MY ECTOPIC PREGNANCY & RAINBOW BABY STORY: Dealing With Pregnancy Loss | Ysis Lorenna 

My mom had one. Also my friend Megan's mom had similar problems and they told her she'd never have children and now she has 4 perfectly healthy grown kids.

Commenting so it might give hope to someone. I had an ectopic in June 2021 and my left tube was removed. One of Doc asked me to wait Atleast 12 weeks to try again and the other asked to just wait until I had 2 consecutive period and try again as the surgery might have removed any blocks in the other tube as well. So he asked not to delay it further. We kept trying from Oct and finally conceived in Dec. Had a scan at 6 weeks and confirmed the baby was in right place. So there is always a chance to conceive naturally even after an ectopic. Stay strong ladies!!

I just had a ectopic pregnancy where my baby planted outside of my uterus and i also had a cyst that the doctors had to drain i was 7 weeks and some days it was on a Thursday morning 9/9/21 i woke up in pain the way my stomach was hurting like i was trying to breathe and calm down labor pains but i knew it was to soon for that I felt like i was backed up with gas, when i broke out in sweats i woke my husband up to let him know it’s time to take me to the hospital they did surgery on me and end up taking my tube but through it all i still give the Most High all praises glory and honor cause im still able to be fruitful and multiply with one tube and i know he will definitely make this next pregnancy a successful one… my heart goes out to all the mom’s that experience this but lets not lose hope. Baby dust to you all🥰

I suffered a ectopic pregnancy many years ago and nearly lost my life. It's not talked about enough and there is not enough about it in public. I had to have a caesarian cut to remove everything. Such a sad time and upsetting time. I'm happy to say now I have two wonderful boys. Thank you for talking about this. X

I love you're story, I also had an ectopic pregnancy but in my tube and lost my tube as well back in june 2016, I am now 6 weeks and next week getting an ultrasound. Thank you for the hope! Hopefully this baby is in the right spot❤

oh my goodness! I have been thinking of doing a video on my channel about my ectopic pregnancy and rainbow baby.....so I typed it in to see what else was about and found you and you're video. my heart skipped a beat at the end when you said 'it brought us our rainbow baby, James' my rainbow baby after ectopic is James :) made me smile. congratulations, so happy for you xx

Thank you for making this video, I'm recovering from surgery two days ago after an ectopic pregnancy, but sadly I did loose one of my tubes. Hearing you say that you never got to feel happy at the fact you were pregnant because as soon as you found out there was the worry something was wrong, is exactly how myself and my husband feel. You feel robbed of something so many other people get some much joy from. The feelings you had are exactly where I am now, and it's such a comfort knowing that others feel the same. It's a terribly hard experience to go through. I hope that we will have a happy ending with a rainbow baby in the future too.

I'm so sorry to hear about what you went through but equally ecstatic that you got your rainbow baby and a happy ending. You are one strong woman and I can't begin to imagine what you went through emotionally and physically. James is a credit to you both and is gorgeous. I'm glad you feel like you're able to talk about it now. Xx

Thank you for sharing your story, I am so happy to hear about your rainbow baby! I suffered an ectopic in dec last year and it's so nice to hear your happy ending! It gives so much hope!

This is happening to my husband and I right now. Thank you for sharing your story. It's like you're in my head, these are my thoughts exactly. It's so important we talk about this and connect for support.

I can't share any pregnancy experiences as I'm still 19 and not planning to be, but I'm so glad you did this video. I wish there are more people like you who educate about such subjects. I had never heard of an ectopic pregnancy before and my heart goes out to you and all the others who experienced it. James is very luck to have you, and you are very lucky to have him. Lots of love from Malta xx

Thank you for sharing! I’m currently recovering from an ectopic pregnancy last month. For me it was also not in the Fallopian tube, it was in my ovary. The same thing happened to me where they thought it was in my tube, but when they did the surgery, they discovered that it was not. I can’t wait for my rainbow baby too, whenever that may be :)

This just recently happened to me, and no one knew where the pregnancy was located ! Cried watching it but it was definitely encouraging! Thanks

This story really gives me hope. I suffered a ruptured ectopic pregnancy and lost my tube not even two months ago, was not told to wait a full cycle before trying to conceive and I am currently 6 weeks pregnant and waiting for my first scan. I am so happy it worked out for you!!

