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Modest and Elegant | Headscarf & Underscarf Tutorial for My Everyday Style 

Jayelle Alafi
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Hi! In this video, I am showing you how I tie my headscarf in my everyday, signature style!
Jewish Orthodox women cover their hair upon marriage, and there is many different ways this is done, some women primarily wear wigs, others (like myself) use scarves, and still others use hats, beanies, pre-tied scarves, or some combination, etc.
When I got married after my conversion to Judaism, I felt a little lost when it came to head covering. I didn't know the best way to go about this, I didn't know what my options were or how to achieve any specific look.
This video will hopefully help you if you are feeling the same, it represents my years of trying different things/experimentation, and finally finding a look and scarf style that I really love.
If you have any questions or feedback, please feel free to post in the comments under the video. :)
Hope you enjoy!
LINKS
Volumizing Underscarf (Boubou);
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-Tichel Volumizer Boubou Bun, Non Slip, Adjustable Hair Accessory for Under Headscarf
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-Tichel Volumizer Boubou Mouss Shaper, Mid-Height Non Slip, Adjustable, for Under Headscarf
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-www.etsy.com/c...
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Scarves/Tichels
-Pale Lavender scarf I’m wearing
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-Fenteer Camel Scarf;
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-Fenteer Light khaki;
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-Fenteer Dusty pink;
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-Voile chic Dusty Rose;
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-Voile chic Pink taupe/beige;
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-Neutral-colored, lightweight, crinkly texture woven scarves
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Pinks and Florals I love;
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Best Etsy Shops for Headcoverings/Scarves/Accessories
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-SaraAttaliDesign on Etsy;
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@geewheeler04
@geewheeler04 19 дней назад
I love that you cover your hair for real instead of wearing a wig. If you are the only one who know it isn't your real hair then are you really doing the mitzvah.
@CherryDreamer96
@CherryDreamer96 11 месяцев назад
In the Eastern Orthodox church its a popular tradition for women to cover there head in church, and some (like myself) do it in daily life too. The ideas behind it are a little different but I love this style! Ill give it a try sometime. Modest and chic ❤
@user-xo5tk7id8q
@user-xo5tk7id8q 5 месяцев назад
GOD BLESS married woman who practices head covering
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 4 месяца назад
And you as well.
@heatherwiner2883
@heatherwiner2883 Год назад
Very classy! Tamara was the perfect model for sure!
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Thank you Heather, I'll pass on the compliment to her! 😊💗
@Annap137
@Annap137 Год назад
It was so nice of your daughter to be the model ❤
@josephkavanagh5221
@josephkavanagh5221 Год назад
Thank you for a beautiful video! You live a strict way of life. Most people do not have your discipline. Baruch HaShem!
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
😊. I'm still working on it.
@aspenenglish4976
@aspenenglish4976 Год назад
Thank you sweet Tamara! You made a wonderful hair model for the video. 😊😊😊
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Thank you! 😊
@danceillusions13
@danceillusions13 Год назад
Love it! You're the only other jew I know besides myself who wears chiffon scarves like Muslims 😬 Not sure why more Jews haven't discovered this elegance lol
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Thank you! I do love chiffon, and I find the modest style of Muslim women beautiful and inspirational. It's also very comfortable and not bulky! 🤗💗
@wandah9468
@wandah9468 9 месяцев назад
I wear a simple israeli tieback scarf the back left out instead of tucked in. I prefer the neutral shades that are often found on the hijab websites. The neutrals work well in North America, you blend in the crowd better and they look great with your everyday clothes. Unless it's a wedding, you won't see the bright colored hijabs. The idea behind islamic color sensibility is to not attract attention. The neutrals get the job done, and chiffon is the most breathable.
@MrsPaulaTorres
@MrsPaulaTorres 2 месяца назад
It’s the original Christian and Jewish women’s headscarf style. Islam is 600 years younger than Christianity. Muslims look like us now they dress,,not otherwise.
@fatifeodoskating
@fatifeodoskating 2 месяца назад
I do use chiffon scarves too. They are smooth on the hair, reducing hair-breaking.
@moanakusawati9039
@moanakusawati9039 Месяц назад
Lol I was about to write about how ugly those scarfs Look for real. Totally ugly
@azubliss
@azubliss Год назад
That was fast and quick! Thanks for the video, it was very informative. And thanks Tamara for helping mom!
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
You are so welcome! 😊
@nataliesirota2611
@nataliesirota2611 Год назад
Thanks for sharing and toda Tamara!
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Our pleasure! 🥰
@batyaseguin3810
@batyaseguin3810 Год назад
Great mitzvah Tamara helping your Ima !!
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Haha, thank you, she will be pleased to hear this! 😊
@Paradox-om6lm
@Paradox-om6lm 2 месяца назад
You have a beautiful family. Wishing all of you health and happiness.
