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Breakup is the most stressful and emotional experiences in life. Whatever the reason for the split and whether you wanted it or not the breakup of a relationship can turn your whole world upside down and trigger all sorts of painful and unsettling emotions. When a relationship ends, healing can take time. In this video, RJ Ananthi shares her experience about being in love and being out of love. She shares some of the pages from her personal diary. These tips can help you grieve your loss and start to move on. Do check it out.
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@krithikalakshmi612
@krithikalakshmi612 Год назад
Do u even know how much hope and strength u give me whenever I'm on my lowest Ananthi ? U r truly a life changer for me✨
@dhanarajsambath1659
@dhanarajsambath1659 Год назад
Ethuvum kadanthu pogum... Yeah I too suffered this phase.. Those days... I m helpless 😣 I didn't even share my thoughts to my closed one.. It took me about 2.5 years to overcome from it.. Used to stalk that one in social media.. Hearing about their new relationship status gives me massive heart break.. But thank God somehow I managed and I emerged from it by myself.. That phase made me realise the importance of self love.. I started taking care of myself.. Changing my habits.. Dieting.. Meeting different peoples... Though I am a introvert.. I forced myself to socialize new people around me.. First I literally started to act that I m happy.. Now I just can't believe the fact that I survived that phase.. Now I am happy even for that person ❤️ thanks for coming in my life ✨ because of u I learnt about myself... Love urself ❤️
@-manamemanthiram-motivation
Everything will be alright. I can relate with ur feelings .All is well😊
@srikamalis1019
@srikamalis1019 Год назад
Pathiyam is a word.. but pithukuli is an emotion 😂😂
@Hodophile118
@Hodophile118 Год назад
🤣
@arunvalluvan4624
@arunvalluvan4624 Год назад
பரவாயில்லை ஒரு break 💔 up தர கூடிய வலியை (20 எலும்பு ஒரே நேரத்தில் உடையும் அளவிற்க்கு) கடந்து வந்த இவ்வளவு வெளிப்படையாக அதை சொன்னதற்கு நன்றி திரு.RJ ஆனந்தி 🙏🏼 அவர்களே
@sangamithraisurya5174
@sangamithraisurya5174 Год назад
Ananthi, I strongly feel you should write a book and publish it...
@anubharathi5957
@anubharathi5957 Год назад
"But it also means nothing to me" - I need a peace like this.
@anitarashani9154
@anitarashani9154 Месяц назад
😢😢😢
@attitude8601
@attitude8601 Год назад
Yes, I'm in this phase and felt literally you are telling me. When I'm on my bed, while just scrolling insta / Fb many songs and it's lyrics making my pillows wet in a fraction of seconds . My brain accepted that I should respect her decision and move on, but my heart is still longing for her. Trying my level best to go through this phase . Thanks for the video akka.
@manisha7674
@manisha7674 Год назад
Exactly the same thing bro
@attitude8601
@attitude8601 Год назад
@@manisha7674 All the best to move on
@gowrimanian7080
@gowrimanian7080 Год назад
Wondering how someone can beautifully explain even the saddest phase of one's life!!! Well matured and truly u r an inspiration...Even I had my own diary but can't let myself to read that again But you are bold enough to open up those here without hurting or make feeling guilt of that involved person...Just awesome yarrr ❤️ We will definitely be healed someday ✨
@aarthiragukumar9736
@aarthiragukumar9736 Год назад
The point about self blaming and questioning ourselves is absolutely right. The part about reading again was true. Sometimes reading the old pages would make us feel stronger on how we crossed all that phase and be the better person now.
@aarthiragukumar9736
@aarthiragukumar9736 Год назад
@@johnson2852 I did not understand your comment.
@seelansibiraj7639
@seelansibiraj7639 Год назад
Oneside ah love panni, oneside ah breakup pannavanga like pannunga
@pavithraramesh3551
@pavithraramesh3551 Год назад
I have gone through the same.. only thing is I haven’t written like you but I can feel each and every word you have written.. love to everyone who is going through this now ❤
@karthikmohan136
@karthikmohan136 Год назад
Never change for anyone until it affects anyones life. Anu you are a pure soul never change your attitude and character for others. You are the one who changed many people's minds and get them to reading books and hearing podcast. So you are doing great job. Happy and chill your life and move on from the past battles and relationships problems.
