What I Wish I Knew About Prayer as an Orthodox Jewish Convert

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Hi! In this video, I am sharing with you some of the things I wish I knew about prayer and praying as a Jew that I wish someone had explained to me as a new convert.
We cover some basic questions about prayer, such as what prayer is and why we do it, how we do it and when, etc.
Also I discuss the differences between different types of siddurim (Jewish prayer books) with a sort of "buying guide" for those looking for some guidance on choosing a Siddur to purchase for themselves.
Also, I forgot to mention in my video that there are apps available for smartphone of siddurim, available in different nusachim and languages. (These are not generally used in prayer services, and certainly not on Shabbat, but are convenient for things like Birkat Hamazon, blessings, when traveling or out and about, or if you forget to bring your Siddur to the synagogue). Some communities do not use smartphones, so an app-based Siddur would not be an option for them, obviously.
*Thank you to a viewer for reminding me to mention this. 🤗
LINKS
Online Jewish Library; www.sefaria.or...
Online Judaica and Bookstores;
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-www.nehora.com
-www.judaica.co...
More Information About Prayer;
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@ahmedbaccar3216 2 года назад

Salam sister may god heal him and accept your prayer . As you know IAM arab your cousin from your uncle prophet ishmael . Pray like our grandfather Ibrahim pray bow down to our Lord . And whatever happen dont lose your faith . WE are in the test and god love a patient people

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

This is a lovely comment, thank you! 😊💗

@bettytigers 2 года назад

Jesus taught some good things about prayer, if you've ever read them. I'm sure he's on the button!

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Yeah, not so much. I converted from Christianity to Judaism after being raised going to church.

@The_Wallachian 2 года назад

@@jayellealafi5797 You speak Romanian? Vorbești românește? At medaberet romanit?

@ahmedbaccar3216 2 года назад

@@bettytigers if you look in the bible brother you will find that we Muslims pray as all the prophets peace and blessing upon all of them . WE believe in Jesus as a messaiah and prophet for almighty god and WE believe in his return as well .

@a.d.2479 2 года назад

shalom/ salam sister. I saw this video with tears. I am Muslim and I pray for your baby. God hears our prayers. Always stay strong. In the end everything will be fine with God's help. I wish you and your family all the best. Amin/ Amen 🤲🏻💕💕

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Thank you so much for this beautiful comment! 🥰 It's true, He does. And I wish the same for you and your family, only the best. 💗🌸

@hrgirl26 2 года назад

I am a Baal Teshuva; basically Jewish by birth, but my father had converted to Christianity and my mother was non-religious, and now I have returned to my Jewish faith. I am basically a re-convert even though I didn't have to go through the classes or anything. Your channel is SO helpful because the resources for Baal Teshuva is very limited. I can barely speak any Hebrew and I constantly feel like I'm lost and doing something wrong!

@PS-bs8oe 2 года назад

Hello, You are enough, as You are the creature of G... It is your intention that counts. Enjoy trying to be and do your best. If it's a good path, You will keep your strength and the Joy will enhance, enlighten and ease your path.

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Welcome! I'm so happy you found my channel. 😊 My husband is also baal teshuva, so we know how much of a challenge the journey can be. Good for you for exploring and coming back to your roots! You have a beautiful and wonderful heritage. Keep going. 🤗 If I can help you in any way, or if you have any specific video requests, please don't be shy to reach out! 💗🌸

@swyman10 2 года назад

THE FIRST HEBREW PRIMER THIRD EDITION by Simon Resnikoff & Motzkin This is the book my Rabbi gave me years ago to improve my Hebrew as part of my Gabbi training. It will help you!

@swyman10 2 года назад

I’m born Jewish & married by college sweetheart, who at the time was the assist to the Dean of the Sociology dept at OSU. He was also a Rabbi & she was converting at the time. We have kept a Jewish home all our lives. We raised our kids as Jews. Last year at Rosh HaShana I got out my great Zada’s Tiffillin & began wearing them every morning (except Shabbat) for my morning prayers. I have been studying Kabbalah this whole year. The more I learn, the more I don’t know & the more I love & appreciate my Bar Mitzvah teacher from 1967! This is a great video! For me prayer is meditation & my attempt to appreciate all the miracles surrounding us. Our synagogue closed so we have no community to be a part of anymore, but have found some fellowship on line, such as you. LOL, I have my Siddur, a 1984 Shilo published, but I also have my Dad’s Bar Mitzvah Siddur, a Linear Prayer Book published in 1905, my dad is 99 & bless him, he still drives & attends services in FL, (where all Jews retire).

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

This is beautiful, thank you for sharing! 🤗

@erichfeit7779 2 года назад

Thank you Jayelle for a most informative video. This is the first time I've found one like this. I am an older person. I have children and grandchildren. My wife and I came from very similar background. We were both brought up non-jewish, but strongly suspect our grandparents who came from Europe after WW2 WERE actually Jewish but hid it. I was born in 1948 same as Israel, and automatically loved Israel. I always had Jewish friends at school and spent a lot of time in their homes. In 1990 I bought a Siddur and also have a Tallit. I have studied Hebrew online. My wife and I moved from Namibia and now live in a small town in New Zealand. There is no synagogue here. In year 2000 we tried to make Aliya to Israel but were not accepted because we were not Jewish. My wife later got sick and then passed away a year ago. I am now a retired school teacher. I know one-day I will meet my wife in heaven. She was a devout believer and also loved HaShem and Israel. Todah Rabah Erich from New Zealand

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi Erich, wow that is quite a fascinating story. Life is full of strange twists and turns. Have you looked to see if there's any Chabad house near you? That may be one way to connect with the Jewish community, if possible. And my sincere condolences on the passing of your wife. 🌸

@AdaraBalabusta 4 месяца назад

Your videos are so helpful, Jayelle. I return to them. I hope that you and yours are well.

