Milena Ciciotti Sits Down To Talk About How Much Of A Hypocrite She Is! DO NOT MISS THIS 

I'm fairly certain the Lord convicted me to wear sweatpants every other day. I may have misunderstood the mission, but...

I have never in my life had my nails done. Not because God told me not to get them done, but because I feel it is more important to feed my kids.

“The devil will never interrupt you if you’re helping the devil” I’m stealing this Josh. POWERFUL 💕

Her chatting about acrylic nails with the lord is giving psychosis vibes

Just wanted to say thank you, your video's are really helping me get through some health stuff. Half the time I don't even know the people, but the commentary is just so funny I have to go and look them up then rewatch :)

Haven’t even finished this video yet and i had to comment! Your making great points and the way your explaining things makes perfect sense! Awesome video Josh! Definitely do more of these. Those people are very manipulative and it’s so scary especially with religion attached to it more people get sucked in.

I stopped following her when she said she essentially cured a chronic illness with vitamin C. RU-vidrs giving medical advice seems so reckless.

Meanwhile her husband is liking other women’s bikini photos on Instagram 😬

this video is PURE GOLD. thank you josh for brightening my day!

She constantly preens herself…yet goes on about modesty. Makeup..perfect hair. Flirts with the camera constantly and yet bangs on about how we need to be modest. I have no idea what’s happening here😅.

I think this was my favorite episode yet! 👏 👏 👏 thank you for bringing light to this!!

We need a series of bible study with Josh where you snark on Christian’s grifters but share god’s message. I’d watch 😂😂

Wow this was really a awakening for me big time. I was following her for the past few months and looking up to her. So seeing her from this other side helped me a lot. Really good perspective thanks for the video.

It’s important to remember she is young. We need to give more grace and compassion.

I’m so glad I found your channel back when I first did and I’m glad you are talking about her, I used to watch her videos and listen to her podcast and think it was genuine and inspiring but that couldn’t be more far from the truth, I’m happy I didn’t get sucked into that bs 😅

I just joined this tier because I couldn’t resist waiting to watch this one… I’m only 6 minutes in and oh man I’m dying from your snark already 😂

It’s one thing to have an opinion and it’s another to be extremely rude and judgmental!!! You say she’s narcissistic but no , you are !!! I can’t believe someone would actually make a video like this!

This whole thing was like watching fingernail polish dry on Alisha Daughtery's thumbs.. I have never watched someone so vain and narcissistic explain how she is not.

I really struggle with videos like this. I truly have to question the character of many who make videos about others to judge them or write judgemental comments about someone they don't know. Let's be people busy with our own business. Man, this is just really sad.

I’m a follower of Christ and I don’t wear makeup, dye my hair, paint my nails and so on….but the Lord loves me as much as He did when I was still wearing makeup. I used to wear a ton of makeup and one night I prayed to God and asked Him if it bothered Him to let me know and I’d stop. Literally the next day as I was putting my makeup on it felt disgusting on my face and I looked in the mirror and it just didn’t look right. I knew it was God answering my prayer. All of us that have a relationship with Christ will not look the same for everyone.

Great video today Josh!! With a great lesson that everyone needs to learn, love it 😀

It doesn't matter what clothes you wear, it's about what's in your heart. She is focusing on the superficial which speaks volumes.

We should aim not to judge. I did see her video and felt a little uneasy, but I respected her choice to speak of an area of weakness that she has. Many of us have areas of weakness or inclination to a certain sin and we decide to leave it unseen so we wont be judged, she made it seen to be judged. So with that, lets choose love for her vulnerability of her weakness and truthfully pray she can conquer it. 🙏🏻 I truthfully love her and she has blessed my life and in this moment where she is struggling I wont judge her but pray for her. My heart goes for her and also alll women struggle with vanity to a certain degree…at least she had the courage to say she struggles with it.

I have no idea who this is. I just clicked in because its the DCP and Josh said DO NOT MISS THIS 🤣

When she posted the Lord called her to not get her nails done anymore is the moment I finally cracked. Someone else reposted it and said she won’t get her nails done either and will listen to the Holy Spirit very clearly. I’ve never been so speechless and unfollowed someone so fast.

