LET THEM - JUST LET THEM 

Wise words. D

Amen to that!!!!

My mom says that as well! Or sometimes she’ll say “You came into this world without them and so you’re strong enough without them”

You were never the same after meeting them though

@@nishthagupta1357 right.. I miss it

Literally my favorite content

Wise *

Wise, Beautiful, Experienced Souls would be a more lovely choice of words 🤍

facts!! That is why I subscribed immediately before even watching any of her videos!!

Yes this side of social media is great. The rest sucks haha

Lose

​@@pendennis123Loose in this sentence also works, as in let them set you free.

Lose

@@TheHamburgler123 No it doesn't. Sounds weird

@@JronDon854 Well languages are weird sometime , weird rules, weird pronounciations ... Beside that point , I feel like "lose" and "loose" can both work in this context because it can be the contrary of "contained" (by looking at some definitions), so pretty much you could say this quote could means that you do not need to contain those peoples in your life, you should always let them go away from you . Idk I think it fit well x) .

Louder omggg 😭

Yes. But then shut the door and lock it.

​@@januszdworak4780 better yet just forget about it. they have closed their chapter. and best yet, onto yours

yes

I read this AS she was saying this past

Seems like it, i think it's God hearing ours hearts cry

The algorithms are just getting more personal and adjustable to you. People have similar problems and you going thru them almost every day so the fact you come across videos all the time coincidentally makes sense and is the same for me

God i swear

Schizophrenic delusions or seeing signs that arnt there

Yes. What a few days my son and I have had. Broken by bullying. Thank-you for this. ❤

It was truly the break in the chaos for a moment for me i swear

Right?!

just yesterday i saw my ex for the first time since we broke up while on exchange after 4 months… my head was doing ok until that point, and now its all spinning again. youtube always covers me

“Total” gem 💎

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Especially with family :(

But far too many in relationships of any kind do control all aspects of their partner's life - including decisions they make. They do not seem to be hurt by this as it is usually their aim. D

My situation isn’t a partner but relationship with my daughter sadly It was never like this but after her dad left us in 2006 Cracks started appearing (I prayed from first night we were in own for LOVE to be in me no bitterness as it would destroy me & my daughter , I have had people come in from then some short periods females helping some longer and few who have remained to this day and always been THANKFUL 🙏🩷🙏 As with out Universe God and ones who helped I wouldn’t be here today . But our children know which bottoms to press that unsettle us We’ve had periods of wonderful times but I always swear of changed mood in my daughter now has been in relationship 15 years grandchild light of my life 9-yr’s But it’s come again cracks Cannot talk with her about she shouts and says we can can’t spk but I haven’t raised my voice spoke quirky as we were walking outside told go away she wasn’t going awalk with me And began walking faster I couldn’t keep up Shouting as she was going she didn’t want anything to do with me I turned and went home this happened past Wednesday this wk . Now told I can only see my grand daughter twice amonth I’m a American have lived in uk over half my life Called spoke to my brother in Twincitys he said why do want to stay there You’ve put up with periods of this for past 16 years And sad should move back to the states . It isn’t that easy I’m a pensioner that’s all I have There’s so much to consider mainly cost There’s family two sets friends I’ve kept close to over years These I would have near me family friends who love & care about me 🙏 No more holidays alone (There have been erratic x.mases togetger but only afternoon home early I was greatful to be included but rest the x.mas season no inclusion ) One year went to friends don’t get me wrong I was so touched but hard to explain felt even worse Some x.mases helped at Homeless center by me . My brother has close relantionship with his kids & partner of over twenty years gets along with has them over and his ex wife all at holiday times plus the three of them attend events sometimes . He says I’d have them all around me . I have three sets very good friends here only spoke with one of what’s happened Meeting up one today and third one Saturday Unsure of spking rgds this till I find out if it’ll work out financially Pardon my rambling but wanted to say it’s not a partner but my situation with my daughter . Has anyone similar problem ? If so how have you handled it ? I would be grateful to hear 🙏🩷🙏

​​​​​@@Cheshirelassthis was my experience, and he was sadistic. I had to change things because it was harming our children, not just me. It was very dangerous leaving and he character assassinated me to everyone with all his lies, including some of my own family, my little sisters. He lovebombed them too when we lived closer at the start. He is a very believable LIAR. I had an evil aunt do that to me prior for financial reasons. I was an impediment to her greed.

