@@jubeehyades2603 I had problems with the phrasing of it..it was not what's wrong? Are you okay? Are you angry? Is everything alright?..it could have been a thousand things but it was "why can't I place my hand there"..knowing someone's limits also includes understanding nobody will be "accessible" always.
@@Weirdo0258 if I had a boy friend, I actually wouldn't let him touch or hold my leg since je actually doesn't owns me. I am the owner of my own body. (I'm asexual and aromantic (I preferred it in this way because of my young age)) But they probably are letting them to hold their legs, etc. I don't think that if it was in other way they could be "happy couples." It would be just a toxic, disturbing and unhealthy relationship. (since it is kind of a sexual attack (if she didn't want it ofc))
@@MutevaziEgoist I am not sure I understood ur comment completely..but kudos for acknowledging and asserting your preferences even though they are not conventional ..sending u love. Also yes, we are the owner of our bodies, no one else..I used to place my hands on my girlfriend's thighs like that when we were sitting together..and sometimes she would brush it off and it was totally okay just as sometimes I didn't like her touching me
Regardless of whether this is a prank or not, if ur girl throws off ur hand, don’t try to put it back in unless she says u can. Works vice versa too, regardless of gender.
Idk why everyone finds this cute. Like it's weird that she's telling him not to place his hand there but he's acting as he owns the place. If a dude did that with me, he'd be a dead guy
Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you own the other person... have respect for personal space. These tiktok may be under consent but people watching this may get the wrong idea that this is okay. Dating violence often times looks harmless and “cute”.
You my good friend have my Whole respect, And Yes I know This Is Just for Fun and Might be Cute Which it is, But i just Hope They aren't Too Pushy Like They Should Always Respect Their Personal Space Too (I Could care less If Their Girlfriends Dont mind and all) But Aside Those I Hope Boys Keep In Mind That Personal Space Is Important And Must be looked As a Line Not to be Cross That ks Unless They dont mind
Yeah, the guys reactions were very concerning. Its never ok to persist touching someone when they tell you to stop, even in a relationship. Also, how do these girls think its funny to brush off their boyfriends hand and not say anything? That's hurtful too. Its better to say, "I need space" or "I'm not in the mood, maybe later." That will dispell any misunderstanding or hurt feelings.
Am I the only one who sees this kind of childish behavior? I know the girl is acting but still, if the girl doesn't want you to touch her, what are you doing touching her again? I don't understand why they get angry. It's not like they told you something super bad or they would have insulted you. It's not cute at all.
I agree with you and I hate it when the girls get mad after they tell a guy no and when the guy is like alright a lot of females get butthurt and yeah I know guys do the same thing just not as much as the girls
Laura C. No but what if daily they keep their hands on the thighs, I don’t see a problem but if the girl isn’t comfy then they shouldn’t but the girls don’t look uncomfy
@@yourmom-mw5uw Sure, I understand what you mean but what I mean is the attitude that boys have when they see the girl take their hand away. They get angry and act like they're offended that she took their hand. She only took your hand, it's okay, you don't have to get angry or take it the wrong way.
@@yourmom-mw5uw Even if it was something they did every day, there is no reason to get angry. Just because your partner doesn't want you to put your hand there one day doesn't mean that they are angry with you or don't love you anymore (to give some examples). It means that the person doesn't feel like being touched that day and you as their partner have to respect that. If you both love and trust each other, there is no reason to get angry. Do you understand what I'm trying to say? (I'm telling you this in a neutral way, I'm clarifying it because the writing seems to sound rude, but that's not my intention ;)
Patting or laying your hand on a partner's leg is the easiest way to show quiet, tender affection in the car. These women are obviously ok with it and chose to play a cruel prank at the expense of their partner's feelings. I mean, if someone threw you off for giving a simple hug, wouldn't you be slightly hurt? Also, some guys are more physically affectionate than others, and just have be gently reminded when the other partner needs space. These women brushing their partner off isn't funny or cute, its completely cringe.
@@s.e.e455 no no no. If my partner did this, id be scared. If i dont want to be touched, ur gonna respect that or be single. if u have a partner and do this, dont be surprised if u get sued for sexual assault lmao
@@Momusicrec oh no, I agree, I'm a girl. I don't think that a boy should persist putting his hand back if the girl wants space. That's not ok. What I'm saying is that if you usually don't mind, and you brush the guys hand off and he politely asks, "what's wrong?" and you give him the cold shoulder, thats not ok either. I mean, if someone pushes you away for giving them a simple hug and doesn't say anything, wouldn't you be slightly hurt? Men have feelings too, and people need to be sensitive to them too.