@jayellealafi5797 Месяц назад

I'm so happy to hear that! I see you active in my comments section, I appreciate that! :). Everyone is well, I took some time off for a while to deal with some challenges but I'll be back to uploading soon, bezH! 😊

@chronically_funnyemma4214 2 года назад

Ohhh I’m so excited to have stumbled across your channel!! My conversion became official through the mikvah just two weeks ago and I’m excited to keep soaking up knowledge like a sponge 🥰

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Welcome!! And mazal tov on your conversion! 🥂🎊🥰

@chronically_funnyemma4214 2 года назад

@@jayellealafi5797 thank you so much ❤️🥰

@joemiz25 Год назад

Congratulations!! Welcome to the Jewish family!

@chronically_funnyemma4214 Год назад

@@joemiz25 thank you!!!

@crystalclear6660 2 года назад

I have an interesting originating story. I’m half Mexican and half Anglo-Saxon. I was raised within a Christian home. But I grew up in a Conservative and Hasidic Jewish Neighborhood. My best friend growing up is a Conservative Jewish person. I spent almost 24/7 with my friend. This means I regularly attended Shabbat with them. Participated in the holidays and went to shul with them very often. I definitely felt more at home within Judaism than Christianity. I even did one of my college research assignments on Judaism in minority politics. And, I still to this day have a big interest in Judaism. Another interesting facet is that my sir name is actually a Sephardic name. It originated in Spain from the 1400s with the forced conversion. (And yes, I know that one is not considered Jewish if the mother is not Jewish by birth or conversion.)

@gabrielajimenez2143 2 года назад

Wrong. If you converted you are jewish officially. Now, there is always discrimination inside communities which you should ignore. You are jewish and in Hashem's eyes you are much valued and special.

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi Crystal, that is a very interesting story, thank you for sharing! Maybe you are Jewish? It would require some digging, but I think there must be records/DNA tests, etc. that would allow you to find out. There was a lot of shady happenings in Spain at that time. Best of luck to you! 🤗🌸

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi Gabriela, what are you saying is, "wrong" exactly? C.C is 100% correct when she says one is not considered Jewish unless born of a Jewish mother, or formally converts to Judaism by completing a recognized conversion program.

@crystalclear6660 2 года назад

@@gabrielajimenez2143 I think everyone has gotten it wrong. I’m not saying if someone converts they’re not Jewish. I was saying that they were. Geesh.

@swyman10 2 года назад

Kabbalah teaches that ALL people are Jewish & conversion is actually a coming home of the soul, so to speak. There is a good chance many people today are descendants of the European Milanos. I am a Levite, I can trace my roots to the Ukrainian Pale of Settlement close to the Polish border. My Tiffilin are close to 150 years old!

@ОбычныйПользователь-ц1ю 2 года назад

I am an Orthodox Christian and I think your channel is intersting

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Welcome!

@blackwidowspider9852 2 года назад

I m born 100 % both parents. My father died an my mom married a Philippines man we moved there I was 5 .now I found out I'm Jewish .I am adult and want to become ac Observant and practicing June I need to learn Hebrew learn about my religion right now I'm reading the torah in English that is a star I need to make contact with other Jewish teachers So you're a video is my 1st learning experience shalom

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi, thanks for your comment, and thanks for sharing your story! I am thrilled that my video was able to help you, and I would take this opportunity to encourage you to keep going and learning about your beautiful heritage! 😁🌸

@blackwidowspider9852 2 года назад

@@jayellealafi5797 thank you so much .what an honor. You have a lovely family. ma·zel tov.

@iBuzzinga 2 года назад

As a Catholic, I believe we can learn a lot from the prayers in the Siddur

@iceeyes3875 2 года назад

This video brought tears to my eyes! You’re a beautiful soul inside and out. It was interesting to learn about the conversion and prayer. I missed your videos so I’m happy you out this out. Sending you much love ❤️

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Ice Eyes, thank you so much, I know I haven't been uploading as frequently over the summer, I'm sorry! I hope to improve in this. Thank you for your support and kind words. 🤗🥰

@erbearthgarden3658 9 месяцев назад

Thank you. Thank you! I appreciate this video so much as a convert!

@jayellealafi5797 9 месяцев назад

BH, glad it was helpful! 😊

@apMG1821 Год назад

As someone said here “Hashem does listen.” As someone going through the conversion process now, last night I asked Hashem to help me find resources to help me understand prayers a little better and then the first video I found was this one. I appreciate you so much! Thank you for this informative, clear video.

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

And I appreciate you so much! It's the best when people let me know that my video was helpful to them. Thank you! Welcome, and I am so glad my video found it's way to you! 😊💗

@evafisch2498 Год назад

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@Deep_Blue_Sapphire Год назад

I'm so grateful for this video. You cleared up so many questions! I was raised Catholic, but within the last year found out I have Jewish roots stemming from as far back as 8 generations. I'm beginning my journey by purchasing my first Siddur. You're so helpful. Don't know what I'd do without you!