@@pokemonpro8438 Well done for being strong for you and your children. Take care. D

came in just the right time…

An important one to remember. D

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I did that. Never again.

currently enduring that stage...

@@postcards.to.myself Take care. D

Thankyou

Good for him. And good for you. He was man enough to tell you. You can both leave with a good relationship to further steady yourself in what a good relationship means. You tauht and learned from eachother, and should feel light and proud for it. Cheers to you in your next phase of life.

*giant hugs* to you right now ❤

Don’t ever believe any excuse someone gives to end a relationship. The reality is, they want to break up and will try to say something that they think will hurt the least.

This is sweet. I’d be your grandma if I could. I had an older woman as a mentor when I was young woman and mom. I loved her so much. I also had my mother who was my best friend. Now my daughter is my best friend.

Take care. D

Good you learned early in life in your young adulthood. Wish I had known this Truth at age 19. God bless ❤

@@lauralong6695you seem so lovely may God bless u🥺💖

I'm the same and I'm 40. So wise, and elderly tend to be more caring so you're more likely to listen. When we sense care, we listen.

Agreed 100%

I‘m in this situation right now and I really want to let them eventhough I probably shouldn‘t :(

​@@lauram.5555. If it costs you your peace, its just too expensive.

@@lauram.5555 If your inner voice tells you to not let them anymore, then you shouldn't let them. Always listen to your inner voice

Yes ❤

I love the sound of the rain as she was talking. I felt at peace 😌

A gentle British woman tenderly sharing advice with young ones makes me feel warm and fuzzy

Absolutely

I really needed this. And it’s so fantastic to see something intelligent, useful and heartwarming without snark on social media. This is the only thing I’ve seen all day that was worth watching, and I love it ❤❤

Don't think you will be alone with that. Probably as many would love that to be the way - but as part of a genuine, balanced relationship - no matter what variety. D

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Lonely 🥺😢so alone, literally no one to talk with .

I'm sorry you're so alone right now. Please know your Heavenly Father is only a prayer away. He's always there for us and wants us to talk to him about everything. His Son, Jesus Christ is always there too and understands perfectly all our pain and sorrow because he took it all upon him, not just our sins. I love this scripture from John 14:18 "I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you." He has helped me and comforted me through the darkest nights.🙌🙏❤ @@Twinkiepie52

​@@Twinkiepie52 I am so sorry to hear that. Wishing you all the very best. Treat yourself with kindness, enjoy and be grateful for the small things in life...that's how I get through, but I also speak with God Almighty and He strengthens and comforts me. ❤

Don’t be afraid to learn from older people. Their wisdom is worth more than gold. Don’t be afraid to love the unloved. It will come back to you in your time of need. Don’t worry about chasing the ones who don’t cherish you….it’s their loss, not yours.❤️

God is ourselves, every one of us. What you witnessed was wisdom. The light of past life experience. Cheers friend

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no literally, i never even watch yt 😭

Samee😭

Same. He ended our 6 year rs 10 days ago

@@pn7134 i’m so sorry ml, i wish you all the best in your healing journey. 💗

So did I. ❤❤

Towards urself!

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What is the meaning?

@@mem8516 its easy to bring your past hurts to new people. you build your walls, and thus block out connection. be aware of this. dont let your past hurts keep power over you. dont be scared to show people your unhurt self. dont be scared to show people that you wont stand by as they hurt you. I hope youre young. If you are, you have a lot to learn, and you will - so long as you never forget to love yourself. and never forget to love others.

Take care. D

True. D

True but unfortunately ultimately u have to let them because they leave u with no other choice . So then it becomes a question of saving yourself . Sad but true !

:( mmmh.

@@monikapv10 Lol, you always have a choice in this universe. Consequences will follow that choice, but you can always tell someone to Fuck off. Try it on me :P

I have no CHOICE and there in the surrender comes

❤ this yes so beautiful hey 😊

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I found it very annoying and distracting cause I have ADHD

I love the rain. This was my confirmation. 🖤

Indeed, funny she apologises about it in at the top...

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Nice 🎉

Absolutely. D

This needs more likes 🤧

Good point

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I've lost a few friends, sometimes because of me, sometimes because of them, sometimes because of both of us. This was my first thought. All of my flaws and mistakes in each friendship came to the forefront of my mind as she ran down the list of things to let "them" do. I realized I'm just as much "them" as they are. It makes me feel less like a villain, and more like a human. Great comment.

