Cowboy Bride Struggles To Find A Dress Her Stylish Sister Likes Too | Say Yes To The Dress 

The sister can wear what she wants at her wedding. The Bride should get what she wants.

The first dress is too plain.

@ *mariamartinusz* I agree. The first dress was classy! 🇨🇦

Absolutely... Fashionista? lollll... even her comments were not of an expert... should've been if she's a stylist.

Is it me, but every time they mention a fashionista member of the entourage, they''re just the opposite, and usually obnoxious too? As others said, I love that the bride consulted her fiancé and that he said yes, they're both lovely :)

The first dress was understated elegance...beautiful

Agreed! Very sweet.

What I can't understand is why people spend so damn much on weddings period- I've calculated costs, and even with a dress, we're looking at spending less than 2k TOTAL, and that's with everything including food. Yikes at some of these prices! 😬

@@TheGreeneBeaddepends on the person. sometimes weddings can’t be helped to be the dream day for some people. One of those people are 100% me. I’ve been saving for years so I can have a non budgeted dress and the perfect day. To me Marriage and Weddings are 2 different things !😂 marriage = my love I have for my partner , wedding = my childhood dream.

Yes exactly!

He was so sweet too. Green flags all around

I would have understood if he said no though if it was on the grounds that they couldn't afford it or something.

It's nothing special! If you think you're old enough and mature to get married then communication on every level is a must! Otherwise why bother...??

@@MsJubjubbird absolutely, but my point is that he was rational and fair to her regardless, and he wasn't a jerk about it. A lot of times you see family members who are paying that either won't put their foot down and the bride only cares about what she wants, or the person paying for it is being unfair and making demands about a day that isn't even for them. I'm just happy that they had an adult conversation about it.

That mother should have slapped down that bloody sister. Fiance was lovely, but she is a pretty girl. I just saw an Asian girl trying on wedding dresses in thrift stores, that were STUNNING. UTTERLY STUNNING AND... READY FOR THIS? $40. There is NOTHING clever about spending stupid money on silly things.

But yet many would complain if she wanted to get one her fiancé likes too. The double standards..

I appreciate that she ran it by him, but she should not feel she has to.

@@RevLeigh55 She didn't express that she "had" to, just that she felt more comfortable doing do b/c they had other big expenses.

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjI don’t think thats really a double standard because the reality is that every bride wants the groom to like the dress. Brides just want - and should - get the final decision since they are the ones wearing it. But that has little to do with this video, she just wanted to make sure he’d back her decision about spending money.

@@RevLeigh55 Some people can't afford to go higher. How would you feel if your partner went over the budget you discussed together without letting you know before hand? For me that's a trust issue

She didn’t even need his “approval”!

@@christinatutt3629Yes she does because when you are a couple, you need to consult each other. It is called respect.

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Not exactly. She didn't express that she "needed" his approval, just that she wanted it.

@@BasicYTHandleRegardless of whatever reason it was, at least she gave him a call to inform him instead of just going ahead just because she wanted it. I would inform my husband if I was in this situation.

@@christinatutt3629 If it's a shared account then they definitely need to discuss it. If its coming from her own account, then that's her money

Exactly!!

Agreed!! ❤

I dunno... my late husband made me very happy throughout the 24 years we had together and every time I hesitated over purchasing something for me, he always said "go for it! Get it! You deserve it! I want you to have it!" I don't want much, have always been a minimalist by inclination (if I don't have it, I don't have to dust it, wash it, maintain it, etc) but every now and then, I would feel an irrational attraction to something and he was always there to enable me. It wasn't always a big ticket item--it could be something like hesitating over a jar of Dundee marmalade at the store, which I love and he just didn't like at all (guess it's an acquired taste). If I so much as slowed down going past the marmalade, he'd be grabbing at the Dundee marmalade to put it in the cart and telling me "you love it, you know you do and I love to watch you eat it on toast!"

​@@GrainneDhuBless his beautiful soul❤ He is always there with you, no matter what ❤

I completely agree. Randy said it's the number#1 rule to never disrespect a bride and put her in a tough spot by bringing her a dress outside of her budget.

But yet if the woman says that it is a different story.

That's just your opinion. No reason to make a negative comment.

