MINIMALISM SERIES | DECLUTTERING WHEN YOU'VE GAINED WEIGHT 

You are so honest and such an inspiration to so many, Maddie. And you really are perfect the way you are. Whatever that is. I think we women ALL have fluctuating weight ALL of our lives. Definitely have learned to have the “expandable” wardrobe. Just buy the next size up and if you are a bit lower, it still looks good. Maybe add a belt. And when you are a few decades older, you will look back at yourself and see what I see now. I look back at my photos in my 20’s and 30’s and I can’t believe I ever thought I had to lose 10 pounds. Wah! What a waste of energy. Keep up the good work! You are doing just fine x

thank you so much for talking about this subject re: weight gain and decluttering. no one ever talks about this and i have gained weight because of stress as well and it isn't something easy to deal with at all. it can be very confusing and discouraging not feeling confident enough to wear clothes you once could. i commend your rawness and honesty about this. love you and your channel.

Also don't feel bad for not throwing out things that don't fit. There is such a privilege in being able to get rid of clothes due to weight gain and buy a load more only to lose the weight again. Like.... That's expensive

When I was recovering from Anorexia, I used to have trolls on RU-vid tell me that I needed to "cut down on the snacks" because I was getting "chubby" - despite the fact they all KNEW I was recovering from a BMI of just 13. People behind the keyboard can be very unkind and, actually, quite evil to other people. Just give those kinds of comment your sympathy and then block them. They're not worth the air you breathe. You're wonderful

To fix Alex's jumper, thread the piece of yarn with a bobby pin, then thread it through to the inside of the jumper. Just like if you are sewing, you are just tucking the thread back inside the jumper.

You are a lovely person-you always have been and always will be! Bodies change. I'm not sure why our society is obsessed with the late teenage body, but newsflash-we are only teens for a few years. We age, we have kids, we change, and it's all beautiful. What a privilege it is to live life. So sorry that you have to endure trolls, their comments speak much more about themselves than they do about you!

You could dye that denim shirt a darker colour, it might cover the stain and give your shirt a longer life!

It helped me a lot, when I gained weight to put the clothes away, that did not fit me anymore. Looking at them made me sad every day, so I put them away. When I lost the weight and fit into them again it was lovely getting them back and "shopping my own wardrobe". There were things that did not resonate with me anymore, as my process of gaining and losing weight was stretched and is still stretching over a few years. But its very nice, that I have not given them away, as I did with a few pieces. One I actually hunted down again and bought again, because I was so sad about giving it away. Sorry about the people being trolls and horrible! You're very strong for dealing with them!

Ignore the fun sponges who like to troll. Who cares if your weight fluctuates. You are a young woman with hormones and around the age when many women will have children so of course your body will change shape and that's so normal. You are a lovely person inside and out, and you contribute more to so many peoples lives than any troll will. Keep being you, that's why we love you 💕

The notion that one is supposed to go through life being the exact same size even though life is everchanging is ridiculous. I cannot stop thanking you for being a breath of fresh air in this toxic climate. You are an inspiration to me, you've helped me so much in my journey to accepting my own body. Stay strong Maddie, we are behind you.

you can fix the thread on Alex’s jumper by pushing it back through with a bobby pin and then tying a knot in the thread on the inside of the jumper! It will look as if nothing happened

Just like me. More fat but happy. Time to change some clothes. 🙌🏻😙 You inspire me. 😘🇵🇹

One thought pattern that has really helped me when my weight has fluctuated in the past: have you ever noticed friends gaining weight? Chances are you haven’t, at least that is the case for me. Same goes for influencers: whenever I hear anyone speak about the fact they’ve gained a few pounds here or there I never think of it negatively, usually just that they look great and they’re being a little critic of themselves. And that is just it, the person everybody is most critical of is themselves! Same goes for clothes, do you remember what your friends were wearing the last time you saw them? Probably not, so why should it be different for the things you wear? Choose what you like and makes you feel comfortable and happy, everybody is too focused on themselves to really care anyways :)

I have also gained weight and I am shying away from my more colorful or stylish clothes, even makeup too. My eyes are welling up, knowing not to be alone. Thank you.

