My Father Killed My Mother, Brother And Sister (Pt 2)| Unpacked with Relebogile-Episode 53| Season 3 

She still has the presence of a 12yr old, probably the main reason why she's able to forgive in the purest way... There's definitely more to the story that she doesn't know herself... So glad she made something of herself,.. Such a pure soul

I feel like giving this interview a thumbs up is not enough. I need to give it a hug or a heart. No one deserves to go through all of this.

She is idealising her father a lot, I think there is so much that is underlying this idealisation.

There's definitely a level of love and forgiveness I have yet to tap into because hearing Alicia say, "I still love my father.." made me really dizzy. And not in a judgemental way at all. I'm simply in awe. I struggle to fully digest and accept these kind of tragedies. Wow.

Damn! I remember this story very clearly, I'm from chatsworth. Poor soul, look at you now! Grown and beautiful. Overcoming all life has thrown at you. Stay strong my girl. Proud of you. God bless you.

"If we can forgive, and heal, why not?". This right here, spoke to me. Thank you for sharing your story Alicia. It's a painful one. I wish I can give her the warmest and tightest hug.

My parents were shot in the car with us all four kids in the back. Adults dont do enough to protect us kids after the trauma. I dont remember even a day of counselling or anyone talking to us about what we saw and us almost getting killed.

She is unable to explain it but it is because she was still a child and was using the forgiveness of childhood. Children's forgiveness is the standard that everyone should aim for. It is illogical and automatic, you cannot reason it out because they are still in youthful spiritual immunity. They forgive those who do them evil at the drop of a hat and without reason. She never once thought evil of her Dad because she knew him, and she knew that the guy who had killed her family was not the person she knew, something had gone wrong with him and so you cannot blame him for that. This is the standard God wants us to get to in forgiveness.

The adults were projecting their trauma onto her because they themselves couldn't cope or accept the reality around them, they made this young girl the scapegoat for the pain because she was defenseless.

Be nice to everybody. You never know what people are going through. This beautiful young lady went through a lot. I'm happy she turned out good.

This story is so traumatic... I hope she finds out what led her father to such a heinous act. I feel like the family knows. Shes so brave. I can't imagine going through that

I am puzzled why she speaks so highly about her Dad and yet he was responsible for robbing her of her mum and siblings. I cannot understand why she was blamed. I am very impressed with this brilliant interviewer.

Lebo is so warm and motherly. You’re a born therapist wena nje as a presenter ❤️

Listening to her story is so painful but why. Her extended family knows something they did not tell her 🙏🏿

This is painful, hugs and kisses. I think she needs to forgive herself for various reasons. Her trauma is still so real.

This is such a painful story, being blamed for the death of family members… Strengths to you Alicia

Despite what she went through she came out with such a calm and humble soul I've learned so much h from the way she has handled all this

This is so sad to not know what transpired, to have so many missing puzzles is to much for a 12 year old even a grown up of any age, wishing you peace

Parents should learn not to make selfish decisions that can traumatise those who they live behind. Love is caring and protective

Lebo is actually brave for sitting down and listening to these different sad stories everyday 😭.

Her process of healing has given me strength to forgive anyone for whatever they do to me... such a strong pure woman... God bless you 🙏 ❤

I am wondering if dad left a note to explain why. Family can be toxic, to tell a teenager that she killed her parents, that's witchcraft.

The truth is that even your aunties and uncles were deeply hurt and puzzled, they also need counselling

Definitely resonate with having items/things from family that has passed. I lost my mother when I was 15 and I really wished that I was more involved in making decisions on things I wanted to keep. You are strong Alicia and thank you for sharing your story. xx

I like how you decided to be independent and move out I'm so proud of her she's so strong and there's also no method of healing I love you Alicia❤️

What a great space to be in, Lebo! You are a blessing. Alicia is so strong! May God continue to strengthen her ❤❤

It’s weird how she never spoke about her mom.

