Looks like ? They are immature! Their mental development peaked at 15! All that childish behavior and mentality with kids is just disgusting behavior. Kids are doomed
Those arent baby hairs, those r curtains and people need to quit. *29, 4 kids.. * He was controlling because he didn't want you to drink smoke and run the streets and you had 3 kids...🤦🏽♀️ *twerking on social media looking for a good man 🤦🏽♀️ *still sleeping with people "for fun"🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Ain’t no fun if you ain’t got that red cup in your hand with weed smoke in the air and you’re dodging hollow points because he’s angry about something - 👩🏽
They think they are smart.and men are fools.. its a scam that when say u don't have to take care of her kids...his baby daddy never be around...bht after marriage u have to encounter them...and court will force u to take care of her kids 🎉
You wanna be outside, smoking and drinking with your friends, worry about taking care of your kids 💯 this is why our youth is doomed🙄 because women like this are raising them
So the man she had didn't want her to drink or smoke, and out doing hoodrat stuff with her friends when she had three kids at home….He actually sounds like a good man, and she chose the streets, and now she's here..she’ll get exactly what she's looking for; I feel sorry for the kids.
“I will never have NO MO’ kids if I’m not married. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️. Women, why does this become a standard after you have already had 2 to 5 kids? 🤔
@@PSYCHDEGREE63 If they needed help, they wouldn’t make marriage a requirement. To ask my question differently, why isn’t marriage the requirement before having kids? 🤷🏾♀️
Yes, it’s mind-boggling. You will not have any kids for the man who was willing to marry you and take on all the kids that you have. But you had kids all over the place by every Tom Dick and Pookie, who met none of your standards then or now.
So he took you on with three kids by another man. And you left him because he wouldn't let you smoke and drink and be outside but to be inside and take care of your children? But yeah he should be family oriented. 🙄
@@jucyjay8398he might be decent but he’s also stupid and irresponsible with his sperm. Shoulda never had three kids by this woman if their gills and lifestyles didn’t mesh/match. But…she prolly got a big butt, so he was mystified.
@jucyjay8398 Yeah thats what i thought i heard. She left the father of her 1st three kids cause he didn't want her smoking, drinking, hanging with her friends (that probably does the same), called him controlling.
@@melvinbarnes6652and child tax credit they increased the monthly amount from 3600$ per kid my sister have 8 and still calls me and my wife to pay her phone bill so my wife called the old dad thats triple her age to pay it instead cause she tired of being the village when she broke in our house to drop them off and then was pregnant and gave the hospital ouf contacts so I politely dropped them off at the hospital after I got my wife on vacation early so she wouldn't talk me into keeping them for anymore years and couldn't claim them cause they mom would even though we had them
Here’s a woman who wants someone within her tax bracket and yall are still complaining. She lives in Wisconsin I imagine people can still afford to live off of 40K there.
The black community has got to become less comfortable with all these out of marriage children! It should not be socially acceptable to have 4 children at her age, unmarried, and making what she’s making (at an income level really). No other group of people does this
A lot of this grows out of the disintegration of the church's influence in the black community. Young people don't see the elder role models who used to be a part of the faith institution.
@@Theeorie4393She and that man are bonded for LIFE, regardless! They have three kids together. They might as well marry, work to create a happy home for kids and each other, enjoy dual income household and some semblance of stability. What incentive does a new man have to care for her and FOUR kids the way baby daddy #1 should?
I swear women don’t get it.🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ladies you can’t low ball one thing and raise up another thing you want in a man.Tall dark and handsome with nice teeth is still going be in high demand whether he makes money or not…🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
Exactly. Women who think they can get perfect, handsome men to be traditional providers are sacrificing a lot to get where they are completely delusional. The man she wants is not going to settle for her
@khrisstake2210 He didn't want her drinking, smoking, and partying. He wasn't abusive, he sounds like a responsible man. That's a problem for her. SMH
@@leramfreeman2950 no abuse mentioned she just still wants to party and twerk with her friends that's single baby mamas too, they hang together for baby mommas support They are equally yoked as friends 😂
The fact that 2 people had to explain the concept of a "deal breaker" told me everything you need to know about her potential. But the worst part is that it took having 3 kids for her to figure out that she didnt want to be with a guy that was controlling. This is really sad.
