my breakup: what I learned from my 5-year relationship

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today's video is definitely different from my usual content. I talk about my breakup, and what I learned from my 5-year relationship. I hope this can be helpful to anyone who is going through or went through a similar situation. I learned so much from that experience, and I wanted to share that with you all
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@karalee21 Месяц назад

i love the variety in content ur giving us! it lets us get to know u even better and makes u feel like even more of a best friend ❤️

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

♥️♥️♥️

@l0lliezoe3x Месяц назад

Couldn’t agree more! You’re getting more and more relatable x

@viktorialode Месяц назад

You should do more podcast, loved the vid

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

Hehe 🤭

@sabrinarenee8204 Месяц назад

“People fall SO in love with potential” wow

@emmaeck2626 Месяц назад

Loved this 🫶🏻 thank you Paige for being so open and vulnerable with us ❤️

@coatminus6370 Месяц назад

Thank you for being so vulnerable with us❤

@1031gem Месяц назад

Omggg yay ! Been waiting for this one , ty for sharing

@jazminjimenez1929 Месяц назад

the way i resonated with this video is insane. thank you for your vulnerability & in sharing your experience paige ♥️

@PrincessJas24 Месяц назад

Omg love both of you guys! Such different but amazing energies! And I’m glad you are free 🫶🏽

@lustinasea9755 Месяц назад

im loving this new podcast style format, we want moooooore sending you love from morocco❤️

@41lexx Месяц назад

I liked this style video! Thanks for sharing. I left my 10 year relationship a few months ago and it’s been hard. This was a relatable topic and good perspective

@valerysanchez Месяц назад

thanks for such an open and honest talk, i loved this.

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

🥹♥️

@destinyking8218 Месяц назад

i've been following you since your college days & it's been so so beautiful to see you grow up, esp being similar in age! you've always been like an older sister! ty for sharing

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

omgg 🥹 I love love love you!

@JulissaAlvarez18 Месяц назад

I loved this video! I hope you do more like this ❤️

@loup7182 Месяц назад

I LOVE this, you are in the exact situation my boyfriend was in, we found each other at the perfect time on our lives and this video helped me to understand him better. Thank you so much for that, and your authenticity

@cklove3 Месяц назад

I’m going through the same situation right now and seeing this video has felt like a big positive affirmation on a lot of things that have been on my mind since the break up with my ex of 4 years. loved this sm ♥️needed 2 hear this

@perriewinkle Месяц назад

Hi Paige, I was just brokenup with literally a few days ago after 5 years and a few months. I relate so much. Thank you for sharing, you seem like a wonderful person! This is also the first video of yours I see. Podcasts definitely suit you!

@jbarragann 15 дней назад

I’ve been watching you for so long since the high school vlogs 🥲 you’ve always been an inspiration and thanks for sharing with us!!!

@carlisimoneg Месяц назад

Ahhh! I've been waiting for this! I was in a very similar position around the same time of the life of your relationship and your breakup. Seeing you thrive after the breakup gave me so much strength to move forward with what I wanted for myself.

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

Be so proud of yourself!! ♥️

@sherylneptune Месяц назад

When you spoke about rather being alone, I felt so seen. I'm really okay with being alone and so if I do have a partner, they really need to align with me and make my life better.

@oliviacolone Месяц назад

we love you Paige, thank you for this video!! 🤍♥️

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

♥️♥️♥️

@abigailargueta6721 Месяц назад

Love you and Christina together ❤ thank you for being open and vulnerable with us

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

♥️♥️♥️

@sherylneptune Месяц назад

This conversation was so important

@kennedysmith6967 Месяц назад

Please do more podcast!! Love this

@jasminesophia5009 Месяц назад

I absolutely lovvvvveddd this podcast type vibe video! The conversation was soo good and I think a lot of us girlies can resonate with it or just simply take away something important from this. Xoxo

@jaisofiaxo Месяц назад

Proud of you always Queen ❤❤

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

thanks angel 🥹

@chiinyecerezo_ Месяц назад

Wow I really loved this conversation. I went through my first breakup this year and at first I hated myself for not crying or doing anything, my emotions were numb and everything seemed pointless but with time I realized that we were not made for each other. It was my first relationship and I didn’t really know how to express my thoughts and concerns, but I learned so many things from it and it made me mature so much mentally. I haven’t started to date other people yet because I can’t force myself to meet new people and get hurt, but honestly I feel so seen with this convo and the guilt is really going away with time!! Thank u so much guys❤️

@chiinyecerezo_ Месяц назад

Also I’m so sorry for any possible mistakes my first language is not English 😭🙏🏽

@mhlmah Месяц назад

lovedd this!

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

♥️♥️♥️

@amiraelara Месяц назад

just what i neede at this moment in my life, currently going thru it

@lovebugssoup161 Месяц назад

Needed this, currently in LDR

@catherine1211 Месяц назад

I’ve literally been subscribed since you did outfit of the days back in high school. I’m now 25 and I have a son. And about to be divorced, I really enjoyed this video and your thoughts. I completely agree.