Hi Josh! Just to confirm your thoughts on purity culture, I feel like it damaged me growing up. It made me feel like my entire worth was whether I was pure or not, so when I rebelled and lost my virginity I basically lost my entire sense of self because I had "no value" at that point, in the eyes of God and my parents. It snow balled from there into other sins and finally came back around to finding my faith and becoming born again. In God's eyes, I am pure, despite my mistakes. And although I 100% feel like my daughters would be better off to save themselves for marriage, I would never want them to feel like that's the only thing that matters. God also knows what he's doing because I think my husband and I were made for each other and if I never experienced what I did I might've never met him. So it worked out... But I do think it damaged my thinking a little bit. If you don't understand God's love/relationship, and you're only told the "rules", people can become really disenfranchised from Him altogether.

I was about 9-10 years old when I was first told that I needed to be careful with what I wear to keep boys and men from “stumbling”. It made me so uncomfortable and self conscious

Oh Josh...... I can't say it enough in (every) comment section of your videos- I have never related to someone so much OR laughed SO HARD as I do watching your videos! This is absolutely my happy place! Our life stories are very similar in most ways so coming to your channel is like therapy for me. Triggering topics can be difficult but it truly help me to hear someone speaking the truth who has been in the church yet isn't anymore but still loves the Lord. The laughter is also another form of therapy for me lol your humor is SPOT ON EVERY SINGLE TIME! Meeting you one day is absolutely on my bucket list 💯👊

Oof. I have to disagree with everything that was said in the little I watched of this video. So what if Milena has photos of herself online, or if she wears makeup and has her hair done. The message of her video is that she is unlearning things of the world and this doesn't happen overnight? The things from her past are just that - in the past. Also, modesty doesn't have to equal looking homeless or like you don't care for yourself, it's a matter of where you draw the line. For Milena, if that was to stop getting her nails done and Botox, so be it.. it's still a step, for her, in the right direction. Disagreeing with her view is understandable, I felt uneasy watching her video myself, but Milena has said all she had to say with grace and kindness and not once put it on her viewers to do what she is doing. Which is in stark contrast to the man in this video. How can someone have so much hatred and spite and take so much pleasure from putting other people down?

Such an amazing video! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts!!! Thank you for spreading the harm of purity culture!!!!!!

Hey Josh, thanks for making your videos so raw and real. I feel understood and like I’m on the right path when you speak about your push back of the church since I have had that same journey this last year. When I was saved at 18 I was immediately burden by the weight of purity culture and what it did to my self esteem, always trying to be perfect. I was just like this woman at one point. Like most Christian woman can become over time of being engulfed in this culture. What opened my eyes was almost losing family members to Covid in the last year, I realized the superficial confirmations from clergy or church members wasn’t going to help me. I had to rely on my relationship with God and after 8 years I noticed that relationship was not strong because I was focused on how I looked. Purity culture in its essence is all about vanity and popularity. Thanks for bring light to this because two years ago I would be too afraid to share this anywhere. This is my safe space at times. 😊

I’ve been watching for over a year now and I just love your view on issues like this and everything else. You’re a genuine and real person and I just love your videos.

When you were puzzled over the 'crab tops', my sister came in the room. And then you blurted 'crop tops!' And we both busted up laughing! That was awesome.....

I’m 20 too! This is one of my favorite channels fr. Keep it up ❤

Amazing video today Josh 🙌 the lord told me NOT to let RU-vid go this year 🙏

Enjoy your vacation with your family Josh! The snort for me had me busting up 😂

Im muslim and I don't wear the hijab and my husband doesn't force me to wear anything 🙄 Careful there sir.. there are extremes in everything but no need to compare. And truthfully I don't get why it is such a bad thing that she wants to wear modest clothing. If she was wearing skimpy clothes you would probably shame her as well. People are never happy. Sheessh let the girl live.

Thank you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I grew up immersed in purity culture and it did a lot of damage to me personally, it made me feel like when my husband and I got married I had to once again deconstruct what I learned. It’s crazy this whole video! Thank you for making these I laughed so hard.