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

Welcome! I am so glad to hear that this video helped you! 🤗💗

@Deep_Blue_Sapphire Год назад

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@Galuppi728 10 месяцев назад

This was very helpful, thank you. Shalom

@jayellealafi5797 10 месяцев назад

Thanks for watching and may Hashem bless you. 💗

@Flyguy7500 6 месяцев назад

Thank you for all these videos 🙏

@jayellealafi5797 6 месяцев назад

B' Hashem, glad it helped you!

@ayrsine 2 года назад

I am so grateful to you for this video and so glad that more videos like this are coming out. The point you made about which sect to choose as a convert based on one’s own ancestor was clutch. Thank you 🙏

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi Ayrsine, you're very welcome! Glad it was helpful to you.🤗💗

@pamelaleibowitz3019 2 года назад

Thank you. We can learn a great deal from these converted families. They are inspirational!

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Thank you, Pamela! 🤗💗

@heatblair 20 дней назад

My father was Jewish and my mother was not, so I went through the conversion process too! Your channel is so good! (So cute when you were showing the children’s Siddurim and a cute little baby hand reached out to grab the book 🥰)

@ThatJewishFamily 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing! Wow so happy your girl is ok ❤

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

My pleasure! Us too. 🤗. (Great channel by the way, I told my husband, "That Jewish Family left me a comment!" 🤩 💗

@georgegarcia2455 Год назад

Thanks for this VERY informative video for those of us that are converting as it can be very very overwhelming and confusing. I love it because it’s short, sweet, and simple.

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

You're very welcome! Glad it was helpful!

@jeaniedenton-smith1041 2 года назад

Shalom Jayelle : ) I'm looking seriously into converting. I have been attending services at the Chabad House nearest me. Everything you've talked about certainly resonates with me! Thank you for being so helpful!

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi Jeanie, that's wonderful! I'm happy I could help. 🤗💗

@joycefischer7693 Год назад

Thank you. I always learn something new. I was born Jewish & somewhat observant. Your videos are making me feel that I would like to be more observant.

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

That's awesome! It's the best life, imho. 😊

@Crystal11Skulls 2 года назад

Ahhh, this is perfect and wonderful timing!!! I just spoke with the Beit Din for the first time last week (unfortunately very unpleasant- I hope to go through a different Beit Din once I move to an Orthodox community. Where I live currently, it is non-existent) and it was established that (until I move) I need to start with some reading material and getting a siddur. I was asking which one I should get since there are so many versions, and essentially was told, "Google it. You'll figure it out if you want to." I currently do some of the prayers (I don't know the names), but when you first wake up, when you wash your hands, use the restroom, when/what you eat, but I have stagnated there, so this is perfect!!! G-d is great! Thank you so, so, sooo much for this video! Could not have been better executed or better timed. 😁

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi Crystal, I'm so glad it was helpful for you!🤗 The first meeting with a Bet Din is never pleasant, I remember my first intake interview and it was so uncomfortable. It's par for the course I think, they are testing your determination to follow through. Don't be discouraged. Keep moving forward.💗 Attending prayer services in person at a synagogue would definitely help familiarize you with what goes on during communal prayers, but if that's not an option at this point, obtaining a Siddur and learning the text and structure of the prayer services as much as you can will help you once you are able to attend synagogue. I'm so happy for you! Let me know if you have more questions. 😁🌸

@Crystal11Skulls 2 года назад

@@jayellealafi5797 I agree, I get that vibe as well that they want to make the process as challenging as possible to make sure only those who are truly committed convert. I understand why they do it, but certainly frustrating. I will have to grit my teeth through it, haha. I cannot wait to move to an Orthodox community! Praying that God makes that a possibility as soon as possible. Thank you so much for this video! It was very much needed and is appreciated greatly. ☺️

@furerorban11 2 года назад

@@jayellealafi5797 are you an antisemite? Or your family? What did they do during the WWII?

@hrgirl26 2 года назад

Just some context as to WHY it's unpleasant; there are many, many Christians who seek to "convert" and get into the Jewish community and then start their missionary work and convert Jews. This is why the Beit Din is soooo unfriendly the first time. They want you to work for it and prove you absolutely are sincere and not doing this for fake reasons.

@Yaqubsalama 2 года назад

@@hrgirl26 yeah they are from american missionary not all christian

@laurahoughton3730 2 года назад

You have such beautiful, happy polite children, A pleasure to watch your videos

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Laura, you are so kind, thank you so much! 🤗

@bettysanchez9189 Год назад

Very helpful! Thank you so much 🙏

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

You're very welcome!

@pamfreeman5197 10 месяцев назад

Shalom. This was again put forward with a lot of work by you for which we should all be grateful. Thank you. I hope you, hubby and children are all keeping well. Best wishes from .England, Pam

@Crystal11Skulls 2 года назад

I just finished the video, thanks for the shoutout! Excellent breakdown, and you did not make it confusing at all! Literally the most thorough and best breakdown of a siddur I have ever had. I was pretty intimidated about finding my first siddur, and now I feel faaaar more equipped to get one that suits me. I really, really appreciate it! I cannot thank you enough. As I said before, and I will say it again, I always look forward to your videos the most! Thank you so so so much for making this. You are the bombdigady. 💙😁

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi Crystal, I am so glad that I could help you out on your quest. 🤗🌸

@nataliesirota2611 2 года назад

Toda raba, Jayelle, for this video and your channel. I too am a convert and still have so much to learn.