Thank you so much for sharing. 5 years later it is still helping people.

Thank you so much for sharing your story, it gives me hope. I experienced my first ectopic pregnancy 2 weeks ago and was very devastated I cried and cried the whole two week just thinking am I ever going to be able to get pregnant again or be a mom especially since I grew up as the only child. I never heard of an ectopic pregnancy. I’m gonna get an fertility specialist as you mentioned and just go from there because it was a very scary experience and really don’t want to go through that again. I’m happy you’ve in a better place now and have you rainbow baby, there’s always hope ☺️

Oh Ysis I can't imagine what it must of been like to go through such a thing. James must be such a blessing after everything you've went through. x

Thank you for sharing that with us. so sorry for your loss, and happy you didn't lose your tube, Alhamdulillah I went through two miscarriages myself, and it's really painful emotionally more than physically, only time could heal that pain, and hopefully a rainbow baby like your lovely one :)

Thank you sooo much for your story. I had surgery last week for my ectopic pregnancy. I went to the doctor on Wednesday morning for my first ultrasound by 1 pm I had to see the doctor by 9pm same day I was in the ER and by 2 am in the OR for surgery to remove ectopic pregnancy and lost of my right Fallopian tube.The day just went so fast. Me and my husband definitely want children. Your story give me so much hope! Thank you

You explained your story so well. I'm sorry you had to go through your first pregnancy that way but you got your miracle in the end.

Thank you and you are very brave! When I had my first of two miscarriages no one talked about the possibility of miscarriage. This video WILL help women when they need it most! (I went onto have two healthy pregnancies who are now two healthy children!)

Thank you so so much for sharing! You gave me hope for having a baby after my ectopic pregnancy. ❤❤ Sharing so much love, God bless you and your family

Thanks so much for sharing! :) I had never heard about an ectopic pregnancy before and it was very interesting to hear.

Absolutely love that you have shared this story! I had an ectopic pregnancy in June this year 2021 and I had what I thought was a period until I got a side pain wasn’t excruciating though. I didn’t go into surgery I actually had 2 shots of methotrexate due to be so early I was only about 5 weeks. Fast forward too December I found out yesterday I’m pregnant with my rainbow baby but I’m only 3 week and 5 days so I know these next few weeks are going to drag to be able to make sure everything is okay 🤞🤞

Not sure why anyone would thumbs down this. I went through one in around 2011, red didnt have a clue where the baby was, very scary. Can relate

I had the same exact thing happen....a positive test after a seemingly normal period. My hcg levels have remained low and are kind of in limbo without doubling just slowly rising. I’m getting a shot of methotrexate Monday :( scared of it happening again, but thank you for posting, I’m hopeful for a normal pregnancy after we can try again ❤️

Thank you for sharing your story! My hubby and I have been trying for years. Unfortunately I've gone through multiple miscarriages. And yes, I always look to other women who've gone through the same experience because it helps me cope and gives me hope! hoping for a rainbow baby soon!

I had 2016 ectopic pregnancy but before I had already had 2 miscarriages unfortunately I did loose my right tube do to the ectopic pregnancy but we are praying and hoping we can get our rainbow baby I am just very scared to even try again by so much that I been through but I do want to get and try and maybe we have the opportunity to make it happen. it's a very hard journey but everything is possible with God giving us strength to continue on. Thank you for you story.

