My heart is so full hearing this big life change for you. I feel I have lived in this damn loft myself after following you since 2020. I am so happy for you and JS this is such a big life change!!!
Zoe i adore your transparency and honesty! we're at different life stages but i really feel better knowing there are other young women just trying to make a life we can be proud of 💕 also intuition is everything!! i don't know if you're into astrology but i'm a cancer and we're supposed to be extra intuitive haha i try to always trust my gut and learn from the times i shouldn't have ignored it
I was actually thinking that you might move!!! I'm SO excited for this new chapter aaahh!!! 👏❤️ can't wait for the moving content!! Congratulations on this exciting new step sweet Zoe ✨️💕
OMG I am so excited for you ♥️♥️♥️ this is so beautiful, I am so happy ! I hope you are enjoying the new journey ! It’s about to be LIT, take care always sweetie. Been living with my partner for 10 years ! Fun , you will learn a lot about him and you !
The growth is HUGE! Think of where you were this time last year and now look at you! Even though I’m a few years older than you, you Zoe, are my inspiration! 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
My bf and I moved in together around the same ages you are now. We had been together since college and we also knew we were committed to each other and we both wanted to take the next step. It was so important to the development of our relationship and “growing up”. It’s been so positive for us and we’ve learned new means of communicating, our boundaries and how to let the little things go. Never regretted the decision. Good luck for you and JS!
Love that you leaned into your intuition! I’ve truly felt that turmoil of decision making and my personal goal for this year is leaning into the way my feelings manifest physically. Good luck and congrats Zoe!! 🎉
Exciting for your new journey in life, Zoe! It’s also a new chapter for us, your viewers, since we will not see your loft in your vlogs anymore but a new house and an office.
Ohhhhh! I just so excited for you and JS, hope the best for you both. I jump of excitement just reading the title of the video, I feel like my friend is living her best life and making decisions and being happy all the way 😁❤️✨ I told my best friend the news like you're my other closest friend and he knew you (he didn't) 😂 he look at me, blank stare, and said "ok" without any kind of comments, I was a little bit disappointed of him to not be excited like me 😬
@@ZoePritchard I hope....no, I know it'll be a great adventure to live with someone you love, you'll create so much more memories together. Get some warm hugs from Chile to Canada. I just wanna be IRL with you giving you positives energies and helping you guys carry boxes from a place to another, I love this process where you can refresh one object only moving it to another place. Hope you don't put me on charge to move the bed or couch, I couldn't handle the weight (again, I'm moved too many times to remember de how many was 😁😂)
Zoe i’ve been following your journey for years now and oh man how excited i am for you!!! Love to see you this happy 😇 You’re going to do big things in your life!!! And im here for all the content 🫶🤩
I think it is really wise to move in before being engaged, this way you can really get to know your partner on a deeper level before any serious commitments are made :)
Zoe this is so exciting! I'm so happy for you! I used to have the same belief about getting engaged before moving in with someone, and also recently had the same epiphany as you.
I am also unhappy with my home. I've gone from appreciating how sturdy it's built and wishing I could set it down in a different location to realizing the more i am at home and trying to function and live in my home it just isn't filling my needs and now I hate my home. But as I try to make it work it helps me identify what my next home needs to have. Thanks for the chat friend.
26:50 totally believe in getting an ick from your environment. I would get incessantly anxious in my last apartment for the same reason- the negative self spirits haha. But I’ve recently moved into my first very own apartment where I live alone and it has been quite the transition. Would appreciate some tips on how to avoid isolating yourself when living alone :) Great video and congrats to you and JS! Soooo excited for the moving vlogs!
Congrats Zoe on this significant life change! Living with a partner definitely is exciting and does have its challenges. But great things to come in 2023!.
Getting ready for my 1st day at my new job & I was like let me catch up on Zoe I haven’t watched in a few months & I saw the Title! Aahhhhh congrats! So excited for you! Let me keep watching lol
Love your videos Zoe. ❤ As a woman, please remember to invest in your own real estate/property one day. You’ll be paying rent to your partner/boyfriend for an apartment that he owns. As a feminist, I believe All women need their own money, space and independence, regardless of relationship status. Good luck with everything!
Ojalá sea algo bueno, mudarse con su novio es algo que muchas chicas jóvenes hacen creyendo que apuestan a la relación y en realidad se subordinan a los deseos de otro. Espero que el nuevo lugar tenga espacios para ti y para tu compañera, de manera que puedas seguir siendo tú y creciendo. Blessings
I've always wanted to live with my partner before getting engaged and I totally feel you on the being ready to live my partner but not being ready to do the whole wedding thing
Sooooo agree with you ! If it’s meant to be … it’s easy and peaceful if you have to work and stress and change to get it ITS not meant to be !!!! Glenda
OMG so exciting! Can't wait to see this new chapter of your life and relationship with JS! LoL I bet your landlord doesn't mind cause they're gonna be able to charge way more to the next tenant!