I was about to say that

Yeah she’s trash

@@sharonfarrar5316 , you must be the sister 😆

this SCREAMS early to mid 2010s...the hat, skinny jeans, big heel boots...probably some sort of hipster or 'not like other girls'....defo not 'stylish' in todays fashion

The bride always let's the family take over, no backbone 🤦🏽‍♀️

Perhaps when they are not brought along to give their input? It 'she's the bride' can't or won't handle opinions, she can always go shop alone.

@@blueice011I agree and if they don’t care for her family’s opinion then why bring them along? She could have shopped alone.

And why they had to do it?? It's not an obligation! Her marriage,her pay!

Have you contributed to your sister's wedding dress?

Agree. The guest dress was great on Katie.

Lol. The read! Not the fake Chanel shirt! 🤣

Katy just found out her fiance got a dirtbike for his wedding outfit.

Not if you’re a Quaker.

But she referred to herself as a "cowgirl."

@@BasicYTHandle came here to say that

So did I…there’s got to be something wrong with them that they didn’t!

There is lots of things we don't get to see, so I presume dresses the consultant was pulling were according an input the bride was giving her, however, I don't feel they were the best fit for her body type, her personality, nor wedding venue/team. She presents herself as simple, down to earth, country girl with matching taste and requirements when it comes to the dress. She is very slim and can pull off pretty much anything, but the dresses she was put in were for slightly fuller and curvier, lusher figure and for more formal, glamorous, even evening wedding. The bride wanted simple and comfortable, the sister wanted strapless lace - hardly something too difficult to find, or very fashionista. Nice, lacy, flowy, light and airy boho dress would suit far better bride's slender figure, her youthful, natural vibe and small country wedding. It would be something that suit her visually, fits great, is comfortable, fits the wedding theme and satisfies sister's requirements. The dress she ended up with is too formal and serious for her, does nothing for her figure and it doesn't fit country wedding theme. She is lovely, sweet girl and she did look beautiful regardless. I just feel she could do much better.

@@blueice011 You're forgetting the fact that the bride absolutely loved the dress. She didn't seem the sort to buy something she didn't love, esp something over budget.. you may not have thought it was the best for her, but she certainly did. I thought she looked absolutely beautiful, lovely in every way.

@@msdeviantdizzy It's just my opinion, as I clearly stated - as well that she did look lovely regardless. If you had an opportunity to see Gok Wan's work (SYTTD Lancashire) - that's what I had in mind. Way more healthy price range and huge selection of dresses in styles that Kleinfeld rarely carries, especially at up to 3k price range (Boho, Art Deco...) with stylist who alter them on bride's body on the spot to give her full experience of how the dress will look on her, together with expertise when it comes to style that will flatter her the most.

True, that one was really beautiful.

Loved it

I agree

For some reason everyone in the comments loves the first dress. Didn’t like the first dress on her.

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I thought the same thing. Why didn't her opinionated so-called "stylist" sister offer to make up the difference?

@@AFAskygoddessI agree but sadly they seem to want to take advantage of whoever they can.

​@@AFAskygoddess Could be because the bride and her fiance want to do it on their own and not have a whole shitload of money spent on one day. Their preference??

@@sharonfarrar5316 what loving sister and mother wouldn’t immediately step up? $300 isn’t make or break for mum and sis.

I was thinking the same thing. If my sister needed an xtra $300 for the dress she loved then I would have given her the money.

Whose?

So true

No she wasn't. The dress Katie likes best is the one she likes best. So what exactly is the problem you have with that?

I didn’t hate the boots but I’ve always hated those hats

The sister was not overly critical. The dress Katie liked best is the one the sister likes best. The sister was super supportive. Why can't the sister have an opinion?

Sister thinks she's being "edgy," when all she's doing is throwing on various garments that don't go together and make her look as if she dressed out of the bottom of her closet in the clothes that slipped off their hangers. I bet she spent hours doing it, though.

True, but this clip is probably 15 years old.

that fake chanel sweater too

AND the bride got the dress she wanted. Where is the problem? The sister had opinions. The bride brought her specifically for those opinions. Shame on you for not letting the bride receive the opinions she desired!

Yeah, those belts often ruin it completely 😣

I liked the belt. It would have been so plain without

Agree! Hate the belts