I am so sorry Ysis for your loss. Ectopic pregnancy loss can be as painful as any other form of loss. You can start seeing your doctor to learn ways of preventing recurrent ectopic pregnancy. Since in most times they tend to come up more often to women who have experienced ectopic pregnancy before. Personally Bio tex clinic has helped me a lot in my journey of recovery. There are unique challenges that come with pregnancy loss. Most hospitals and maternity care facilities have an established support system for parents-to-be in coping with such. These support systems can include specially trained registered nurses, psychologists, social workers and religious supporters. All of whom are qualified to provide assistance to the parents and their families during the acute phase of the loss. When you’re grieving. It’s more important than ever to take care of yourself. The stress of a major loss can quickly deplete your energy and emotional reserves. Looking after your physical and emotional needs will help you get through this difficult time.

Thank you for sharing. I’m sorry for your loss 🙏💜🌈

Thank you for this video I had my ectopic pregnancy 2017. Me and husband are still positive to have our own baby after ectopic pregnancy

I'm. Currently going through an ectopic pregnancy! Iv had methotrexate injections twice now and my pregnancy is slowly dissolving! Glad Iv come across your video xx

I know this is an older video of yours, but ectopics still happen of course. I found out yesterday that I had one. Luckily I didn't need surgery, but your story gave me so much hope for having a successful pregnancy in the future. Thank you for sharing your story.

I had an ectopic & one tubal removal about 7 years ago and I am 34 with no children. I am just now trying to have a baby and wish I would've tried sooner. I got my first opk and I am praying it happens soon..thank u so much for videos like this it means the world to me

Thank you for sharing your story! I'm currently going through the same thing, I had surgery in May and I'm still waiting to get my cycle back so we can try again...it's very comforting to hear that you were able to fall pregnant so fast after, here's hoping we get our rainbow just as fast as well! Thanks again ❤️

Very inspiring. I had my daughter 10years ago. December I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks. Last week I went for surgery for my eptopic pregnancy, left tube was removed. Day 5 of recovering and still want to try again. Thanks. It does make you stronger and more determined.

this is the same thing that happend to me. Too early to tell where the pregnancy was. Constant doctor visits. blood tests for hgc it went up then went back down. pelvic exam after pelvic exam. I had been bleeding for two to three weeks. then they finally diagnosed it as an ectopic in my fallopian tube. They gave me injections to terminate the pregnancy slowly. So after that I had more doctor visits twice a week. more blood tests. my experience was so long and draw out it was draining. God helped me get throught it though. Thank you Jesus!

I've recently have a ectopic pregnancy December 11th !I was driving when I stare having sever pain!I went to the hospital the next day to be told I'm pregnant and sent back home .the next day I woke up with horrible pain screaming home alone cause my husband at work and I had no car.i go back in and to find out my uterus was filed with blood.I lost my left tube😭I wasn't even aware I was going to lose a tube it all happened so fast .I was waiting hours hours for answers in pain!and the lady right beside me was give the news she was pregnant she had the nerves to tell her husband to push her down the stairs cause she didn't want it😭💔My heart sank!!!Im tankful to be alive today.

I am in my bed right now after spending the past few days in the ER after this experience. I'm 38/ never been pregnant and as soon as I got the news, they surgically removed it asap. I was 2 months. worst experience in my life... this was my story all but I had a c section and had a blood transfusion,also lost my right tube, this just brought me to tears!!!😩😩😩

Thank you for sharing your story. I just lost my right tube last friday. I hope will be able to concieve soon with a viable pregnancy.

Thanks for sharing hun. I have one child who was conceived in 2 months but ironically my son after 16 months went through a ectopic last month :( my son is now 3 and feel guilty as he doesn't have a sibling yet. :( Hope to get my rainbow baby soon. Congrats on yours!

