I did the same for my kid. I used to pay 1 lakh fees for junior for an international school which was 4kms away. Sab tante the udhar. So I changed that school which is next to my residence which is an old school and more established than any new schools around, has better caring teachers and so less fees. I am doing SIP for him for his college fees to put him in better college. He is more happier than ever now. His society friends are his classmates. And he has more time at hand because he doesn't waste time in school bus and still has energy left. So now he has more time to utilize and he does in a better way. Me and my wife are more than happy as our WFH gets easily managed. Life is simple.
As someone who went to a school like this I really resonate with your video, all the rich kids get treated better then middle class students in every aspect. Most middle class kids were neglected by the school officials and they didn’t see them of any value. These schools don’t offer much quality education just a way for you to go fancy places and take fancy photos.
100% agree with you, and this is one topic that I figured out on my own before seeing your video. I think schools like K.V and APS are much better options. Save your money in Primary and Secondary Education and then utilise that saved amount in College Degree. In today's world any good college does not just give you knowledge but it gives you 2 things - Thought Process and Networking and that's what a student should expect from his/her college.
I have noticed a simple pattern in terms of selection of school. 1. If you are lower middle class and want your child to excel in STEM field, be clear with him from the very beginning that he has to be the bread winner for the family and has to only focus on STEM subjects like Math, Physics and Science. Don't give that much focus on all round development, if he can crack a good enough IIT/NIT/Good Gov Engg college that's enough. For that take a school near your house which will save his travelling and focus more on his time for tutions. Preferably choose State Board schools because they won't focus on other things. 2. If you have a business and want your kids to take over it later, put your kid in CBSE, he will be a bit of everything. He will be connected to the ground reality of India as well as the corporate world. And also there is a scope of all round development, but not that it compromises on his technical studies. 3. If you're upper middle class and wealthy enough, prepare up your kid for higher education in a foreign country. Focus very well on his English, another Foreign Language, okay enough on Maths and more on organizational work. Put him in a IB School/ICSE School and train him how would he find a job in a foreign country. Contact your relatives in that country, and also connect him with the particular communities in that country. Here he is not only for men, he here means any student irrespective of gender. Pardon me for omitting she here.
Lower class should put their kids in cbse school because the syllabus for competitive exams includes ncert books. CBSE schools teach directly from NCERT books while state govt books are derived from outdated NCERT books. Many state govt syllabi have unnecessary portions, state boards don't update the books regularly unlike NCERT. State boards and ICSEs are not helpful for competitive exams.
@@Sample-Alok-RU-vid Disagree absolutely. Lower middle class people should only focus on cracking good companies/getting into MBBS/cracking something big. Basic skills won't take them ahead. They don't have the edge over upper middle class and rich people. So it's better that they put good work ethics on him and make him excel in stem from the very beginning
One more thing which I'm noticing nowadays specially middle class is purchasing costly cars on loans, just to show others that i own a big and costly car.
beacuse Indian society is status-driven aka show off driven not wealth driven if someday Indian society will change direction towards wealth driven then growth of India will touch to next level
Literally, मौज कर दी । I m in mid forties & holding this view 10 -15 years back. I often offended many whenever I preached this especially to my siblings , friends, relatives & near - dear. कसम से बहुत अच्छा लगा आपकी बात सुनकर क्योंकि हमारे वहा तो रुझान भी आने लगे है और लोग अब भी नही मान रहे ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Very relative topic. Bhed chaal se niklne ki ummid deti hai bhaiyon bahno ko 😊. Sirf school se kuchh nhi hota, homework m parents ko dhyaan dena hi hota hai and chahiye bhi. Tk control.
100% agree…school loot rahey hai…education mey naam pey jhumla hai…and fees has no correlation to actual worth. I think it’s more to do with parents ego…they want to show to their relatives their oneupmanship
Jaise santo ke pravachan sunte hai waise hi aapke lecture India me sune Jane chahiye hamare naye samaj ke nirman ke liye aapki bahut need hai. Thanks Sir
I also put my kids in a famous convent school in the city I was posted earlier but after coming to Delhi I decided to put them in a reputed Kendriya Vidyalaya of Delhi and there was an astonishing improvement both in the academic profile and all round personality. Kendriya Vidyalaya offers some unique and great opportunities which one can't afford or get even if one is ready to spend money .
only central govt emplyees can send their children in KV or throguh by connections. not all Any KV at random is same as or better than top 10 private school in Delhi
Yes Sir,, This was very clear to as we all complaint about Indian Education System.. Either we go to metro city or any town or any small city every school have near about same curriculum..