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

You're welcome, Natalie! It's my pleasure. 😊 I also have a lot to learn myself, but that's part of the beauty of Torah. My dream is to help make the process just a little bit easier for people on the same journey. Thank you for your support! 🥰🌸

@asmallsanctuary 2 года назад

Jayelle, yishar kochech! This is an incredibly comprehensive and helpful resources for people growing in their Judaism. The prayer service and prayer book is often a source of confusion given that the liturgy is so rich and complex. Also understanding the key structures of Shacharit, Mincha and Ma’ariv is so helpful to ‘anchor’ the user--especially during the High Holidays when the liturgy is even more complex! For people struggling with Hebrew, there are two approaches one can take, depending on preference and ability. One can either focus on ‘decoding’ (learning to read) the letters if learning a new alphabet comes easy. Or one can focus on ‘getting the Hebrew in the ear’ by listening to a lot of Hebrew: live or recorded. This way, ‘word image’ recognition will come easier later and the learner will become more confident. Hebrew can be challenging for many and I think you sharing your experience makes people feel less isolated in that journey. One more resource worth mentioning are ‘siddur apps’ for smartphones. Many different ones exist but the unique feature of the Sefaria text study app is that it lists the different nusakhot (Sefard, Eidot Midrash, Ashkenaz etc). Thank you for sharing your journey and experience. Modeling that can be so helpful to others on the same journey. I am relieved the prayers for your daughter were answered and that she’s doing well. L’shalom u’vrachah.

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

A Small Sanctuary, thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement! My approach to Hebrew has been a mixture of both approaches, but I struggle with consistency, it's probably my biggest problem. 😅 I forgot to mention about siddur apps in my video, but I did update the description box to give people some more info about that. So thank you for sharing! And Sefaria is the awesome resource, I didn't know they had an app as well, but that is great they do! 💗🤗

@Beanhill_94 Год назад

I find it really sweet that moms get to have a shorter bread blessing prayer because they are busy. ❤

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

Yes. 😊 There's also a short version for children, so they can learn and practice. 💗

@Beanhill_94 Год назад

@@jayellealafi5797 that’s nice and quiet understandable.

@isaacz2002 2 года назад

May Hashem bless you and May He keep your child safe and give her a good long healthy life amen and amen

@tudormiller887 Год назад

Great video Jayelle. I purchased a Siddur from a Judaica store half an hour from where I live earlier today, the Hebrew/English version. It's the Artscroll Ashkenazi publication. I'm a Goy who'd like to convert to Haredi Judaism.

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

That's wonderful! I'm happy to hear it! Wishing you the best on your journey. 😊

@signature.smile.4 Месяц назад

Hi Jayelle, I’m so so happy to have found your page… Just like you, I did convert from Christianity which I grew up into Judaism and would like to learn and practice all the laws of HaShem as an Orthodox Jew. May Adonai help us all, G.od bless you for doing this would be looking forward to all your contents 🫶🏼🙏🏼.

@eleonoreopdenberg9008 2 года назад

Van intense dread to a huge smile within a few seconds, you got me there

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

🤗. Welcome to life with kids, hahaha

@TeamBensonHomestead 2 года назад

This video was so helpful I actually watched it twice the second time with a pen and paper. I'm a convert and I have been going through different prayer books. My Herbrew is pretty good when reading but I'm still learning to translate so I know what I just said.

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi Team Benson, I am so happy to hear that it helpful for you! Yes, the struggle is real when it comes to Hebrew and reading comprehension. 😄 🌸.

@enilas7 2 года назад

HaShem does listen! Please be strong in faith and keep inspiring many! I a on my journey in learning Hebrew to read the siddur in hebrew...also, this might sound strange, but please do a video on how to wrap the hair as pretty as you do! 😀 lots of love to you my dearest sister. ❤️

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Wow, good for you! Thank you for your lovely comment! I am planning to do a video on head covering soon, stay tuned. 🤗💗

@dizzylee7215 3 месяца назад

Really interesting, this was very helpful. Thank you

@jayellealafi5797 Месяц назад

Glad you enjoyed it!

@Shannon.Hazleton Год назад

Well… I just ordered my siddur a few hours before stumbling upon this video 😆… I’m not convinced I’ve ordered the right one (and it took me months to decide because I can only shop for one online)…. But oh well… I have a feeling we are going to end up with a few different ones anyway. Thank you for this in-depth explanation!

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

Hi Shannon, I'm happy to help! Yes, it can be challenge to find a good one right off the bat. I know it's a hassle, but even an online store may exchange it for you if it turns out to not be suitable. They're usually pretty good to work with. 😊

@valhalla.meadows Год назад

God has been weighing heavily on me lately, and I came across your channel. It is very informative, and I feel it is helping me immensely. Thank you so much for this, and I look forward to more of your videos!

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

Hi Elizabeth, that is so nice to hear! I'm glad my videos are helpful to you.😊💗

@yyvaizel2832 Год назад

I like the way you talk it is very clear and understanding you are amazing!

