I don't know where the misconception that C-sec is "easy" comes from. It takes a toll on the mother. I have family members who gave vaginal birth and they'd be walking about pretty much the same day. It takes 3 days to get off of the bed with C-section.
Yes yes. I have heard people with normal had it hard too with the stitches down there. And man the pain is real for both but c section does need longer recovery no denying.
Me bestie had C sec and her sutures got infected and it took her another month on bed getting the whole cut open again and then cleaned it everyday and slowly closing. It was so painful and traumatising for her. One of my colleague may she rest in peace she died during the vaginal child birth. Motherhood is never easy in any way. People need to mind their own business. And mothers should not take any crap from anyone for anything.
I had multiple Cs and one vaginal. People call it easy because you don't go through the labour pain. Vaginal/normal is also very tiring. It hurts to pee because of the vaginal stitches. Also, results in urine leaks during sneezes and coughs. C-sections are painful later on. When the effects of meds wear off the incision becomes very painful Hard to get up and walk and laughing hard hurts your uterus. It took me 15 days to properly get up from the bed independently after my first C but only 4-5 after my last one. Frankly, I can't say which is the better one but natural delivery does not leave scarring and is better for the uterus in the long run suppose. (If you have/want more than 2 kids) Also, I am the only person I know who does not complain about the spinal anaesthesia back pain. I don't know if these women lack nutrition or are too tired. I wonder if you guys get the pain too?
Hey, congratulations on your baby girl. Lots of love to you and that little sweetheart. I too had a c-section birth, and you know, i had seen how people around were categorising c-section as an easy process. I mean hello, its such a major surgery and it takes a toll on the mothers body so much. I agree pushing a baby vaginally is hell lot painful, but that shouldn't degrade the amount of pain that a lady goes throughout the process of healing from a c-section surgery. Even my husband never really realised it and was all praises for a vaginal delivery. I was in so much pain, but he didn't care. He kept saying you chose the 'easy process', and mothers should be brave enough to be able to bear pain for their own child. I thought, how do you not see i have literally ripped my belly apart for my kid, is that not enough?? Anyways, i feel giving birth in the first place is the most beautiful thing a woman can do, be it a vaginal delivery or a c-section. It all should be normalised, and not labelled as different just to make someone feel degraded for their choice of child birth process. All mothers are heroes and we are all same. ❤❤❤
Oh my god its true when you hear another new mother talk about the challenges and struggles as a “new mother”.. thank you for this video… i required this really i did
Same thing happened with me too. Had a c section, recovery for me physically was smooth, but baby had very bad colic for 2n half months. And the realisation that life won’t be same again made me cry as well 😢
I have had 2 c-sections and believe me, the first one was a nightmare but my 2nd was so so smooth may be because of the experience, I was well prepared. And yeah, I heard a lot for having c section, from my immediate family itself. But I know I did the right thing as my doctor advised. I understand every bit of what you went through. I’ve gone through exactly the same pain, emotions just like you. More power to you and every mom here ❤
Deepthi not making u nervous but at first i thought newborn phase is difficult then came the toddler phase and now my boy is 3.7 yrs alhamdulillah but trust me the phase when they start to walk is the most difficult one 🤦 all the best for that ❤️ and yes c section is equally difficult as vaginal birth bein a c section mom and now ready to give birth to my 2nd i am so scared like how did i even manage to do all this and now with one kid how will things go in future as i know recovery phase of c section is very difficult just pray for me too things go well i will be delivering any day from now since i completed my 37th week also one more piece of advice was u should have bought a good automatic swing it just gives the baby same feeling of a car and ur life would have been much more easier with it trust me
Good to have you back hail and hearty. 😊 Lots of love to Leah. ❤ Couple of years ago Faces Canada had come with this kind of Lipstick. For some reasons Faces Canada does not get the recognition other brands get. Maybe their marketing is lowkey.
Also deepthi please make a video on the breastfeeding journey i felt that was more difficult for me if some tips from u would help me this time i would be very thankful
i really don't know u became a mother but hearty congratulations ❤ for the amazing journey with ur baby.Those little feet have transformed from infant to toddler soon .Happy parenting 🎉
Hey happy parenting to u...i watched ur vedio and starts my skincare journey with plum e moisturizer plus juicy chemistry heli serum,hope u remember its ur holy grail and game on for my skin care and see today with ur one year bundle of joy and glad my son is 4 months elder from ur bub and i feel some type of connectivity with u and post my first youtube comment for u and feels ur every word by heart and thought u are part of my life and very happy when i know u gave birth felt like u r with me always.I dont know how u take my comment but ur vedios ur thoughts and ur life seems to be connected with me Hope we meet someday in future.Best of luck to u ❤
Hey deepthi am sorry to ask but i need to knowwhich of the huda beauty loose powder will be better for me .. am nc 43.5, neutral warm undertone , i am planning of buying blondie or kunafa or banana bread , I heard that other than banana bread , remaining have a strong yellow pigment Am not sure what to get, your suggestion will help a lot , thank you 🥹
My first comment for you and your family and this comment is about your videos, I did notice and actually the video quality is better and I like this lighting, its no longer yellow , also whenever you are ready, pls come back with your reviews
Oh D ! I am glad you decided to share your experience. I feel people are so hesitant to talk about the negative aspects of child birth and there is so much romanticisation about pregnancy, child birth and breast feeding. You have an audience and I am glad that you took this moment to shed some light on this topic. Happy birthday to your girl and congratulations on your strength
Hi I remember this . I used to lock my self up in the room and not step out. Hated the smell of onions and a lot of other food. But it gets better. And third trimester I had a lil nausea again
@@DeepthiDesikan I really appreciate your suggestion but the thing is it's my 2nd pregnancy, I have a 2 year old to take care of so I have to smell aaaaall sorts of smells🤢 I basically hate every food item, every sort of any smell, any body movements and anyone around me so yeah 🤘🏻😁😂