@karthikmohan136
@karthikmohan136 Год назад
@@johnson2852 iam her fan and wellwisher.
@Anonymous-zv7nn
@Anonymous-zv7nn Год назад
I completely went through this process and this is real. You will heal oneday!❤
@vaishnavi5282
@vaishnavi5282 Год назад
Music still makes me think of him, but thinking of him no longer makes me sad. Now that I've forgiven myself, the reminders of him only make me smile. - Reminders of him by Collen Hoover It's going to be okay, you will hate yourself for not being the person he wanted but soon you will be happy that you were the person you wanted to be so don't be ashamed to be yourself, even if you would have changed the way you talk, behave or even changed your appearance he still wouldn't have been there because he wasn't the right person for you but that also doesn't mean we keep looking for love or we are waiting to offer love, just show some of that love towards yourself it will make you the best version of yourself. Someone who will love you how much you deserve, will definitely find you because you deserve it. Be happy and don't forget to give yourself a hug because you have come a long way :)
@katumanaporiyalar3671
@katumanaporiyalar3671 Год назад
Ur words are amazing
@ashwin9218
@ashwin9218 Год назад
Could relate to it all. Love makes you go crazy,head over heels and hopeless sometimes. It's alright to get your heart broken by your favorite person. It's alright. Things aren't meant to be forever. You'll eventually find peace, love and be yourself again. Trust the process of recovery. People will stay if they're meant to be. Make peace with it. All ❤
@JebaRooban
@JebaRooban Год назад
Going through a heartbreak. I was crying and I really smiled seeing ur video at the right time.
@guruprasath9542
@guruprasath9542 Год назад
என்னைய யாருமே love பன்னல, அப்புறம் எப்படி breakup. எல்லாமே சொதப்பல்.
@mdanas8204
@mdanas8204 Год назад
U r blessed child
@peterpillas
@peterpillas Год назад
என்னைய போல யாரும் லவ் பண்ணல .. இப்படி தான் நானும் நெனச்சிட்டேன் ..
@alphonsestalin2594
@alphonsestalin2594 4 месяца назад
Lucky person
@alphonsestalin2594
@alphonsestalin2594 4 месяца назад
Ur blessed
@thamizhan_Naan.
@thamizhan_Naan. 3 месяца назад
Neenga romba lucky bro
@kavspan3547
@kavspan3547 Год назад
Amazing talk!❤️ enjoyed it it to bits! 😊
@balraj1987
@balraj1987 Год назад
thought provoking, it shows how self respect should be kept when we are mocked by our partner.
@indujachinnasamy2717
@indujachinnasamy2717 Год назад
Lots of love Anu ❤✨ So heartwarming.. Expecting more self awareness videos from you 🔥 Keep going
@hanthuhein5423
@hanthuhein5423 Год назад
I have shared these two video series to all of my loved ones in life and yeah thats a beautiful thing that you shared your story with us.Thank yu so much annu
@jeyanjoseph6014
@jeyanjoseph6014 Год назад
Excellent presentation of positive energy
@madhumadhu1384
@madhumadhu1384 Год назад
Mam, really thank you for posting such a vigilant. It was really helpful to overcome our mental trauma and confusion.. Keep posting such self awareness, introspective videos, mam love you, 💛
@kreativeaura
@kreativeaura Год назад
I’ve been through this phase of life and emerged out of it after many emotional cycles and repeated mistakes that went on for about 4 years. I recently realized and understood that God will keep putting you through the same tough situation over and over again until you actually learn your lesson. After learning my lessons, I finally found my Mr. Right and now we love, respect & support each other, and we’re also happily married. I agree with Ananthi’s POV, that we need to allow ourselves to feel all the negative emotions so that we can eventually understand ourselves better and then embrace the right person walking into your life. And the right person will walk into your life when you least expect it!
