I used to get my mother-in-law the BEST presents for her birthday and for Christmas. I put so much thought and effort into them. I love gifting really sentimental gifts. Its too bad she tried to get my husband to divorce me LOL now she's not in our lives anymore.
Same, but I got tired her not appreciating me, thinking bad about me all the time, and stalking me, so I just gave up trying to please her since it was impossible
Dude Im just dating my partner, (yes I hope to marry them) but their mom doesn't like me, and I bought her a 600 washer and dryer set for Christmas last year and she still doesn't like me 😅🤣
Agree, and I was a very protective mother, but I teach independence to my 2 mans(now) and my daughter is independente, attention 🔞 you can love and protect your kid without spoiled him, I always let them do what they want, but I was there, I think they never knew it, but the house in general was day by day a 4 people job. No spoiled breakfast 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Only in this clip, in another she gets flowers from her son and the girlfriend doesn’t, and she makes sure to rub it in her face. “Oh you never got any flowers?” “They smell sooooo good”
He should be giving his mother this talk not her, or at least do it together. You have got to set boundaries with family and sending your spouse to “lay down the law” with your family or saying things like that’s what my “husband/wife wants” instead of this is what I/We want comes off as cowardly. It takes time and effort to establish a relationship/mutual respect to get to the point where your spouse can “lay down the law” without your family feeling uncomfortable about it but you have to take the lead in facilitating that.
Well she must be working helping paying the bills or something because a man shouldn’t have to pay bills and make his own food what is she there for then ?
@india-ds3wf LMAO I work and make my own food, and clean the house, and do everything. Because thats what adults do. But I forgot it's only not okay if it's a man child 😂.
Remember girls your mother in law will always be your mother in law they will never ever will love you like your own mother no matter how nice you are!
I think the son should have been the one to talk to the mom but if you haven't dated a momma's boy you don't know. and if I buy someone clothes I always leave the recipes in the bag so if they don't like it they can return it. it doesn't bother me.
Exactly agree, about the cleaning but, she's a little overbearing, just a little, but she is trying her best to not be in the way,( the Mom) she's just making sure that he is well taken care of like he be, my mom is the same way, so I no,
That man child will never have a lasting relationship. The mom wants to be the only woman in his life,and she will always find a flaw in whatever woman he chooses
No woman will be good enough for her son...".a son is a son till he takes a wife. " Roberts mother is a major controller..and faultfinder😮😮of Christy (.sad )
Overall she is good but she needs to give them some space and a lonely time. She is constantly going into their home and trying to do all the chores and staff like that..I think she just needs to give them room to grow their relationship and try not to interface with the small things
No that was petty to return it. I’m sure she’s not in dire need for clothes so if she didn’t like it, re-gifting the shirt to someone else or just never wearing the shirt would have been the proper thing to do.
I haven't seen this show just this scene. Why he didn't tell his mama this? And a message to the mom stop coming over. It may hurt you because you want to be around your son he's grown, but they will be calling you back. It doesn't seem like either one of them like to clean. They're both laid back.
Should have discussed this another time, not on her birthday 🤦🏾♀️ also, how long had these ppl been dating? Because if it had been less than a year who are you to tell his mother she can’t come around anymore? Also, HE should be the one to tell his mama to get gone, not her. That’s not her place whatsoever
And damn right it’s her place to say something if it’s HER home that moms coming to constantly lol tf 😂 I’d lock the doors n if she has a key which she prob does I’d change the locks
I pray for all of you who have had to go through this or are currently going through this. I had an amazing relationship with my ex fiancés mom and she’s still in my life to this day. She will always play such an important role to me and I’m so sorry some of you don’t get that experience
I don’t even understand why this mom is mad she just wants her to not be in her house almost all day everyday that not really to much to ask and she’s passive aggressive “ She might take my grandson and run off with him” huh??? And then returning the gift just because she got mad after the conversation she didn’t like💀
I don't see anything wrong with her not being comfortable wearing it. Just say ok Mamma as long as you loved I thought about you let's pick you something out you like! She wasn't hateful about the shirt so just let it be..
The girlfriend seem like a decent person but it’s not your place to tell his mother to not come around as much. That’s HIS mama. If he cared anything about the relationship, he’d tell her to step aside a bit and stop smothering him for the sake of not losing you. If he flat out doesn’t want to tell his mother that then clearly that’s not what he wants and you need to move on
No that’s wrong, if she is paying rent than she has ever right to file a restraining order against the mom or contact the police and ask them to ask the mom not to come over
It may just be me, but I like how the Mother said it’s not my style I’m more of an older lady , to me it was like the mother was giving pointer on what she likes , and the Girlfriend just needs to get a little more comfortable the mom seems like a big kid and happy to have someone she can go out n dress up with 😊 or I’m reaching 🤷🏾♂️
my jaw dropped when she complained about the gifted clothes being "too young". like ma'am look at your baby blue hoodie and sweapants .. she already looked like she was dressed like a child. how could the gift been worse really... but i do understand wanting to pick your own clothes, id also prefer giftcard. one needs to know the other well to get their style (and size) right.
Linda shouldn't take everything to heart. Abby should of just told her she's welcome between 9-5 type schedule. Just should include her in a way she's not feeling lonely but gives you as a couple time. That way it's not all or nothing for both of you. But I'm pretty sure they broke up anyway.