@ReneeSelah
@ReneeSelah Год назад
Thank you for clarifying the reason for not wearing a wig. That was informative. I love your collection of head coverings.
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
You are so welcome! Glad you enjoyed it! 😊
@channahcompartiendotorah3276
Love your video! Wow....I didn't know people would ask such a thing! Even if you only wear one, you look stunning and being Jew we know we keep our tichel clean! Shalom ♡♡♡
@ronangoforth3081
@ronangoforth3081 Год назад
What a great video! I have been struggling to find a headcovering style that I like since I got married about 6 weeks ago. I will try this one out tomorrow! And I agree that pale pink and purple are neutrals 💖
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Wow, mazal tov on your wedding! I'm glad you like the style, and hope it works out for you! 🤗🌸
@ronangoforth3081
@ronangoforth3081 Год назад
@@jayellealafi5797 Thank you 😊 💖 so far it's very promising! I've been wearing my scarf for about 5 hours in your style and it is so much more comfortable.
@Crystal11Skulls
@Crystal11Skulls Год назад
Looks very lovely on you! I have to agree, the headscarf you made yourself looks wonderful. I especially like the lace. Thank you for this informative video, and thank you Tamara for being a hair model!
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Thank you so much, Crystal, you're very welcome! We had fun doing it together. 😄💗
@peachgumdrop8067
@peachgumdrop8067 Год назад
I love your colour aesthetic! It's georgeous!
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Thank you so much! 😊
@Shannon.Hazleton
@Shannon.Hazleton Год назад
I’m so impressed with that pre-tied you sewed yourself! All your scarves are beautiful. I am still finding my style. 😐
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Thank you, Shannon! 😊 Finding our style is something that takes time, it took me a long time, and is still evolving.💗 I'm not the best seamstress, but let me know if I should do a tutorial on how I did it, if that's something that would be helpful to you. 🤗
@danielabraham2772
@danielabraham2772 Год назад
Blessed family 👏👏👏👏
@megharshams7849
@megharshams7849 5 месяцев назад
You are a jewel dear you really are...❤ god bless.
@toothsoap
@toothsoap Год назад
Nothing more lovely than being tznua.🙂
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
I agree. 🥰
@Valerie-rv2ws
@Valerie-rv2ws Год назад
dear jayelle, waiting for more of your videos. B"H you have so much to share. love valerie
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Hi Valerie, more to come soon, bezH! I do have so much I want share, more ideas than time, unfortunately. 😂 Thanks for your support! 💗
@Miriam5718
@Miriam5718 Год назад
Your face coloring is very delicate so these lighter pinks, mauve colors are flattering. I do have a slinky pretied that I use to bicycle or at beach since if it gets wet , it dries quickly. I do wear a fall often because if we are out, it is cooler and if it rains,..nothing is really disturbed since it is a straight fall. My daughter 32, married a sephardi from Paris and I understand the scarf vs sheitel (wig) issue. I also am strongly aware of the kabbalistic benefits & reasons for hair covering...which a lot of Torah women are not aware of ...
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Thank you for the compliment! I do love those colours. 😊 You're correct, a wig is not generally permitted according to the Halacha, which is a pretty major misconception that many people have. For anyone else who see this comment and wonders about the Scarf vs. Wig issue, here's a great playlist to check out. ru-vid.com/group/PLfeqUDL5aojb62wRko79TIJLC7U4NAOEY
@rsilberman3
@rsilberman3 Год назад
It’s beautiful! Thank you for sharing tips and family ❤
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
You are very welcome, Raquel! 😊
@teawithcara
@teawithcara 9 месяцев назад
Boker Tov! My hair is so pathetic, nothing stays in or on it. So i keep it very short. For my scarf it is 70-80inch long, i use it and wear it all the time. I tie it with one side being slightly longer. The longer side curles up and is popped underneath the scarf to form a bun. Yank it! Then the other end wraps around the bun on the outside of the scarf to keep it secured. Lasts and stays all day! I have also made under scarves from medical scrubs hats. Just made out of jersey and tighter to the head.
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 9 месяцев назад
Thanks for sharing!😃
@tudormiller887
@tudormiller887 Год назад
Such a lovely video Jayelle.
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Thank you so much! 💗
@jaken7052
@jaken7052 Год назад
Thank you so much for sharing!
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
You are so welcome! 😊
@MrSprout3697
@MrSprout3697 7 месяцев назад
My veil is way shorter than yours, basically bandana length, BUT I MADE IT WORK! Somehow, even without the flaps, it looks so cute!! Thank you for this tutorial. I'm getting a way longer veil soon (I don't know when it will arrive but we're ordering it today), and I'll try it with that!! 🥰🥰🥰
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 7 месяцев назад
Hope it works for you!