Sir I completed my ‘’high school’’ from a very hi fi school in delhi but somewhere I felt coming from a middle Class Background I saw the difference when they went abroad and inter city for studies and we were clueless because our parents were different. To match my with my classmates parties events was difficult for my parents because of new expenditures like choosing good clothes sending to national trips and many more things. So I think what you said is really Relevant. Thanks sir
Sir You are absolutely correct 100 percent I totally agree Going to Hi fi schools creates inferiority complex Going to school which is far from home wastes a lot of time. You are right one should go to near by school. I didn't gain anything by going to a hifi school. My 2 hours were wasted in going and returning.
Sir yaha US me bada aaram hai , saare bacche apne area ke gov school me jate hai by default. There is no school fees, but we pay high property tax which indirectly pay for school.
I was sent to a school that has good teacher, a big playground, computer lab(a luxury back then). Mere building mein there were families jinke bacche paas wali school mein jaate jahaan zameen pe baithke seekhte. Lekin aaj hum donon mein koi antar nahin hai. Unke bhi acche jobs hai, acche ghar hai, acchi life hai.
Agree sir.. reason that ppl sending their kid because they think this way their kids will develop a rich boy mentality.. infact its opposite and kid will feel inferior.. parents should teach their kids to accept reality and should promote for organic growth
Sir, I've come across numerous motivational videos and quotes advocating for investing more in finding the best school and coaching than in other expenses. However, this particular video has presented a different perspective. I've already taken that approach, and now, I'm feeling quite apprehensive 😳.
I usually don't comment but was compelled to. It hit home...so resonated with me....point taken....thank you so much. The video was hilarious at the same time.....my husband could not convince me regarding school selection 😂😂.....I'm so glad I came across your video....thank you again.
The problem with current middle class is jump in perceived wealth with high asset prices and rise in salaries/ moonlighting / double income. What we don't factor is salaried income may stagnate in early 40s and terminate at 50. Thus, it is imperative to remain humble and judicious with your expenses.
Sir, first of all, thank you from the bottom of my heart for understanding me so well. This is the problem of every middle class today, which will change by watching this video. Each and every line of you are correct. #Don't compare others child#
Bilkul sahi he mene phele se hi ye cheez soch rakhi thi agar Paisa hi chahiye to phir expensive education me Paisa kyo waste krana agar sahi jagah invest Karo to bacche ke jawan hone Tak ek bada corpus ho jayega phir cahe to job kare ya business apni marji se full freedom 😊😅
My child is studying in KV and i am completely satisfied with the level of teaching and other extra curricular activities which they made the children to get involve into on regular basis...If your child is sincere , there is going to be all round development of his/her personality while studying in KV....and he/she would definitely make a mark in life in the time to come....Teachers in KVs are recruited through all India competitive exams, so are obviously much more capable and knowledgeable than the teachers teaching in these so called fancy private schools, which in true sense, schools are less and money minting machines are more...
Perfect Parents should focus most on spending time with kids and educating them about our great culture and values Building character and understanding how world works is most important than scoring high grades
Sir although I agree to this view but to be honest, since I was put in a good school, my perspective is better than my parents.... May deep.down my parents knew that.... I am not saying put your childr in ultra rich school....which are above your means but a decent school which are at par would do. My mother is a state govt. School teacher, we all know how pathetic the conditions of those schools are. Though at my level, I would definitely put my kids in KV,DAV etc and put more efforts in home schooling which my parents could not have afforded well.
Amit ji - you have been consistently producing high quality and thought provoking videos. Thanks for the efforts you have been putting into helping awaken ppl. Fantastic content!!
Dear Sir please make a video on the dilemma on which is more peaceful and satisfying/ sustainable of the following options regarding work: A. Stable job regular increments/promotions + Lots of leaves + Good professional growth + 40x2= 80 Km commute per day B. Better starting salary + okayish increments/promotion + 5 working days of 8.5 hrs + okayish professional growth +
Are sir.. kahaa the ap😄 first vdo dekhi hai apki.. ekdm point to point baat👍 mere bachche ka admission KV me krvaya hai.. husband privet school me bhejna chahte the., pr maine nhi krvaya. Mere mind me jo chal rha tha, apne wahi bola hai👍🙏
Dr Sir, I truly agree wit U here. Treatment fr Rich is way beyond measures as compared to Middle Middle Class. In real world only d Rich r favored n r given high preference in all they do whether they r capable or not. Still Middle Middke Class suffers n strive hard 2 cum up. It's really no joke n a lot of effort is put into 2 achieve success. They treat Middle Class differently n d full fly including d child suffers to attain their goals n reach d top. Wat a Bad privilege one faces in life. The rich will move only wit d Rich Class n the Middle Class gets neglected in all their life. Wat a TRUE Story!!!! I ♥️tily reciprocate d same in all I say. Best Rgds♥️🙏
Sir mere husband bolte thw k baccho ko acche school me padao but main nhi chahti thi main bolti hu pass k school me hi thik hai or aaj aapne mere liye ye video bna di thank you sir u r my favourite youtuber thank u sir
Abhi mere dono bacche pass CBSE me pad rhe hai mere husband chahte k main ICSE me addmission karau meri beti 5 th class me hai or beta nursery me to mujhe lgta hai yhi best hai or main bhi unko padti hu ghr pr
Should middle class send their children to inefficient and dysfunctional govt schools where there is no scope for learning at all ? There may be defects in private schools, but bitter truth is that, they've saved the Indian education system from total collapse. Sir, ask 1. How much money does the government spend on improving govt schools ? 2. Is the expenditure on govt schools equal to the expenditure on MPs, MLAs, sarkari babus ? 3. Inspite of collecting education "cess", there is no single govt school which is equivalent to DPS,...and such schools. Where does that tax money go ? 4. How many teacher vacancies get completed on time without legal dispute just like IAS, or elections ? 5. Why there are contractual teachers in govt education institutions ? We pay through the nose for private school, tuition fees not bcoz of our choice, but bcoz of lack of sustainable option.
