9 лет назад
mgtow is a personal path. more like an intimate one. i cant talk to just anybody about it. i can open myself only to like minded ones.
@Guyjharrison
@Guyjharrison 9 лет назад
metalon I think you have found the right place for like minded ;) Frankly - Life is a personal series of paths, but I get ya. I've watched many videos and read up on MGTOW and found there are perceived classes to MGTOW. Such as some still date, but are aware, some do not date, but have friends, some none of the above, some reclusive. I think it is a great step for any man to even think about MGTOW because it shows self-awareness, self-reflection, and well, growth. I remember before my divorce I could not grow, whether or man or even as a human being. It was abusive. It would seem its forgot, but its been known awhile now emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse. Dunno, just felt like saying that. Cya
@metal0n0v
@metal0n0v 9 лет назад
the female has ... strange effect on the male. some say its a catalyst. for what - idk. women todays are hardly women, whats left for a catalyst. lets look at ... particularly tomboyish woman in the manosphere. not feminine at all, short hair, cusses and smokes. men are attracted to dominant and brainy women. most women today are just a hindrance and of course they'll get discarded by the thinkers as having no use I would choose extinction as a natural right if there is no one worthy
@Guyjharrison
@Guyjharrison 9 лет назад
metalon I feel your anger and I, personally must forgive. Not that you must, but I encourage you to think about it. MGTOW can help, not punish women. MGTOW can, of course, help other men. There is woman nature, but for awhile now, maybe decades... it has become rotten and most of us here with MGTOW see it in almost all women.
@Guyjharrison
@Guyjharrison 9 лет назад
***** No disagreement here - And?
@NewCurryofthepast
@NewCurryofthepast 2 года назад
Getting recommended this on my vanced feed 7 years later, nice.
@paulmgtowsongs9849
@paulmgtowsongs9849 7 лет назад
Just remember that one way roads can be driven both ways even though they are one way theoretically... I don't think it's impossible to bounce back to blue pill and purple pill. You can always do a u-turn on a one way street, or put the car in reverse...
@thinking-ape6483
@thinking-ape6483 9 лет назад
@citycrusher9308
@citycrusher9308 9 лет назад
In an another video of yours, you mentioned the Internet Aristocrat bowing out. Even though it makes sense that he leaves if he thinks what he is involved with is going south, the way he left wasn't something to be admired. Aristocrat didn't just retire. He took down his channel and all the valuable content. This sour grapes on his part. He took his toys and went home. Stardusk, if ever you decide to retire to new things, please leave your content for others to view.
@nonono7465
@nonono7465 9 лет назад
I owe you so many video responses Stardusk. I know you don't know me, but my life has been made so much richer because of your videos. I honestly feel like I owe you money or something, for listening to all your content for free. I don't feel quite right not only because of all of your content that I've listened to for free, but also so many other MGTOW here on RU-vid I've been privileged to listen to. I've re-listened to 'Man, the self loathing' more times than I can count. I wish I could afford to donate to your paypal, but I am really struggling myself. I guess the best I can do right now is to offer encouraging words and tell you that what people like you in the RU-vid MGTOW community are doing is offering an invaluable service. Myself and so many others are in your debt. I'm going to be honest, I heard some hurt in your voice in this video; maybe masked as annoyance. Nothing at all to be ashamed about feeling hurt at the impending/potential loss of a good friend. One of my best friends acts in a very similar way to the way you described in this video. But for him it's not only his non-MTOW lifestyle, but also his career and religious beliefs that have caused our interactions to become more infrequent. He's a lawyer and a christian who wants to get married. I am none of these things. But it hurts because he's probably the most intellectually honest friend I've ever had. We used to meet up at least once each year in person (we live far apart now because of our jobs), the past 3 years we have not met up. I miss him. I miss his humor, and I miss his ability to call me on my bullshit and really make me think about other sides of issues. Anyway thanks for this and all your videos Stardusk. I wouldn't ever want to bother you, but I hope when I get more time to make and post videos (and I will!) you will give them a try and listen to some of them.
@thinking-ape6483
@thinking-ape6483 9 лет назад
Trevor Cormier Don't worry man, we got Sandscam! (I mean Sandman).