Thank you for sharing your story. I recently went through an etopic pregnancy of tubal twins 09/2016, in which the doctors were shocked bc its so unheard of. I ended up loosing my left tube and ovary, but I was able to keep my right. It is definitely so hard to get through and overcome, but I know trusting and believing in God is the key and my faith faileth not in him. Thank you so much for sharing your story. It has truly blessed me to know that Im not the only one and my husband and I can one day go on and proceed to have beautiful, healthy children. ❤❤

Experiencing an ectopic pregnancy is one of the most devastating events in a woman’s life because even if the pregnancy was not planned or confirmed, the shock of what has happened can leave a lasting emotional impact. Statistics suggest that as many as one in 90 women experience an ectopic pregnancy and some may not even know, as the egg can die and be reabsorbed by the body before the pregnancy is confirmed. However, for women whose ectopic pregnancy is detected, even though the egg will be at a very early stage of development, the sense of loss can be extremely traumatic. Sadly, however, not all pregnancies are successful and in the case of an ectopic pregnancy the earlier a diagnosis is made, the better the outcome for the mother as the egg will not be viable. The symptoms of ectopic pregnancy include pain which may be concentrated on one side of the abdomen and may be mild or severe; as well as vaginal bleeding, which also may be severe. I had a friend who had experienced the same. It was so painful to her. But with some medication at Bio tex it really helped in relieving her pain.

Thanks so much for sharing! I am currently going through this. I found out I was pregnant with our first at the beginning of the month and less than 2 weeks later was in the ER having the shot to dissolve the pregnancy. Praying that when we try again the next pregnancy results in our rainbow baby.

Thank you for sharing the symptoms. It’s difficult to find stories about women who had symptoms promoting them to the ER before a doctor catching it. Sounds like a lot of women had regular/early check ups that kept a doctor “on it”. I’m nervous mine was ectopic. Still doing periodic blood tests for HCG but my numbers have been going down so far, pain stopped, as well as bleeding. Just any pain I have now in my body I am hypersensitive about.

Thank you for sharing your story. It really helps me deal with what im going through right now.

This video is helping me RN bc I just found out on the 8th of Jan I was pregnant I'm 32 yrs old first pregnancy an had my first obgyn appointment an through ultrasound found out that the baby was growing in my tube had to lose my right tube an oviar still going throu alot of emotions an mentally hurt .ty for this video years later it is helping me now

My story was very similar to yours. I had to get an injection to terminate my pregnancy. So back to the drawing board for my husband and I. Thank you for sharing your video it was very informative and helpful.

I bearly went through an ectopic pregnancy my 1 pregnancy it was very hard for me because I whanted this baby so much but it wasn't in the right place... But I know my life was at risk . just waiting to have my baby if God blesses me with another. I fell just like you scared to get pregnant and go through this again.😓💔

Thank you for sharing this. I'm currently going through this myself. i found out when i was 11wks pregnant and a day after finding out i ended in the emergency room. it's very confusing and overwhelming to say the least. your video gave me hope that i will be able to have a normal pregnancy.

My sister just had an ectopic pregnancy. She had emergency surgery on July 31st 2018. Her left fallopian tube almost ruptured. She was 8 weeks pregnant. Thanks for sharing your story.

going through it now and so hopeful to see this video, thanks for sharing ❤️🥰🙏🏻

You are explaining my exact story 🙌thank you . You were so detailed I can’t believe I had the same experience as you and I live in South Africa 🇿🇦 . Thank you

thank you for sharing Ysis! I know of someone that had to go through this but in the fallopian tube, I don't know much detail about it but she's okay and has 2 children now :) I'm glad everything went okay for u I'm sure those 3 days of not know what's going on with your body were hard for you. But it's all in the past now, and it's all happy ever after from now on with baby James :) pls know that we will always be here for u when u need us. we are like a family u know :D and I've always considered you as an elder sister of mine since we look a like and i feel our personalities match. and I was try and talk like u do in a calm and balance tone :) lots of love Ysis you brave little cherry! :D

Thank you so much.... This is happening to me right now... and i have to undergo laproscopy today or tommorow.... it's really encouraging... n i believe i'm goin to have a baby again in months to come...

Thankyou for sharing just an update on my life ive had my 2nd ectopic only 21 days ago and 2014 i had my 1st ectopic was 6weeks my 1st was treated by methetrexate and this year i had to have my tube removed due to the 2nd ectopic was 10weeks im just wondering when will i get my pieriod again or when will ovulation come. And how did you get through the news? Im still in pain and my wounds still have stiches in. Sorry for your loss and congrats on your rainbow. This is my 8th loss still trying for my 1st baby hole i have my little mirical soon. Im starting to give up trying and my hopes going.