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Its often the case- and if they can - they surely will. It hurts. D

Nice

Yep. Doesn't bother or affect anyone. 😇😌

That touched me too!

The vagaries of YT. I have no idea why this has happened, but wish that I did - it is I believe the first time. Do look after yourself and don't heap lots of blame on yourself. Take care. D

@@Cheshirelass 🙏❤️

Universal Law of Attraction. You attract what you need. It works with social media because the law consists in social/human networks and electronics does not hinder our needs and can facilitate or meet our needs as need arises. Believe it, accept it, use it. This is age of Aquarius ♒️ new ways of being is here. We are learning about ourselves who are energy beings in physical bodies emitting frequency that matches the earth. Social media n electricity are also energy, everything has energy. The earth frequency is rising causing people's frequency to match her. To match her frequency we are forced to understand energy and spiritual things where the new earth frequency is moving all humans towards. Good things to come✨️ Knowledge of Self💫 Self-Care💚 Courage✊🏾

Same

AI is reading our thoughts.

You are welcome - thanks for joining us. D

Same as my life 😢

Same. For the record lmao

You always have God

​@@maureendibari2384😂😂😂aye mystical man in the sky who has helped the homeless so much!

Also, if you feel everything is crashing and your peace has been disturbed, look after yourself in this order: 1) physical body: drink water, eat properly, shower, put on clean pjs, and sleep at least 8 hours 2) mind: detach from social media, other media, ads, apps, and toxic people (this can include family members and significant others) 3) spirit: be true to yourself and be kind to yourself and others. Try to be near nature and the sea or at least have plants, flowers, water around. Follow the Truth. 4) Do something creative whether painting, writing, making something (crafts, baking, carpentry, etc) 5) listen to calm or upbeat music with no shouting or swear words in it!

@@LaChicaconSuerte-1111 thank you for this, friend, i needed this. sending you love.

@@nightfallenx same to you and take care x

​@@LaChicaconSuerte-1111 Yes! ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

I agree with this but what about if they are your own adult children..

Thank you - but I prefer to think that I support people in healing themselves. D

I am smiling too now!! D

@@Cheshirelass 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

​@@Cheshirelass i love you

I've never seen one before😭

Thank you - Now, that is another first!! D

Classy but sassy. Hope I can be more fashionable as I age.

Periodt💅💅

this entire exchange is sending me💀

S/O to my big sissy NeeNee putting me on to the scheme REST PEACEFULLY SISSY 😘🙏🏾

Absolutely. Take care. D

I had to disconnect with my sister because she has no respect or empathy for anyone. She lost her control in front of me and I saw her real self, which was full of rage, contempt, jealousy and basically a toddlers tantrum. It was so frightening and unexpected that I knew I had to cut the cord to protect myself from ongoing hurt. I don't regret doing this but it has affected our family dynamics and they are all walking on egg shells around her. I'm never doing this again. Jo.😊

@@jomassey4207Love It Jo! Same with my mother

She might be a narcissist, i just realized my sibling is a narc , conversations with him leave me feeling like complete trash it's like emotional terrorism. I've decided to finally distance myself. ​@@jomassey4207

That’s what I’m doing

Take care. D

True. D

I so agree - I have to admit, sadly from experience. Thank you for your comment - it is appreciated. Take care. D

Totally YES 🩵🩷❤️💚🧡💛💖

Right on!

It quite the smart person who can see their own ego and decipher the feelings and actions they would normally take. It is wonderful to let them be. I often pray for them to heal and be happy. Doesn't mean they don't piss you off 🤣 You just get to figure out WHY it bothers you 👍

I took me so much time to realize that, now I’m trying to act on it but its hard

Just discovered you and subbed. I love the rain banging! 🌹

💖💖💖💖💝 also, my cats do that too! Especially my Torti girl!

