Y’all expect too damn much from men. My husband is up at 3:30 am and out the door by 4:05 am. He drives 1.5 hours to work one way. He transports airplane parts all day and still comes home looking for something to do. He’s also a 21 year retired veteran and so easy to love. We live a blissfully boring life and I love it!
Tell em lady. I really hope that we keep leaving in droves. These women deserve the pookies, black eyes, single motherhood, and poverty that they love so much.
A good man can make a woman feel bad because she is not a good woman A bad boy makes her feel better about herself because he takes away the pressure off of her being a good woman.
I know a lot of Black Women who had a Good Man and years later. They filed for a divorced because they said that they are boring. The sad part is that they went and got a drug dealer, drug addicts and Men who didn't have a job and beat them.
They don’t like or want a good man. They like chaos and drama in their lives so they can argue, fight, smash up your PS5, slash up tires, bust out car windows and this is why I don’t deal with most of them.
They love that emotional roller coaster, they don't like good dudes who are predictable to them. They want something to complain about, they want the guys that run these streets messing with multiple women just to give them something to feel and complain about. And they wonder why passport bros exist
I remember a videos years back of a woman on Reddit wanting to leave her man. A good man. The reason she wanted to leave? Because he didn't want to cheat on her. She was mad he doesn't cheat on her. Women crave drama.
This happened in a Simpsons episode once. Marge was so worried about Bart and Lisa being traumatized for an unknown reason, that she and Homer weren't able to have any intimate time together. It got so bad that Homer was sexually frustrated; but this only improved him. He was more productive at work, and more responsible and active at home. But Marge wasn't happy about it. Homer was finally being the husband she wanted for so long, but didn't know how to receive it. It was ridiculous that she convinced Homer to go back to his old ways.
You can't be too nice to some women, you can't smother them either, don't call them everyday. You can't show them that you really care about them. Let her do what she wants to do and hang with her friends Don't run when she call all the time. Some women like drama
They dont know what they want with their "go, we dont want y'all, you too nice, lame, akward, Why am I talking to you if you aint got any B's" then once he date other women and ✈✈ its "y'all got self hate and want all those other women, they just want to use y'all....come back and we will be submissive, cooperative" as we are seeing with some of these PPB reactions...The wall is great, the Passport is great!
The title says it all and it’s been going on for a long time just for the simple fact that a lot of american women find nice men non-assertive, non-attractive, and boring. I say if you’re a nice guy and you want to be treated right and appreciated, find an international woman because a lot of international women appreciate and love nice men.
@@nurseforlife5207 she don't like social media- she don't liKe public display- and modern trends don't interest her. But she can still have a lil lipstick on and keep her modesty, yet still have her natural earthy appeal just for you only- beauty is in the eye of the beholder...It's what you finally decide what's ok and live with it- it doesn't mean just settle...for just anything, or anybody- what's your style ?
@@eeyeam Well, I would say I wear lipstick possibly twice in a year, if that but I do like lip gloss...Which I would say is my makeup... Lip gloss and maybe some eyeliner lol I have worn a lashes but not longer than 2 days I usually take them off🤦🏾♀️ I dress comfortably but neat... I do get my natural nails painted...idk... I think I have and unique style I don't follow trends🙃
Who even wants to go to a club in Amerikkka in 2023 right now? This ain't the 90s or early 2000s where people ain't on their phones and everyone live as hell. The women don't even the look the same where they're pretty with their hair done up looking like Jade or Brownstone. The music is garbage. It's not an adrenaline rush of music. God bless to those that still find it exciting.
She’s absolutely rite,,,bcuz it happened to me,,,treated a female lika queen,,,,just for her to find things to argue about,,,ummmm I’m glad i got off that roller coaster ride!!!
They want you to come and go, create drama. So they can justify their feelings/actions, they want to do or are doing. They’re so mind boggled by you being yourself. It makes them mad that you are a good man. And they will HATE you for it. They won’t even understand why. It will start with them saying the worst things to you they can think of to hurt you and that’s when it’s time to go.
Men if u are winning with your significant other,she's a rare gem. Because most of the time u can't win for losing with these woman of today. He's not 6'0" tall 😒 He doesn't make 6 figures 😒 He's not exciting enough 😒 He's to nice,wtfk 😒 So yeah they generally fall for the assholes.
Funny how so many women don't comprehend that how "good" they are in a relationship is determined by priorities, decisions, and values. Not the belief they are a good person just because...
The moment they find out you entertaining other women thats when they start acting right. But if u gotta bring bad karma on yourself for them to act right, it's not really worth it.
The crazy thing is he can be a bad dude & she can plead with him act right & he might do but you best believe she gone want him to go back to being bad 😂.
