today same situation occur with me i doesn't have any topic to talk to him so just we both ignored each other by pretending to not to see they are here
You're not an introvert. You have social anxiety. Stop confusing that with introversion. Introverts can speak normally in public we just like a balance so we can have alone time too.
And you end up ignoring most of the time and a new problem arise that what the other person is thinking and people thinks we have a lot of attitude but people who are close knows how we introvert are 😅
I not only have audio anxiety I have video anxiety which means I’m not only scared of revealing my voice I’m scared of revealing my face. Not just to strangers, even my friends.
I hate when people don’t shut up too and all I can do is just be like “mmh yeah, uh huh, yep, definitely, ok, cool, yeah, mmh, mmmmh, mmmmmmmh, haha, mh, cool, oh yeah, yep”
@@masterofgalaxies2697 especially if you weren't paying attention to what they asked. Sometimes in mid conversation my attention span decides to...oh look birds!
I really hate that introvert has become synonymous with being shy. Introverted ppl aren’t always shy and I’ve met plenty of ppl that are extroverted but are very shy (which must be torture for them). I’m a huge introvert but if ppl talk to me I can easily hold a conversation and go out partying with friends. I just choose to be by myself a lot of the time bc it takes so much energy for me to be out and about with ppl especially going things I don’t feel like doing. Johnny Carson was a huge introvert and he was the host of the Tonight Show.
@@user-de8op5vg2k maybe I am 🤷🏻♂️ my friends all think I’m an extrovert (even in HS when I was in theater and football but I know I’m not) and they always invite me to places but I often say no, unless there’s free food cuz I’m a slut for free food and booze. There’s nothing I can say to you that will change your mind bc you’ve already come to your conclusion but yes, introvert doesn’t mean shy and it’s frustrating that ppl have come to associate that two.
The way to tell if you're an introvert and not just shy. If you can stay at home by yourself on the weekend and feel refreshed without being antsy about wanting to go out, you're an introvert. If you get freaked out about social interaction and actively avoid people because of anxiety, that's not an introvert, that's shyness or social anxiety. Totally different
Yeahhhhhhhh, they are like introduce yourself to them, say something.... And I will be like, hi my name is this and...............(I don't know what else to say, go somewhere else).
During calls and video calls I imagine expressions, make them, second hand embarassment and everything becomes awkward, to break the awkwardness I say something that echoes in the surrounding and more awkwardness 🥲
@@Quello244 no, thats what an introvert is. its not that introverts dont wanna talk to people. in fact, they love talking to people just like extroverts. its just that it drains their energy easily so they tend to stay by themselves sometimes
Yeah I'm like, I don't want people to die and I also hate all the video call and zoom stuff, but I LOVE the fact of having to stay home and not giving hugs and kisses to everyone.
Introvert do talk alot. I am a Extrovert but my sister and my best friend are introvert and they talk too much with me. Only thing you have to do is protecting them from croud and try to understand their feelings. They will start to trust you and be comfortable with you. that's all.
and talk on subjects they are intrested in. If you want to talk to introvert this are the things. hehe. But never betray them If they trust you. Because for introvert trusting someone is really hard. And if you betray them they will never be able trust someone again.
Wait- not until thousands, when there's only 8-11 people (that not close to you), introverts will see that as Hundred or even thousand people * it's very frustatingಥ_ಥ*
Not all introverts are anxious. They have the innate strength to stay alone. They don't desperately seek attention or approval of others. They are comfortable in their own company. And they definitely aren't over thinkers and unhappy people. Their biggest asset is their individuality & intelligence.
As an introvert my biggest fear is not being heard by the person I’m talking to and be left in embarrassment. Imagine saying “excuse me” to someone and they don’t hear you and you’re in a place full of people.
I try to get someone’s attention in my class sometimes if I wanna ask them something. They don’t hear me or ig they just ignore it and I’m left in embarrassment.
Aye that's rude,Also to you extroverts I'm in between like I do like being myself,and at times I like to hang around ppl and talk alot but I give off an big introvert aura they hardly talk to me and make it awkward like whyyy
@@afiyazaid6350 my friends are extraverts, and everytime they face time me, i just show them my ceiling and they're like "show your face jajajagagaaha---" its- yeah..
For me its been a curse. I started improving myself in every aspect, then the lockdown came, and every thing went to shit. I haven't been in a room with more than 4 people my age in almost a year and its been hell for me even though im an introvert
@@sulfur_americium2993 when we first went into lockdown I honestly didn’t care and still hanged out with my friends and random people I met at the park or on the court. Honestly just don’t be scared to live your life
Newly dating a introvert just learn to simply leave her be and when she is ready to come out her cave or muse we socialize at her pace. Quality time less talking. By far the most peaceful partnership ever. Social environments is totally draining 😂
U know introverts are actually very smart and have good communication skills but just prefer to be alone? Most of the people nowadays who think that they are introverts are just socially anxious people vastly different from introverts
I am an introvert. And I dont like to talk people .I cant understand one thing that people talk very nice things about you only infront of you .behind you they will make joke of you .thatswhy I dont like talk anyone .but people say I am shy thats why I dont talk .i am tired of this!!!!!
Nah. Let's be honest. We're totally shy, too. Except in this beautiful form of communication that is text. We can do this, and talk with a few close friends. Anything beyond that entails debilitating anxiety. Maybe I'm projecting, but that's how I experience introversion. It's not so bad, though. As you said, we do like being alone.
@@winstonsmith11 Tbh no, I'm not shy I just hate 95% of the population. Especially the peoples that are my age. They are so annoying, they juste never shut up, they always want what they don't have and are stupid.
@@o-kiku3939 Lol im both. Not only cant i speak in public i also hella don't want human interaction.I even hate when my best friend holds my hand for too long😐😂
None of my friends answer they always have the excuse I don't know how to text which is weird cuz I have absolutely no problem doing so and it's crazy how many times I've hung up in the middle of the phone ringing because I had a feeling I had been calling too much
It's even worse when you have pride + is very shy + is very introverted and when you try to speak but because you don't speak much so your voice is not loud and the person either didn't listen or ignores.