Lol, I love the kitties. All 4 of mine could be off into different areas of the house when I'm sitting on the couch, having my quiet time. But as soon as I Crack open my Bible or another book, or get on my tablet, one of them will come up and plop itself right on top of it! It's a cat thing lol

@@HzFvr Much appreciated. Take care. D

Ty Ty Ty I replayed twice then again as each time tears engulfed me Its morning and I just switched on your site it was first thing I saw the TITLE caught my attention That I tapped to listen going through a situation difficult Tapped like & subscribed Appreciate greatly what you shared 🙏🩷🙏

Absolutely - it's when agendas creep in that even things are a problem - and then even what once seemed to be a true love sadly can change. Take care. D

Where was Judas free will when he betrayed Jesus? Was it not spoken of by David thousands of years before Judas was born? Did not Christ tell Satan to go into Judas and to do what he does quickly. Did not God choose between Jacob and Esau before the 2 boys were born who he would love and who He would hate. There is nothing the 2 could of done to change their fate. How do the spirits of divination that mediums call upon know what's going to happen in your life before it happens? Because our lives are predestined and predetermined just as those God redeemed where foreknown before the foundation of the world. (Ephesians 1:4) (Ephesians 1:11) (Roman's 8:29-30) Free will is a myth.

⁠@@BibleBound333Christianity a myth.. hahaha

Hundred percent correct 💯 Love is about freedom, giving each other freedom and letting each other be themselves. And loving each other for who they are.

​@BibleBound333 prophecy doesn't mean forced will, it means knowing what that person's will will be like. God already knew the end from the beginning and the choices we would make and who we would be.

thank you so much D

that can be the most difficult D

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Yes, I try so hard to let go of the hurt and pain. Idk what to do. I want to be content. I am afraid I will die of a broken heart.

@@cocoa3900 sorry to know about your hurt. I would like you to ask yourself these questions. ‘Does anyone care about my hurt? What do I gain by holding onto this pain and hurt?’ I can imagine what your answers will be. You know that you are only hurting yourself by holding onto those feelings, and isn’t it time to let bygones be bygones, so you can feel at peace to enjoy the rest of your life? It won’t be easy, but you will understand yourself better by letting go off your hurt, forgiving those who hurt you. We would be saints if we could forget all about it, but forgiveness brings us peace. It is worth it, because we are worthy of having peace and happiness in our hearts.

I totally get it . But does letting go mean to stick stick around and keep forgiving ?

Jennifer - if you are ok with being alone, as many of us are, until you find friends who remain friends, have you thought of joining a club - maybe crafting, gardening, walking - whatever you fancy. You would then be meeting people with similar interests. You do say in my realm 'at the moment' - so maybe the time just hasn't been right for you to meet with people with whom you gel. Until then, do join us on our video walks to lovely places in nature, places of interest. We'd love to have you along. Take care. D

Me too. Well said.

@@Cheshirelass I have considered that but haven't dipped my toes into meeting up with other groups of interest yet. Maybe someday! I'll check out the walking videos.... thank you, Dee!

@@7Jennifer It would be lovely if you could join us. D

I’m the same age and have moved from Australia to Italy. I am with my Mum and her little dog. I don’t have friends. I know many people and my family are not available. I am not unhappy. It was very easy to make this decision. I can only take one day at a time and teach myself to LET THEM.

Take care. D

@@Cheshirelassthank you.

Dump him immediately. You are worth more than the scraps he is throwing to you! Learn to love yourself and take care of you first! Goodness will come your way as soon as you place value on yourself. You matter. He is a selfish narcissist. I know this for a fact - I dumped a real cheating jerk and after that, my life soared!

Wow Im so sorry to hear that I would be devistated. Cheating is one of the most horrible things someone can do. Whatever you do dont get back to him. It wont end well. Cheaters will ways be cheaters. They dont change. I hope you will be able to find peace and someone who will love you. He sounds very unemotionally inteligent to me. Since you are a rather very beautiful lady if I may say and perhaps he cheated on someone who wouldnt be any more beautiful than you are meaning be was looking fir the cheating ITSELF. Let him go. Dont look back. Even as much as it hurts. Cheating shouldnt be forgiven. It shows dishonesty. And dishonesty isnt someone you want tk marry. Sorry for your loss and hope life treats you well.

Your ex bf you mean. Once someone cheats it’s done.

There is a great belief that we should be surrounded by lots of 'friends'. For some maybe, whilst for others they are happy with their own company. If you feel like a bit of company from an old girl - do check out my playlists on which I take you out to lovely places and natter away. Take care Emily. D

Noooo …just choose better!!!!

I totally relate to you Emily. No more narcissists in my life, and I feel pure and authentic to be me.

Hobbies are better than fake people !

Was thinking the exact same thing yesterday!

Love this. This is true victory

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@@parisss333sm and it’s painful along the way, but forges wisdom.

This was such a great reminder of “love me or leave me” type energy. Really just allowing yourself to be true to you. And “let them” see how soft your heart still is despite the mistreatment.