I’m convinced that women don’t want a good man, but they want a man that is the perfect mix of toxic and good. Like they say, there’s levels to this 😂🤦🏿♂️
I am convinced that women, in general, don't know what they want. You get the good "High Value" man, you are dissatisfied. However, when you getting involved with the "Hit it and quit it" type, you want to complain. This is the reason, why men are getting their passports and leaving to find happiness and peace!!!
Most over sexual women want a man who can blow their back out 4 to 6 times a week, roleplay, know how to fight, pay the bills, be a comedian, a drama actor, a chef, give them massage's and be very popular and social for every year you with them.
LOL what's good Mr Scott! I'm laughing because the look of utter disgust you had when girl said "He's boring" was hilarious! It's so true & I'm SO tired of it.
I tried to drink in bars and clubs but ended up not truly liking it. My home life made me want to do that because I have no real connections at home. My mom goes out a lot with her adult friends a lot, even traveled while leaving her children home, then after I moved, nothing changed.
Sadly enough, this situation that we find ourselves in, has gone on for so long, until it has created a culture of acceptance in bad behavior. No different than not addressing certain elements, for instance, regarding Police Brutality. If a particular type of behavior is left unchecked, it will not self-correct like the Stock market, it will get worse. Especially, since if it is man/woman made.There are toxic relationships, that actually work, until they don't.. Women and men, whom may share these defects in personality, belong with people of their likeness. In other words, opposites in this regard, are very unattractive. Again, I am saddened that both men and women of intrinsic value, are experiencing being lumped, into the same arena, as the "do wrongs" and are being overshadowed, because of others bad behavior, or at worse, not even having been given the opportunity to be seen, for consideration and or possibility. They in fact , will become the "sacrificial lambs".. A word of advice, for the deserving,"Don't waste time, energy or resources..Good luck"🤞🏿
Wow, bored by a man that wants to do the right thing. I’m glad I have my Queen, I feel sorry for any men that’s out there dating right now that have to deal with this.
I had a couple of relationships during my life And my reaction was "Oh, you want to act like a single woman, I can help you with that 😳 What I found was All those accusations hurled at me was really projection. 🤔
Phillip needs a POOKIE perspective, When a woman have a good man then dump him ,She was saying I miss the drama.. I miss the smell of the hood ,Some women literally practiced being a good girl ,hoping one day you would change, She want you to become the POOKIE of her past and The man of her DREAMS.. i.e. Russell WILSON case study... NO CAPS ..
School football practice homework. Been dumped for this sense high-school. Now that I'm 30 and on my way girls from back then want to hit me up. Nah. Like how yall women been saying. If you didn't want me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best.
All this particular interview proved is that most "Black Women" are addicted to "Drama" and don't understand the process of what it takes in taking care of a "Family"! Also, most "Black Women" don't understand how to live life without "Drama" because, when everything is in order and there's nothing to "Grovel" over this is when most "Black Women" become complacent.
Wherever they go they destroy it they went to Jamaica and brought that attitude with them and when they left the Jamaican women became just like them now 75% of Jamaican women don't know who the father is.
Some people just want to be unhappy. The roller-coaster ride of falling in love and falling out of love. Thrill seekers will never be happy with a constant life.
Thats why i dont even waste my time getting into relationships because most of these females nowadays are so damn difficult to deal with. I'll stick around long enough to get them draws & then im ghosting.
Many have been conditioned for drama and trauma. They have lived in it since childhood. It's what they know. The 'good man' and good life is actually scary to them; however, they express their fear by saying he's boring, thus creating an excuse to go back to the familiar. The old life may not be good for them, but it is familiar. They can navigate the space easily and they know where they fit within the whole chaotic drama. They need help dealing with their fear and insecurities.
Understand what this woman is saying, for me this idea of boring is a bridge in our society to cross to promote doing right is good and doing wrong is dysfunctional. Until our communities accept doing good as being bout it, this being good is boring will repeat
It is sad; But women need to feel off balanced... The love the uncertainty of: Is he going out, is he coming home, how much is in his account, is he talking with another woman and etc... Men you don't have to be doing anything... But that uncertainty of not feeling in control make them think you are a Bad Boy; and they want to be with a Bad Boy -- Someone with a Edge... It is so childish, but for most women the normalcy of day to day dependable life is Boring to them... CRAZY!!!
Most women would rather be in the streets, only when it's pertaining to them traveling around the world with the men they are with. This is why most are highly upset at the Passport Bros.; because they feel as though they should be the ones traveling alongside him in various lands and regions. I understand that there's more other reasons why; but this is one of the main reasons as to many. When it comes to men of upper mobility; they hate it with a passion, when they see and hear us traveling, not just at one destination, but when we're traveling to various destinations in a given year; sometimes not even coming back to amerikkka no time soon. Many of these females for the most part; even being in the streets, is becoming mentally draining. I've grown out of it myself.
The only time they want a good man is when they got ran through, had three children, and hit the wall 🧱. That's why they put good men in the "friendzone" until they get ready after "hot girls summer" is over.