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

so cute we got to grow together, I wish you the best angel ♥️

@catherine1211 Месяц назад

@@PaigeSecosky same to you pretty girly 💗

@MabelPerez Месяц назад

omg!!!!! i love it

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

♥️♥️♥️

@v1ct0r1aas Месяц назад

We love you!❤

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

Love you!! ♥️

@anisafarooq1426 Месяц назад

This was amazing

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

♥️♥️♥️

@opinionatednobody5631 Месяц назад

the zoom ins were kinda distracting and a bit unnessarry imo but great video anyway love you paige will be saving this for the day i get out of a long term relationship. first step: get in one.

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

thanks for the feedback, love you ♥️

@christiancoleman4396 Месяц назад

"will be saving this for the day i get out of a long term relationship" That's so weird to say. The fact that you're planning for the end of a long term relationship. Just don't get in a relationship lol

@arathypanicker6052 Месяц назад

Love you girl

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

Love you ♥️

@sherylneptune Месяц назад

Can you do a segment with an anonymous advice thing. Like we send in scenarios about our live and you give us advice? Or we just send in things we want to hear other people's perspectives

@sherylneptune Месяц назад

I haven't been in long relationships because I always wanted to focus on my future. It was really hard to come to terms with this because I had met someone I really got on well with but truthfully I had no intentions on sacrificing some of my time so I had to give up on that. It's hard to be selfish at times because there's this feeling of what if I never get to experience this again. I would still encourage people to be selfish nonetheless.

@ligiamarquesz Месяц назад

i want moreeee podcast!!

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

Coming soon hehe

@leledawg83 Месяц назад

You can hear the wine kick in towards the end 😂

@JJ-lf4vq Месяц назад

Very interesting, thanks for sharing. From someone that’s been in a relationship for 10 years & high school sweethearts, I don’t know if a long distance relationship is comparable to someone that spent the same amount of time with someone and it wasn’t long distance. Also when she said high school sweetheart relationships do the same thing years later. I wouldn’t say that’s always true if you’re not long distance. I think that plays a huge role in how a break up can affect someone/how a relationship grows. Just an opinion to share.

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

Yes, I’m definitely speaking from a personal experience! Everyone’s relationship is different and some people can stay with their high school sweetheart forever but this was just my experience (:

@parad.i Месяц назад

We need a podcast!

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

COMING SOON ILY

@sherylneptune Месяц назад

Please link Christina's podcast below😢

@shelby1335 Месяц назад

u have a blog???? omg what world am i living? i didnt know this

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

I’m working on one

@kyrasimatos5600 Месяц назад

Paige sundays🩷

@PrincessJas24 Месяц назад

Also! Can you tag Christina’s podcast?

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

yes!! here: ru-vid.com/show-UCixA_L-Y76JrIUnkKyxXILA

@racheleleanor101 Месяц назад

collectively single era 🎀

@ruebennomura9143 Месяц назад

That was amazing story of your relationship and you have to break up with your boyfriend

@lujain444 Месяц назад

lmaooo

@elizaeli Месяц назад

Hiiii❤❤❤ from 🇷🇴

@happywings15 Месяц назад

What’s her friends page?

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

Beautychickee!

@msactionpacked Месяц назад

Hmm why is Paige calling her ex they/them?

@ithomizy Месяц назад

Love u 🫶🏽

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

Love you sm!!

@l0lliezoe3x Месяц назад

Why does she keep calling billy “they/them”

@bluerain1719 Месяц назад

It might just be how she speaks, they both referred to him as, "him" later.

@backthen4449 Месяц назад

5:47

@KadriRoos Месяц назад

@nfvy8111 Месяц назад

“When you’re younger, be selfish” that is actually terrible advice. This main character syndrome is the reason young people now are as unhappier as ever, despite overconsumption and increased mobility.

@wee2424 Месяц назад

its girls high standards that cause most relationships to end

@happywings15 Месяц назад

I think if we were to really get to the bottom of it though, it’s miscommunication. Cause almost anything between people can be resolved or rephrased or get a second life and repurposed . But most of the time people want to give up quickly, or not properly and mutually communicate the issues the have .

@happywings15 Месяц назад

Also is it really a high standard to want to be around the person you want to be in a relationship with when y’all get to control your situation? It’s not to say the guy was bad just to ask the question maybe this situation is revealing they’re not for me when the solution is for them to live in the same city and they’re unable to. If they were married it would be a different story because they made a convenient to be together no matter what but in this case you’re in a relationship to be partners as you pursue your purpose and if it’s in two different cities for 5 years idk how effective you are for eachother

@sophiecampos4860 Месяц назад

Been watching you since your ootw vids by the staircase so i feel like i watched you grow and im so proud of how far you’ve got 🫶

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

Love u sm 🥹

@alexandracano5738 Месяц назад

This helped me so much I really needed to hear this for my long term relationship and how we are also going on different paths ! Thank you for this 🩷

@PaigeSecosky Месяц назад

♥️♥️♥️

@angievanessacarigutierrez6741 Месяц назад

amé 🤍

@Lisaaaa_____ Месяц назад

thank you for this, don't really want to elaborate but just : thank you

@harriettbarton7372 Месяц назад

Honestly going through such a bad and confusing time with my partner and this has helped so much, you made me realise my life isn’t over and being alone and happy is better than being in a comfortable situation where your unhappy. Thank you so much for being so open and honest, exactly what I needed to hear today🤍🤍