@xcitadel5763
@xcitadel5763 7 месяцев назад
You were upset a person you speak to twice a year only had 15 minutes to talk after calling him out of the blue? He was right it is douchey to say “I’m more important than what you already have planned.” Especially to someone you only speak to twice a year 😂
@metal0n0v
@metal0n0v 9 лет назад
The way I see it. A young, attractive woman's presence is like the gravity of the weights I lift. There is resistance. You need that resistance so you can practice your own resistance against the gravity. I'm talkin about the total seclusion from the cackling world. Its like going into the mountain for years to train and coming back only to find that you get really easily annoyed BY NOTHING really. A simple noise which you brain has isolated subconsciously if you usually have contacts. This is why there was the "one bj away" talk. It's really a thin line and SD mentioned in his previous vids that its a matter of trade offs. Neither here, nor there. Thats why maybe we dont have a manual on how to live. So ... that feel. Both think of the other as the looser. Idk why u didnt gave up on him yet. I guess we'll never know. Maybe if he gets enough burned, he might get it. But will u be accepting him back as a friend? Who knows. And that thing with the distant relationship. I had it twice. I got dumped on the "not enough moneyz" claim the first time. You know, not happening again ever. Period. My speculation - He will get severely(depending on his oneitis tendency) burnt.
@sellis2819
@sellis2819 9 месяцев назад
i wouldnt say you cant entirely go back from mgtow but your gonna have to walk, its much easier to learn something then to completely unlearn it and if you learn abit of it again you could easily relearn everything. i would think of it like a cliff, its very hard to climb down without falling to your death(endless red pill rage, depression or literally), it takes alot of energy to climb back up but once you get to a certain point its easy to get back to. its up to men like you to point out where on the cliff where those still standing at the top can safely hold onto while exploring the psyche so as to not be standing at the top of the cliff holding on for dear life.
@blackgnosticspeaks
@blackgnosticspeaks 9 лет назад
Thor God of the double hammer or Shango god of the double ax. The road to Nirvana is small and narrow...
@comkaosstime
@comkaosstime 9 лет назад
I know very well the pantomime of love but at my point in life. it is too obscure to understand. it becomes surrealistic. The struggle ..I find is that it is so deeply ingrained in my biology. I've been genetically programmed to find women attractive.
@metal0n0v
@metal0n0v 9 лет назад
you have will and the nature has a door to it you decide which to win you
@coweatsman
@coweatsman 9 лет назад
Nature does not care for individually. Nature will seduce you with her mind chemicals and you will follow believing that your happiness is your agenda when in fact reproduction is nature's agenda and you're just dancing to the tune. The morning after the night before "What was I thinking?". You weren't.
@quantumaxe6468
@quantumaxe6468 9 лет назад
i know that feeling. it's like a drug. my mind just slows down and turns upside down. surreal is a very good description. it's always been like this even before i hit puberty but i was trying to understand what was never meant to be. i cannot shrug it off without seeming arrogant.
@ClassPunkOnRumbleAndSubstack
@ClassPunkOnRumbleAndSubstack 9 лет назад
I don't know if "male mother need" can ever be stopped. I think everyone has attachment needs, even if they had the healthiest relationships possible with their parents. And these attachment needs can be met to a degree or temporary satiated, but can't fully be met outside of a romantic relationship, where real "romance" is still the manipulation of natural selection. However, if I was to be proven wrong, then this study showing South Korean's lesser romantic loneliness in comparison to Americans because of differing culture, would have something to do with it: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18447076 No matter what we want to become, if life is truly fatalist, than we are somehow enslaved to or limited by our environment, and this includes the cultural environment. For instance, a cultural or group concerned with innovation will be more likely to propagate the broadest innovation in ideas and technology than a sex and romance obsessed culture. Friendships between two people interested in the same thing could cause greater understanding or innovation around that passion, where it otherwise would not occur-- and this goes into why I'm probably slightly insane and wish I knew someone in person with money who was equally interested in chilling their testicles with a battery-powered USB cold plate to the point where they are incapable of feeling sexual arousal. But I'm slightly drunk and that's life, nobody wants to create the future, they just want to watch as it happens. I just picked up sewing again yesterday and made possibly made the first modified synthetic foreskin. And I don't own any condoms because the OBGYN told me you can't get a Fleshlight pregnant (Joke)*. (Joke) coined by *****.*
@ANGRYCSPLAYER
@ANGRYCSPLAYER Год назад
relatable... 8:00. I've been through the exact moment during seggs. Im just like why do I even care about this?