This is really cringe and sorry but to me it's like really posessive and dominant... I don't like it. And the guy who asked if she's on her period...if he said it to me he would be dead by now
@@samswink1360 i wasn't saying that they aren't in a stable relationship i was saying it bc it was a REACTION video so they could have been serious about and the guys were forcing it on them, that was what i had a problem with
I hope nobody gets discouraged watching this. Being single isn't something to be ashamed of you know. Relationships has its own comfort but happiness doesn't have to come from being in a relationship. To all single people out there, I hope and pray that when you find that person you can proudly say, I'm glad I waited. Best wishes!
are yall okay??? like seriously, that is NOT normal. if he just invades your private space without asking consent, no one knows what he might do in the future....
I- it’s a normal thing that couples do. Also the girls were obviously joking just to get a reaction out of him. They guys in this video weren’t being aggressive or anything they were literally touching their girlfriends thigh! Being aggressive would be that hes touching her all over and she repeatedly said no WITHOUT recording. This is just a trend so don’t take it seriously.
Also I must mention that the girls obviously asked for consent before taking the video and the only reason they were pushing the guys hands back was for a tiktok. Every relationship is different and it’s fine if they wanna be a little touchy but it’s NOT fine if they wanna be aggressive
@@Amarimwah i know, of course. but on tik tok there are a lot of 12 yo seeing this. they might get the wrong idea and think this actually okay. i really do not mind someone joking like this, but people are romanticising the wrong shit
@@kaitlynnm2440 Isn't touching your partner as long as they're okay with it a normal????? I get that the girls were saying no but they were obviously joking and if they were serious why would they record it?????? If the girls weren't laughing and if they weren't recording it I think that the guys would react differently but in this situation its obviously for laughs. It's not like the guy is some creepy dude off the subway, its all their BOYFRIENDS. This shouldn't be creepy nor should it be interpreted as creepy. If the boyfriend was abusive that's a whole other topic that I am against but this trend is just for fun. No need to stress out about it.
Fynneous Black if she doesnt want his hand on her body, he should back the fuck out. its a prank and probably scripted, but its a bad example about consent
Fynneous Black He put his hand on her body, SHE pushed the hand away. This may seem playful and funny but if she doesn‘t want him touching her body, if she doesn‘t consent to it, it‘s technically even sexual assault. This is just harmful.
@@bellatrixryddle1731 The tiktok doesn't really work unless you usually have no problem with the hand placement. (Not to mention that these are probably scripted anyway)
I can't be the only one thinking how if this were an actual situation and this was their reaction to me clearly not wanting their hand there i would flip out on the inside---
That’s a big no for me like... what if she actually doesn’t wanna be touch and remove your hand how is it supposed to okay to put your hand on her thigh again without asking first
I think it might be because it’s a normal for them Like you’re always holding hands then just one day they don’t want to it kinda might put them off Idk though
I don't know why maybe it's about my family and my country but if my boyfriend touches/holds my leg like it I feel awkward and uncomfortable bc he is my bf not my husband
I dont get how is this consider cute??? If she really didn't like him touching her at that moment is fine. This guys are just dramatic and yes, toxic af.
It just depends your relationship, if it’s something that you two usually do and then out of the blue she/he rejects you they may assume something is wrong or you’re upset about something.
@@ghanaianqueen2247 yeah, its normal to asume that something is wrong, but if something IS wrong, you ask, and if they dont wanna Talk about It you let them space. You should never touch your partner without them being confortable
@@justinjacobo9930 Now imagine how girls are annoyed when SOME guys (well, majority I guess) always assume it has something to do with our body rather than literally anything else
because most times,that's some girls excuse or that's how they behave when theyre on their period.And yeah that's the first thought that comes to mind especially when someone is acting piss all of a sudden like usually their girls allow it then suddenly they dont.What else do you want them to think of?
@sso young ahm I think he said that because usually when he touches her leg ,she doesnt resist then suddenly acting like that.And hand is almost near her private part,he might have thought she doesnt wanna get touched on her leg while shes on her period.