Omg this is what happened to me omg scary 😨 naaw I'm so happy you told me your story I feel your pain but it's time to heal 💖 I had a ectopic pregnancy last year October and is blessed to have a rainbow baby and due this year December I only have one tube I do feel the effects of the tube missing its aching 💖 much love

Thank you for sharing, just went through the roller coaster myself.

I really enjoyed this video, it is very informative,i am so happy for you, I just had a miscarriage too so this gives me up. New subscriber here. And thanks for sharing, one day I will be brave enough to share my story too.

Mum had one and she thought she couldn't conceive and now she had me , i feel lucky but sad for her

i think im pregnant but im scared please pray for. me😥😥

Thank you, I needed this.

Current situation: I lost my baby at exactly 5 weeks last Thursday (10/28) due to an ectopic pregnancy. I had emergency surgery to remove one of the fallopian tubes. I woke up last Thursday morning around 2a, with excuriating pain. Around 11:30a, I was still in pain but not as intense and I started bleeding so I went to ER. After two scans the technician was not able see baby but there was signs of internal bleeding so I was rushed to emergency surgery which showed that the pregnancy was in my fallopian tube and it ruptured. So I had to have it removed. I was told by the Dr and obgyn that my chances of having another ectopic pregnancy is very high. Your story is very similar to mine. One minute I was up, next minute I'm knocked out. I remember waking up a few hours later and just out of it. My throat was sore and my voice was groggy. I stayed overnight and felt so lost, alone, and scared. I'm heartbroken...

OMG!!! Just went through this exact thing last week. Had my left tube removed and the pregnancy. 😥 It was my first time ever being pregnant!! Keeping my hopes up and faith that my husband and I will have our family soon.

Im still praying for a rainbow baby💔... ive been trying for 2 years

I’m so sorry for your loss. I recently have had an ectopic pregnancy. It was the most horrible pain and scariest thing I have ever been through. My experience unfortunately went on for two months. I knew something wasn’t right but doctors kept telling me I was okay and I was miscarrying. The pain was not normal. How long did it take for you to get your period back?

Sorry to hear that .best wishes. have a nice day. Stay blessed 🎁👏✅🙏

I recently had an ectopic pregnancy a month and a half ago. It's so crazy how all the women who have had ectopic pregnancies have that same pain of pressure in the stomach and anal area. I had laparoscopic surgery to remove my left fallopian tube which ruptured and was causing me to bleed internally and I didn't know. I was 6, almost 7 weeks pregnant when it all happened. I can write the longest comment explaining everything but the hardest part about ectopic pregnancies is the recovery. Almost 2 months later, I'm still struggling mentally and emotionally about the whole experience and loss of my baby. This is probably the worst thing that has ever happened to me. And I hope to one day be okay mentally and emotionally again.

thank for sharing ur feeling with us..

Thank you for sharing....I'm currently going through a similar situation I had surgery 4 days ago but had to have my left tube removed it has been very hard but my husband and I are pushing through it some how

I’m watching this video now because I’m literally crying my eyes out since yesterday when I had my ultrasound and the doctor said they can’t find anything and suspected an ectopic pregnancy. I’m 7weeks & 2days pregnant, I’ve had positive PT during my 5th week. I’ve had a Beta HCG test but still waiting for the result. Today is Mother’s Day here in Ph and I’m really heartbroken.😭💔

my first pregnancy was a miscarriage and second was ectopic. now we are going to try again. but really worried what will happen

Do u have bleeding after your surgery? I just had an operation 3 days ago n got discharged day after.. but my bleeding continuing till now, did u experience the same thing?

thank you!

I went through this! What are the chances of it happening again?

Thanks a lot. I also had ectopic pregnancy..

I think it's very offensive to call this human forming a mass of cells. These doctors are ridiculous. I'm truly sorry for your loss. I know you'll have another chance to have your children. God bless you!