@ItsAllAboutGuitar
@ItsAllAboutGuitar 9 лет назад
I WISH it was snowing. Terrible season for us. Six lousy weeks of not that great snow.
@latetotheparty184
@latetotheparty184 Год назад
Einstein did NOT say ' the definition of insanity...." It is one of many quotes mistakenly said of Einstein. Also it is not true. Perhaps doing the same thing over and over expecting different result is a symptom of some sort of insanity. But I can't think of any. Normal functional people do it who are not insane. Obsessive compulsive disorder shows people doing the same thing over and over like hand washing or pacing, but they do it hoping for the same result. eg. by doing the excessive hand washing they are protecting themselves and if they didn't do it would bring on bad results for themselves. If anything doing a thing over and over expecting different results, shows poor judgement and low intelligence. eg welcome to the human race.
@genghischan69
@genghischan69 Год назад
Had a good kek to this one, a great one indeed
@craigbonin3249
@craigbonin3249 Год назад
@thinking-ape you are from Southeast New England? I am from Attleboro MA. Love your channel Bro
@Dopesauce42
@Dopesauce42 9 лет назад
We need MGTOW community offline then, so we can be real world social and MGTOW. sounds better than being only social online. fuck that. I met someone via youtube in my area and we are gonna put up MGTOW posters soon. people in large cities can def make some MGTOW friends. you may not be friends on every level, but as SD said, you don't have to be. Xpallodoc is meeting up with other MGTOWs. you could argue about these guys' motivations, but to say that there aren't good motivations for MGTOW meeting up offline is silly. I have been slacking like a limp dick about getting posters up, soon, got rain and snow now.
@_FightForYourFreedom_
@_FightForYourFreedom_ 2 года назад
Doesn't matter how long you rationalize most normal men would rather get laid on a Sunday afternoon (and rightfully so) than have an intellectual conversation with a friend.
@matsuringo24
@matsuringo24 9 лет назад
Shout out to θɔr, please send snow this way!
@taketheredpill1452
@taketheredpill1452 Год назад
If we're really on our path, we eventually lose everyone... You may meet new people, though.
@Vention1MGTOW
@Vention1MGTOW 9 лет назад
***** $1 dollar
@6AxisSage
@6AxisSage 3 месяца назад
Dude doesnt sound like much of a mate if hes still prioritizing chasing poon over time with you which youve specifically asked for. Id consider is his expertise in whatever it is u said he has and a whopping 15 minutes of his time and he has all this time to put you on the defensive of your thoughts... Ask yourself do you really need anything from that association?
@ltcajh
@ltcajh Год назад
I’m not tracking. Rambling and mumbling.
@Dopesauce42
@Dopesauce42 9 лет назад
whats really sad is that there is a devaluation of everything other than woman. he thinks less of the sunset, of his favorite tv show, because he thinks too much of woman. all the gold he misses, seeing only the fool's gold of 'Misses.' my sneaking suspicion that everything else was better than woman has been confirmed. you feel as if, "could it be?" well, yes, it could be! to these men wondering this I say that what you are looking for in woman, is either nonexistent or found elsewhere and not in woman. stop hurting yourself. go MGTOW. PSA from Dopesauce 5 Star General !!! !
@СтаниславМарков-л3л
As long as a relationship brings value to the table for you you should persue it. I am commenting regarding online friends etc. Honestly I have friends that get the just of what women are in rl but they still chase pussy which is infuriating for me not because of anything else but because i am kind of tired of watching train crash in slow motion. This year has been particularly bad for a lot of men around me :\
@jedirun
@jedirun 9 лет назад
ketogenic diet is the way to go IMO
@tinkerwithstuff
@tinkerwithstuff 9 лет назад
jedi run "ketogenic diet is the way to go"Really?"However, performance on the trail making task, a neuropsychological test that requires higher order mental processing and flexibility, was adversely affected by the ketogenic diet"@pubmed/8589783"One of the greatest distortions of the truth promoted by high-protein diet advocates is that protein causes little or no increase in production of insulin. However, research shows just the opposite. When fed in equal amounts (calories), beef raises insulin more than whole grain pasta, cheese more than white pasta, and fish more than porridge (Am J Clin Nutr 66:1264, 1997). Maybe as important is the fact that carbohydrates are very satisfying for our hunger drive. Potatoes produce twice the level of appetite satisfaction as beef or cheese (Eur J Clin Nutr 49:675, 1995)."@health/education/health-science/featured-articles/articles/high-protein-diets/ (hope YT won't butcher the links this time... sigh)
@tinkerwithstuff
@tinkerwithstuff 9 лет назад
tinkerwithstuff I give up, before posting it looks perfect, after sending the text is a mess... so YT keeping up with becoming a little less useable each day?
