Because we have been taught and conditioned that neon melodrama is Life, we have a built-in sufferer by default ... I love the notion he suggests to locate the sufferer and that in fact there are no buttons to be pressed ... we made it all up through indoctrination, Hollywood, identity politics, guilt trips laid on us by churches and education and institutions and groups that cultivate victimhood, shame and guilt. What a beautiful being this man is. His teachings are worth everything to me, along with other mentors who I have found and found me along the way for the past 52 years. I am 77 and thrilled to say I treasure all that each day brings to make me more aware and more grateful, and less lulled by the lure of society and materialism even though I love to play with and create with "stuff". Freedom from conditioning and awe for the mystery of Life is the highest art form for me, and nectar for my everyday life.
@@marietorri Marie thank you, you caused me to re-read this and to savor it. These days I have gone back to A Course in Miracles study. It is the most difficult but the most liberating. I love David Hoffmeister as my teacher. He lives totally outside the illusion, best I can see.😇
Looking for evidence that it was mistreated and unloved. Even worse, it is so wanting to prove that it is right that it will find itself unable to accept even the most sincere demonstration of love.
Very true, but when dealing w/depression resulting from actual trauma/violence/assault, the topic isn't quite as "light" or laughable. I'm searching for the path, but at times, as Jung said, the ego is also protective. This is where boundaries can become confusing.
"Don't create the sufferer - just see if it can be found" "Stay empty- just keep looking." "All is taking place in the Isness" "The most heavy experience you can have is to experience life as a person"
@Thank You That is very heartbreaking to hear. I'm so sorry for your loss. Just try to trust that you will find the strength and Grace to carry on. Just do your best and Life will help you heal from this. Trust as best as you are able. Peace :)
Remember that to every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. So after a strong period of meditation and teaching, once you leave that supporting environment, all these strong doubts and reasonings come. Don't be impressed by them at all! That is your ego fighting for it's life! Your ego, mentality, etc. needs doubts, conflict, contradictions to stay alive. If you stay still, centered and confident in the still center with all these waves of reactions coming back, just stay still inside. You have to find it for yourself. We all encourage you to keep sitting, don't be seduced by those dancing daughters of samsara. Just stay still and focused on the center of meditative experience. Dont get involved with it, don't do anything. Just sit with it and stay in your center. What Mooji says here is exactly right. Depend on him.
I want to thank God I came across this video. I was thinking to kill myself tonight and then I found this. I thank god for Moojii. I Thank god for the person who owns this RU-vid Channel.
If you ever have feelings like that again, just remember (if you can) that everything changes and nothing stays the same......all those feelings will pass and life will be better.
chica2030 Dear Chica, I trust you are feeling better...Yes...this is a great tool “message” from God through Mooji. I am also so glad you found this message. It was here for you to discover. We find what we need to find along our path when we are ready and open. Blessings to you! May you be Happy, May you be safe, May you be free of suffering. 🌈🙏🏼💖🕊🌷🌟
chica2030 beloved Chica.... remind yourself every morning you are a precious beautiful soul & a gift to the world.... I pray you have transformed the experience & in a state of strength & power now!!! Sending you love & light! I applaud u for having the courage to share your experience 👏🙏🌸🌺✨✨✨
Step 1 : Let the body feel the negative emotion , let it be , don't appose it , it has come and it will pass , Your body is made to take the emotion, let it be. Step 2 : Know what message it is giving , For ex : You are going to be jobless , you will suffer poverty etc. Step 3 : Try to know to whom does this message is concerned , who is suffering it. Try it..... All the best , You are free only when you k ow you are not the sufferer
@@bartmeise3450 No, it is the body and the mind that suffers pain. YOU are not the body or the mind and neither are your children. Above all provide Love for your children. Work to provide for needs, not wants and do not confuse the two in your mind.
This has really struck a cord with me. Sometimes I often forgot spiritual teaching and become to identified with personhood. I am this I am that. Labels in otherwords however listening to this has gave me a sense of serenity and calm again hopefully it sticks :) thank you Mooji 🙏❤️
Ok, so I was already able to use this. And the sufferer is the girl (me) in the sad story called "my life". You know, the woman that doesn't even exist...... except in the sad story in the head. And the incident wasn't even personal. It actually was just people doing their thing. Somehow the made up sense of personhood made it about itself. This is a GREAT tool. Thanks for uploading. Imma use it a lot. Namaste to you and Mooji Baba.
