If you put a man in a studio apartment with noodles and a TV, he'll be extremely happy. If you put a woman in a mansion with everything she wants, she'll find a way to be miserable
At 25? Definitely. Men don't usually remain stagnant in terms of income. A 35 year old man is closer to peak. He's making more money than he ever have, still has his sex drive and can make kids, and man tend to not visually age as bad. If you 25 with that income, you winning and will be creme of the crop soon and are already almost there.
@@BillClinton228 So true. A few days ago, on Better Bachelor channel, Joker shared a story about a man who had to pay his ex wife 300,000 pounds. When she divorced him and he was just an average man, so there was nothing to take in the divorce. Two years later he gets off into the green energy sector and over the next 25yrs makes millions. Meanwhile her life over the next 25yrs after divorcing him didn't fare so well, so she took him back to court and won some chump change based upon nothing. Now these women are getting rewarded whether they stay with a man or not. This is madness.
💯💪🏾💯, this is very true. I dated a young lady that worked at Wendy’s....! I won’t put my résumé out there, but I’ll jus say she was not anywhere close to being on my level...!
@@ChildfreeLT ms Thomas I'm happy to hear that one thing you re very blessed with please take note what you getting from kevin I wish I had when I was younger I don't have kids but I never challenge myself to prepare for marriage I really didn't make it a priority because I was chasing a dream at the time I didn't have Sense to have balance so please don't let time get away and date with purpose of marriage is what you want let a guy know and don't give up your body for a good time that's when baby comes do the Lord way I hope I was. Helpful
My ex left me and told everyone including my family that I was abusive. I never laid a finger on her. we were both verbally abusive to each other if that’s a thing. She moved out of our house took our son and moved straight into her new boyfriends house who beat the shit out of her in front of our 4 year old son and went to jail. This chick has a masters degree btw ‘I’m a PhD!’
Forgot to add, when she told me she was leaving I asked her why, her answer? ‘I’m not happy’ I’m guessing she was happy when new man beat her down while my son watched?
We have split custody. She didn’t let me see him for about 8 months when she left. Had to go through the courts and pay a small fortune. Found out about the domestic charges through my attorney who provided the police report.
I really appreciate your respect to us blue collar guys out there... no braggadocious degree, not wearing some fancy suit to work, waking up and leaving the house early before everyone else, working in the multiple environments, with our hands using our mechanical skills to build this infrastructure
I respect how he doesn’t like to have married women on here without their husbands in on the call. That’s a man that respects the sanctity of marriage.
@Kellyn Antonacci more like respectful to the vows. I can understand the whole womanist/feminist views but. When you’re married I consider that respectful.
This man is REALLY trying to help the black community. As a man, hearing what he has to say makes me want to be rhe best version of myself. Jokes aside he is dropping truth/facts.
I’m not a black man, and I have been getting a daily dose of Kevin’s wisdom for months now. RIP👑 To me, his message transcends culture. I now recognize that I was raised in a family where the gender roles were completely reversed. My father was completely emasculated and my mother definitely stayed in her (masculine) personality for my entire childhood. I subconsciously chose my first wife because she was a whole lot like my mother, as this was my template of what a woman was supposed to be like.
Denzel Washington said it best “ A boy raised in a household without a father will look for one in the streets “ Some people truly don’t understand how important a father figure is for the family foundation
His elite level of respect and how he converse and deals with married women is truly honorable. Your husband needs to be present. Very proper. KS don’t miss.
Caller: Kevin what do men want? Kevin: Cooperation, are you cooperative Caller: I can be for the right man. Ladies that means you uncooperative by nature.
I find it hilarious how they always go to abuse. They make it sound like they were sitting down playing Tetris, and all of the sudden dude just comes up and starts stomping them into a mud hole, like he's Stone Cold.
I don’t advocate for hitting a woman under any circumstance, but females shouldn’t be talkin reckless enough to a man to warrant that in the first place 💯
When a 👨🏾 has a new girl, his friends first question; "what does 👧🏾 l👀k like?" When a 👧🏽has a new man, her friends first question; "what does 👨🏽do for a living?"
