Not even five minutes in and this guy already gave two red flags lying about the girl being an ex and giving his girlfriend, the silent treatment despite him being in the wrong.
In the boyfriend’s own explanation he’s not being honest. First, he says, it never came to mind to tell her, then, he says he was nervous it would hurt her feelings and that’s why he didn’t say anything. Guy is tickle truthing
i hate the excuse "but i didn't wanna hurt your feelings" bc MY DUDE how is lying to me/covering up not gonna hurt my feelings??? that isn't even logical!!! get out
Conspiracy theory; he is playing that game where one doesn't break up but create situation where OP breaks up with him instead. Plan A: Ask her to marry, she will say no for sure... Plan B: Pleasure her to admit she doesn't want to marry and is half-heartedly in... Plan C: Ask her to Baptize, HITS BULL EYE...
Maybe a hot take for story 1: Josh wanted OP for himself and the ex fling wanted Isaac back so they made the plan to ruin the relationship. There's just some things that feel way too convenient for it to have happened naturally. Like, why is OP willing to trust the word of an ex fling who has absolutely no proof of Isaac cheating? By her own admission, Isaac said he was in a relationship, and she still sent him nudes. Isn't it possible that she was lying about everything? And if Josh suspected cheating for a while, why would he just now say something? It feels like something else is definitely up and they are both playing on OPs anxiety. Okay, conspiracy hat off.
@@gabrielgardner9844not necessarily. She sent him the pics and only then did he tell her he had a gf. (And most likely met her later to spin the tale about the gf being new...). Isaac is a compulsive liar. That makes more sense.
One thing I have learned about most guys who have red flag habits like being possessive of their girlfriends. When they are possessive in such a way it is because THEY THEMSELVES have either cheated/are cheating or have been cheated on and have trust issues. They are a little paranoid as they know how they are/were treated therefore assume everyone else will do the same. It's a huge red flag, and if my partner was possessive in the way OPs ex was, I would immediately be worried he was seeing someone behind my back or had a history of cheating on his exes. Food for thought.
I think we’re out of respect for the OP. Riley shouldn’t look up the podcast and he probably shouldn’t be nosy because they kept it anonymous for a reason.
So first story before we're even 5 minutes in... Op is already backtracking.. because he continuously and very often lies to her about things that he knows will piss her off in the end.. things that he knows might upset her. He twists the truth so that way he can get his way... Manipulation at its finest!! And she's just giving him a pass because it's something he does often... Yeah lying is just one of those things he does but I really love him😂😂 send her help!!
The bf in the last story is not only a hypocrite, he's also extremely stupid. He chose to bait and switch with a proposal the woman who explicitly stated she didn't care about marriage? And he had a shocked Pikachu reaction about it?
The one about the religious fiance he's just trying to convert her before marriage so what he's doing is he's minimizing he doesn't actually believe that all it is is just a Little bit of water on the head He's trying to get her to take baby steps into it and hopes that she would convert into it and she's absolutely right it's disrespectful to the Lord to play along with it as respectful as she is I'm really shocked that she said she was atheist and not agnostic but kudos to her
Story 2: sounds like he was doing the old date to convert strategy and throwing a temper tantrum now that it's failing Plus going to that many times to church is definitely a red flag Look believe what you want Just don't be extreme about it Not everyone is going to believe what you do
If marriage and christianity are so important to you then maybe date someone would wants to gwt married and is Christian domt say it's OK if they're not and then try to change them years later 😂