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

That's sweet of you, thank you! 😊

@Daatblkngoldn1 7 месяцев назад

God bless you and yours sister

@Beautifulsunset2019 10 месяцев назад

Thank you . To saying I’m confused it’s and under statement my mother was born to Jewish parents but I’m not sure exactly where my family was from . I think I’m closer than I was to know where to begin . I want to learn and teach my very small granddaughters of their Jewish heritage. Thank you .

@timeclock3969 2 года назад

Our prayer for all of you, שלום

@KelvinWilliams-v2j 6 месяцев назад

Todah Barauch HaShem Kelvin David from Cape Town South Africa

@hw3748 Год назад

This is great!

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

Glad you found it helpful!

@ronangoforth3081 2 года назад

Thank you, Jayelle! This was indeed so helpful--prayer and its intricacies can definitely be intimidating. My family is from Syria and Scotland originally, and I feel most comfortable/at home in Sephardic and Mizrachi synagogues. I definitely need to work on my Hebrew so I can follow along in my siddur better. My in-laws graciously gifted me the same Orot one you have!

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi Ronan, no way, that's awesome! It's a very good siddur, I especially like the commentary that is included. I am in the same boat with reading Hebrew, currently my daughter in 2nd grade comes home and teaches me her homework. 😂

@ronangoforth3081 2 года назад

@@jayellealafi5797 I am looking forward to diving into the commentary in the Orot siddur! I like it so far although I've only had it a couple of weeks. Will your daughter tutor me, haha? 😅

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

She has the makings of a fine teacher. 😃

@lisafraney4987 2 года назад

Love this video. I now subscribe to your channel. I am converting. I have that same Sephardic siddur. I’m going to have to get a bigger bookshelf because my books are growing 💛

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Awesome! Yes, a big bookshelf is a must. 🤗🌸

@kierra8693 2 года назад

Thank you so much for this video! It’s incredibly informative

@kierra8693 2 года назад

In the future **

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi Kierra, you're very welcome! A video on hair-covering is definitely one that I plan to do in the future. Thank you! 🤗🌸

@rsilberman3 2 года назад

Thank you so much a very detailed information. First time in your channel. B”H your daughter is doing wonderful. I can’t imaging what you have been thru. That must be so scared. Thank you for sharing a little about your life❤️🌷. Kol Tov! 😘🥰 (I do know a lot Russian Jewish that are Safard. I help with a tehillim group and they are Russian Safard too. )

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi Raquel, thank you for your comment. It was a traumatic time, but bH we got through it, and we also had a lot of prayers and community support that was just so special. Welcome to the channel. 🤗. (That is so nice, yes my understanding of who uses Nusach Sefard siddurim is that it's predominately/exclusively Chassidic Ashkenazi groups.) 💗🥰

@rsilberman3 2 года назад

@@jayellealafi5797 I also understood the same way! But I belong to a tehillim group and the are Safard. From Russia

@waha1976 Год назад

Thank you so mych for your video. Toda raba. I want to ask you how did you convert. I love jewish religion i start learning hebrew now listening to worship song to gain more words. I pray the shema 3 times aday i know how to say the blessing bray in hebrew. I hope Yahweh is happy and listening to my prayer. I live in Australia. I hope you can help me God bless

@JewishEducationatHome 2 года назад

Hi Jayelle, Wonderful video! Shabbat shalom! :)

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Thank you! 💗

@allmertalex 2 года назад

I have a book of recorded teachings that Ovadiya Yosef did. A lot of his books are very beautiful and have lots of pictures. I also have a Russian translation of one of his son's yalkur yosef books. I prefer chabad's approach but I like to learn about mizrahi traditions.

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Wonderful! 😊

@tylerwebber4263 3 месяца назад

Love this video Baruch Hashem! Do you know where a Siddur in Italian?

@alfredoroldan5383 2 года назад

I love it!!!!! Todah!!!

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Bevakashah! 😊🌸

@itzch0colatewaffleyt53 Год назад

May HaShem bless you

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

Thank you, He has and does. 🤗💗

@wolverine319 2 года назад

May God bless you and your son and all of your family and give you salvation ❤️

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Thanks!

@kathleenbanning8578 11 месяцев назад

Sooooo appriciate You!!!!

@Cherry_sew_sweet Год назад

I’m a giyures / am about to be a giyures and am waiting to finish secular classes before conversion (can’t do both at once- also it’s for working in the health industry) I should be done by the end of October and will probably start conversion classes next year, I’m so excited because I’ve been waiting for almost 2 years to start formal conversion :) This video couldn’t have come at a better time and I feel like I was meant to find it. I’ve been meaning to begin Davening regularly for too long!

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

Glad you enjoyed the video! 😊

@EughhBrothereughh Год назад

May Allah heal your baby, i pray for it!! be strong. God is with you all the way💖💖💖may God strengthen your faith and bless you and your family 🙏💞

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

Thank you so much!!

@asky6670 Год назад

A true miracle, thank G-d

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

Yes, thank G-d. 💗

@SoldierofChrist9 2 года назад

Thank you so much for this video. I am looking into Judaism and hoping to start my conversion soon. If I may ask, you stated you and your husband are of the Sephardic tradition and attending a Chabad synagogue. How does one rectify the differences between the two?