@susananderson104
@susananderson104 Год назад
Beautiful
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Thank you! Cheers! 😊
@gloriaunderhill9401
@gloriaunderhill9401 Год назад
Hi. This is the first time I have seen your channel. Might you have an episode that addresses your conversion? thank you from Wyoming.
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Hi and welcome! 😊 Conversion Story; ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-yydVW-o7t84.html Conversion Q and A; ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-n-vjsyLLMq0.html
@wandah9468
@wandah9468 6 месяцев назад
Im a chemo patient. Talk about a bad hair day!!! Well, at my age, 67, its been going downhill for a few years. So, thanks to videos like yours, and over on the arab side, hijab techniques, ive been under a scarf for 3 years now. You have the same soft neutral colors that work with my street clothes! Thanks!😊❤
@wingedsword1449
@wingedsword1449 Год назад
I keep sabbath with my family,i too wear a headscarf while i read scriptures to them.😊
@JewishKeto
@JewishKeto 4 месяца назад
My future wife is very excited to use scarves and Tichels to cover her hair the day after our chuppah.
@AntarcticaMade
@AntarcticaMade 9 месяцев назад
I want a reasonable explanation why head coverings are important.
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 9 месяцев назад
Here is a playlist from Rabbi Yaron Reuven on the topic of modesty and head covering. ru-vid.com/group/PLfeqUDL5aojb62wRko79TIJLC7U4NAOEY&si=_k70oc8t1uVTgOnN
@ViguLiviu
@ViguLiviu Год назад
The only reason I like the askhenazi version more is that you can see the ears, but it looks great for you. Btw. how is the spehardic tradition for widows? In some parts of the middle east I heard that they still would wear a scarf, but it should be black as to show morning for the loss.
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Hi Liviu, I'm not sure about the halacha or custom for widows.
@sarahdinahcantu9235
@sarahdinahcantu9235 Год назад
I am struggling with covering my hair. As a schoolteacher, I hate having to fuss with my apparel during the day, and I’m frequenting having to fuss with my tichel. Also, I’m quite intolerant of heat, and living in Texas, it’s super uncomfortable having anything on my head in the summer. I’ve tried using bands to hold the scarf in place but they give me a headache. Really hoping you have some suggestions, because at this point, I’ve stopped covering my hair because of the above difficulties.
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Hi Sarah, thanks for your comment. I feel you, it is a struggle sometimes to find a style that works. Have you tried any pre-tied tichels? Those are typically very lightweight and comfortable. Mine are from Israel (other than the one I sewed) but Sarah Attali Designs does some really nice ones that are available online. Also for me, I like to go for very lightweight and thin material, chiffon or airy viscose weave. I find that a good underscarf is really helpful to keep the scarf in place, so it might be something you could try instead. You might find it more comfortable and less tight than bands. 💗
@maurinedriscoll5194
@maurinedriscoll5194 Год назад
If a Jewish woman is divorced should she wear a head covering?
@Miriam5718
@Miriam5718 Год назад
Ask an orthodox rabbi...but with that being said. If it is going to deter finding another partner, then one can uncover. But most divorced/widowed women cover their hair..(they often have children so continuity and the brachot that come with covering our respective hair are still in effect)...if a divorced or widowed woman is looking for a partner, a shadcham or people in the community will know she is seeking a new partner so there usually is no need to uncover. There are very strong kabbalistic reasons to cover woman's hair.
@maryboard6769
@maryboard6769 Год назад
Dear I don't see the links below.
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Hi Mary, if you click on "Show more" in the greyish box area below the video, it will drop down the full description box for you. 🤗
@MarsellaFyngold
@MarsellaFyngold Год назад
What material do you recommend for head scarves in summer when its very hot?
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
I like chiffon, it's very lightweight. There's also good options for thin cotton or viscose pretied's. I'd avoid heavier pashmina or jersey. 😊
@jodyariewitz7349
@jodyariewitz7349 10 месяцев назад
@Pastorstellajoy.
@Pastorstellajoy. 8 месяцев назад
Hellow.im kenyan n i need to change n start a journey of modesty..im struggling to get clothe matching headcoverings
@lvl0rg4n
@lvl0rg4n 9 месяцев назад
Where is the Pretie from that is taupe with layers of lace on it? (It’s the far on right one at 2:35 in your video)
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 9 месяцев назад
That one I sewed myself. 😊
@gundog4273
@gundog4273 Год назад
I really like the color of the pre tied scarves you showed, I was wondering where you got them?