Yes this ia golden ❤🥰

Take care. D

Except for that one constant loud drip that was interrupting the steady soothing rainfall!

I also really needed to hear this so bad, just opened RU-vid to distract from my thoughts and here it is, the exact words I needed. Life sometimes is magic

Same on both! ❤

This really hit me today. I needed to hear this. I'm going to play this to myself, and I will work on not letting others define my role in their lives. I'm so sick of it, and it hurts my spirit. Thank you.

Except for that one non ending heavy drop you can consistently hear! But the gentle rain in background was nice! I actually listen to rain on utube to go to sleep! 🙂

@@Caareenkm6726ur very passionate about that raindrop💀💀

@@Caareenkm6726ur very passionate about that raindrop💀💀

Well said. D

Learn early to say, 'Do as you please. But know that I will, too.'

You are wise for a 16-year-old. I wish I knew this at your age. I am 39 now and I have let too many men hurt me both physically, emotionally and mentally. I have learned to value myself and my peace of mind now, but it has taken a lot of time to understand that I needed to see my own value and love myself for the amazing being I am, and not let these cluster B personalities determine my value. I thought I had learned in the past, but ended up with the same person in a different wrapping, just because I was in love. But I was in love with his potential and not who he really was. I ignored the red flags because I wanted to see the best in him and I saw his potential so clearly. But this person wasn't living up to his potential, and you can't force another person to grow. He put up a great act and was very charming, but in reality he was vibing low and not willing to grow and evolve, and he used me and cheated behind my back. So if I could give any advice to younger people out there, and there are probably some older people who need this advice too, it would be to never fall in love with someone's potential. See them for who they are right now, not who you think they potentially could be one day. And don't ignore the red flags! Listen to your intuition when something feels off, even if you can't put your finger on it. If you are constantly feeling unsure and questioning their behaviour in your mind, something is most likely not right. And another advice is to stay away from people with big anger issues. You don't need that drama in your life, and they will never change. I wish you all the best in life. Never forget what you wrote here today. Some people are so charming and slick that they can make you forget the wisdom you thought you had learned.

So good to know this truth at 16 years old 😊

Wonderful encouraging words from a 16 year old for me as a 50 year old. Thank you

Please do keep joining us - do come along on our video walks too - they are relaxing and we need that! Taake care. D

I aam so pleased - and hope that you found it helpful. Take care. D

Same! Timely message! First time discovering this channel along with this video :)

@@heather_5me too

Me too, I’m crying right now trying to deal with my girlfriend breaking up with me. Your comment likes are at 111. Bringing me back to my spiritual phase I had a couple years back. I would constantly see reoccurring numbers all day long and I was tapped in to source of the universe. I need to get back into it more. :(

@@cameron.cobalt Saw your comment at 11:11! :)

Me too!!!

You’re not alone. 35 year old woman over here learning the “let go, let be, let them” theory as well. ❤️‍🩹

Same

27 year old and I'm joining y'all 🤗

Understand you very well! Choosing 'to let' over 'to control' is an art of life not easy to pursue but worth of practice until it becomes a habit

I am 23 already doing it

Take care. D

Thank you so much. D

Yes - I worked for 20 years as a voluntary counsellor with survivors of abusive relationships. This was something we talked about. Led me to wonder how they are coping. D

Take care. D

I read this comment right as she said it ❤

Hard for far too many people to recognise this, to accept this - and to use for their own good - and hopefully that of others too. D

@@Flx-zh8ze Take care. D

​@@Flx-zh8zeSame thing happened to me

Take care D

God loves you always

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You lose the things that weren't meant for you. This happened to me, people don't even remember or care how they abandoned you, years later they will say, oh we all wondered where you went, why did YOU disappear, how rude of you. They are not good people and never were, your life is fuller now with less dark matter.

Same here, I'm going through it now, devastating 😢

Amen

same here.. then I allowed them back into my life and they broke down my boundaries again. This video was a needed wake up call

I'm so sorry. I've felt that so hard too. Hope you are doing better 💌

@@Mochimaker333 Thank you. A little bit. Switching back and forth between anger and acceptance but better than I was the first day I found out. ❤

@@louisa7034 I was actually thinking of doing this. Then a pastor told me forgiveness doesn't mean you have to let them back in to the place in your life that they violated. changed my whole perspective. I hope you've been able to put up impenetrable boundaries this time around. I'm trying to do the same.

My pleasure. Take care D