Mum & Bride Clash Over Eccentric Dress With A BLACK Veil! | Say Yes To The Dress 

Yeah, that made me scratch my head too. She's a horror story.

In typical fashion she exceeded her budget too. Of course I'm sure it's money she's worked n saved for...

She does explain when she comments that black is an example of what she really wants: something that people haven’t seen before, something unexpected perhaps. I don’t remember her exact words but we get the sense that feathers and black are within the spirit of what she wants without being mandatory. You don’t see her saying that to the consultants though, so we do feel like -> 🤦‍♀️ I guess there wouldn’t be a show without some editing emphasizing that sort of issue 😅

EXACTLY!! I was screaming because how are they going to pull what you like if the stuff you tell them isn't actually what you want. The only thing that kept to what she told them is poofy princess dress. It wasn't feathers, it wasn't black. Consultants can only work with what YOU tell them. I hate brides like her.

They don't specialize in black

She said she wanted something "different", and the silver was different enough for her

@@brockreynolds870 1:40 She literally said focus on black and feathers and the sales staff haven't a clue what she wants. Were they mind readers? You say black n feathers n the first "different" dress she picks is sweetheart neckline with lace?! I'm a fan of Randy's n thought it wasn't his fault she didn't say silver ballgown rather "focus on black and feathers"

Attention seeking is what she is. She still doesnt know her identity.

@@snsn7251 yeah, she thought she wanted to be different. The. They brought her different and she was like no I’ll take the mainstream dress thanks. I guess it’s different because she overpaid for it.

This is literally how every salesmen/ saleswoman felt like inside, “yeah we’re having another shopping Karen here”😑

For $10k she should be able to get exactly what she wants...not choose from 5 dresses while being filmed for a TV show.

She wasn't rude at all...she was direct and decisive. and OMG!! "Normally we don't take a bride shopping"? I wouldn't even walk in that store after that comment. Would you buy a car without walking through the lot?

You're not the only one. She screams entitled brat to me....and she had no idea what she wanted when she walked in then blamed them for literally finding dresses that fit what she said because that's "not what it was about"....🙄

She was super snotty at the consultants for bringing her what she asked for then immediately went out and picked something with none of the features she asked for. It's fine to stand your ground, but she had a terrible attitude doing it.

@@rivertam7827 They shouldn't have stuck her in the back room and "brought her stuff" in the first place. They should have been taking her around the showroom and showing her things.

Exactly!!! I just said the same thing. She's trying so hard to be unique and it just goes to show she's NOT. People who're actually edgy don't even know they're edgy. It's not an act. Not something they're consciously doing.

Exactly

Yes ... trying to be sooo different but really no.

@@cocokai9661 legit.

Her version of being edgy and eccentric is to just always do the opposite of what other people do/like. I haven’t finished the video yet but I think she’ll only like a dress that her family doesn’t like, and if her family does like a dress she’ll change her mind and decide she hates it. She’s not original, she’s just contrarian.

You are SO right, sister!!

And she was so annoyed at the consultants for not picking the right dresses, but whenever she went to pick one it was nothing like she said she wanted???

10k dress though - woa!

She is a horror. Good luck to her groom.

Exactly! Her facial expressions and everything was very disgusting!

Yeah, she not confident in herself and has no idea who she is. She's also only thinking about what other people will think of her rather than how it makes her and only her feel. She's going to have a miserable life living this way.

Spoilt that’s why

I don’t know…is the first bride mature enough to be married?

“But I am different”! 🙄

She's insecure in what she really likes and she's probably afraid to speak up. It isn't easy.

She reminds me of Isla Fisher

Her makeup and facial expressions, combined with that gross hair "style" she wore, made her look quite ugly, frankly. Nothing "adorable" about her at all.

@@jb6712 what is wrong with you

I hope the first one does, too.

She looked absolutely stunning!! That dress looked beautiful on her, and it's not a dress that I'd normally like!! 🥰❤️

Most artificial “weeping” ever. The dress didn’t suit her at all. To use a phrase from the first brides family, it “made her look heavy”. She was entitled too, just not as bad as bride 1.

Right away this speaks to me of a marriage that is not going to last. She is so indecisive and wants to be edgy and you can’t really be married and be edgy all the time.