I'm going through an ectopic pregnancy now although I have just had the methotrexate shot instead of surgery. My levels are dropping but it's one of the hardest things my husband and I have had to go through. You've given me hope that I will still go on to have our rainbow baby one day x

thank you for this video i had an ectopic pregnancy in March 2015. i had two shots of methotrexate but my tube still ruptured i had emergency surgery. they of course had to take one tube. do you have any advice about getting pregnant after ectopic? me and my SO finally decided to try again.

I have gone through ectopic pregnancy in may month. It was in right fallopian tube. As tube got ruptured it is removed. Doctor says there is about 30% chance for again an ectopic pregnancy. I am really worried about it

So does that mean I ain't had an operation but had a PUL pregnancy of unknown location and at 5 weeks wasnt seen but found the gestational sac I lost my 5th baby does this mean I can have a normal pregnancy

I went through this and they gave me the shot it was visit after visit and a lot of blood drawn it was exhausting it seem like it was never going to end. This is something so hard to deal with I was angry and really depressed I know I’m not the only one going through this god bless everybody

I have experienced ectopic pregnancy twice,and I am going through mental trauma knowing very well there’s something called IVF if feel I am barren

Thank you

I had ectopic pregnancy 15 days ago. this time I am very stressed and emotionally broken. I don't know what to do now. can I be a mother or not..

Hello, how long again did you wait for your first period after the surgery? Thank you 😬

Thanks so much for this light and how many weeks can ectopic pregnancy can be detected ?

How far along was everyone when they started having pain? Ive been watching trying to figure it out amd no1 shares as to when so im just trying to get some info. Thabks

Hlw dear Can you plz tell me that in that time can you do the lower abdominal ultrasound . Lower abdominal ultrasound can refain the baby's position????

Thank you so much

I got also ectopic pregnancy, my symptoms are severe pain in my lower abdomen that i cant stand from my bed, and im so dizzy that i feel im going to faint. I go for checkup nxt morning and my dr.says im 8weeks pregnant i should go for my ultrasound (TVS) to see where is my pregnancy. In 2 weeks i got 3x TVS and they cant determine where is my baby, but they told me, it wasn't in my ovaries so i think it was ectopic. After another week i got bleed and rush to ER that day, i got my surgery Apr.15, 2019 8pm-10pm. They remove my left tube CS 12stitch maybe 3inches long, 3 days in tge hospital, and now im recovering. My dr.says i can try again 3-6mos for pregnancy, but i feel scared and worry that it could be ectopic again or miscarriage 😓😞😢 Hope to have our rainbow baby soon. GOD BLESS to all the women out there who had the same situation. Be positive and stay strong girls!!!fighting!💪👊🤞❤

This just happened to me I had to get the injection... thank you so much for this❤🤰🏾I have a beautiful son prior to this pregnancy I'm just hoping I can still get pregnant

How long did it take for you to heal??

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Hi I gave birth to my baby boy at 22 weeks but he was too small so couldn’t survive. I’ve been trying to get pregnant again but it seems to be hard. Have you done anything to get pregnant or did it just happen?

It was useful to me Thank you for sharing your story. It has given me hope. May the Lord that blessed you also bless me. Amen

I am currently healing after my surgery.. This is my first pregnancy.. I have to remove my left tube.. I am going through such a emotional roller coaster.. I just lost my happiness which I dreamt all my life.. Hoping that I can get pregnant again soon.. Please pray for me.

thank you for the video. i had an ectopic pregnancy that ended at 5 weeks. i had a laparoscopy on august 29, 2016. i had bled (i thought it was my first cycle..im still not sure if it wasor not) on August 3-6 like my regular cycle; nothing more, nothing less. i am currently waiting for my second cycle, which according to an app i use should have come on the 28 of september (my periods are irregular at times). today is the 3rd of september so maybe it will come today like it did last cycle. does anyone know if this sounds normal? i took a couple HPT a few days prior to my missing period because i felt weird but both were negative. even took one after my missing period and again negative.

Same was my story i m hopeful

I like ur accent...very nice!