Not sure why women are triggered by the second scenario, it’s true. Even if it’s not the first question, it’s usually one of the first 5 questions asked.
Without carpenters, plumbers, construction workers, water utility plant workers and such society grinds to a haltin about three days. Not too many feminists are waiting in line to climb a pole in the driving rain to fix a transformer. Most college degrees other than accounting, finance, engineering or STEM are worthless anyway.
Not only that she met him and 30 DAYS later of knowing him she's pregnant by him.Smh. She had a baby with a stranger and no foundation. Why would she do this to the child, it angers me.
I’m 26 in IT. Just left the navy 8 months ago and got my IT certs and just got an awesome job in IT management. If I had more experience I could’ve asked for 100k+ salary but I managed to get just over 77K. Listening to this makes me feel better lol. I didn’t know I was in the top 15% . Feels like I’m doing something right for my age.
I was earning $87k as a state wide quality assurance/food safety manager for a national food manufacturer while learning to be a stock trader. Went solo October 1st. I'm now averaging 50k per month. Cut my expenses to the bone, got rid of my BMW and now use UBER on the rare occasion that I need a car. I am divorced with no kids, no girlfriends, no pets and don't even own a plant. The only thing that I own is a small condo and an electric scooter. I have excellent credit, but don't need any. I'm semi retired for life. This week I'm going back to Colombia which is the only place that I have dated in over 8 years. I'm probably not considered high value because from the outside looking in one might think I'm a scrub wearing a hoodie and black pants every day. No more fancy cars, clothes or jewelry.Why in the world would I want to go out and find a leech to help me spend everything. I can do whatever I want every single day and travel the world continuously. This is how I leveled up. lol
I respect that a lot. Happiness starts with you and you shouldnt base it on women. I think thats the mistake I made earlier in my twenties and a lot of men need to grow out of. Focus on being the best version of yourself.
@Online Activist Honestly I'm not totally opposed to doing that. If I do decide to become a father it will be in Colombia. As a matter of fact there are two Afro-Colombianas that I really like and could see myself being with. I'm going back in a week when this bad weather lifts to get things set up so that I can begin living there 6 months out of the year and here 6 months out of the year. I now have a lot to pass on and I really like the idea of passing on what I do have to a woman and child that would otherwise never get the chance for such opportunities. There are some wonderful women there and they are black too.
@Franca Wong To be fair there are men who do that but that is the minority of men who have plenty of options when it comes to women. On the flip side I believe half of women at the least reject good men all the time.
Females be like: Oh sorry, you not masculine enough. Oh sorry, you aint rich enough. Oh sorry, you not cultured enough (even though CHad and Tyrone have no culture but you have kids with them). Oh sorry, you renting and dont have your own house. ***crickets*** Where have all the good men gone? Men be like: Damn girl, you look good, let's go.
Ever notice that any time Kevin probes to find out if they have any empathy for a man, you see none? You're 100% correct. They only care what they want.
@@Nerotique Most >people< want what they can't have and don't have the stamina to keep. And for what it's worth, why should a woman put the "wants" of anyone above their own? Isn't that why we have dusties getting more play than actual men? Chick gaping their legs open for men they feel sorry for and have high hopes about? I mean your intellect could use a quick nap to re-calibrate Max....
I am a 68 year old Black man who has been retired for the last decade. My last job was as a Network Engineer where I earned a little 100K. EVERY Black woman I ever dated earned less than I did. Which is why I am wondering where the hell are all these Black women who are calling in claiming to be making more than the average salary of Black men? Either the ones making less aren't calling in, or a LOT of these Black female callers are LYING through their teeth about how much they earn to justify them thinking they deserve a husband making a six figure salary.
@@diegomagellan that’s because many of them are sleeping with the singles they should be helping. My ex pastor shot his shot at my girlfriend at the time, right in my presence. No shame.
My first year in college, my mom wasn't working. Somehow she convinced me that I need to work to pay the bills. So I got a night job in addition to class. I'd come home from work and she'd literally snatch that check out of my hand. One time I broke down and cried and she realized how she'd been disrespecting me. She went out and got a job later. And left to another state. My college years after that were much happier.