I feel you, I fluctuate too due to a health condition & meds. I've found elastic waist trousers (like Lucy & Yak) skirts &shorts, stretchy denim, linen wrap dresses (off etsy), and loose shirts\jumpers (I can tuck in or out and button up or down) have all been lifesavers and wallet savers. Means I don't need to keep buying clothes, though I do have a few of the same jeans in a size up for months when I'm larger. It's frustrating and self love is needed! You always look great and I hope you start to feel great too. Size shouldn't make any difference, but women are judged so harshly by our appearance. X

I agree having clothes that fit a range of sizes really takes away from the added stress that comes with not fitting into clothes due to stress-induced-weight gain. It’s almost a life-saving tip. The last thing you need to worry about when you have 4000 things going on is whether you’ve got anything you could wear.

You're absolutely beautiful.

I relate to this so much and you can't believe how much it helps me to see somebody else (somebody I admire) is feeling the same. Thank you so so much for your honesty!!

You deserve a break!!! Enjoy it!!

That comment is why I don't use social media anymore (Other than youtube). Life is way too short for all that trouble

Just halfway through the video and had to come by and say that I do go through the same thing right now it's really hard to declutter your clothes feel a waste to get them away but it's also dosnt do good for me seen them in the morning and not to be able to fit into

I honestly can’t even see you’ve gained weight. Either way you’re great the way you are. Can recommend listening to Lizzo to feel better :)

It's so inspiring to see you call out body shamers and not give two stuffs about mean comments. Keep on being amazing and doing hood things for the planet 💓

Well said Madeleine. You’re beautiful, ignore the ignorant. I too have had to adapt. I’ve also changed my style so I’ve had a clear out. I didn’t want to keep things that didn’t fit, personally. Everyone’s different. Take care. Xx

That comment was so much yikes, bad enough that you are recovering from an eating disordered past and that could of made you relapse into your ED again.

Wonderfully transparent video! I genuinely appreciate how open you are with life happenings. It makes me feel less alone with the things I too deal with!

Maddy you are a beautiful person and if anyone thinks a size 12 is fat (I mean really!!!!) then it is THEM that has the problem. They might actually have some issues so we should feel sorry for them. You have a great life wonderful partner gorgeous doggo and loving family they may feel jealous of this! Alternatively they may simply be a ‘dickhead’ just keep on doing your thing, oh by the way I’m 61 and still fluctuate in size from year to year so good luck hun enjoy what you have xx

Gaining weight is just a good reason to buy a few more lovely bits for yourself ❤️

Loved this video, I have 3 wardrobes: pre-pregnancy, pregnancy and post partum, I keep my non fitting clothes in my dresser and the clothes I'm wearing hanging up in my closet. It works for me to only see the clothes I can fit into in one place. I also make sure my current wardrobe is current and love every piece especially now that I've transitioned to being a stay at home mom.

for the jumper, I advise to take a thin bobbi pin and to stuck the thread from the outside and pass it through the inside, love your videos!

Been there - 60 pounds after I had a stroke at age 50...but you Maddie do NOT need to justify your weight gain to anyone on RU-vid! That troll needs to sod off!

Watching your videos always makes me feel a little more calm and less anxious. You remind me of the fact that we don’t need to be perfect to be a valuable human being! ❣️

If you like the striped ”skater dress” because it’s comfy, maybe you can use it to sleep in☺️?

It's a personal decision or personal situation of gaining or losing weight. I believe that no one should be nosy about anybody else's weight. I lost weight purposely and it's my business, no one else's.. i could have wanted to gain weight, same comment. So, for those that seem to be the "weight police", keep your comments to yourself. No one needs to explain or not their reasons!

Thank you for posting the video. It is really inspiring to see how open and honest you are, especially since I have gone through the same thing throughout the past years and fun fact: I'm a size 12 too! I definitely understand since my own mother told me that I was growing "wider" in college and I really hope she understands that a size I wear doesn't define me. I define myself through who I am and as long as I feel good in my body, who cares what the scale says?!

I don’t know why it’s a thing to comment on people’s bodies. Weight gain or loss is so personal, you have no idea if someone is ill or what the effect of your comments will be on someone. Really isn’t anyone else’s business.

