Brothas, if any woman likes men such as the Future type, that woman in immature and not worth your time. Seek women that want decent men. The best way to end that cycle is to not play stepdaddy to Future's children.
To all the fellow men (young and mature), who are passed over for being nerdy, lame, corny, and boring... Be happy that you were passed over by these females who desire Pookies. Also, I may want to add this, continue to study, work, and not a single mother's option.
Yes, please brothas be happy...and to the females...just keep your mouths shut, accept the result of your preferences that you have...deal with it, be "Strong"
These are same women that wants to play victim whenever a Future leaves them. As soon as you hold them accountable, they will get offended. Telling you that you’re not perfect either and try to still play victim.
Exactly right 👍👍👍👍 And they want to get with a decent man, but when they were in their prime, they rejected them and now they want the decent man to play stepdaddy. Men like me are going to tell them to "Go back to your baby daddy!!!"
At my age now I see a lot of women who loved the Future types and got ran thru with multiple kids now they want a dude like me and I’m like no thanks I don’t even want a good time with them that’s how they trap you
Smart brother even if you one night them, they’ll try to perform to the point you’ll want to make it long term. Just walk away knowing they now want you, but it’s time to return the favor it’s not being salty it’s called GROWTH 🔥
These women expect a good man to take on them with finished families with kids from another man but refuse to build with that man when she is single and in her prime. Then get mad when a woman from another race builds with that man and he end up happy. It’s sad how much our people have fallen.
Well I don't understand why you men cannot come together and discuss this, your the leaders and in charge.... Teach the younger men, stop allowing these Futures room into our community 🤦🏾♀️ but your not gonna do that, well just blame black women... It's time to stop blaming and come together and actually do something about this problem
@@nenep1872 the blame is on black women because you guys find these dudes attractive, men imitate successful mating habits. Are the younger dudes going to listen to the guys who are seen as “lame” by the community on what they need to do? Or are they going to listen to the flashy guy who has all the women wanting to be with him? The “russells” who are seen as lame are incapable of making the “future” be seen as lame only the women can do that by paying those dudes no mind which causes the younger boys not to want to imitate him.
The conversation is over brothers there's BW all over the world. From healthy culture's women who are more mature raised to be in LTR. Brothers you don't have to waste your time on ABW. There's BW in Dominican Republic, Colombia, Brazil, and the whole of Africa. You are free brothers get your passport brothers SYSBM PASSPORT LIFE ✈️🇩🇴🇨🇴🇹🇭🇵🇭🇧🇷🇻🇪🇿🇦🇹🇿
I got a daughter and I'm raising her by myself, her mother passed away, if my daughter dates a future and not a Russell that means I failed as a father.
If she do date a Future you did your best. You can talk to her and raise her the best you can but it's her choice when she becomes an adult. Don't tear yourself down bro. I wish you both the best.
That be the reason why some men turn to toxic dudes because when they were trying to be a good brother the wrong women dumped on them in favor of futures so them dudes thought that if they acted like future they get the girls so yep there it is
@@sierramilan4322 I agree with this. No excuses. Men are not the option when a woman dunks on you. It’s the same rationale as women saying they hate men because of a few bad choices. Don’t use excuses people. It’s 2023. It’s easier than ever before to come out the closet
This is why when these BW talking about saving the community by playing stepdaddy,I laugh and walk away. LET THESE WOMEN SUFFER ON THEIR OWN. THEY CHOSEN THEIR PATH IN LIFE. DON'T BE THE CLEAN UP MAN!
The one good thing about social media today is that you let the women say it themselves with how they really feel about men. We’re not just making it up and we’re not forcing them to say any of it. They’re admitting it on their own. Loud and proudly too.
Yup which is why most men check out and all you got on the market is futures but sadly futures don’t really have a future The men who check out and build their wealth do have the future 😅😂
I've been engaging the African sisters, they don't have the low boiling contempt, black American women seem to have for us. We even talk about the issues that have divided us in the past.
The black American women is finished. She’s destroyed and useless. There’s a few good ones but they usually like zaddy so no point black men deserve to date other women and start families we owe it to our genes
I see folks blaming social media. That's like blaming guns for shooting people. It's a form of software and app and people are using it recklessly. Accountability is the key here. It's not social media doing this its women making bad choices.
Now they mad talking about: "how dare you not want to step up for my kids" nothing puts a smile on my face more then seeing a woman on facebook that i went to high school with thats now 40 with kids complaining about not being able to find a good man.