I'm 23 and i love your vids. I have kids and i really appreciate someone with a similar mindset. Child explotation is real and rampant in our culture that is recently chronically online. Poeple have inflated egos and you can really tell. They see their children as props and characters in their little homemade truman show

Josh hearing your words about the Church teaching that women are to protect men at all costs- when the Bible says it should be the other way around- really resignated with me. I’m a Christian who was raised in the Catholic Church and after losing my faith I began to reconnect with Christ last year… I have struggled with going back to church and now what you said has brought clarity to me! As a single woman looking to start a family I do not feel that the church is currently preaching the message that men are the protectors of the family - they are not urging them to step up to the plate- I have been so depressed feeling like I will never find a man who still has those values, so it is giving me hope to hear you say that there are still people who have these true biblical values! God bless your family!

Completely agree with everything!!! Have a fun safe trip!!

You need to also do the video Milena just posted!! She literally said “God told me to stop getting my nails done” like i can’t

I’m so happy you’re covering her

Oh Josh, how I’ve missed these videos! I took a little break and boy am I glad I’m back and chose this one to watch. I couldn’t stop laughing, you’re brilliant! And honest. It’s amazing your knowledge too. Anyways, great video.

thank you josh for teaching your sons that !

Videos like this where you just attack someone else is actually the worst thing ever. If you wanna talk theology maybe you could stop the gossip and trash talk

I’ve been WAITING for this 😂🎉

Personally, I am Christian woman and I do practice modesty I even wear a head scarf sometimes and I do interpret the bible to say women should dress modestly. Not because my husband owns me. It's about MY privacy. It's about not drawing attention to myself and not being tempted into vanity. I feel like I can walk through the world with absolute anonymity and I am not putting my body on display for other people to "consume". And I've found so much power and confidence in that. I really dislike the way she is hypocritically "selling" modesty.

The look up and down you did before saying “the Lord made me do this video” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

It's like she was a fly on the wall in my Jr high and high school youth group rooms when they split the boys and girls up to have these talks. It never made sense to me, even as a kid. Thankfully my mom actually knew what these words meant and she would fix what they said, but the damage was still done. My dad would have been perfectly happy with me in a burka or snowsuit 24/7 though lol. I can't stand these RU-vid preachers who have no idea what they are saying, but they don't stop talking. I'm so glad I'm raising my kids different, they will be so much more prepared for adulthood than I was. Church really did a number on me, but I am raising my kids to know God right, not all the crap they told us in the 80's, 90's and early 2000's. Purity culture was so so bad and damaged a lot of us. I'm not saying purity is wrong, it's the way they taught us about it that was wrong.

I love watching her! Her walk with the Lord shows us that God is full of grace and mercy. No one is perfect, that is why we have Jesus. She is being transformed by the Holy Spirit. She makes it clear these are her own personal convictions. I find it very inspirational. 2 Timothy 3:16 "All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work." For a man who studied the bible you have very little understanding of it.

I've been loving all your new outfits lately. Looking good Josh.

Thank you for placing the responsibility of respect for women on men. That is refreshing, and I hope everybody hears you. We do our boys a great disservice if we don't teach them decency towards others, men and women.

I love you, DCP. You bring truth and laughs.

That’s for doing her!!! Love it

How privileged is your life when your thoughts are consumed by whether to wear pants or a skirt 😅

Keep it up Josh, great stuff

Every time you introduce the video I can’t help but think of that scene in Croods 2 when the dad has discovered Eden and says to his family “WELCOOME!” With peace and love ! Your snark is 🙌🏽

Last comment... I promise, but eeee you make me laugh. The bit where you said take a drink every time she says The Lord, you'd be dead. And the bit about how she was editing and cutting her sentences. Brightened up my night 😂😂👌🏻 thank you

The most concerning thing… to answer your question about the reason she gets followers - she targets young girls and she connects with their insecurities. I fell for it, following her about 4 years ago. When you break it down it makes lots of sense but I can tell you when you’re in a particular mindset she makes perfect sense.

Did I miss the part that she is being modest because of men? I think it was a personal conviction that she is making the mistake of sharing publicly. You did talked about valid points but wow so disrespectful. Calling her names so immature.