better to choose a school close to home and much within budget, finally what the kids do or achieve later in life is their own destiny, parents should stop making themselves responsible for their kids future and worry too much, am not a parent, but this is what i feel to do in future, if have my own biological or adopted kids ever,
Sir, 100% sahi bolaa aapne..... Meri beti kee nursery fees 1.6 lakhs per year hai!! Mujhe khud yahi lagtaa hai kee itne paise kee fd yaa sip karvaa lo...... Zyada kharchaa karne kaa koi point nahi hai..... These pvt schools are over rated
Shi baat har school me A for apple hi padhayenge.... mehnge school me A for rocket 🚀 ni padhayege.... Or A bhi sab jgah ek jesa hi banta hai mehnge school me A (-) ese ni bnayege.... Mene bhi mehnge school me kara diya tha school kam Mall jyada tha...
Sir, please tell about one more criteria i.e. atmosphere and environment for a girl child in a middle class schools. Its very bad in many small cities in UP
Genuine video..but what is solution, middle class never opt govt school. afforadable housing ke sath affordable school bhi suru ho jaye to middle class ko pet katne ki naubat nai ayegi specially in city like Gurugram.
Sir I completely agree with u sir ...sir plz my humble request ki ap un ladies un parents ke liye video bnao jo hmesha isi baat k piche rehte h ki ladki ki local marriage kro local me ladki dekh legi aur ye vo falana dimkana
Thanks guruji, iam so confused about my kids admission, actually i also thinks in a same way but its a peer pressure of society, friends and relatives which makes us dumb. Now i have full confidence in my decision iam spending adequate money to kid education and aim for lonterm investment and savings.😊😊
Hello uncle , i see your videos regularly. I found that you uploaded video only for midle class people . But what about poor people , plz i request you make a video on how to fall in midle class from poor class . Thank you sir Your subscriber sameer kumar
Sir apne Jo bola 100% correct hai..lekin ek baat aur hai Jisse middle class darta hai normal school bhejne apne bacche ko wo isliye ki waha Aanne wale bacche bad language use karna bad words use karna..ye sab se bhi darte hai ki kali unka baccha aisa na Bolne lag Jaiye..ispe ap kya sochte hai
Bulls eye analysis Sir. The main issue is that middle class parents are treating school education like computer coding i.e. if you give a certain input then you will get a certain output. Middle class parents are thinking that if they put their children in a certain type of school or a particular board then the children will definitely become something spectacular or whatever the parents are imagining. Unfortunately very few parents take the trouble to understand their children. I feel that the parents' focus should be on raising a mentally and emotionally healthy child. Such children will then definitely do well in life on their own terms.
Sir I am a Principal cum owner of a small budget School. I am agree with at some extent but Plz do little more R&D Find out some points on which a parents should select school for his kids e.g. Building and Infra Study Curriculum Activity Soft skills enhancement etc
From my life I have learnt that th most a person need his/her parents is when he step out of college or at the age when he about to start job/business.
Shi kha sir maine husband ki jaan kha li ki bache kv main kyu lgae jb hm ashe school main pda skte the. Aj apki baate sunke apni glti ka ehsaas ho rha hai
Sir thank you so much i have the same dilemma .i also have view that i should send my daughter in best of best school since my parent sent me in best school of my area but my mind keep on saying that send them in kv or aps since we are in defence. But now thanks to you i am clear where I have to send my daughter.
Main thing that should be encouraged is that school must be near to house, and commute time must be > 20 mins in Tier 2 city and > 40-45 mins in a Tier 1 city.