At least these women are being honest. They used to lie and blame men like they were choosing Russells the whole time and they were just dogging the women out like the Futures. Turns out they were picking the Futures the whole time and lying about it to avoid accountability for the fact they been choosing these dudes the whole time cause they're "exciting"
Great job Philip. My philosophy when I was young…”if she has a child, that’s not my style.” I wouldn’t even date them, not one date. The situation is off putting from the beginning when they say…”let me see if I can find a babysitter.” You should instantly realize that young lady has responsibilities and has made mistakes you don’t want to deal with. Here’s the kicker…the babysitter is NEVER the baby daddy. He’s gone! She was sleeping with losers. Don’t date her.
Thank you, for this presentation, Phil. For me, this is a classic example of "fatherless" daughters who have no idea what being a civil, a gracious or what a feminine woman is. Social media, has done a job on our community, when one can't or refuses to, accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative. The "what you see, is what you get" theory, does bear fruit, in a visual society. The optics are throwing lots of us under the bus, as being acceptable behaviors. From where I've traveled, we, black ppl, are the ultimate, the best, when, whatever we touch, turns to gold. We're surrounded by "hall of fame" members i.e. the Tuskegee Airmen, Dr. MLK, Malcolm, etc. "When you're the best, be the best!!!" B1 Always!
Michael b jordan seems like a much better example of a real good decent man then russell wilson because seeing what russell is putting up with and accepting, he not a decent man either.
He forgot to mention that when women get in their mid thirties, many women say they have found the Lord and begin to humble themselves. That is when women say they have learned better is the lie they tell. Many start to notice a decline in looks and attention from men and decide to beat the clock before time runs out.
Thanks for putting this out. Nothing against street dudes because I grew up around them but the women they deal with or done dealt with I run away from.
Do not cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you in pieces. For As a dog returns to its vomit, so fools repeat their folly..
I preach to my 28 year old all the time about dealing with them Future like men. I tell her to get a Russell like man but she don't listen🤷🏿♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Trust me Uncle Phil, I've dealt with some Pookie and Ray Rays back in high school which wasn't that long ago. Girls in high school wanted them so bad even though it's not good for them. Then they talk crap when their heart is broken. What I find interesting Uncle Phil is that some of those same females have one or two kids already and most likely don't know who the father is or have baby mamma/baby daddy drama. They didn't want me anyway which now I look back and say I dodged a bullet because technically they did me a favor in a way.
I think we as men should stop complaining about these w/omen. W/omen that dont want the good quality men. Leave them be. Dont talk to them, dont speak or pursue them. Just let them be and pursue the women that show you true genuine interest and respect. Regardless if its here or overseas.
Times like this men AND women need to hold themselves accountable for their decisions ion what kind of partner they want and avoid headaches in the future.
Most definitely!!!! I describe myself as a decent guy. Single with no kids and don't have multiple baby mamas. So sorry for these kinds of females that want a "Future" type dude and when he's gone, you want the decent man.
There’s some truth to that. But the fact is women of all races tend to go for that type naturally and it makes me laugh that dudes sit on YT trying to figure it out
I've been aware of women who think this way for decades. Word to those brothers who have experienced this: keep it moving, don't look back on these folks, especially if you have experienced this. They are not worth the trouble. Uncle Phil distributing knowledge worth paying attention!
Well the truth is even if the women wanted good men let’s be real good men have a taste and most women don’t qualify so the good men leave regardless due to the corruption of materialism
They are ignorant, that’s the problem. Ciara was young and made a bad choice. She learned, didn’t continue to have babies by trifling Future. I love Ciara’s husband, he loves and cherishes her and their 3 children🙌🤗
Just received my passport few days ago,Uncle Phil. I’m officially a passport king! Can’t wait to travel overseas and meet a nice black woman out there ‘cause I’m not dealing with none of these evil 304’s in my town.
A lot of our women are intimidated by men who set expectations. A guy like future is not demanding. Then women compete with each other and since a guy like Future is what's hot, women want to get what's hot to stroke their ego. They're using the Future types as a flex.
Me personally i could careless if bw's want a future archetype but bw's don't get mad if those pookie and Ray Ray types leave having multiple children and the Russell Wilsons go with either a Becky or go overseas
Went to eat breakfast with my sons. And 2 beautiful sistas was talking how drunk they were the night before. And how they was throwing gang signs 🤦🏾♂️. Is this why I tell my sons ✈✈✈
I don't see the appeal either. I have always loved the guys who women consider nerdy. I also find a man who wears glasses and is intelligent very sexy. My husband is the type that many of these women would look over because he does not have that swag like the pookie and rays rays out here.