@@blackmancool9983 it sounds like her first bd is a good man, he just has boundaries and thinks a woman with multiple kids shouldn’t be out on the streets
The two hardest tests on the spiritual road are the patience to wait for the right moment and the courage not to be disappointed with what we encounter. Paulo Coelho
29YO, 4 kids, 2 fathers. Has 3 with the first baby dad but never married. Broke up because he was too "controlling"... 3 kids. Controlling usually means structure and order. New tall, dark and handsome making $40K-$60K has to marry for a kid. Last guy who clapped her cheeks for fun was too arrogant and cocky = he knows his worth. Ain't no quality guy taking her seriously. Madison, WI is a college town. Quality non-black guys ignore her. Quality black guys there don't mind dating out. Not hard to find fit and childless women. Gonna be tough road ahead.
It's a different culture. What the mainstream calls blk culture, is free spirit, rebellious and low effort. She could add 3 more to the brood, gain another 70lbs and there will be a low effort dude talking about she is thick and that he's got side chicks messing with the absolute bottom of the barrel.
Just let them talk. she explained the nice guys finish last concept for those who don't get it. He's arrogant and cocky. she don't like people like that, but gave him her body anyway. He don't need to play step dad or prove himself. The nice guy she really like would be the one working hard to get and keep her.
He was an "older person in a younger person body, he wouldnt let me drink and smoke". Sounds like you had a responsible man and you screwed it up ma'am.
I remember one young attractive lady I met. We exchanged numbers. When I called, I heard loud baby screaming and her yelling at someone in the background. Her "roommate" (female) was kicking her and her baby out of the hotel they were staying in and she asked if I could help her 😂👀 I politely directed her to one of those family services charities and dipped.
So you're going to smoke, drink, and party with Club Ratchets, while bringing 4 kids to a man to take care of? You're asking too much. You should be looking for the guy who scrapes gum off park benches. And that's your ceiling.
BW is the only race that's does this mess on social media Decent White women gets married, and enjoy the life style that the white husband affords her, they are quiet and living good 🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫
Hood starter package 1. Lace front 2. Long eye lashes 3. Long nails 4. Bbl 5. Air Jordan nike low top 6. Bonnets 7. 5000k kids and 7000k bd 8. Nose rings or any rings like sonic the hedgehog 9. Section 8 cabinets 10. Chest or neck tattoos 11. Weed smoker 12. Bd die because he a hood guy that was caught up in trouble. Didnt die from natural cause.
She's a kid herself..Zero self or situational awareness. Those kids are going to struggle 😫. Hopefully they are smart and can get scholarships. I'm scared to have 2 kids and I'm financially way better off than her. And here she is without a care in the world with 4 and looking for a new man.
Wait... wait!!! So he was "controlling" because he cared about her and wanted her healthy and to care for her body and not be smoking, drinking and out at parties with friends..... she left what sounds like a decent man and father of her children to be in the streets... unbelievable.
No it isn’t who can take care of a family of 6 on 40k? You’re insane. But this is the dilemma, if i make money, i dont have to chose a single mom. But if i make 40k i cant afford a woman w/ another mans children
@marquiwill1 how much money does she make??? If she can afford hers and you can afford yours then when you combine money and expenses then it will be cheaper. Its basic math bruh 😂😂😂 its not that hard.
That ain't no durn baby hair, that's a wig....like yours Kendra. Kendra be baiting y'all up 🤣. Know dog on well she had one of those bands on that 5 head with some gell...Stop da cap!!!
@@Forever_JS12 When a baby turns a certain age, especially with 4C hair, the soft and straight hairs along the neckline turns into NAPS and the hair along the hairline (if she has one) becomes course and not as tameable. Hint as to why they use the gell to lay down the Course Hair. Most of that baby hair is made from shit like recycled bottles and sometimes cleaned and recycled from other countries. Some of y'all might be wearing the recycled sandals 🩴 of an Indian man on your head....too funny 🤣 That's why they pat their heads when it's hot... Athletes Foot of the scalp 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Forever_JS12 I'm a Graphic Designer working with a large firm.... it's our job to create the packaging to "sell" 🤣....And majority of the time the clients lie. If the FDA will allow certain products to be sold with cancer causing agents when consumed, there are no regulations to the chemicals used in wigs. We make the "bundle" packaging/hangtags look pretty for a reason.... Y'all can't resist 😎✌🏾
She left her man of 3 kids because he told him to stop drinking, smoking and having rachet friends? Years later, she still has her friends and lost the man. Even the next one won't accept the same vices.