Yeah she was completely awful

But isn't Marlene British?

She asked for a big ballgown with feathers. There wasn’t a single dress in that room that matched that description.

She has absolutely no manners. So rude and immature.

She has a RU-vid channel

She said eccentric it has many definitions Her definition probably means Unique My definition of eccentric after watching this is peculiar idiosyncratic. New Hubby is most likely in for a world of pain lol Her eye rolling towards consultants came across extremely arrogant

She’s got the “ I’m not like other girls” syndrome bad. A good way to tell Is how they point out the reason why they are wearing the things they do, only because it makes them feel different. When I assure you, every girl who wants to feel different goes for black or crazy colors. Not because it fits their personality but because they think it makes them feel unique.

I really hate when brides use the words "unique" or "different." What should matter is how a bride feels/looks in a dress (and it's price), not whether or not it is different from other brides'. Truly, not only are the many brides not attending the others' weddings, but no one ELSE cares if all brides in the same shop buy the same dress.

First bride -Self absorbed and spoiled

She's #notlikeothergirls

Yep, she doesn't value relationships compared to getting what she wants. For me, a wedding is a celebration to be witnessed by people I care about and if I can invite all those people, why not? But some women focus more on the wedding dress that is for one day and not people and relationships that can last a lifetime for the most part. However, this is just me.

She'd be doing them a favor if she does.

Yes, she is so selfish!

Divorce in two years... no doubt

@@whatevergoesforme5129 Totally!

Some are synthetic but yeah at this price they would be real which is sickening and should be upsetting for her if she loves birds so

She has a You Tube channel where she shows off all the birds she owns. A lot of birds. She seems much nicer on her YT channel. She really seems to love and care about her birds. She even has a line of bird care and feed that sells in pet stores.

@@rhodareid274 what's her RU-vid name?

That's exactly what I was thinking. So strange

You do realize birds shed feathers all the time, right? Lmao.

I didn't hate the dress but I didn't love that huge flower in the front. Remove that and I think everyone would have been on board immediately but it was probably the thing she loved about it since without it there would have been other dresses like it. Just goes to show there is a purpose for all of the different fashions.

Same here

They seem like haters tbh

They are cousins and the bride looks wayyyy prettier than them. Smelled like pure jealousy 😒

@@LakshairathnIn my perspective, they are just very straightforward people who say their opinion as it is, no sugar coat and no soft lies. They aren’t tying to be mean but think they mean well by saying their truthful opinion and not lie. People have different views on what they like and they see as pretty so they gave her their opinion on the dress (which was that they didn’t like parts of it). They didn’t call her names or insult her beauty as a person. They even were so understanding and supportive when she came out again and said that the dress is the one and wanted everyone to like it. If they truly were jealous/hating, they would have called her ugly (beyond not liking to dress) and refused when she came out again. Also remember they are the bride’s family and seeing how such a sweetheart she is, I don’t think she will like people bashing on them from just a couple minute video.

The way she asked them to love her dress broke my heart.

I said yes to my very first dress back in 1980. I knew exactly what I wanted & found it at the first bridal shop we went to but my mom said we should try on more just to be sure so I did. I ended up going back to the first dress because I knew it was the one for me.

It’s in her name! :)

I can’t believe they didn’t like that first dress. It’s beautiful and she looks perfect in it! ❤

I picked my first dress too. I tried on a bunch after to be sure, but spent the whole time stressing since it was off the rack and on sale and couldn't even be held for a day. When you know you know

I had a dress consultant a lot like you. And I just would like to say THANK YOU. I had several issues I was worried about. She eased that and I (and all my wedding guest) loved my dress! It literally spoke me. But it's ladies like you with a open attitude and the right guide that makes that so possible! You see what we can not and help us see that. It really does mean more than you'll ever know.

@@staceylynn4700 thank you so much! I’m glad you found your dress.

You are so right! I wish someone had told me that!

🤣🤣 most likely

They never got married but they’re still together, she’s a bird-education centered content creator. I’m pretty sure they literally just brought her in as an actress, this is very different from her normal persona lmao.

@@HorsesIC What does a bird-education centered content creator do? Sounds like a make up job like podcaster or "influencer".

