Good she left accusing your partner of adultery without any reasons to doubt them is so fucked ESPECIALLY when the baby is identical to him. Even reading this hurt me. That relationship wouldnt have lasted anyway with the lack of trust
Good that she left. He made her feel PATHETIC, insinuated she would conduct a huge conspiracy with NO evidence or actual reason. Just blind suspicion. Then when he got the result he wanted, he ignored how it impacted her entirely and pretended things were fine.
I think paternity tests should be a default part of the birth certificate. Know matter how much you trust someone, they can still betray you. After all, how many fathers found out many years later and even into adulthood that their child is not blood.
Absolute clowns in this comment section. Saying he wasn't accusing her of cheating when asking for a paternity test is just saying "I think you've cheated and the kid isn't mine." Fine, he can demand the test it's in his right but he has to deal with the consequences afterward and the consequences of her leaving are fantastic for her. If he can't trust her then she deserves better.
I dunno. Seems like a lot of broken man out there getting fuck over wrong marriage says other wise, and kids growing up having a broken family and 1 parent(mother) who probably doesn't give a fuck.
it doesent hurt to make sure? if she didnt have nothing to hide, just take the damn test and move on, why did she turn it into such a problem? it was really unnecessary of her to escalate it so far.
@@Lemon_Grain31327what DOES HURT is when I am completely faithful to my partner and he tells me by asking for a paternity test Is that he thinks I'm a trash bag human who would cheat on him and pass someone else's baby off as his. The test is easy to do. Small thing. The ramifications behind the request and the insinuations he's making merely by asking for it .... Are HUGE.
@@Lemon_Grain31327it’s about trust. Falsely accusing someone of cheating is more damaging than being cheated bcs it one instance you walked away from a cheater and the other you walked away from a loyal person. Arguably one could say why didn’t he dispel that thought from his head esp when he had no reason to think she was cheating. Anyway, he will at least co-parent his own child whilst another man may raise his child. The irony
@mimibee409 alright, but i dont think it's unreasonable to immediately want to dispel the idea that she could have cheated. Its the same reason why you would double-check an essay you wrote for high school with another person, just to make sure they didn't do any misspelling or if they made innacurate points. I think it would be better if his worries were immediately debunked rather than living on edge, wondering if the baby is his.
Glad she left, he doesn’t need that kind of emotional manipulation in his life. It’s clear was already looking for a way out and this is just a good reason in her mind. I’d be surprised to hear if she had any respect for him in the beginning anyway.
nah you are the AH. paternity tests should be mandatory every single time before both parents sign birth certificate. Even simple mixup in hospital (which happens more often than you think it happens) can cause destroyed lives. My friend actually found out that his son (now 10) wasnt his when kid was 4.. Legally my friend is responsible for that kid till he is 18. He needs to pay child support. I can only see it fair for fathers to be 100% sure. You maybe dont cheat, but you never know other person.
bullshit comments. Easy to say as a woman becouse you know its your child. There are to many guys that find out that the child they love and care for are not theirs because the guys wife 'needed a break" or "rediscovered a spark in her live or some other bullshit. Tests should be mandatory, period. Woman who have a problem with mandatory testing are probably afraid becouse they are cheating.