This topic is exhausting! That's jus how the community is..nothing will change..jus have self awareness realize who you are and act accordingly..crying about how unfair things are is not helpful or fruitful...always remember one man's trash is another man's treasure
Story of my life! I was told that I act too white. I was told that I didn't "act black". I am working to leave as soon as possible. Waiting for a passport and my DNA results. Kenneth Phoenix
Lesson Learned. Guys like Future aren't fit to be a husband. Guys like Russell, aren't enough for women to be attracted to. But, I bet the man in the middle is the best one. I'd say, become MGTOW SIGMA guys. 😂😂😂🔥🔥💯
Uncle Phil I wish you would address the fact that men, fella’s, brothers don’t approach the good ones, the wallflowers so to speak. The ones who aren’t showing their body parts or twerking. Always in the Cardi B’s and Meg the Stallion wannabe DM’s. Always the women they know won’t give them the time of day. They know this and then get upset when she rejects them. There are good women out there who will give a brother a chance but those aren’t the ones they want.
🧢 men approach all types of women, especially if they are attractive. Are theses "wall flowers" attractive? Or standing around looking like woolly mammoths?
@@stephenboone371 beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If men approach all types of women why does being attractive matter. You just proved my point. You only approach the IG models.
@stephen boone that and every time we do approach them in person we being accused as creeps and stalkers. No thanks That and when you look at the statistics it is proven that the women in the community choose to share the same baby daddies. In other words it ain't no stereotype... it a freaking fact.
This is true! There are plenty of ladies with minimal to no bodies, natural, feminine & very friendly! But these women are picked over for the stereotypical IG type! Yes, unfortunately, there are tons of women choosing the Future types, but there are also tons of men choosing the wrong type of women as well!! I think both men & women need to choose better!
@@bornlikethis7536 smh...you can still be beautiful, cute and or attractive without being an "IG Model." Attraction matters because it literally is woven into our DNA since the dawn of time. Some men like the aesthetically pleasing look, other men go for the Girl Next Door, and other men like the 0-3 range type of women. Beauty counts but it's not exclusive and men choose up and down the scale on a regular basis.
If we are serious about fixing this not only do men and women have to be held accountable let us not forget that the culture (part of the superstructure) as well as the economics (base) that are at play here have to be at the very least challenged.
@@brokemillionaire3752 People in general need to get out of this habit of individualizing problems in general and it speaks to how lazy and completely useless some people truly are….
@@stephenboone371 Again some of you choose to individualize problems instead of trying to solve them. I swear some of you are absolutely useless and show yourselves to be nothing more than a burden….
At the end of the day Eric, the captain save a trick is in violation of the Lord and this is why so listen close: IT IS THE JOB OF THE REAL JESUS CHRIST TO SAVE THE LADIES NOT US. So once we(men of the greater good) understand and comprehend that, we will be better off at the end
My thing is why would you want those women that want somebody like future? That should be good for you she could go find a future. You Dodge the bullet. Unless you want some of those no good women
It’s the so called young hot ones running around choosing the futures and the older women are so called used up and passed their prime. Is the option for all men in western culture to get a passport and date foreign women? There are no good women to choose from nowadays? Considering that men so call outnumber women, there is not one good one these so called great men can choose from? I am really rooting for y’all and hope you figure it out!
I could go into a long diatribe about the irresponsible choices that too many women make but at this point it is a waste of energy because this argument has become very old so all I am going to say is that everything that the brother has said in this video is completely accurate so to all men just leave Western Society and go elsewhere to find wives and happiness ✈️😎
My mama WAS the EXACT same way like all these little girls are I came out of a bad deal like all the rest because my mama choose to hook up with a " Future " type of dude who had a connon and could make here feel some type of way [ Just Like comedian Leslie Jones had once said in her stand up debut [ called Problem Child ] But ended up disrespecting her wishes and left her ALL mad and screwed and up just like a girl in a book called Girl Interrupted.. I came out being a EL.. glasses and EVERYTHING and ALL more like a " Steve Urcle and Carlton " ( and no NOT AN Republican ) then a Russell Wilson.. I used to think I was the odd ball way out Until I found and got onto the Internet Now all I can do is just shake my head at what I see AND what I know.. SMH BMSYS FOREVER 2:56 Ever since I've been watching your show many of your platforms always been saying that 1 line Don't Cape for any baby mama's You've been saying that for the longest 😔✊🏿 > Now children Now what do you say when you meet a nice man ?? ARE YOU MY DADDY < ??? 😅😂😅 [ Nobody seems to remember that ]