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Great question! So, unfortunately there is no Sephardic synagogues in the city where we live, among the Orthodox options there is only Ashkenaz or Chabad. And since Chabad is Hasidic, the traditions of their prayers/religious practice are closer in certain ways to the traditions that we follow. (if you don't know what Hasidic means, this article may help you; www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/4079238/jewish/17-Facts-Everyone-Should-Know-About-Hasidic-Jews.htm ) We tried out the different Orthodox synagogues before settling on Chabad, where we felt more comfortable. It definitely is challenging at times, my husband always takes his own siddur and prays from that, certain prayer services he does alone at home, and there's other differences as well which we needn't get into, but IyH it won't be forever. We would definitely recommend finding and becoming a part of one's own community and tradition whenever possible. I wish you the best of luck on your spiritual journey! 🤗

@jaken7052 Год назад

Thanks so much

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

You're most welcome, my pleasure! 😊

@jackandpicklesvlogs 2 года назад

This is so helpful! Thank you for your beautiful video ❤

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

You're so welcome! 😊🌸

@lightningbug6823 6 месяцев назад

Tears are Prayers too!

@ramsha8833 2 года назад

I respect it 🙌❤️ as a muslim. Because it is the same God that we are bowing down to! and the bond between a person and the God mesmerizes me & the way he loves their creation and answer to their prayers mesmerizes me. And the similarities between the Abrahamic religions give me strength against the non-believers. I just respect it as the way of prayer, the way of living, the messenger's stories and the words of God like this exists not only in Islam but in religions before Islam too in the similar manner! and that gives me strength against the typical modern people who deny the way of religion and tag it as a sort of crap and questions it and calls it meaningless. And the answer that comes to my mind is that God has always liked us to be in the certain manner from the start that's why the Abrahamic religions exist and it is not the result of some man-made thought as the philosophy describes the birth of religion in context of evolution!! 😊

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi Ramsha, thank you for this beautiful comment, I couldn't agree more. 🤗💕

@The_Wallachian 2 года назад

Only muslims goes in the paradise!

@A-T_Teitus 2 года назад

@@The_Wallachian Only good doers Go to paradise and whoever God wills. I'm muslim doesn't give you a free ticket to paradise, Paradise is by work and effort not by name, I'm muslim and I drink Alcohol or kill people doesn't make sense, So better learn a little bit More Other than shouting in the comments....

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

I love this, thank you! Yes, we Jews believe that the righteous of all nations can go to heaven. It is most important that a person recognizes G-d, and observes the precepts of natural religion. It does not really matter what religion you call yourself, and there are good and bad people among all religions. 🤗💗

@The_Wallachian 2 года назад

@@jayellealafi5797 Salam și Șalom din Valahia 🌳 si România 🇷🇴. שלאם ו שלום מולאכיה 🌳 ו מרומניה. Vorbești românește or copii tăi? (you speak Romanian or your children?)

@Spot2e 2 года назад

🙏 This video was very interesting and informative. Thank you 🙏 ❤️

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Glad it was helpful! 💗

@perfectpeace352 10 месяцев назад

What type of classes do you recommend for children? I have been trying to teach my children Hebrew until I find something. We are learning the letters but need to move on now. Any direction would be appreciated.

@jayellealafi5797 10 месяцев назад

I suppose it depends on what you want them to learn, and their ages/developmental level. I would need to know more info before I can recommend anything in particular. 💗 My email is infojayellea@gmail.com

@Arjun1234 Год назад

I asked myself why I’m able to pay attention to this video unlike others , because this is the true revelation from God. A person can pay attention to this because it’s truth.

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

Aw, thanks! I'm happy to hear that you found the video entertaining/helpful. 😊

@vitabee7748 2 года назад

This was very helpful. Thank you! 😊

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

You're so welcome! 💗

@marybaker8582 2 года назад

Your baby is absolutely adorable

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Thank you Mary! 😊🌸

@devorahveronicaalcocer9196 2 года назад

Thank you so much for your videos. Shalom.

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

You are very welcome, so glad that you like them!😊

@markrcca5329 2 года назад

fascinating, thank you for the video. I am very curious to learn, which parts of the Morning, Afternoon and Evening prayers are mandatory to all Jews (even those who do not call themselves Orthodox). For example, the Shema: the six words of the Shema are clearly instructed in the Torah. The remaining paragraphs are instructions when and how to say them, and reasons/motivations for saying them - and while many people include them, it does not seem to be part of the basic requirement. As for the Shmone Esre - this prayer seems to have been written much later, and is very popular - but I'm not sure why it is considered a required prayer. The Talmud also offers a short version of the Shmone Esre - some rabbis in the Talmud encourage it for those who are not fluent with the long version, and other rabbis discourage it. It seems to me the choice is left up to the individual. As for the remaining prayers, they were composed far later in Jewish history, and I am not sure why many consider them mandatory. They are obviously very popular. In summary - it appears to me the basic requirement is the six words of the Shema, morning and evening; everything else is up to the individual, based on what Jewish community/practice they consider themselves to be part of. Wishing refua shleima and a speedy recovery to your baby!