@srilekhaswetha1449
@srilekhaswetha1449 Год назад
S, I had this phase in my life,. I took 2 yrs to heal from my past, but now I felt the same as anandhi akka said ,,,, I must tell everyone , healing will definitely happen , bright days will reach soon for everyone
@lmm7418
@lmm7418 Год назад
I m in the phase for last 10 years.. still couldn't accept and move on.. same he cheated me with my friend.. I fooled myself that its not happened.. but reality is He gone so far.. I should move on nd smile.. I shouldn't be burden to me.. Hope everything will be fine oneday..
@saathvika9302
@saathvika9302 2 месяца назад
hey!! how are you doing now?
@crharsitha2610
@crharsitha2610 Год назад
Thank you so so much Ananthi ! Keep up your amazing work .
@KarkaKasadaraOfficial
@KarkaKasadaraOfficial Год назад
Praying for them to be better.. a true shortcut ma'am ❤️❤️
@Divya_1105
@Divya_1105 10 месяцев назад
overcoming betrayal is not much easier ☹️But this too shall pass. Beautifully explained,mam👌🏼🔥 Much needed✨
@MaNcHuNaThAn
@MaNcHuNaThAn Год назад
I'm in a grieving moment, I can't pass through it, it is killing me more day by day, trying to rebuild myself, and waiting for her hopelessly that she might realise one day and comeback to me
@senthuik8771
@senthuik8771 Год назад
Very thoughtful idea and u r socially responsible also.. nailed t
@malarvizhi6737
@malarvizhi6737 Год назад
Big hug and more love to you Ananthi ❤️❤️❤️
@meennimo9860
@meennimo9860 Год назад
RJ your words 100 percent true. Thank you Aananthi for the beautiful content 👍👍👍
@MirnaaThiru
@MirnaaThiru Год назад
Exact thing happened to me, the words u said were similar to my life.. Even i thought the same and i am currently writing a diary in my life after my love break up.. There's a beautiful life after the break up.. I living that new life now.. Thank you so much ❤️
@karthikeyanr7594
@karthikeyanr7594 Год назад
It's hard to let go when you felt someone the home!. How to let go when it's etched in your heart?! Tore apart? Moving on sounds good. Living with the scar is the reality here. It's been a year already. I even wrote unsent letters to vent out. Nothing helped. Please say how to get over it?
@vaishnavi5282
@vaishnavi5282 Год назад
@Karthikeyan I can understand how it feels like you will never get through this, but the reality is we can never find someone like that person, but sure, we can be happy that we aren't with someone who doesn't want us in their life. Something that helped me was keeping myself as busy as possible, and whenever something triggered me to think about them, I would remind myself that I was happy with them, but somewhere they felt that their life will be better without us so since I love them I have respect their choice but how convince myself when I imagined a future with them it's hard. My life started becoming better when I looked at myself and said I am done hurting myself it's okay to be sad but I know I deserve to be happy so I will tell you that I change over night but with time it will change. Tips: 1. Stop listening to sad songs instead whenever they come to your mind, play happy songs, and dance to them in your room, so you will definitely feel better . 2. Unfollow them on everything because we all already have a lot reminding us about them, so this is going to ruin our day. 3. Write down your thoughts after you wake, just like write every thought, you will be surprised by how much you write. I personally did this because dreams always reminded them. 4. Spend with other like family or friends because when we are alone we will only think about them but with people we can limit ourselves from thinking about them. 5. Stop going to places, buying things that they liked.For example: he had a favorite hero, and I stopped watching his movies because every time I saw that hero, I could only see him there on the screen. 6. If you have common friends limit spending time with them and I sure they will understand you need your time. 7. Workout because it makes you feel happy, and it's helps channeling your pain. That's all but in the end it's your choice to believe your life will be better without them because you can make someone feel special about them then can't you make yourself feel special?