What synchronicity listening to this piece for me this morning. I will be meeting with my brother today. I see him about once a year. He has always enjoyed bullying me throughout my life or so it seems to me. I know it must be a deeper resentment. I hero worshipped him until I was in my fifties and realized why I couldn't please him or get the time of day from him. We will be going to dinner where he will talk directly to my husband but will not look or talk to me if history repeats itself. Here is a way to not get wrapped up in that feeling of contempt from him. A single gay man, he grew up in the 60's, I feel compassion for how tough life has been for him. Compassion not rejection. Thank you Mooji, even your name makes me smile.
I have the opposite problem. I've just seen off an old friend who has been holidaying in my home in Asia. He's BPD with NPD and to say basically, simply ignore him, is impossible. He's all fun and laughter one minute (quite literally) and nasty and murderous the very next. I've put up with Mr Hyde for the sake of Dr Jekyll all these years but have come to the end of my rope with it all. I have tried ignoring/silent treatment but it's impossible when you have someone storming about making snide remarks for no reason. He's threatening a return visit in a couple of months. Hey! Mooji! Come around and work your magic on the bastard please. Free room and board :D
@@tamsinthai if this old friend is so obnoxious, why don't you set boundaries and/or stop communicating with him. Don't be such a martyr. Life is too short. I would not put up with that!
This is a very powerful message for me...I engaged myself in a search to I.D the "sufferer" and found some interesting results. The first thing I felt was my mother being the sufferer because of her inability to be a helpful parent...she id gone now . but I'm guessing she had a tough time reconciling her her behavior..the second thing I felt was the suffering that Jesus endured at the hands of predators..that thought haunts me...I will continue to search
Sri Ramana Maharshi said that the only true test of a gnani is the peace you feel in his or her presence. When I listen to Mooji my spirit flies free and I see/am the beautiful truth that makes me simply start laughing. ❤️
Mooji so beautifully, with such crystal clarity carries you on this journey into self discovery. He make you feel and live with the whole inward process
@sunn power physical suffering is a whole different thing.Your words are very true and sad,but im 99% sure this comment was only talking about ego- based mentall suffering.
Agreed. Sexual assault is not "all in the mind" & to try to convince someone he/she was not violated feels cruel. I adore Mooji. I feel this is a different topic however, than "rejection" as a topic, followed by audience laughter.
Mooji is my savior..he touches my soul so deeply every time I hear him or even more when I feel lost or owerhelmed by the world around me..for long time now I felt a heavy burden in my cheast(Iam in a dark night of the soul)and he took it away with his presence today.Iam so blessed!thank you,thank you,thank you dear Mooji&much love&light to all💞
Thank you for publishing this excerpt. I often can't make it through Satsang as i have trouble sitting through the painful questioners.. LOL I would like more of these. I love to hear just MOOJI speak, soothes my soul. Also here he gives the similar guidance that several other teachers are giving us. Elsewhere it has been given the name 'completion process' and it works!!! Thank you Beloveds
oh great mooji i'm so glad to have located you on my way to bangladeshi i found your transforming and healing speach to be very uplifting and now i'm on a jet vehicle on my way to dharamsala to discuss with the great tibetan yogi ashram banogee.
im so greatful for all you wonderful beings sharing ALL your love n wisdom to God's beloved children... So greatful... it makes me so happy n touched... 😊😍💖
Thanks for your upload and for Sri Mooji for showing the path. I found my lust for life since I am not in a fight with a non-existing idea of myself. Infinite LOVE is here.
"Projections not working. BingGo". It is the Ego wanting control over the relationship. If your control is not work you think things are wrong and you want it over or want the other person to be different (More like YOU want them to be) That is not love. Control and Projection is NOT Love. They are who they are. Love Them or separate yourself from them. Be sure your Monkey Mind is not creating the problem when they are not doing the things you "think" they are doing. Negative emoting is "thinking" Thoughts are not real. Wanting leads to suffering, Loving is free it is excepting everything.