Let's be fair....a lot of women seem to have children in order to force a man to be with them.....That's what we do not talk about enough....they need to be held accountable for these bad decisions
Yes....I have a few white female friends who did that to black men in Poland. I have to admit tho...some of those men were also confused: saying I love you I want a baby with you, to her to then say "not now, not yet" when she was pregnant already. But you are right about women can have different tactics on trying to force a man into a relationship. That's nasty, and victims on the way
@Duece Lee Music some been stationed in Poland itself. But it is not only that...some were simply relationships formed on dating sites, some were simply visitors, each story different....Polish sisters got played pretty badly, today they are and we are smarter. It is very sad though. Bc we as a women nation were very trustfull, cooperative, feminine here, and today not anymore because of these situations and more.... You getting a mixed baby here and there and father unknown bc she believed him 😱😁
Hate him or love him, gotta give the man respect. He’s honest I mean he even said he ain’t here to save men or women. He’s here to make some money and hopefully help those in the process. All the respect to him for it
💎 “What happens when a guy is laying flat on his back... He is on his back and has no choice but to get up... Those men who come back completely reformed, are men that the world has respect for.” Gentlemen, understand your road to high value is not going to be easy. Don’t blame anyone else and don’t envy the next man. Stay focused, put your head down and put in the work! 💎
I told a woman last week her son is her husband, she too independent for her own good and that she is low key showing her son it's "ok" to be a single mother..Her silence was defening
@@TheRealRakim That since they been divorced for 6 years now, he should live with him for a year to get that 1on 1 bond, she said MY son Isn't going no where
Young women: I don't need a man. I'm strong and independent! Young men: I need women! Older mature women: I need a man! I'm ready to settle down! I had my fun! Older mature men: I have lived my life and got a lot of experience with women maybe the bachelor life isn't that bad!? I know a lot and seen too much! Need to stay focus on me!
Who wants to marry an old battle axe with a sour attitude and smart mouth? I like the math equation for a wife's age: a man's age divided by two, plus seven. It sounds ideal...
They understand. They understand perfectly. They’re just more concerned with being “better” than modern men that their egos won’t let them give a damn.
It’s starting to get clearer by the day, what they don’t even understand is we don’t even look at them like competition, never have never will 🤷🏾♂️ we’re not in the same league
@@BlackPRanger they get that too. Their pride just won’t let them admit it. That’s why when they’re defeated they start demanding protection as if they didn’t belittle our very existence before. It makes zero sense but that’s how they roll.
Caller: i make more money than the average man. Ok. 👌 Book a session. Your beautiful, modelesque, from Da Bronx, and your Man left you for a bustdown... Maaaaaaam! Book a session. Priceless. 💰$$$$$$💰
Kevin keep up the good work! Men have never really said what they wanted from us...we just told them what they wanted! So I appreciate your show...im keeping my mouth shut & ears open! Men keep voicing your wants from us!
This guy gets it, its been said a million times. Sex, sandwich, silence, loyalty, support. The problem is women shout you down when you say it. Women like to say that men dont listen, but it usually the oppsite in my experience.
Kevin's view that THERAPY is MAINTENANCE is much needed today. Too many people think that seeking/going through therapy is a sign of 'weakness'... much like crying. The truth? It's necessary maintenance in our TOXIC and STRESS-FILLED world. By taking the stigma out of much needed maintenance, Kevin helps people become better equipped... in addition to simply just becoming BETTER. Maybe if more people changed their attitude about therapy, there'd be less toxicity and negativity out there. Regardless, the right attitude about seeking help is necessary to SELF-OWNERSHIP and self-responsibility. Keep spreading the truth, Kevin.
Yessss and as a therapist myself I think most people come very late & there still are stigmas to seeking help. Couples come when it's past the point of return to save their marriage.