These are life shattering experiences for anyone to go through

Her family members in the comments section are not very pleased with this interview. I wish for this family to heal and move forward. Strength to her. She lost Soo much but she is still standing and strong 💪❣️💪❣️💪❣️

If we can forgive and that makes us heal then why not 😭💔that takes a strong woman to say that sending love and strength to you 🥺

The family should just tell her the events that led to her father taking that decision, so that she gets some kind of closure

Bless you Alicia. Bless your healing journey. And thank you for sharing your strong. And Mrs. Relebogile. I love the platform you have created for such stories and all stories that come through. Keep it up 🙌🏾🙌🏾

You are such an amazing inspiring young lady. Your tragedy didn't define who you are.Instead your story made you stronger and wow the strenght and courage that allows you to be so forgiving through it all.. You are A Brave strong amazing inspiring and an incredible young lady. I pray that God will continue to bless you and keep you and always. Thank you for sharing your story. 🙏💐❤️

May God heal your heart, Alicia. May you be surrounded by love and always have a soft place to fall❤️❤️. Thank you Relebogile❤️❤️

I feel sorry for Relebogile who wants to understand the psyche of a daddy's girl. No matter how evil their acts are, once a daddy's girl, always a daddy's girl! I emplore Alicia's strength, I could never recover from something like this. Strength to you girl 💞

I just want to give her a hug 🫂 😢 she has been through a lot. Funny I still see a 12 year old...her demeanor is of a 12 year old.

This is a powerful story with a lot of life lessons. Not very easy to forgive but Alicia has taught us that to have peace in our hearts and to live peacefully, we should forgive. Thank you Lebo for also teaching us to be able to listen, however hard the situation is. I also cried so much, putting myself in Alicia's shoes, but am grateful that I managed to listen to the end. All the best to Alicia and her family.

You such a strong women. Thank you for sharing with us your story Alicia. Much love and light.♥️♥️ 🇳🇦🇳🇦

You such a brave and courageous woman. Forgiveness is not an easy thing, I've learn so much from about Forgiveness from your story. Thank you for being yourself beautiful self even when you've went through so much hardship but you were able to be victorious. I appreciate you sharing your story and your family is definitely so proud of you from heaven. Sending love and big hugs ❤❤❤

This second part just triggered me😭😭😭💔💔. The part where she speaks about her family, how she was treated and all the things that were said to her sound so familiar to me💔. Having losing my parents I know how it feels to be raised by family members, the love is just not the same. I have also moved away from my family and don’t want any sort of relationship with them. At this point I am just trying to build my own life. This really broke my but I’m so glad she turned out to be this amazing person she is today🤗♥️.

So difficult listening to this story, my heart breaks each time as the she tells of what happened. So so sad. May God always be with her all the time.

Very strong young lady. Thank you for sharing....

Sorry Alicia for your sad story ! but from my own experiences "each dark cloud has a SILVER LINING " God is already healing you 💕

Aahhh marn😭😭sending hugs and love to you Alicia❤️no one deserves what you went through even worse a 12 year old😭

I can't believe an adult will blame a 12 year old for the death of her family 💔 ,if any of them are still alive they should apologize to her.

I never hear the involvement of her paternal family in her life after the death of her family. Her extended family might know the cause of the accident. They need of open up to her so that she can heal completely.

Thank you Relebogile for this show. And thank you Alisha for sharing your sad experience, may God keep you strong and give you comfort.

Dear Alicia, I am so sorry for your loss. May God keep you safe in His arms. Precious hugs and much love to you from Aotearoa. ❤❤❤❤

Right here on time.Love from Kenya...So sorry for her,😥

Alicia. I like it when you say the whole thing happened so that you can help the us who went through such tragedies. God put us in situations that will make us be useful to His children. You are really an ambassador of life to the hopeless. Keep up the good work.

Listening to her talking about her dad it showed that she really loved him, sad story 😢

Courageous and strong young woman. God has a purpose with your life, I'm glad out of this tragedy a support group was founded. I pray your foundation reaches adults so they develop coping mechanism and shy away from suicide . God's richest blessings upon your life and generations to come 🙏

I'm so sorry Alicia sending you love and strength....

Very brave young lady! 😭 big hugs 🫂

Sending u strength and love dear, this was too much to watch.

Being an orphan is the greatest insult that life can give someone. I can relate

This is such a sad story, more sad the the adults could not help the poor child to get closure and healing. This is where I see the power of God, through Him, she was able to forgive and pick herself up... What a brave yet humble soul❤️🙌

This story is so sad😥...hope you find strength, happiness n love in your life. wishing you success...

such a beautiful strong woman,thank you for sharing your story.

You are strong dear,may God be with you ALWAYS

i am soo proud of u Elisha that u moved on to be this independent strong woman even though u havent healed inteenally but believe me meeting n trying Jesus who can only soothe n heal u n give u inner peace n HIS unconcondiontal love which no man will give u...stay strong as u are beautiful

Sending you love and light Alicia ❤️🥰

I could not hold back the tears 💔.