@ThegreatRV
@ThegreatRV Год назад
Thank you, girl !! This is really important for broken hearts. I can relate so much with whatever you are saying. Now I have healed after so many years and those things doesn't affect me anymore. This video will be helpful for those who are going through the same now.
@vid6149
@vid6149 Год назад
I'm going through it Hoping to accept and give closure to myself
@jkok2412
@jkok2412 Год назад
I needed this right now! Thank you so much
@aravindr2909
@aravindr2909 Год назад
Thanks Ananthi!
@sureshbabu6970
@sureshbabu6970 Год назад
Close to heart person in life.., indirectly healing many hurts and taking care of people ... God bless you sisssyyyy
@sivasankarsalo
@sivasankarsalo Год назад
Good content, will help so many who are going through it . but wat caught my mind is U look well groomed and this makeover looks great.. i have always felt like something missing in ur looks but now u look perfect..
@vanathiarivazhagan7988
@vanathiarivazhagan7988 Год назад
What you spoke is also relateable to the friends that we outgrow. We might have felt like this person is my soul-sister / soul-brother. That we can understand what the other person is going through without needing any words. We just know the the right set of words that would give them comfort. It's as if no one else in the world listens to you like they do. No one else can give them the level of soothing as we do. But life experiences that each of us go through can shape us into a whole different person that we don't recognise each other anymore. And rather than forcing the friendship to work just because we have been best friends for 10 years, it's better to walk one's own path and be at a respectful distance.
@jan26597
@jan26597 Год назад
I can relate to ur feelings so much! 😅 Im so happy for u ❤️‍🩹 Thanks a ton for sharing all this. U have no idea how much u have influenced me 🌻 Thanks for all ur videos. Luv u so much 🤍
@smitham384
@smitham384 Год назад
Beautifully explained😘
@Bala_mg
@Bala_mg Год назад
Thank you so much for make me understanding about life. I'm in situation where I'm loosing hope in my love💔🥺
@FastforwardKdrama
@FastforwardKdrama Год назад
Thanks for this amazing Video❤️
@rekhamunusamy5246
@rekhamunusamy5246 Год назад
I completely went through this process and I strongly believe time heals everything.. thank you dear Ananthi , in fact I got an answer from your video to move on completely from this..
@Prii79
@Prii79 8 месяцев назад
and this line - Somewhere he is becoming insignificant in my life!💫
@karaivel2597
@karaivel2597 Год назад
I gothrough all this.still now i am on the healing path.even i dont have any friend to share this all.i am the only one to wipe my tears in this travel.after watching this video i understand many people gothrough this kind of problems
@Anonymous-zv7nn
@Anonymous-zv7nn Год назад
This video seems healing❤️
@harinijeyachandran9310
@harinijeyachandran9310 Год назад
Thank you for sharing diary,it will helpful me to realise mental trauma and illness
@babujj6590
@babujj6590 Год назад
I am in the same stage but I learn how recovery from pain from this video akka
@KathaiNeram-Tamilpodcast
@KathaiNeram-Tamilpodcast Год назад
"எதை நீங்கள் தேடுகிறீற்களோ அது உங்களை தேடுகிறது"... Definitely you will get a good and gentleman as your life partner mam..........ungala apdiye accept pannikravara kandipa unga kanngalukku therivaar.....mam....my prayers 🙏 for you
@MANOJ_AE
@MANOJ_AE Год назад
I am blushing with pain now thanks a lot akka 🌸💜
@saru40041
@saru40041 Год назад
Really your doing wonderful 😊 work...
@thisisDway
@thisisDway Год назад
I overcame a relationship few months back…everything u said I’ve felt it too…one thing helped me is Selflove…working on Urself and doing things that make u happy
@arul4882
@arul4882 Год назад
Exactly how you written and how you felt .....i did this when I'm in break up.....now I'm really happy....
@abiramisuryaa
@abiramisuryaa Год назад
Response varala apdingrathum bayangarama response thana......👏 It makes sense..