Hello Zoe, long time admirer of your content. i am so happy for you. you’ve come a long way. As a religious guy i can Say God has ordered your step :D . Congratulations on the new journey. And JS call coming when you were saying all that. Hmmmmmm you never know 😅 might be a sign. Can wait for the next video have a blast and God bless
I've watched a ton of your videos and this is my first time seeing the bae...I am so happy for you two! Btw, I was mad for the both of you about not getting any utensils at the end. Lol! ❤
So happy for you! I always think that when things start to line up, it’s the universe signaling that what I’m doing is right. Always always listen to your intuition, it’s your natural instinct kicking in. I love to reach that point one day where I can listen to my intuition but I’m such an indecisive and overthinking individual, it puts everything into disarray lol. Your growth thus far has been monumental - you know what you want and what you don’t want!
Ahhhh congrats Zoe!!! That is such exciting news and I'm so happy for you and JS. I loved my independence too but started living with my partner at the beginning of the pandemic and I honestly cannot imagine it any other way now. Living with your partner is a beautiful experience and so worth the tradeoffs. I'm excited to see the change in scenery in the vlogs and see you thriving in an office 😍
Also what you described about the guilt about your apartment in therapy it’s called a negative core belief. Once you let go of it you won’t be triggered by those thoughts anymore like you described.
I'm here for the maggie broll LOL. This is a big deal - hope it goes smoothly I'm moving cuz my landlord was trying to increase my rent 18% So I'm leaving. Found a place for the same price that's bigger
Young couples around here have commitment ceremonies…they take the awesome holiday just the two of them and give each other a promise ring, this is there commitment until they decide to get married or not
If JS were to whisk you away to Paris next week, Zoe, get down on bended knee and propose with a gorgeous ring - would you say yes? If the answer is no, don't move in with him. If the answer is yes, what's he waiting for.
Well, I've only read a few of the comments and my response is going to be totally different from the majority of other people's but you want our honest opinion, right? Don't move in with him without being married. You reasoned yourself into living with him. That wasn't intuition, it was you reasoning yourself combined with growing dis-satisfied with your apartment (until it got decluttered). People can, and do, leave each other. But being married is definitely a commitment, the biggest you and he can make to each other. Being married is beautiful and happy and safe. A woman and a man are way better off not living together until they are married. Even though I don't know you in real life, I care enough to tell you what I honestly think.
This is the point: you don’t know her and the situation completely, so it’s not your place to judge. I get that for you living with a partner without getting married is not an option, but it is for other people and that is perfectly fine.
I completely understand your reason for making this move. However, I would rethink moving in with JS until you're married. If you love him just wait. A woman should never play the part of a wife unless she is an actual a wife on paper. Yes, anyone can walk out of your life at any time, but a piece of paper can change a lot of things when they do.
@@Marie.l03 lol, why are you so upset about my opinion 😂. I'm a long time subscriber of hers and I gave advice just like her other subscribers gave. I'm sure I'm older then her. I'm a woman thats lived and learned from my past mistakes. One of my biggest mistakes I made, was not listening to other women who had made the same mistake before me. 1950's dont have anything to do with it. Besides its not a law. Its just advice, she can take it or leave it. It's just that simple. Enjoy your day.
@@Marie.l03 Also, to reply to your statement. People don't need to get married. Reasons down below. 1. If you love someone so much that they are your forever person why not make it official beforw God and the law. 2. If your forever person dies, or gets sick. Their next of kind will make all the decisions on their health and can even stop you from seeing the person all together. 3. Most longer term couples have children at some point. Do you not want the same last name as your children. Plus, if your good enough to have his kids, why aren't you good enough to have his last name. 4. We all know nothing in life is perfect. So people and marriages don't work out sometimes. However, the difference is a little piece of paper will determine a lot of future factors that most departing couples have a hard time figuring out. It's pros and cons to everything in life. However, some situations have more pros then cons.
@@BudgetwithAllisonSummer I’m not upset, just giving my opinion like you did! People do have the choice to do what they want to do! And just to be clear, in Québec, you can’t legally change your name after you get married, it’s the law! You have to keep your own name and your children can have both dad’s and mom’s names! And about the next of kin, in Québec, you can have a notarized will with your last wishes, even if not married. It’s a very common thing here! But you are right, there are pros and cons to everything!