Thank you all your kind words and thoughts and prayers for me and my family. I do see a lot of comments on if or why I am not going to India it’s because I am not able to travel because of my passport issue. I didn’t think I needed to explain in details but I know how some people can get curious and judge and that sadly bothers me. My Indian passport expired in 2018 and was lost/ stolen along with other documents while going through my divorce. I tried renewing it after my gc but couldn’t as I didn’t have matching documents with my previous last name and other documents like adhar or voter were needed which I didn’t have so I gave up on the process as never in my dream I thought this will happen. I am working on getting my passport renewed but my case is different and complicated. But the consulate is helping me. I am awaiting police report on my lost passport which will take a few more days then they will let me know if I have all the right documents and I can get the passport or not. They can issue a one way travel document to enter India but I need to get Indian passport sorted before I can travel back to USA and I have 4 kids so I won’t chance that. Also I have a strong support system here so given I didn’t have issue with my passport I would have left the day of . Coz the amount of money, energy I have spent and the pain and stress I have gone through I would rather would have seen my dad one last time and be with my mom and sister in person than stay up night after night over the phone. I don’t owe you or anyone an explanation but there are definitely some insensitive people who don’t what to say during this time but acts more concerned for my family than I am and give unsolicited advice.
Rumela, you did not have to explain this...and kaku will always be with you. Amar babao aar nei ei prithibite.. I am still grieving.. I lost him in 2019. May God give you the strength to overcome this loss. I hear you.. ❤❤❤❤
You don't need to explain anything to anyone.. Tumi onek strong.. Kaku jekhanei thakun tomar sathe thakben.. But eta sotti koshter j tomar kharap somoy katiye tumi ato valo akta jaygay pouchecho.. Richard er moto valo akjon lifepartner peyecho kintu kaku seta samne eshe dekhte parlo na..
You don't need to explain everything.. those who judge they would do it no matter what.. just be strong and well. Take care and don't forget u r a strong lady who never gives up ... ❤❤.. Nijer ma Babar kache jete na parar pain ta nischoi tomar theke beshi ar keu feel korte parbe na.. India r baire thakle ei visa related n legal complications gulo sobar pokhhe bojha possible noi unless they face it...
You are a strong woman our inspiration... I can touch your pain cause I have gone through this pain in the month of February. I have lost my mother she was a diabetic patient. She was just 58. I miss her everyday 😢
My condolences to you and your family Rumela. This loss is irreplaceable and I can feel your pain as I have lost both my parents. May his soul rest in peace.
Stay strong Rumela. I lost my dad in 2018 and still miss him so much and it took some time for me to deal with the emotional pain.Prayers for you and your family's well being 🙏❤
this cannot be easy. i am so sorry for your loss rumela. please take care of yourself, take time to grieve and heal. take as much time as you need, we're here for you
Very sad news,I can't believe this. Every word you said about your father was matching with me & touched my heart .we were also very dear daughter to our father. To me,Baba means like a positive energy .Baba means like a powerful strength with full of love.Don't worry Rumela ur father will always be by your side with positive energy Be careful &stay well .
Om Shanti 🙏Bhogoban Tomader shokti din ai koshto sojjho korar .Uni Amader ak meye ke diyechen Amra dekhchi as an inspiration.Unake Dhonnobad .Rumela unar sopno puron koro uni jekhane thakun tomai dekhben o ashirbad korben.