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

I do not know the precise answers to your questions, but I do know this; the sages who wrote the prayers we say and instituted the times of prayer, had more wisdom in their fingernail scrapings than you or I could even dream of possessing. I would definitely encourage you to keep doing more research on the topic, and ask a qualified rabbi if you have access to one. I would not rely on your own interpretation, (aka, "it appears to me") if I was you. Here's a good bunch of articles on the topic. www.simpletoremember.com/articles/a/mitzvos-prayer-religion/

@markrcca5329 2 года назад

@@jayellealafi5797 I said "it appears to me", as opposed to "I'm certain of it", because certainly I do not claim to have a complete knowledge on the issue. However, the rabbis I've asked so far, have not been able to explain these topics to me. So I thought I'd try elsewhere, like your video. Good job by the way, you covered many of the details very well. The sages may have had wisdom, but I have not seen where they stated that the prayers and other teachings were binding upon all generations of Jews to come after them, and not just the students they were directly teaching. For example, I have not seen anywhere in the Mishnah or Talmud presenting any particular teaching as "this teaching is binding to any Jewish person born even 2000 years from now" or anything similar.

@Asasas222w Год назад

One of the members of Chabad suggested that I recite Penek 51. It's for attornment. I have transgressions. I also daven for others to be forgiven.

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

Beautiful!

@movieshortssociety 2 года назад

May the Lord God bless that inocent baby girl with health and long life 🙏

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Thank you, that's very kind of you!💗🤗

@somapneumapaideiaablessedlife 2 года назад

A link to your prayer book please? I am born but not raised Jewish, I speak Latin, English, French

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi, thanks for your comment! I've put links to the exact books that I have, but I want to let you know they have the same set in white (color) and also one that is smaller. These links are from Judaica Place. They are US based, if you live somewhere else then you can probably just google the book and where it could be purchased near you. www.judaicaplace.com/weekday-siddur-kol-yehuda-orot-sephardic-hebrew-and-english-large-hardcover/5530/ www.judaicaplace.com/siddur-kol-sasson-orot-sephardic-shabbos-siddur-edut-mizrach-hebrew-and-english-full-size-hardcover/orss/ Hope this helps you. 😊💗

@shyju724 2 года назад

Our God is Almighty .... 🙏

@alg11297 Год назад

The term you use hitbodedut (at 7:36) is a word I've never heard before. It's clearly a grammatical combination of some verb in Hebrew. The word used is "ba-ka-sha" or request. Also, in the final paragraphs of the Shemoneh Esray you are encouraged to ask for anything in your own words. And the Baal Shem Tov supposedly encouraged his followers to pay whenever it moved them especially in nature. 2. I believe the pronounciation if Sa-fa-rad. 3. The Nusach is not how it sounds. The order of sephard and Ashkanez prayers are not the same with whole swatches put in different places. In Sephard, for example, the congregation witnesses the torah being lifted, and they point to it, before the reading begins. In Ashkenaz it's afterwards. 4. If you have no background the tradition to choose is the one used by the shul you wind up praying in and feel most comfortable.

@lissyperez4299 2 года назад

Praise G.D!!!! He is soo Good! I am Catholic and would love to learn Hebrew. What you are describing is comparable to our Liturgy of the hours.

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Wonderful!

@omanmajid 11 месяцев назад

O Allah ! O Merciful! Get this child well.bestow Your mercy on it

@libafried5840 2 года назад

The correct pronunciation is Nusach Sefard; the article is mistakenly referring to the nusach as Sepharad. The Lubavitche Chassidim refer to Nusach Sefard as Nusach Ari, all other Chassidim call it Nusach Sefard. Much Yiddish nachas from your sweet children. Thank you for your wonderful video.

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi Liba, thank you for sharing that clarification! You're most welcome, it's my pleasure. 🤗💕

@libafried5840 2 года назад

@@jayellealafi5797 I believe they are mistakenly calling the nusach "Sepharad" instead of how it's actually pronounced "Sefard" because Eidas HaMizrach and Sephardim pronounce the words "Sepharadim/Sepharadi" so they mistakenly are writing it in the way Sephardim would pronounce their nusach, but that is not the Ashkenazi pronunciation. The Ashkenazi pronunciation is Sefardim/Sefardi. 🙂 Take care!

@613Ruvis 2 года назад

It’s נוסח ספרד - the pronunciation in the video is quite correct. Generally speaking, Sephardic and Mizrahi Jews were ( historically ) and are (today) way better in their Dikduk ( knowledge of grammar ). As a matter of fact, they often made fun of Ashkenazi lack of knowledge / interest in that field ( ex - Ben Ish Chai in his Rav Pa’alim etc ) . Sefard is NOT the right pronunciation.

@libafried5840 2 года назад

@@613Ruvis Even if all the Sephardim would pronounce the word "Sepharadim" (which is actually not the case with many of them calling themselves Sephardim), this is not about the correct pronunciation or grammar, but about different dialect, as every spoken language has. Please do lease do not denigrate others who have different DIALECTS of Hebrew. The correct pronunciation is Nusach Sephard because that is the dialect that Ashkenazim use. You were not around 3,000 years ago to know the dialects of spoken Hebrew at the time. Every single spoken language has different dialects, including Hebrew, according to the time in history and the region that people lived. Jew living in the in Galil, at the time of the Beis Hamikdosh, had a different dialect than the Jews living in Jerusalem. We find discussions regarding differences in pronunciations in Judaic scriptures. No one has the exact dialect of Hebrew the Jews spoke at Har Sinai, there is no proof that Sephardim have the same dialect as the Jews who stood at Har Sinai. And btw, Sephardim also have some differences in dialects from many Eidas Hamizrach communities which could likely be closer to the original Hebrew dialect spoken at Mt. Sinai. And there is no proof at all that Jews at the time of the Bais Hamikdosh spoke the same dialect as the Jews from Mt. Sinai as it was many centuries later, or that the Babylonian Jews spoke the same Hebrew dialogue as the Jews living in Israel. We have our dialect from mesorah, great Rabbis used it over centuries and it is disrespectful to say they were and are, incorrect.