She may have a problem with being too vain. So God is working on her and convicting her of her vanity. So maybe the nails is just a start to teaching her to be less vain.. I think the problem is her trying to convict others of what God has convicted her of.. but I don’t think we should be judging her on what God is trying to work out in her life. I personally Don’t have a big problem with vanity not saying I don’t have any problem at all with vanity just saying it’s not a big problem in my life but maybe it is in her life. God convicts us according to our needs. If that’s wrong I don’t mind being corrected..

I comment often and it's because I can relate so much usually! I got saved in church at age 5 on Christmas Eve. I was brought to/influenced by/attend school at numerous denominations including: congregational, seventh day adventist, baptist, assemblies of god, interdenominational and extreme fundie that is rarely talked about known as Victory Chapel, The Door or The Potter's House and a few other names (someone please talk about them!) started by Waymen Mitchell (I was under Paul Campo, they don't go to seminary, they are "discipled"). I honestly don't know where to start with a comment because I could probably do a years worth of commentary off of this one video, you did a great job! I have a close relative who is an elite christian, which is what I call these types, and is an author and self proclaimed image coach. I get to hear this type of crap all the time and have to bite my tongue because it's my family lol!! I am often asked to help with, speak at (less often now because I'm not really a real christian in their eyes now since I don't attend church) or attend these special women's ministry events and I want to puke. First of all, I do not struggle with confidence which is usually the focus of the image coaching (gee, I wonder why so many christian women struggle with confidence to the point where it's just assumed they all do?). I don't think I'm anything special, but I am not worried about anyone's opinion on how I look. I can't understand how masses of women think focusing on their looks has anything to do with god or church at all! Although, I did hear those verses lots of times, especially from the seventh day adventist relatives, I read the surrounding verses and chapters in the bible too and eventually realized none of this is from the lord! It would be beyond easy for me to join the grift and I'd be lying if I said I haven't thought about it because I have as in: if you can't beat em' join em', but I just can't do that! There's no way I could sleep at night knowing I was screwing with a bunch of women's heads like this. For Milena, I think she's too stupid to even realize what she's doing, none of the catch phrases leaving her mouth are original to her, she is just following others. Is that malicious? I don't know. I'm just so glad that you are shedding light on this, this culture is hurting women badly and they need to know. Thank you Josh!

I don’t feel like I had purity culture pushed on me more than the next person. But I definitely felt pressure to be a virgin when I married and I even had a hard time being ok with kissing my husband more than a peck in public for a couple years. Looking back, I feel bad because he just wanted to show me affection but I was worried what other people would say. Thankfully he’s a very patient man and I grew out of worrying what other people would think!

"your not a gentle and quiet spirit! You're all over RU-vid spouting shit" 🤣🤣🤣 so true. I could actually handle her videos if you're commenting the whole time lmfao. I just found you and I'm not disappointed! Thank you for this 😂🙏

JOSH! Do a part 2! Literally within the hr of you posing this video she posted ANOTHER

"I'm fashioning for the Lord!" That part got me 😂

Oh Josh. There's so much I could say! But I won't because we'll be here all day. I was laughing within seconds!

Josh, as a former subscriber of Milena, I was against this video when I initially clicked on it but after I heard what you had to say you made some valid points and I agree with you. When I would watch her videos in the past they would make me feel so uneasy and guilty about myself and now I understand why I was feeling that way.

I have to disagree with what you said at the end about judgement. The bible talks a lot about righteous judgment (not to be confused with self righteous judgement).

I was raised in fundamentalism and hardcore purity culture. Her saying different rules for busty women was so crushing for me as a busty teen. All my friends got to wear whatever they wanted but I had to wear baggy clothes and high necklines. Totally unable to express myself and felt that just my existing was sinful and there way no way a man would just respect me. Saying these types of things is the reason I have almost no relationship with my mother. So have fun with your teen girls Milena!!!

I want to know how much drugs it took to have this detailed of a conversation with “the lord” 😳

I need to lie down in a dark room for an hour🤣🤣

Holy shit the part about my sin being equal to your sin was gold. So so so freaking good.