Abbey is Tre’s girlfriend she’s not his wife I don’t know why I’m seeing the words daughter in law and mother in law when Abbey and Tre aren’t even married.
Because those things cost money … Yes the mother-in-law wanted to exchange the top and that’s fair, let her pick out something she’s more comfortable with but that doesn’t mean she gets all these extra things for free, the girl still has to pay for those out of her pocket and the mum doesn’t seem to care because she got her feelings hurt by being asked not to come over so often ….
She has to pay for the stuff.. Not right to ask for more, and as for cleaning the house, no one wants her doing that, it's a meddling technique, so no, not very nice
So you would be happy having your mother in law at your house that early in the morning everyday 🤣 and she admitted she just pops up when she wants and stays aslong as she wants....because she doesnt think she can take care of the house for her son not because the girl asked the girl clearly said she has no problem cleaning her own house just doesnt get the chance to lol
Sorry but u should return the gift like girl 😅she is old she isn’t trying to look young she wanna look her age … like disrespectful could never be my me .
Mum...I am taking you to the side..Trey could take you to a better hairdresser. And yes you should back the fudge up (yeah you are trifling and nasty!) She could be your friend or you her worse enemy.. Trey is your son and not your husband Think of the Grandbabies!
This daughter-in-law is annoying! I believe if the son didn’t want his mother over so much he’d say so! Plus she’s a lazy girl! Clean your house! Plus if she’s not happy with the present you gave her, let her pick something she likes and stop saying Trey better give me money for the gifts! So rude!
I mean if she was just exchanging the shirt for a different shirt that’s one thing but going back for other things too is too much. The blonde girl was very nice to get her all that just working a retail job
What’s rude is coming over constantly every damn day uninvited, knowing that they need time alone as a family/couple WITHOUT her there daily. Doesn’t she have any friends of her own…besides her son I mean, or some hobbies her old ass can go do to fill her day with rather than being passive aggressive to your sons gf/mother of his child??? She went in there expecting Abby to buy her whatever her greedy selfish ass wanted, THAT is what’s rude, not Abby wtf. And of course tre’ won’t say anything to his mother cuz he’s too busy still being on his moms freakin titty to say something
That’s not the problem here the problem is she only returned it knowing Abby was at work and knowing she’d see her return the gift she got her. What’s rude is also making the daughter in law buy her a whole damn outfit w earrings plus a car air freshener when that’s obviously going to be way more money than just the top she initially gave her. Knowing Abby is paying for all that for her she should’ve been way more appreciative n grateful
Tht wasnt her place to say tht to his mom that was definitely his place. I have a helicopter mom me and her are like best friends. When i start dating someone i definitely find myself finding ways to tell her i need some space. But i would never put my boyfriend or the guy im talking to up to saying tht to my mom.
This mom is not wrong this spoiled brat is the problem imagine talking about someone like that while the are in the room it’s giving mean girls and the superman stand tells all😂
Shes selfish as hell i wouldnt buy her another thing tf n she was trying to be sneaky about it didnt reliaze she was going to be there n see she was returning it smh now if she didnt get her nothing she would of been talking crap anyone can tell shes that type of person
Yep her son has a channel and promotes his mom and her best friend with the white lady.I’m sure he pitched this show too for them to be on.It’s all about social media 🙄
Instead of 'Mum OFFENDED By Daughter-In-Law Returning Her Birthday Gift!'. Should the title not be 'Daughter-In-Law OFFENDED By Mum Returning Her Birthday Gift!'
She said it to her many times before but she doesn’t listen so I’d be frustrated & Abby was very polite she didn’t say anything rude or disrespectful or offensive quit being so sensitive the mom needs to get some real friends her own age and back Up a little bit
Ew the daughter in law I thinks needs a reality check acting like she’s a 10 if she was doing her responsibilities as a wife the mom wouldn’t be there doing it for her
For some dirty dishes 🙄...mil acting like the house is a mess because of just some dirty dishes. I like to spend quality time with my kids, not clean 12 hrs a day just to keep someone like her happy. Right now I'm washing bed covers, folding clothes while watching RU-vid, and guess what, I haven't had time to get to the dirty dishes, but they will be done by the end of the day. And no, I'm not a slob, but with little kids how realistic is it to always have your house pristine and never have not one dirty dish?
I have to add, even if the daughter in law is a SLOB, guess what??, the son picked her out of all the women in the world!! Let him be happy with his slob wife. He would help clean if he really cared that much about having a clean house!! My husband is terrible at keeping the yard clean. So I go out and clean it when I have some free time and have the kids help. My mom made a comment once about the yard and I shut her down quickly! Because none of her business unless she's volunteering to help clean the yard. If this mother in law cares so much about the dirty dishes she should wash them daily since she's at her son's house regularly anyways.
Her house is definitely not anywhere near being dirty or messy lol that mom needs to mind her damn business I’d be pissed if my dudes mom came by insulting my home and saying I don’t take care of her son like lady back tf up she’s great to your wack ass son
I'magine being such a pick me. A real mother will raise her son to put his wife 1st and not her. He takes care of his wife and household once he leaves his mother. She's overstepping her boundaries and ain't none of her business.
@@bad_behavior1991 girl his mother made him the man he is today not to mention if she hadn’t raised him the way she had he might not even be w who he’s with rn , so sad how some people put their partner tht they have know only for a couple of years over their mother who literally gave them life idk I still feel like If she was all the woman she said she was the house would be clean ….at least