@jdeepan27
@jdeepan27 Год назад
This is very nice..Hope it will help me a lot…Thanks for the valuable video Ananthi…
@sumatisrira3462
@sumatisrira3462 Год назад
I was able to connect with you on many points, the red flags, the hints were there all along but we choose to ignore them and push them under the carpet. I was well aware that my relationship mostly will end someday but as said I was blind or just been paithiyam enough to not accept it..AND it did end. Like many of us, I too struggled alot when trying to move on and I was in friends with that person on/off, well I guess for me that was the best decision I took, cause as time went the affection drained that's when I was able to see n understand way I was been treated all along and his true feelings towards me which inturn was nothing but a deep core of hatred. Now, after the fog was lifted I was able to move away without much regret and without self hatred. One suggestion (which I personally followed) I would like to give all those who go thru this difficult phase is that DO NOT self harm yourself physically, cause one day you WILL be able to move on and those scars will keep reminding them or you might regret doing such harm just for the sake of someone who left us... And don't forget time is the best medicine, as time goes you will heal
@gowribooopathy3007
@gowribooopathy3007 Год назад
Semma da RJ anadhi. Appreciate you for your braveness to read this diary and explained us clearly.
@vasanthraj6610
@vasanthraj6610 Год назад
I can understand your feelings anathi....Before a year I have been in all those phases of feelings. Keep growing
@poovarasan_akbpm
@poovarasan_akbpm Год назад
Now I'm go through this brake up sister Thank you sister It's very helpful for me
@anitarashani9154
@anitarashani9154 Год назад
This video is one of my daily prayers.I watch this video every night in repeat mode.thank you
@vijaykumark5286
@vijaykumark5286 Год назад
Yes, "எ(இ)துவும் கடந்து போகும்" எதுவும் நிலை இல்லை சகோதரி.
@udhayakumart
@udhayakumart Год назад
You have only you until you die . The rest of them in our life are a bonus❤️ Similar things have happened to me in recent times , move on aga try panitu irrukan but your video reminded everything again. In the process I learnt one thing “ “Accept that the world is unfair.“ “
@pibusa
@pibusa Год назад
Nice. . .ethyum kadanthu pogum. . .thanks the video
@nithinithiya7939
@nithinithiya7939 Год назад
You r truely a life changer For me Akka❤️💫✨... Thanks a lot akka💙...
@entertainmentthings8079
@entertainmentthings8079 Год назад
2yrs gone still I am trying the way to come out from breakup hope your words may give some strengthen 🙌
@anublossom9227
@anublossom9227 Год назад
Thanks for sharing your story😊
@harmony9584
@harmony9584 4 месяца назад
It was helped me a lot, Thanks to sharing your experience with us.
@pavithrap7491
@pavithrap7491 Год назад
Very bold and mind relaxing sharing tq for this video
@KeerthanaCar_er
@KeerthanaCar_er Год назад
I could relate so very well 😢
@shalinishalz2435
@shalinishalz2435 Год назад
Ananthi i really wish to meet you ❤️ you don't know how much your words mean to so many of us. Keep rocking 💙
@jenitajasper9394
@jenitajasper9394 Год назад
Love your narration dear...
@vishnusr4410
@vishnusr4410 Год назад
Thank you dear Ananthi. This video was a hude icebreaker from my breakup sickness. I have gone through these situations very worse as u explained. Again Thank u dear ☺️
@user-jy3cd5fe9i
@user-jy3cd5fe9i Год назад
Have the courage to accept and forgive, so mind is everything.. Don't push it, just climb it
@deepajaganathan1935
@deepajaganathan1935 Год назад
I don't know but still I'm moving on from my relationship through my writings .. thank u sis hope good wind blows
@rajaselvi6769
@rajaselvi6769 Год назад
Thank you for your video
@soloperformer8146
@soloperformer8146 Год назад
Good content.. waiting for that healed moment..