@jedirun
@jedirun 9 лет назад
every person is different tinker and I'm glad higher carbs works for you but it doesn't work for me
@tinkerwithstuff
@tinkerwithstuff 9 лет назад
jedi run Heh. I'm not actually a fan of "high carbs" - but I don't think carbs are bad per se - high glycemic index foods might be. It matters how fast the carbs enter the blood as to whether the body can handle them or not.And as for "work for me", well mentally I felt best on a diet that was somewhat below average calorie intake, but percentage wise a high fruit content, moderate fat and low protein (but not low on amino acids, people like to mix that up). If where one lives has mostly high acid fruits to offer, it grinds on the teeth, though, so I'm back to more starchy stuff, but not high-GI.
@thinking-ape6483
@thinking-ape6483 9 лет назад
tinkerwithstuff Ketogenic is not high protein; it is high fat with low to moderate protein.
@shahinsaboori4758
@shahinsaboori4758 Год назад
How can we send email to this wonderful mind ?
@ScreaminMime
@ScreaminMime 9 лет назад
Oh Freyr, where art though?
@shahinsaboori4758
@shahinsaboori4758 Год назад
Guys any body know how to contact this man?
@RB09X
@RB09X 2 года назад
It's not for everyone, some are better off in the loop.
@1hundred1
@1hundred1 Год назад
Update on the friend?
@lordmike9331
@lordmike9331 11 месяцев назад
Wtf. I never expected to see you here
@1hundred1
@1hundred1 11 месяцев назад
@@lordmike9331 LMAO
@jaredfontaine2002
@jaredfontaine2002 9 лет назад
Wie Gehst es Ihnn??!!!
@Dutch_bastard_23
@Dutch_bastard_23 3 года назад
It's consoling to 'meet' a living (unlike Nietzche) man like you who has the same (intellectually) induced asexuality. There are so few of us, except that I am 22yo, of only slightly above average intelligence and have light asperger's syndrome, as well as a Dutchman. You describe my feelings, or rather, the lack thereof on sex perfectly. Eventhough I've only had it a dozen times with two girls, I ended up breaking up the relationship because I felt absolutely nothing but repulsion and apathy after a while. It just happens, like something that sneaks in at night. Suddenly you see how disgusting, base and inane it all is. All that gigantic effort and for what... "The precious starfish position" for 15mins if you have entertained her whims enough on a given day.
@archiethedog4515
@archiethedog4515 9 лет назад
You agree that Low carb is good, or bad? You do know you can't survive without carbs, right?
@Crushknee
@Crushknee 9 лет назад
Your liver can make the carbs you need from protein and lipids..
@thinking-ape6483
@thinking-ape6483 9 лет назад
Incorrect. Carbs are the only macronutrient that one does not need at all. Whilst it is true that brain requires glucose to run, this requirement does not exceed 40 g of carbs, all of which can be synthesised via gluconeogenesis, specifically from branched chain amino acids.
@archiethedog4515
@archiethedog4515 9 лет назад
ThinkingApe-TV Ah, thanks for that info. I didn't know that. :)
@Crushknee
@Crushknee 9 лет назад
ThinkingApe-TV You can make glusose from lipids too..Just need pyruvate as a precursor and a healthy liver. Without the ability to conduct protein less glycogenesis fasts would alot more detrimental than they are ..Have a gander at what this guy did...www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2495396/pdf/postmedj00315-0056.pdf They did the lab work keep tabe on creatine and he didn't lose an appreciable lean muscle mass.
@thinking-ape6483
@thinking-ape6483 9 лет назад
dudeschmock I would agree that in nutrition, one size does not fit all, but the idea that carbs are essential is simply not true; can they be helpful in some cases? Sure. Explosive power (sprinting, weight lifting, etc.) is often best served by using muscle glycogen rather than ketones, which still does not mean they are essential. Without protein and fat however, we will eventually die, the same does not hold true for carbohydrates.
@CosminPopescu-studio
@CosminPopescu-studio 9 лет назад
at the end of your video you mention thor, yet you sound jewish
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