@@ML-ul2zq She makes educational videos, vlogs, and blog posts for parrot and other pet bird owners. She also makes and sells parrot food, toys, and artwork. It's super niche but pretty interesting.

Why ? He chooses her he deserves that lol

Me too and I bet they are divorced by now.

She has a youtube channel. They are still together and seem to be doing just fine but I don't believe they ever got married. She has a very different personality on her channel and I think maybe this whole drama was just for show

@@SingingCrowie What is her RU-vid channel name?

@@SingingCrowie and who spends $10,000 on a dress and then doesn't actually have a wedding 🥴🤦‍♀️

Why should they "rush to hug her"??? Grief, what a childish thing to say and do!

Why, she's getting married for heavens sake with all the responsibilities that entail. Followed one assumes to be a mother. Goodness me!!!!

Me too, the only opinion I want for my wedding dress is my own :)

literally same, it’s my wedding, my special day it should be about what i like! Not others

She was foot stomping because they have her what she asked for, which is the worst part. Childish and limited in expressing her actual vision.

Right? She said eccentric, black, and feathers, then she herself pulled a white lace dress, saying it was exactly what she wanted then complained it wasn't her vision....??? Omg

… that’s not really a pick me…

@@Aigle20350 not a pick me but definitely one of the people who say “there’s not like other girls”. She wants to be different so bad.

That's not what pick me is...but she is a "I'm not like other girls" kinda person. 😅

some ppl actually liek black and feathers… they ain’t all pick me, but she was fs a brat

I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes people focus too much on being different rather than what actually looks good on them.

Lol she looked like the day of the dead bride.

The black veil makes her look like a mafioso widow

Mother wasn't much better, and Dad sat there like a lump with nothing to say.

@@jb6712 maybe a man don't care so much about dresses... can't blame 😄

@@cree_VI Yeah but his daughter’s getting married, you would hope he’d care a little bit about it :(

@@rebeccaa.245nah most men aren’t gonna give a sh!t about a wedding dress lol

Yeah, she was adorable 🥰

She’s a darling!

She may be a different character in real life. It's hard to be natural with film cameras in you face. Sometimes they are encouraged to go a bit over top to make show more interesting. That is probably part of it

I wonder if they are on this programme and being filmed they pay for large part of dress anyway. There must be some kind of payment there

people are very judgemental..

To be fair, she did ask for unusual, making people talk factor. So she did get what she asked for

Its her big day but she is only bothered about jow she wants other a to react in her big day. she does not know what she want. all she wants is people to talk about her, she says her style but then she flipped away from feathers and black. looks like a confused teenager just wanting some attention

@@copperqueen1816 I get it, but I hope she is really aware of what she asked for and knows how to deal with people's gossip at the wedding, otherwise it's gonna ruin her 'big day'.

@@italianlifestyle7911 And for years/decades to come. They will not be talking about the ceremony, the couple, the food, the music, the reception or even how beautiful the bride looked. They will remember the black veil - and probably not in a positive way. Being "unique"/"different" is NOT necessarily good!

I mean it’s for her wedding… people better be looking at her

Agreed tbh she does sound spoilt

Exactly what I was thinking

Wtf she is RU-vidr, has been with this boyfriend for ages and he supports her sooo much in all her crazy projects literally perfect man for her

Maggie anne I totally agree

Is she as spoilt as she came across here?

@@neoandroid8586 She’s quirky and funny, knows how to perform for a camera. But I find her sweet and very genuine and knowledgeable about her birds.

@@critchie Maybe there she does not need to ask for anything so does not show that spoiled brat image like she does here?

@@neoandroid8586 ru-vid.com

But the dress didn’t look good on her. They were just being honest.

I didn't get it.. Still with her fiancé for.. 7 yrs..?

yes, i was surprised that in this video she was totally different than in her videos

WAIT THATS THIS MARLENE????

Marlene is kind of obnoxious

Would you explain a bit more, please?

She cares more for birds than being respectful to others..

You're kidding, right? Yes, she found a town she loved, no matter how tacky and over budget it was, but nothing she voiced would have led them to that dress. "I want black and feathers" is literally what she voiced. 😂

For 10 grand