Thank you Kevin for teaching these women.. You conversation about the son-husband is 1 million percent accurate. There's no room or void in her life a man can fill when her default is to go to her son. This is another reason being a boyfriend or step-father to a single mother is too much work.
because its money for trinkets and they think they have time to be mindless. how some girls fail to secure a guy baffles me, ive seen young girls getting in german cars they could never afford, going to expensive restaurants regularly because of the guy they date but instead of trying to secure him they just act like a temporary girlfriend and change such guys until they are 30 and cant do that anymore. women are dating...but not with a long term purpose
@@crimsonite1524 underrated comment, even when they have everything they refuse to cash out, something is always missing, it’s never good enough! It’s like an NBA player who goes broke after making millions (NOBODY IS GONNA FEEL BAD FOR YOU)
It’s hilarious when Kevin gets on us about the likes. He thinks we just didn’t want to like the vid in reality we’re all so damn tuned in that we Forget too😂
@@jameskerry41 because someone sits and enjoys the content doesn’t mean they don’t have a life 😂 stop trying to make yourself feel important we all have lives 🥱
All of kevins callers summed up Age :23-40 Profession: Medicine or sales Children: 1 or more Previous chance to get or stay married: Yes Did they: No Why: Delusion
Ever since I found Kev’s channel I realized my value ... I have a whole total outlook on life .... I realize I have all the control and a woman can never tell me I’m not on there level ever again ....good content
His knowledge was so ridiculously powerful and true! Loved this man! I still listen to him daily to make sure I stay in frame as I’ve always done but love a reminder I’m not wrong for doing so. Henry gang all day over 6 figure earner for the passed 8 years happily
Something I’ve been saying for the last few years . We’re brought up in a society where men are taught to understand women. But women do not know men at all.
I sat and listened to his intro music and man it made me emotional. Really speaks to his character and authentic approach to his channel. RIP never met hit but he did more for me than I can ever truly thank him for.
This video is one of his best ones. Every woman should watch this one... She literally breaks down the understanding of all of Kevin's messages... a true testimonial and success story.
48:00 Real talk. Kevin always gave respect to us average guys. Rest in peace brother. You were a class act and a gentleman, and you had the balls to say openly what men have been thinking for decades.
Success is slow and incremental and it can take years and years of making those single plodding steps towards your goal but one day you probably don’t even notice as the progress becomes exponential. All of a sudden what used to be one step per day becomes two steps per day and then three and then five and it becomes explosive. While you were invisible during the grind years all of a sudden you pop up on the radar and you instantly have haters saying how you got lucky and it all happened at once because you were in the right place at the right time. The haters don’t have ANY idea how long a walk it was to that right place at the right time 😂
Hes really on point with what he’s saying. I know a couple and the woman is home all day he makes 95K and she complains all the time. Never cleans the house or cooks a meal for her family. She’s always angry and yelling at the kids. He works day in and day out. Pays all her bills and she’s always talking too much about how he ain’t this or that. Instead of being grateful! Unbelievable!
That man is forced to stay with her to, otherwise he loses custody of kids because women lie in court and get the kids. He will lose so much. Thats the bullshit marriage brings along.
My heart broke for the little boy. My parents divorced but my father came around still and took care of me so I have no issues with him. Kevin reminds me of him which is why I watch the show. He put it in perspective for that mom.
I agree, I would like to add that many don't care to want to understand us, many pretend they understand to try lock a man down and some only try when it's too late out of self interest and convenience due to limited options.
You articulate things in a way that a child can understand and yet some women will still never get any of this. Its a shame but keep doing your thing. As a black man I can really appreciate this. ✊🏾💯
@@michaelbrown8861 We need to talk about it more because one black lady talked about while the son was there with the mother and I’m starting to wonder if it was me or not but yea. What Kevin said was straight true 💯💯😔.
"He calls himself a career criminal, hahaha." That's not funny lady. Good Lord, you passed a self-expressed "career criminal's" genes into the next generation. Thanks for that.
Its a defense mechanism, brush it off with a cackle like it didnt happen and keep moving. Ill bet you shes probably going to keep being the same person she always was. You can tell the ones who actually internalize the message, they fall dead silent everytime, cause it hits them like a baseball bat in the mouth.