Everytime you mention PEI, im shook haha -- born and raised on Prince Edward Island, it's such a small province, so it's cool to hear the reference, doesn't happen often. Love your videos ❤️ 🍁

I am 100% with you in regards to wearing clothes that don’t draw attention to you when your not feeling great in your own skin! I’ve literally been doing that since the beginning of the year 🙈 It was good to here someone else share that ❤️

WOW just speechless at that stupid immature comment. Can u please leave FOREVER 🚪ewwww. Maddie 💜 thank you for sharing recipes and minimalism tips I appreciate it so much. You've changed me for the better 🌏🤗🕉✌💚💙📿🧡💛🤗🌿🐘

I want to smack this commenter in the face! I've gained some weight too recently, partly because I haven't been able to afford good healthy foods as much as I'd like. I'm not mad about it though because I've gotten stronger through manual labour at work, so I don't feel like a slob. At first I felt bad about gaining weight because it means I'm a smidge out of the healthy weight range for my height, but I'm a strong thicc bitch so who cares?!

You have no idea how needed this was for me at the moment. I'm in recovery from an ed and am struggling to feel comfortable in my own skin. Most of the clothes I own are still too small. On the other hand, there are a few pairs of things as well that don't fit me now after gaining back most of the weight. Today I was going into town with my sister and was again trying to decide what trousers to wear which is SUCH a struggle because a lot of them are still quite baggy. I went to try on the pair of jeans I had to buy for Christmas because I literally had nothing that fit me. I felt straight away that I wasn't going to feel comfortable in them, especially if I was to have anything to eat , so before even trying to button them I folded them up and put them in a bag. Went straight to the charity shop when I got into the city and donated them. I completely get what you mean about not wanting to draw attention to yourself and wearing the same few things over and over. I struggle to leave the house a lot because I simply don't have many things to wear that I feel comfortable being in public in. I still haven't tried to shop for myself because I still expect to gain some more weight (I've hit my target (woo) but I feel a little more won't hurt) because I find trying things on a bit triggering still. It's also very hard to find nice things in charity shops / vintage shops because I live in Ireland, but I'm trying to be as sustainable as possible. It's tempting to just buy huge big jumpers, but I'm set on not getting ones through fast fashion. Anyways, thank you so much, your videos have been so so helpful to me, you're recipes make me so excited to cook and were key in my becoming vegan. Also, whoever wrote that comment really needs to check themselves. I don't understand a person who can write and post a comment like that about something that is absolutely NONE of their business. Do people not realise that their words can affect people??? I'm so sorry you had to read something like that. Xx ❤️❤️

I loved this! Post baby body had even changed my foot size 🤦🏼‍♀️ but going through or putting things aside for charity when they don’t fit is such a liberating feeling and makes getting dressed so much more enjoyable. Try storing away clothes that don’t fit, you may or may not want to wear them again 💙💙💙💙

I have PCOS and an under active thyroid so I can really struggle with weight. It’s really reassuring and refreshing to hear someone talk about this in the internet. Thank you 🙏

Fluctuating weight is an added complexity to clothes decluttering. Just do what feels right for you. Currently doing the same with my wardrobe ❤❤ #FeckTheTrolls

girl, feel you re: the period spots // they are THE WORST, and it's the only time my skin breaks out, always in the exact same place on my face UGH

Trust me you don't look fat. Stop worrying about your weight, you look lovely.

My car boot is currently full of 4 bags destined for charity shop!

Love these videos. I badly need to do my wardrobe but it's hard. I'm gonna have to try my Clothes on one item at a time and get rid of the items that don't fit me.

You look beautiful, size 10, 12 or whichever is going to happen. Size is such a stupid thing to be worrying about (and yet we all do it). The person that wrote that comment apparently had a bad day, sad they had to punish you for it. Stay awesome ❤🌿🌿🌿

Love how real and honest you are! Hope you feel better about your body soon, I hope whoever said that rude things steps into a pile of Legos, you look gorgeous! :)

Good luck with the driving test! :D

Madeleine! thank you for this video, it made me feel much less alone in my weight gain. i suffered from an eating disorder. and as ive been recovering ive gained weight. ive gone from a size (US) 8 to a size (US) 14. and if been feeling very alone and self conscious in it. i haven't decluttered my wardrobe since my weight gain and ive bought a few shirts and things that fit but nothing that really makes me feel good or confident. i hope both of us in the future have clothes that make us feel confident no matter our weight, whether we fluctuate or we've just gained

Woman bodies change so much. Mine has after having my two boys. I’m now 34..embracing the body iv got and finally stopped caring! It’s a lovely feeling. I wish I had the courage to just not give a crap what I ‘should look like’ in my twenties. I’m as healthy as I can be, I can’t change how my body looks. You are the picture of health! X

These are my favourite types of videos!!!!!!!!!!

