watch this if you're an introvert 

Hope you guys enjoyed this video! Let's win together ;)

"Confidence isn't 'I know they'll like me' it's, 'it's okay if they don't.'"

Competence = confidence 🤝

I'm so glad you mentioned that being introverted isn't the same as being shy or antisocial. I don't like talking to strangers (I don't know many people who do, tbh), but I love socializing with my friends & loved ones and can do it for hours, but I'm still an introvert because I need to be alone for a while after tiring out and I love being by myself.

To all the fellow introverts: love yourself!!!! If you love yourself, then you can show and receive love from others.

Be a Confident introvert 🖤 1.Change ur mindset : if ur introvert u must be confident with urself 2.Learn social game: its a skill to learn ... Maintain networks Give compliments Become a good listener (its easy for introverts) Guard ur attention: be paricular about where u're giving ur energy & time cz they are limited ⏳ 3. Be real & authentic 4. Fix ur body language Chill & non reactive Control sense of emotions With shoulders being straight Walk like u're the man/woman Speak clearly , a little bit slower 5. Abundance +Mastery Compitence= confidence u dont need fake confidence confidence should be real it should radiate from u for real (OMG i loved this part 4:09 🤩 ) Build the real confidence (maybe ur good grades, having amazing physique, or accomplishing ur tasks, getting urself into discipline) When u build one are for confidence, u have confidence in other areas too. efforts ,works and small wins everyday will ripple ur confidence in every single area of ur life Bye bye ~.~ 🌸

i'm a girl and i really enjoy watching your videos you have certain and special style in them just continue posting that's so helpful

Who else thinks this is giving Dark Academia vibes! Great video, Chad! You had me at changing your mindset.

My man, No Distracting Edits, Transitions amazing.

yo im a girl and maybe not your target audience, but bro this channel helps me so sooo much to understand myself and how to better myself. Thank you so much for another great vid. I really appreciate the effort you put in to making these videos. ill def be back on this channel often

This is absolutely true. I am on self improvement for 5 years now and the way I changed everything about myself was by listening and learning from multiple perspective. Trust this man, his points are 100% true. Now that I gained true confidence, made my actions back up my words, started talking less and being way more mysterious I am attracting people left and right. Walking straight, speaking slower and living the life of abundance, made me attractive. Now it's easy to steer from the way and build yourself a huge ego. It's ok to have it but it's also important to not dismiss other people and only compete with yourself. Helping people helped me build myself up so much. Once you get all these things right, you become the most wanted person in the room by all means

commitment and believing in your abilities will build your confidence (unlimited power🌟)

I've been like this for years now and I can say it really works, it didn't took long for me to become probably one of the most loved people in my school just by being confident in myself. Confidence really is everything.

Most important video for introverts to be successfull ❤

Something you came close to saying: Being an extrovert doesn't mean you actually have good social skills...Being an introvert doesn't mean that you don't

As a woman, I feel very confident knowing that this video is already part of my personality… hehe

The method about "Changing your mindset about being an introvert" was the best part and it hit me really hard . And also giving compliments immediately worked out 😁

This single video is far more informative and concentrated than half of the other videos about this topic. you got a sub buddy.❤

surely one of the best and clearest videos about confidence i've seen so far, good work.

The term dark confidence made me feel kinda cool

This video really nails the points. I’ve been talkative my whole life but I had to learn to appreciate silence, and with the years I’ve become more introvert and confident. Perhaps if I may add to this excellent video is working on the style, having a sober yet, elegant style also makes a great difference. Real confidence and self-validation comes inside out, a confident man doesn’t need to get validated as he knows he is good at what he does. Keep up the good work young man,

This really helped me Collin, I loved the way how everything was straight to the point avoiding any BS. Lookiing forward to more such videos!

Thank you for being a reminder of the strengths of being an introvert. Keep doing what you do

you cant fake confidence, invest in yourself and build genuine confidence

great video brother, you kept it short, and informative. i usually don’t fully understand things when they going over them fast but you know how to get it done. respect bro

All what I've to say is thank you for being in this world Collin 🙏❤

I'm 55 and just now realizing I am an introvert. My socializing is mainly at the gym which is where there are others who share my interests. I also don't enjoy "superficial " conversations, yet when engaged in a super subject I am vocal and interact alot. But need my space to recharge. Great video❤

Great video! Really love your vibe! The video edit was perfect, minimalist yet powerful. And everything you said was on point. Thanks very much!