@hopewins1629 2 года назад

When do the Jewish people think the messiah will come? Do they talk about it in the synogogues about it being soon? Is it true Israel has plans to build a 3rd temple? If so, wouldn't they need the ark of the covenant to be placed in the Holy of Holies? Lots of questions.

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

I'm not really the person able to answer those kinds of questions, I'm sorry.

@hopewins1629 2 года назад

@@jayellealafi5797 no problem.

@chavawolfe7150 2 года назад

Hi Jayelle The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Thank you, Chava! 🤗

@drummerlovesbookworm9738 2 года назад

I’m so glad I found your channel! Thank you for the great content! XOjennyinseattle

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Welcome, Jenny in Seattle! 🤗

@Heather-ig6lp Год назад

Beautiful ❤

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

Thank you! 😊

@signature.smile.4 Месяц назад

Hi Shalom, how or where can one take the conversion program? Is it a must for one to do before converting into a Jew?

@yochanan4261 Год назад

WOW. I just had to skip forward to see your beautiful kids, all healthy. B"H. Kol hakavod on your amazing journey and always realize that you were a shlicha from H" to bring your husband back to a life of mitzwot!!

@FuchsiaRose09 2 года назад

Thank you

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

You're welcome, Rose. 😊

@ceciliabalandran7017 2 года назад

Baruj Hashem!!

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Thanks for your comment! 😊

@shiloh3202 2 года назад

I am happy for you. So lovely video for anyone to watch. I find nothing beats anti semitism better than letting people know that we are same human beings who are sad when others are sad.. Sharing life so they may feel that we are human.

@xmanallrounder Год назад

I'm a Muslim but It's true that Islam is so similiar to Judaism than Christianity Love your wearing style cloth & It's also similar to Muslim.

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

Thank you! 😊

@d.rothenberg8295 2 года назад

Nusach is not tonality, it's specific wording &/or type of prayer. Nusach Ashkenaz is more eastern European. It originated in Germany ( Ashkenaz= Germany). Edot HaMizrach is rooted in Spanish-Portuguese . Jews expelled from these Iberian countries scattered worldwide, & are called Mediterranean Jews too. So-called Sfardi nusach is used by all chassidic groups from east Europe. Chabad originated in Russia and is an exception to many practices, as you said, also in prayers. Great idea to go back to personal origins to choose your nusach. Hitbodedut/hisbodedut is specifically a Breslov chassidic practice. Non chassidic Jews, stressing Torah study per se , tend to introspective meditative thought, and chassidim & edot hamizrach are more vocally expressive in prayers. Your daughter's so proud and cute!

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Hi, thanks for your comment! I'm definitely not an expert, so I'm sure my viewers would find it helpful if you could provide the sources also of the facts you shared, if they'd like to research these topics further. But I'd have to disagree with you about Edot haMizrach, it is not considered to have originated in Spain/Portugal. Mizrachi Jews such as my husband's family, lived in the Middle Eastern countries and regions (specifically Babylon) since the time of the Babylonian Exile. www.britannica.com/topic/Oriental-Jews

@d.rothenberg8295 Год назад

Hi Jayelle Sorry I never answered your specific point re Baylonian-Iraqi Jews. Of course their existence is from Biblical times, when Jews were expelled (escaped?) the aftermath of the Temple's destruction. I was referring more to the Sefardi -based prayer customs which are used by all Oriental Jews. A wonderful article to read is by Rabbi Haim Ovadia ''Sephardic or Mizrahi''. Also I suggest looking up Dr Henry Abramson's wonderful historic videos on origins of our many sects. You'll be fascinated!

@sherrirederer4647 2 года назад

Baruch HaShem

@tb3685 2 года назад

Could you do a video telling story on converting to Judaism?

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

Yes, I'm planning to do that in the future. Thank you for the suggestion! 😊🌸

@JewishKeto Год назад

Hashem knows all. He’s in charge of this world. I pray Hashem knows the words I am trying to say. I a also a convert. 😊

@jayellealafi5797 Год назад

So true! Welcome. 😊

@Sunflowers2025 2 года назад

I know people who gotten heal from Cancer for writing down healing scriptures from the Bible like Psalm 91 and make it like G-D speaking to them(Confessing the Word). Hope your child is doing better now. Many blessings.

@jayellealafi5797 2 года назад

That's nice! Thank you, she still has challenges but is doing well. 🤗

@Sunflowers2025 2 года назад

@@jayellealafi5797 You're welcome. Happy to hear she is doing well. Take care

@Amgirl03 Год назад

This is true.. psalms are very good to use for healing prayers...

@abahsakti7564 2 года назад

Come to me, all who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart and your souls will find rest. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."