Eff the haters. A. You are beautiful. B. You do you. :D

The comment you got is the reason I stopped making RU-vid videos not strong enough for those internet trolls tbh love your vids gal and I hope you were able to forget about that hurtful comment you're so inspiring for all of us X X XX

You're incredibly, incredibly brave ❤ This video hit me right in the heart. Calmer times are coming, so feel hugged until then. 😊

People are so focussed on weight, their weight, the weight of others... Why can't we notice kindness more, or intelligence, or just focus on your own actions and how they impact others. I think it is totally fine to come to people from a place of concern when they suddenly gain a lot of weight, or lose a lot of weight because either can indicate disease. It is just the comment you got, that is so disrespectful and meant to bring you down. I think you take such a mature approach to the message and I think many of us can learn from how you deal with this. Lots of love.

Why don't you stain the cloths that are slightly stained in a darker color. ? It works for me each time. Same shirt but different color !

When I've gone through pregnancies and my weight fluctuates a lot, I put the clothes that don't fit me in a box and tuck them away. That way when I lose weight and can pull them out I feel like I have a whole new wardrobe.

I recently decluttered my room, and just posted a video about it on my channel. I would love it if you could check it out😊

I've learned that telling people They 've gained or lost weight is so unnecessary and sometimes even hurtful that i dont do this anymore. I just Tell them that i love what They are doing and i appreciate They work and so long. Maddie you are super cool and i dont really care if you lost or gained weight. Hope you are going to feel better soon and get rid off so much stress! Sending love from Poland

You honestly look great. Far from fat, and you don’t need to lose any weight. These sort of comments seem to hurt you a lot (I get it, they would hurt me too!) but honestly - don’t give them a second thought. Letting it get to you is exactly what they want.

I never comment Maddie however you inspire me in so many ways stay strong love you are gorgeous

I’m a man and my weight fluctuates too. I literally have a slim, normal, and heavier wardrobe that I crack out depending on where I’m at

Wow. I am glad you are ignoring the haters. You are an inspiration to many and your weight is a personal thing.

Not that my opinion about your body matters, because it doesn't, but I literally couldn't tell you'd gained weight. Who are these people with no lives who scrutinize and feel the need to criticize or speculate about the reasons for people's body weight? You're gorgeous and engaging, and honestly be gorgeous and engaging at any weight. Weight fluctuations over time are totally normal, and I wish women could just live our lives without worrying about our bodies constantly being treated as a public performance for consumption by others. Yeah you're a RU-vidr, but that doesn't mean your body belongs to anybody else but you. You're beautiful, you're beautiful, you're beautiful. It's also been a while longer than usual since you made a video, and I hope all is well and that we get more soon!

Just try to remember that people who are happy with themselves and their lives do not go around trying to destroy or hurt others. I’ve been seeing way too many mean comments on videos lately. I’m sorry that happened to you!

If you get confident with sewing, you can let out the sleeves on that lovely dress, and even add darts of fabric to the back of trousers (where you can't see with a top over them) to give you more room. You can also sew a loop of elastic to a button to give you more room in the front. I learned all this from my mum - we have the same sort of weight fluctuations so thought I'd let you know ☺️

I’m currently in the same position where I fluctuate between a size 10 and 12, and it’s so nice to see you talk so openly about this. Don’t listen to the trolls, you are beautiful no matter what size!

I bought some t shirts from Everlane and they were not the best quality. After wearing them for a few months they got really worn really fast :(

Thank you so much for being so honest. I just bought some new clothes after gaining weight. In the past 1 1/2 years I went up two dress sizes. Last year especially was very challenging because life was difficult. But I'm really trying to get better and accept the circumstances. Just today I told myself that it's normal to be different; that I suffered a great loss last year and it's normal that I'm not the same person I was before everything happened. I'm getting comfortable with myself again having new clothes that actually fit me. I can look into the mirror and can honestly say that I'm pretty and I like myself. Your message in this video just sums up everything I've been thinking about life changes. So after watching your video I just bought your book, for you being honest and real xx

So refreshing to have someone talk about weight gain rather than weight loss! You haven’t once said you are going to crash diet to get back into your clothes 🥰❤️ (I personally don’t think you look like you’ve put on weight at all - you still look lovely) xx

Did Alex just quote Legally Blonde??