I am so so sorry for your loss !! I have been following you for almost 10 years and so proud as a fellow Bengali in the USA….I will keep you in my prayers 🙏
I can relate with you coz i lost my father last month...and am 26 now my father was 70 ....i lost him at 9th july , whole world turned upside down for me...bt am still fighting through it....he too was just like your father was so proud of me i guess baba ra emon e hoi❤...would appreciate every little things i did...he was fighting cancer for last 9 years...and am proud of him that he fought through this disease for so long and was still happy with his life never complained about anything...i can understand that your situation is lot more tough as you away from your relatives at this moment may god give strength to you for bearing this loss
মা বাবার সেরা মেয়ে তুমি কাকুর কোনো অপূর্ণতা নেই কাছে না পাওয়ার দুঃখটা হয়তো থেকেই যাবে। আমরা কাছে পেয়েও অনেক কিছু করতে পারিনি। কাকুর জন্য রইলো প্রণাম আর প্রার্থনা।
I have lost both of my parents n I can understand the pain you are going through. It will.take time n gradually you will return to normalcy. I pray to God for the departed soul.may his soul rest in peace.
So sorry to hear that..I have not been into your place , so I don't know how does it feel. But all I know is his blessings and love are always with you. May be now he can see you everyday from close. You just need to feel it. My condolences are with the family. Be strong!!!
So sad to hear this. You're so courageous to make this video and we thank you for sharing this with your community❤️ Be strong and celebrate his memory everyday❤️ Warmest love from a French follower ❤️❤️❤️
Khub kharap laglo khabar ta peye. Anaira habar samay tomar baba esechhilen dekhechhi. Tumi er madhye jadi akbar kolkatai gele bhalo karte. Ki ar karbe. Khub y alpa bayase chale gelen. Akhan ma ar bon ke take care koro. Uni jekhaney thakun bhalo thakun
Hi rumela. I can understand your pain as i have lost my mother just one month before she was to come to my place. The pain of losing is unbearable. Its been a year now but still pain remains. I too have a photo of her in my bedroom abd whenever i see her my heart sinks. No words can heal this agony.
So sorry to hear your loss😔 I lost my father when I was 13months old i know the pain of not having a father... I know no words can console you right now.. Stay strong 😔
I can understand your pain I lost my both the parents in a year . More strength & courage to you . It is a difficult situation. It will take time , please take time to heal this grief as it is one of the hardest time . Take Care ❤
Rest in peace Kaku🙏 Sending you loads of strength and love. These are tough times dear. Hold onto your good jujus and patience. I very well know the feeling you are currently experiencing. It hurts everyday but also gets a little better with time. You will be your mother's shoulder henceforth. ❤
So sorry to hear this news, I can feel your pain Rumeila, I lost my father when he was 52yrs old in car accident, we say it is early but you know dear it the time for them, every one has a different time to live this world dear, it's a big loss for a family. I have no words to console you, prayer for you and your family, universe give you and your family the strength to bear this loss. MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE🙏💐
Stay strong…no sought of condolence is enough in this situation and neither we can feel the amount of pain you are growing through. But I would just like to say be strong..be brave ..
Losing a parent is the saddest thing that can happen to anyone . I lost my day when he was 65 and lost my mom in 2022. She lived with my sister in Sydney . I could not see her one last time . I often dream about her , hear her call me just the way she used to do when used to call me. My sister called early in the morning and I knew something terrible has happened .
I can feel your pain Rumela Di because i also lost my mother this year march she was just 56years we came to know about her cancer on 7th of January on my mother’s birthday there was no symptoms it was so unexpected for me as i’m the only child she died on march 5th. We got no tiem for treatment as doctor told us nothing can save her no treatment is there .I can feel your pain nothing can fill this up 😢
I can't give you any sympathetic words for this as bcz I can recall my those days too...bhogobaan tomay strength dik..r Baba jekhanei thakuk tomay onek ashirbad korbe shamner poth cholar jonno..🤗❤🤗
Be strong physically nd mentally, i know u are, fathers are so attached to their girl chield, just like a hero, we girls' make our father proud about whatever we are, let uncle be in peace wherever he is🙏🙏💕💕💕💕
Amaro khub kharap lagche kothata shune.. be strong noile tomar maa ke kikore samlabe.. onake je ekhon tomra dui bon chara keu samlate parbe na.. ki ar bolbo, karon eta emon ekta loss, jetar jiboneo konodin bhorpai hoyna❤❤ take care of yourself and your mother too❤❤