Forgiving her dad is acceptable. But glorifying him is not acceptable.

a powerful story of forgiveness.

I have so many questions, I can imagine how many questions she had. Sorry baby girl. We love you so much

One of the hardest stories I've had to listen to, I cannot even imagine the pain she went through. I think also the adults in her life failed her dismally

Alicia you are such a sweet girl and I wish you well.thank you for sharing your story.May God shower you with love

Forgivness is the key. It sets you free!

Sorry my sweetheart u went thur a lot I pray God be with you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Being an orphan can be so painful. No matter what you achieve, you would always want your parents particularly mom to be there.

This is very sad 😭😭😭...but you are strong

Such a sad story.

Its how i feel she loved the father so much

Dear lord more grace Alicia

This story is sad and horrific for a twelve years ago child. It has a lot of missing pieces, she could not understand why her dad did what he did. Her aunt's kept telling her she killed her parents. They knew what transpired between her and her dad, when her mom found out eventually and maybe threaten to exposure. Him being a teacher that works with children took this drastic action. I had my experience. No one just don't do what he did for no reason.

Someone knows something, they just chose not to tell her. Sorry Alicia, God guide you and heal your pain❤❤❤. All the love and strength

I cried as though I knew her and her family....... a daughters love for her father in its highest form.... apart of me can almost understand why her moms sisters behaved in such a hurtful way. Maybe what they wanted was for Alicia to hate him as much as they probably did...... but she is his daughter how can she...... What a strong and beautiful woman. Much love Alicia. Xox

This is painful for anyone to go through but there's grey areas in her story, why would the family blame her for what her father did? Did the father find out that she's not his child and than decided to take his own life together with his bloodline?

What a beautiful and brave lady.Sending love and light to her💝

This is such a sad story, she's so brave. Lebo, again, you handled this with so much care. All the best to this young lady.

am sorry the adults around you failed you😥i need to give you a hug 🥺it is well alicias

Thank you so much Alicia for your bravery to share your unimaginably sad reality, and what led to that. You are one strong, and resilient young lady trust me. Not many would be still standing to tell such a horrific experience. Just because someone is your "relative" does not mean that they will love you, Support you etc especially during the battles and struggles of our lives. However, because we grew up programmed to think that, we find it extremely difficult to understand or accept this fact. Infact many times, it's the non relatives that will genuinely love you, support you etc. I wish and pray for you Alicia, that you get nothing but the best that life has to give. You deserve all of it my love 💓❤😘🙏

She was left with her maternity side, her father decided to murder everyone he loves but her, and they kept on blaming her for her family's death. I'm not a detective but I think maybe her father found out in the family gathering that she's not her biological daughter. I'm glad that she managed to pull through out of her suicidal thoughts cause I think it also gets to her that maybe she is not his biological daughter.

Alicia is a phenomenal woman. Thank you for sharing your brave story

But how could she want to make his late father proud after he murdered her family? I'm sorry he sounds evil to me. He's the reason why she's had a hard life.

Adults fail is dismally so rey that you were put in this position

Alicia's story is so heartbreaking her family failed her at the time she needed them the most. I hope she is doing well with each day that passes and I hope somehow in her dreams she got the answer and closure from her dad as to why he did what he did etc❤❤

Where and how can I get the book? Is there a website maybe where I can go and read it

This is no shade to anyone but the harshness her family showed her seems to be something typical of Indian families judging from my observations of the Indians I've known in my life. I believe that the father was suffering from depression and my heart really aches for what she went through 💔

Something's fishy, why the rush? Maybe she's not her father's biological daughter

The family knew what transpired hence they mistreated her I was thinking that the father probably found out that the brother and sister weren't his only Alicia was the biological daughter and decided to leave her behind also remember he was still wearing Alicia's ring and still kept it when he took his last breathe the aunt was so evil to say you killed your parents argh

This is such a sad story, sending love and light to my sister 🙏❤

Aunties must stop being mean bathong. Sorry Alicia that you had to go through this by yourself. God kept you safe for a reason. You're in a healing process dear. It shall be well with you my dear

My goodness the abuse she endured!!! From family nogal! 😭😭😭😭💔❤️‍🩹

Thank u 4the story

Eish so sad, feels like the father knew a deep family secret that involved her aunt and mom that he could not handle... just an assumption

iam soo sorry Elisha that u had to go thru all that trauma n no support..typical indian culture n why do they have to blame u n yr dad being a professional person...soo sad

This is sad 😔

Nobody deserves to go through such tromour.