So happy you did this video! I am very into body positive, but as well, unfortunately, very influenced by ‚fit world’. When you first said that you were going shopping because you gained weigh I was like ‚what?’. I always stucked with not so comfortable clothes waiting untill I loose weight again, so I was stuck with not-so-pretty-not-so-comfortable-not-so-flattering clothes for YEARS. It was crazy. Thank you for showing that side of decluttering and self care. We need more of this! ❤️

When you were saying walkies to your dog my dog trotted over...so off I go see u after 🙄😂😂

Completely agree regarding Everlane - I have a jumper which is not soft at all and a coat which tore on the first wear 😒

You can also get a "knit picker" that can help fix pulls in knits. Definitely a good thing to have around if you love knitwear.

I agree 100% with teemill and rapanui quality. I have my own range with them and it's fantastic!

You know what I hate? That ppl are so judgemental! If you did put on waight its no one else’s concern and no one should point that out to you! I am struggling toget rid off baby weight and I have ppl commenting “oh you still carry a bit of baby weight”., I am size 12 now. I hate those comments and it hurts me so much! #be kind always 💚

I gently manipulate the sweater in every direction and then what does not go back into place I pushed through to the inside. I think every woman as we age gains weight no matter how hard we work at it. So as you know already, and as hard as it is try not to let anybody discourage you just be you because you are a wonderful person that is beautiful on the inside and out. I always look forward to each and every video. Fyi I love the longer videos 😉

I’m going through the same thing with my clothes, I fluctuate between a 10 and 12 and i invested in several medium sized dresses. So much more comfortable and i can wear them what ever size i am! - Love your videos ⭐️

I’m going through a stress related weight gain myself, and I want to thank you so much for making this video. You’re right that it’s hard to make decisions about clothes that may not fit you right now, but that it’s not unrealistic to think they will in the future. I have also been trying to build more of a flexible wardrobe that I can wear around my bigger size and smaller size (relatively speaking). I decided this past weekend that I would be storing my smaller sizes away for now as if they were seasonal, and if I don’t find that I am able to reach for those items in the next 9-12 months, I will declutter them. I feel like it will make me feel less guilty about not being able to fit in those clothes, and prevent me from using them as a “goal,” because I try not to have weight related goals anymore due to previous disordered habits. Anyway, thank you again. You rock, and you in NO WAY look fat. That person is clearly projecting insecurities.

I have gained weight too lately (stress, health issues and so on) and I'm starting to be at peace with it : after all life is change and movement, and so are we, at some point we're skinny, at some other we're overweight, at some other we're fit, muscular, and so on. It's not a fatality, like the tide ebbs and flows, the moon grows and wanes :) Thank you for the decluttering tips and making me laugh with "hello spots" ^^

My Aunt and uncle live on PEI too. Love this declutter video; you are so good at it. I could do with you help in being more ruthless! Good luck on your driving test! My son passed 3 weeks ago x

Learning to deal with stress and anxiety in other ways than food has made a world of difference for me! And stretchy clothes is great when I' feeling a bit bloated. My mom has boxes of clothes in sizes that doesn't fit her.

Madeleine, You are awesome and you are the first vegan I found on RU-vid and have inspired me to eat vegan. I have made several of your recipes and they're great. My funniest vegan cooking story is from your chocolate chip cookies (I am in the US and I had my oven set at 180 F not 180 C (350 F) ). THANK YOU for everything you share! You are actually making the world a better place - unlike some internet trolls!

Madeleine, you look beautiful in every size! :) it's not about size XXS or XS, it's about confidence. Female body is changing, for example me - i had 33 kg up during my pregnancy, 22 kg still up after labor. 10 kg up when i was twenty, because of hormonal anticonception, next 6 kg up because of stress...... i hate trolls and their hateful comment. This is the dark side of social networks. Only one thing worries me - you look tired, kinda burnt out or what. Take your time, relax, be offline! i love your channel but i can wait weeks to your new video, if you will need weeks to get some new energy :) (I'm sorry about my english, hope you will catch a meaning of my czech-english letter :) )

I think you look great!!