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
The solid pre-tieds I purchased at a boutique in Israel a few years ago. The patterned one I sewed myself. 😊
@gundog4273
@gundog4273 Год назад
@@jayellealafi5797 Thank you for answering! If the Lord ever allows the opportunity to go I know I will be looking for some! 😅 You did a very fine job on your homemade covering! Did you happen to make a video on how you did it? I'm not a skilled seamstress at all but a head covering would be a fine way to practice ☺️
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
I haven't done a video on that yet, but it's a great idea to add to my list! 🤗
@danielabraham2772
@danielabraham2772 Год назад
I am an Indian Christian. I have a small doubt. Did kayun kill habel according to Hebrew Bible?
@aspenenglish4976
@aspenenglish4976 Год назад
Yes. According to Genesis which is in the Torah as well as Genesis in the Christian Bible, Cain did kill Abel. Both religious traditions use the first five books of the Bible.
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Yes, that's correct.
@danielabraham2772
@danielabraham2772 Год назад
Thankyou for information madam
@aspenenglish4976
@aspenenglish4976 Год назад
@@danielabraham2772 you’re very welcome 😊
@danielabraham2772
@danielabraham2772 Год назад
Iam indan. Small doubt madam jews God Yahweh and islam God Allah there is one, are not
@antidome
@antidome Год назад
Do you ever wigs or just tichels?
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
I talk about that in the video, I don't wear wigs as a head covering, only rarely as a costume. 😊
@antidome
@antidome Год назад
@@jayellealafi5797 sorry, i missed that part
@user-dp8sk2sg5k
@user-dp8sk2sg5k Год назад
Love from israel🇮🇱💙
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Thank you! 😍
@normahall7176
@normahall7176 11 месяцев назад
i get headaches and my head gets HOT do u have any of these issues
@MrLpadilla75
@MrLpadilla75 Месяц назад
🤍👍
@Daughter_of_the_MostHigh
@Daughter_of_the_MostHigh 8 месяцев назад
what if a single woman wants to wear one?
@XRos28
@XRos28 9 месяцев назад
Hi again, the head scarf, as you probably know, is worn by Sephardic Jewish women. Ashkenazi women wear wigs instead. Isn't the scarf hot, or make your head sweat? It looks so uncomfortable, two lairs of fabric, and folded...
@christellefedgienerval7397
@christellefedgienerval7397 4 месяца назад
It’s actually not the material is light the longer you have the more you get use to it
@user-tg9ri8lu4v
@user-tg9ri8lu4v 9 месяцев назад
U
@anitakammerer8526
@anitakammerer8526 9 месяцев назад
Dear Jayelle, very informative and interesting video, toda raba! I'm rather on the Messianic site ( except that I' m Anti-Zionist) and was "Christian" as you before. But......I struggle with the Messianiks' modesty, as they have none ( and do not necessarily wear skirts etc.) and so I tend to you, the ultraorthodox community...why is everything only so complicated??? Well, back to the scarf: I'm really interested why you ultrao. women out there are not shaving your heads at all? Wouldn' t it be a lot easier than this? I mean not totally bold like skin heads, because of course, this forbids us the Torah, but if you wear a scarf or some a wig anyway every day , why do you have still long hair, resp. when can your husband really see you with your natural hair? Shalom from Frankfurt, Germany🔯💯!
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 8 месяцев назад
Hi Anita, the Torah says that women should have long hair, as it is her beauty. But it is beauty that is reserved for her husband only. He sees it when we are alone together. Btw, messianic is still christian, and the worst kind because they misrepresent the Torah and the truth. See this video by Rabbi Reuven. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-35Ql-qA5uXA.htmlsi=EGhQg-ARc2_QQPHw
@anitakammerer8526
@anitakammerer8526 8 месяцев назад
Hello Jayelle, watched your video less than 5 minutes, because this man is cursing himself in blaspheming God's Word, sorry, that's it. I think we have to go separate ways, as there's no further agreement with both of us. Just one last thing I'd like you to think about is, that before you converted, you believed in the living God (Yeshua, not meaning any denomination, just biblical) , the New Covenant, and now as orthodox you're believing in a dead God, the Old Covenant, which is religion, because God Himself renewed this Covenant by sending Yeshua as faith of the Jews was only man-made tradition. Deep in your heart, you know that, as you by your conversion, have both covenants right before your eyes and you know the Torah & the Tanakh maybe better than me, you have the best prerequisites of a believer...it' s up to you. Blessings, A.
@meriemema3622
@meriemema3622 Год назад
You look like Bella Hadid❤
@jayellealafi5797
@jayellealafi5797 Год назад
Aww, thanks, that's sweet!💗☺️
@Pastorstellajoy.
@Pastorstellajoy. 8 месяцев назад
Please help
@Emmha-yan
@Emmha-yan 11 месяцев назад
Are you Muslim ? But respect all people
@NepzBabe
@NepzBabe 3 месяца назад
I really encourage you veiling but i hope you support Palestine, because there's no way for the double standards. We all believe in the same God. May God bless you and your family
@deannjanda8947
@deannjanda8947 6 месяцев назад
Beautiful
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