I see a lot of people in the comments mentioning "What if she really didn't want him to place his hand there 😡" and honestly that sort of thought is valid. Though all these women were comfortable with it, you can hear the smile in their voices and their little giggles behind the camera, which is why their significant others continue. They're just playing around, like genuinely. And I think that's pretty cute 🥺❤
If you are one of these boys: if this wasn't a joke and your girlfriend genuinely says no and tells you to stop, you don't do it again. You don't own their body anymore than they own yours. You can own a person's heart and belong to each other, but you can't demand something that isn't freely given. Respecting a male/female partner physically and emotionally, and giving them occasional space when necessary, is a must in any lasting relationship (for example, you have every right to say no if your girlfriend is doing something that you don't want to do at the moment). If you are one of these girls: Personally, I don't find this funny, and if this was real, giving the cold shoulder isn't nice either. If this was real tho, a simple "I need space," or "I'm not in the mood right now," will dispel any misunderstanding or hurt feelings. That being said, I understand that most of these are just jokes and not to be taken seriously. The girlfriends were giggling, so they obviously didn't mind. But I still didn't care for some of the boyfriend's reactions, it sounded rude and demanding. so I felt like making this post for that reason.
Eu só n consigo entender como todo mundo acha isso tão fofo, eu acho isso mt perigoso pq tudo bem é uma pegadinha é uma piada, mas se n fosse e eles tivessem acabado d sair d uma briga?ou se simplesmente o cara coloca a mão na sua perna e vc n quer, é mt chato insistir ainda mais QUANDO É CONTRA SUA VONTADE I just can't understand how everyone thinks this is so cute, I think it's very dangerous because okay it's a prank it's a joke, but if it wasn't and they would have just gotten out of a fight?or simply the dude put him hand on your leg and you don’t want it, it’s unpleasant to insist even more WHEN IT IS AGAINST YOUR WILL
a maioria delas e deles estavam sorrindo e claramente gravando, e eles estavam apenas rindo e perguntando também, além de q antes disso dava p perceber q estava tudo normal
The reason why they put their hand back is that it's something they are Al use too. Evrytime theyre in the car he has his hands on her leg or the other way round so
Okay? Was I supposed to laugh at this joyfully or "awww" at their sweet relationship? Cuz I ain't feeling any of it when all I could think is how most of the men kept placing their hands back on the girls' thighs even after it got removed, like, they didn't bother to think why or what or is she uncomfortable or anything. It was like "babe we have done this a million times, so why say no now? I basically own that thigh, hell with what you feel or not." Pranks & stuffs are good. But these.....a big NO.
Patting or laying your hand on a partner's leg is the easiest way to show quiet, tender affection in the car. These women are obviously ok with it and chose to play a cruel prank at the expense of their partner's feelings. I mean, if your significant other threw you off for giving a simple hug, wouldn't you be slightly hurt? Also, some guys are more physically affectionate than others, and just have be gently reminded when the other partner needs space. These women brushing their partner off isn't funny or cute, its completely cringe. With that said, I do agree that the boyfriends shouldn't have persisted to put their hand on the girls leg, they should've asked if something was wrong.
This just makes it fake The guy knows she’s recording So he goes on with the flow Because if he doesn’t know and he actually acts like that Hun you’re better off without him Don’t EVER date someone controlling If you take his hand off your lap He shouldn’t react anything bad He should say “sorry if I crossed the line” Because some girls including me don’t like getting touched on my lap or anywhere These boys aren’t nice ones They keep putting their hands on her lap even if she’s pushing it away Those aren’t good relationships I would’ve said awwww if one of them stopped putting their hand on her lap after she swatted it Imagine the camera out, And she’s actually mad, What would you think would happen? They would still act like this, wont they? And she gets annoyed so she screams They get into a fight. Another version. She pushes his hand He asks “Hey...are you mad or something...if its because of me I’m sorry...” The girl softens up, She explains why she was mad, He helps her Baam. See? You shouldn’t date someone that won’t give you space. Sorry for the long comment
My boyfriend would never go past my boundaries like that. If I move his hand off of me he would not persist and keep trying to place it back. He would simply just ask me why I am not okay with it at the moment and then not touch me again. And he jokes around a lot and messes with me a lot. But still, he would never do something that I am uncomfortable with.
I can't believe not one of these men respected the fact their girlfriend didn't want to be touched just then, even after their hand was repeated flung back at them 🤯