A UK size 10 is a US size 6, which is TINY. UK size 12 is a US size 8, which is also very slim. You’re tall and gorgeous - don’t let anyone convince you otherwise. ❤️🌷

Darling, excuse me, I see no weight gain. Even if it's there you look good! I totally get this decluttering-because-weight. I have no thyroid and last year I suddenly gained 8kg and it's was going back and forth. Now it's all good, but it was a mess in the beggining. Wishing you luck and sending love from Poland

They need to add a love button on here honestly. I've been following your channel for a few years now and I continue to follow your journey because I see someone just like me. You are a representation of so many young women in the world and it is so wonderful to know that the things I struggle with are normal and that other women have some of the same issues. I am 29 and have just had my first baby so my body has changed dramatically and I have no idea how to dress myself or how to connect with my new body but all I can do is try. Good idea to have pieces that can grow and shrink with you! I also fluctuate between sizes and honestly I think we all do! Love and support from Windsor Ontario! 💚💪🇨🇦

Hi there just wanted to say never allow those trolls in ,some people always looking to be unpleasant individuals , i love your videos you help me so much when i became a vegan 2 years ago your recipes are brill ,as someone who has a ED i have the problem of decluttering my wardrobe needing at least 2 sizes of the same outfit ,most is brought from charity shops so i dont feel to bad ,also have problem with getting rid of books,with your advice i have decluttered so much it is amazing how good it feels to be free from THINGS lol .take care of you

Girl, gaining weight due to stress is a normal physiological reflex. It’s normal! And! It doesn’t have any affect on your value! You look fantastic and that troll CLEARLY needs some help. They’re unwell

What´s wrong with people?? So many humans, so little humanity.... You are a wonderful human being, no matter if you lose or gain weight. Are you healthy? then you are a wonderful and LUCKY human being. You rock, Madeleine. I love being one of your followers.

Oh Madeleine, no worries about the troll, it's not a simple weight gain, it's adrenal fatigue --> low cortisol level --> thyroïd hormone T4 unable to convert into T3. It's a classic for exhausted people. So just relax as soon as you can, take iodine supplement, I can't see if you eat much algae, take vitamine D (I think you do already), and big walks with Roxie will regulate your cortisol levels. All this from the point of view of a certified naturopath who really cares for you 🥰

You’re freaking stunning, brilliant and hardworking. Putting on a few pounds, losing a few pounds, no one gives a shit. I don’t know if it’s good to hang on to clothes if they don’t fit us. There’s freedom in letting them go and having clothing items that fit you well and are comfy 💙

It’s also an age thing I’m now 47 and I just keep going up. I try not to focus on it. But I don’t keep anything that doesn’t fit me or make me feel good. Don’t worry 😉 honey. Xxx

I have the right brand for you if you want to wear it at a size 10 or 12 or whatever...it's the ethical and small linen company from Lituania that you can buy on Etsy, it's called "Not Perfect Linen" I think you might like some of their styles, they are so comfy and wearable at any season, linen is actually the most sustainable material and it refreshes you in the summer and blocks cold in winter (when you wear it with some warmer materials)... check it out, you might like it. I've changed all my wardrobe last year and stopped wearing any polyester fabrics (even if they were bought at thrift stores) and I actually don't need much, the Not perfect linen clothes are basic and go well with so many other stuff you might already have...it actually changed my life because I also gained weight and I'm always jumping from one size to another but with these clothes I keep them the same ones from one size to the other. When you wear linen it actually is a style of life...ethical, sustanaible and minimalist. Love it. And you look beautiful, can't see that you gained weight or not... that burgundy velvet dress is sooooo beautiful. Oh and I love that purple cord jacket on Alex, it looks so good on him.

You talking about weight gain is no ones business at all. However all women I know their weight fluctuates, up and down, up and down. It’s a nightmare for trying not to have too much stuff. I also do the 10/12 up and down thing. I’m certain that this is a feminist issue. What would be lovely if we could feel less shite about being a larger size. It’s such a first world problem. No judgement though, as I’m just as pissed off and sad when I’m not happy about my ‘size’. But sadly like you it has an effect on how we feel. I’m sure it’s a way of getting us to buy more stuff. I’m sure men’s wear allows for more fluctuations! As my partner has fluctuated and can still wear the same fecking clothes. So talking about this is helpful. Ignore the trolls they are always pouring out hate, they’re are very unhappy people. You’re beautiful inside and out. You’re also putting yourself in the firing line talking about this stuff and I for one appreciate it enormously Xxx