oh come on brother, introverts include girls as well btw Thank you for this, I finally don't feel insecure about being an introvert like I never was but some people told me things like its the biggest curse to be an introvert and all but you taught me that being introvert is not bad but its amazing

I think this is exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve watched so many videos on how to be confident and not trash talk myself for being an introvert but this really gave me the tips that can easily be followed. Thank you :)

The video is a gem!! No BS, straight to the point. Appreciate it man 🤍

As a pure introvert, I can say this is true If people don't like me or don't want to approach me its a win win, and if they approach me or like me, Its a double win

Would be lovely to get a video on how to read effectively and take out as much as you can from self help books.. cuz there is so much content when you read and it’s hard to apply everything when you have a lot of books on your reading list

Total agree. I consider myself a friendly introvert. My grandma was super extroverted so she would push me, like any Asian granny, to be more social. During my highschool days and trying to look for my first job I realized how important I had to learn to socialize. The type of job you'll get, the payrise you could miss etc. I had to force myself into a retail position so I could learn the social skills. But deeply I'm still very introverted. I prefer to listen and analyze. I prefer to be in the same room in silence. Very good video Collin

Thank you so much for spreading your knowledge, it has helped me a lot throughout the years to become a better version of myself. I'll be waiting for your next video, and again thank you so much for your help!

I'm half introvert and half extrovert

Enjoyed the video, thanks for sharing this, most people usually keep it to themselves unless asked about. Keep making great videos

Don’t always go in their ways to compliment them. Receive compliments, not give.

1)compliment people genuinely and without wanting anything in return 2)ask questions and listen more in conversations 3)guard your attention. you dont have to continue a conversation if its a waste of time, be authentic. 4) change body language. be relaxed, stand up straight, speak clearly and slower. 5) build abundance and mastery in a skill. you have to have something to back up your claims that youre cool by being good at something and building confidence in an area of your life.

Honestly this video gave me a confident boost! Thanks a lot

That was a great reminder for me, thank you! compliment whenever you feel it! be good listener, keep your frame, and fix ur body language!

as an introvert, i think its nice to say in here. ive made great and trustworthy friends, so because of that, i become way more talkative when im around them and its AMAZING, to be able to say everything in your mind without fear, be able to laugh loudly, its just such a good feeling, i highly recommend finding those people in your life

wow I'm an introvert and I've never heard of “dark confidence” before, thank you so much for making a video about it!

i’m an ambivert who leans a little bit more towards the introvert side. dark confidence is the most attractive thing to me, not only when i see it in others but when i display it as well. i can have dark confidence but sometimes my bubbly side which craves a good laugh and good time with people wins and i end up hunting for conversation, getting to know people. for some reason after these interactions are done and im left grinning i kind of falter and get ashamed. i like being perceived as dark confident a lot more than bubbly and charming; some sort of personal attribute, i guess. i want to be quiet and sensual rather than the excited teen that bursts out of me sometimes. idk how to fix this because there’s two sides of me which i can’t always control 😭😭😭

Collin, thank you for such an amazing video, your pieces of advice definitely help me a lot and remind me that actions always speak louder than words. Let's win together!

A real valuable video,highly appreciate you for articulating such good points.I m grateful that someone is trying to really understand what introverts are and how they think.

I'm about to turn 68 and your presentation is spot-on. You know of what you speak. Nice job Yalie. Stanford, Class of '78. Major: American Studies. Occupation: journalist/documentary filmmaker. I wish you well in all endeavors.

That last one of a small W will ripple throughout your other parts of you is something I had happen to me when I got into standup and got decent laughs out of someone in the crowd. They came up to me reassuring my set was good, just needed practice and refinement. Introverts know when something performance wise can go shit but that to me was so meh and someone came out knowing and laughing on my niche jokes. That in turn helped me feel better about everything else around me since it is something I've always wanted to pursue.

Thank you so much. This video has already built my confidence😇. God Bless you all🙏

Yeah, I admit that these things you said are true because I got an introvert friend and he still got close to everyone by doing these. Your vids are helping me too! Respect👍

Thank for sharing this with us ,it really opened my eyes

Thanks bro its been long looking for this

"I really appreciate" it create new things on my mind. I will try to do that.sechely i keep it on my daily for remember.

Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain. Great book!

thanks, brother. you have really made my day

Be a confident introvert 😎🖤

Thankyou for making this video🤝🏻

So, here I began to appreciate you firstly, it was worth it ❤

really great video the points are head on and you probably gave the ideas alot of thought it's evident but at the end of the day I'd hope it catches the eyes of the right person who needs this

I am an introvert and I watched your video from the beginning to the end. I am quickly going to apply a skill to that I learned be in that video that I should give genuine compliments. Your video is cool. Congrats bro!