@pappup1847
@pappup1847 6 месяцев назад
I knew this won't work, he was the one who started looked at me (for 1 year) and when I reciprocated with same feelings. He left me. 😢❤ I am very happy I showed my love unconditionally to him . The moment we spent together, I will cherish them forever. That was sweet moments. He also expressed his attraction for me during those moments. ❤❤❤
@sujeethaca
@sujeethaca Год назад
When you lose someone you don't lose them all at once, you lose them in pieces over time..
@aksharadeepak9672
@aksharadeepak9672 Год назад
Very true
@charm98
@charm98 Год назад
Pieces??
@deepikav8038
@deepikav8038 Год назад
felt it true
@rajasekharvenkataswamy3163
@rajasekharvenkataswamy3163 9 месяцев назад
Very intelligent girl ananthi. Excellent cognizant person you are. Any one who marry you is a luck person. Because your sincere mind. Even my wife is a smart girl now looks after me and children.
@lavanyas6478
@lavanyas6478 Год назад
Good effort mam thank you so much
@vijayavani1482
@vijayavani1482 Год назад
Thanq so much ananthi for such a wonderful videos❤. Yes, the line which you are sharing I also gone through in my life. Unconditional love which I had on him made me mad. And I had stop realizing my dads love. My dad is no more. It's hurts a lot😢. No word is there to express my grieve.
@megalabalu3677
@megalabalu3677 9 месяцев назад
Much needed❤love u😘
@AzreenMohamed
@AzreenMohamed Год назад
This is applicable for a friendship as well, It just reminded me of those days with my best friend.
@Harshaa03
@Harshaa03 3 месяца назад
Exactly fr
@priyapugazh5760
@priyapugazh5760 Год назад
Aft brkup 7 years gone still nan move on agala ..aft watching this video i hav a lot of clarity ..I have been looking for such clear words for so long..tq ananthi
@martinvincentraj
@martinvincentraj Год назад
Thanks for this video
@saranyacharu44
@saranyacharu44 2 месяца назад
How soothing her words are❤
@visvaananth861
@visvaananth861 Год назад
வணக்கம் ! Good Jops R.J. Ananthi doeing Excellent.
@john_wick2746
@john_wick2746 Год назад
Thank you ☺️ for this video akka
@sangeethaamutha9813
@sangeethaamutha9813 Год назад
Same incident. Same feeling intha video two years ku munnadi vanthuruntha better but I am well ok now. i like ur word's anandhi akka be happy
@divyakathir5347
@divyakathir5347 Год назад
Anandhi akka ,unga Books reviews thaandi ovoru words um emotionally ellar kudavum avlo attach agi iruku love you kaa.... And one kind request nowadays caste pathi ipo irukra generation yarukum oru sariyana puridhal eh illa, society ku thevaiyana vishayam idhu , yarum yarukum adimai ilaiye .plzzzz caste pathiyum adhoda history pathiyum oru vedio poda mudiyuma .......
@pattuchinnima6846
@pattuchinnima6846 Год назад
Tqq ananthii en lfy la naa face pannidu iruka prblms ku solutions solli irukinga tqq 😢😭
@haritharocks
@haritharocks Год назад
U have validated my whole experience.. U have spoken my words.. Apparently I had been in relationship with a narcissist, if you know what I mean and my situation is absolutely similar to what you have described
@balamurugan_art
@balamurugan_art Год назад
very helpful
@sangaryvarathan.r
@sangaryvarathan.r Год назад
Thank you sis ❤️
@vigneshvicky7381
@vigneshvicky7381 Месяц назад
Oru heartbreak ah overcome panna naa panna vishayam ennoda circle perusaakunan palaiya friends gang rebuild panni cricket vilaiyada ponan and thanimaiya irukuradha decrease pannan, went out of social media and started listening to audio books, pudhusa badminton vilayada aarambichan adha routine ah maathunan simple ah sollanumna heartbreak or adhuku munna irundha routine ah maathi adha consistent ah follow pannale edhaium overcome pannalam
@myminitime6021
@myminitime6021 Год назад
9:50 ❤❤ I so needed to hear this
@danielchristopher7098
@danielchristopher7098 Год назад
I want to overcome my breakup Your story gave me confidence to stand back up
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