The Lord told me that Milena has had 3 kids and doesnt feel as confidentwith her torso anymore...and so she wants stores to have normal length shirts again, so the lord told her to influence people to wear normal shirts. Then the stores will have normal length shirts again. And The Lord's work will be done. Thanks to Milena 😆

She just posted another video saying “God told me to stop getting my nails done” like i can’t with her!

I'm so modest I NEVER get my nails painted! lol

I LOVED the game, Girl talk!!

Did she just say that petite women with smaller chests don't have to dress modestly cause men won't look at them anyway? 💀

She's like a beige Kardashian, from Wish.

Best video ever I laughed so hard😂😂😂

I mean whatever her fake tan is doing is helping people focus on her smile

People like this is why you cannot just listen to anyone talking about the bible and believe them, you have to do your own study and come to your own understanding of what Jesus wanted to say in that passage

THIS WHOLE MESSAGE!!! 💯

"creativity in modesty" is how we ended up with tshirts under sundresses. It doesn't tell others "that is a chstian", it tells others "that girl is so uncomfortable in her own body. . ." How does she not see the disconnect when she says "take the attention off me" and then publishes a RU-vid video *about* herself and *featuring* only herself??

You are so right josh the lord doesn’t care what we look like . He only cares how we are with others who needs our love and care .

This has been your best show yet

It is hard to hear her talk but your commentary makes it bearable.

I swear I said “que sad music” as soon as josh did! 😂

Enjoy that 🚢 cruise!! 🎉

This is pure gold

Purity culture was so, so damaging! Do you remember the different analogies ONLY used to describe girls who had sex before marriage? Flowers that have been plucked. A chewed stick of gum. Chipped teacups. Tape that’s lost its stickiness. Rotten fruit that fell off the tree. On and on and on. There was a lot of in-your-face rhetoric with the analogies, purity rings and concerts, but the fear we learned was subtle in a lot of ways. And we were promised that somehow the shame and fear would magically disappear on our wedding night. It would just poof, be gone. What those of us who grew up in purity culture have realized is that shame and fear doesn’t instantly disappear. The harmful consequences are something we will have to unpack for years. Also, I'm not sure how this was never thought of. If purity is something you can lose because of sexual activity that means those who are abused or raped are no longer pure. Remember those analogies purity culture loves to throw around? Rotten fruit that fell off the tree. Can you even imagine the heartache and burden that puts on rape survivors? I'm so thankful that so many of us are finally stepping away. While we still love God with all we have, we've been deconstructing religion and how toxic some churches can be.

This one was great! Got me laughing multiple times! As a person who comes from religious trauma I love your discussions on these topics!

We had neighbors that were evangelical and when we first moved in they were very nice and we had our kids play together but after a couple years they started to just ignore us. Nothing ever happened, no fight between kids or parents, but at that time they got even deeper into their church and the only thing we could figure was we weren’t religious and they didn’t want to be around us. Church can really mess with people- and to pass judgment doesn’t seem like what church should be teaching.

Thank you for always speaking up against purity culture!!!

My father who is a pastor would tell me to change for church if i was wearing a band t shirt. I would say goes doesnt care what you wear to pray. Then i would say fine ill stay home! God doesn't care where you pray

Dude at the grocery store had me rolling 🤣😅😅

Enjoy vacation Josh!

Omg I love thus video josh!! I was raised Muslim, my parents are Jamaicans but my dad has schizophrenia which I know religion made so much worse! My life was hell. We are both type 1 diabetic too, I used to pray as a child that I'd be cured, I was told it happened because I wasn't good enough. It messed up my head so bad. He forced me into a headscarf, made me wear ugly clothes and it just made me a target to bullies. I was living in Birmingham UK which at the time was prodeminanty Caucasian so I'd have racism to deal with because I am black carrkbbean, then I'm weird cuz I'm Muslim, then I'm weird cuz I wear ugly clothes and then to top it all off I was fat and had to eat because of my diabetes. I'm so sure that if I wasn't Muslim I would have had a much happier upbringing. I still havernt healed and I'm 27 Edit: it's harmful for people to adapt religion, my dad fir sure adapted the religion and changed it to be what he wanted

I bet there is someone in her life (or she has come across on the net) who just naturally "glows" because of who they are and she is staggering around trying to figure out how someone could actually get attention without using the way they dress.