Amazing work keep it going and your definitely changing my life a true "Social Media Influencer"

This video reminds me of myself growing through the years 💀 Would of been useful for younger me so I'm sure it will help tons of other people

thank you man, your video is really important to me!

I've always put myself in the extroverted introvert box. I am comfortable around people of all ages, but I am capable by myself. This is a wonderful video. Thank you for making such a big impact on my life.

Hey I really liked your video and I think you could save a lot of people by making us understand what's confidence and helping us improve it so keep doing what you're doing.

Awesome video, thanks for the advice!

Bro said dark confidence but all I could think of was our president dark brandon 💀

This is the most valuable information I’ve ever received in 5 and a half minutes

Was gonna watch a video about cpr to save my dying brother but after hearing that this will be the most valuable video I'll watch today I had to watch this instead

I am the definition of introvert, even all my hobbies are geared towards my inner world (especially music and painting) I can socialize but my social battery is always on 1.

this 5 minute video was really an eye opener.. unlike other vids..it emphasises on the need of daily work.. and being competent.. wish you more power bro

Honestly, thanks man! I really learnt a lot today

Thank you so much i really like your advice to build dark confidence thank you so much bro 😊

Thank you so, so, much! This video alone builds confidence 😊.

Thanks collin, i was needing some tips and values about being confident.

Best Video ever for INTROVERTS Thanks!

I appreciate how each video of yours is to the point with clarity in what you want to convey. Keep up the good work👍🏻👍🏻

I was just randomly scrolling on the RU-vid and then I saw your video and title. When I saw full video of yours!! You are not gonna believe my mindset just changed and I subscribe to your channel i like the u make the video ✨ I'm a girl keep going :) it helps me a lot. Thanks ❤

Gosh I almost forgot to subscribe I like how aesthetic you made it look

Thank you Collins!❤

This video really is valuable to me as an introvert. Thank you, Collin.

I do all of these already. I wanted to adapt the habit of readung every day even for 10 minutes and now after only half a month, I'm reading for more than 2 hours! I think I'm totally fine but I'll still watch these videos to just keep me motivated no matter what.

Thank you for making this video I’m having a hard time making friends at school and just not talking to much people now I’m gonna have the dark confidence you said in the video :D

Bro i just got this video and truly this is something valuable ❤

God bless you too man! This really helps, thank you man.

Dope video bro thanks for the force 🔥💯

I've been unconsciously acting like this and I thank you for reminding me of why I act like this, I've became insecure of my silence so I thank you for reminding me that I don't need to change for people 😊

Bro you're amazing I watched the whole video and dude thanks a lot, it's a really nice video and also wish you all the best👍

Self mastery is attractive and key to confidence ❤

Thanks, and by the way , your shirt matching your eyes and hair color is unique!

Tbh this 5 minutes definitely worth thank you ❤

Fantastic! This chanel realy helps me to develop myself. I'm searching for purpose and you're really helpful with all your advice man, keep it up.

Hey bro!Love your videos and these truly helped me.Also you're looking very good and handsome in this video.

Best video I even found for introvert people, I want to thanks you from the bottom of my heart ❤️

What a good video, wow you absolutely smashed it mate

Bro has done a great job for introvert. Might this 5 min will change someone's life 🤠

I appreciate this short but very helpful video. 😀💚

hey everyone im new on this channel but i think this channel is very interesting. once i had opened the vid it was amazing cause it was to the point but not too harsh, the entire vid was radiating that dark confidence. I really enjoyed the vid and look foward to watching more content like this. Keep it up!

A new subscriber here! I really liked the video I benefited from it a lot because I really lack confidence and I like your style and your way of delivering information keep going!

As a mega-introvert, I've been struggling with human interaction in general - so thanks much for short, simple, to-the-point advices. I heavily struggle at the last part though, I'm not sure how to be confident when I'm painfully aware I'm not perfect. I know, no one is. But even though I come from a good University with good grades, I'm so aware that there is 100% someone with better academic achievements than me. I have a very high paying job at a world renowned corporation, but I'm not the CEO nor am I the highest earner in that building let alone my country or the world. I have other qualities that get me compliments (very grateful of it) but every time I think of anything I have or can do, I can't help but be anxious that I don't deserve that compliment or confidence because I might bump into someone more deserving of it than I do. I feel like I'm being arrogant if I feel confident. I don't know how to get out of this and it makes me very uncomfortable when I receive praise or attention. Any advice...?