My Father treated my mother like trash for years, plucked her hair and made her bankrupt | LNS 

Thankyou Lynn for hearing us out and bringing this lady story indeed it need to be heard and the beautiful lady deserve justice may she be healed with her beautiful daughter and repay her wasted year with that beast of a man shame on him!!!!!!

She's very beautiful and wise for her age..her future is bright.

I watched it on Jeremy channel n I felt for that lady the pain she under went through may justice prevail.

Thank you Zoe for being the voice of the children raised in abusive environment. Women listen to the kids. Staying because of the kids only hurts them , we are scarring them. LEAVE FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILDREN!!!. most kids raised by single mums adore their mums and the sacrifices made yet the ones who stayed in toxic places are traumatised for life

How humiliating to her and her Mother

Amen

Sure, May we heal some day....

Exactly... I hope one day I will heal

Amen

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭Im healing guys.My heart is full of anger.Lord heal me please

God bless you 🙏

Thank God, lam comparing this Girl yo my daughter

She's calling tge father, tgat man

Those diaries are not good becouse they have a history of all bad things, yet you need yo discard all the Garbage in order to heal

True there amazing men out there 👏 for sure

If you can't find a good man in the world be one

Angela grimes From Barbados , girl you make tears come to my eyes , i'm 68 will be 69 the 13th of this month . I grow up in a home with mom and dad , i grow up seeing mom and dad together and marrier when i was three year old . dad was a beautiful day to the six of us , but i have friend that was the same as you and your mom and it make me angry , that i had some bad thinkings in my head , some run some stay because of the children , some stay because its a beautiful house their live in , i was living in a nice home with my daughter's father , had two son's that was't his , i leave his house when he went to work , mom and dad was telling me to come back but mom and dad home five children that seven , so we as moms stay because of the good things in that home , my child keep talking god is with you , and miss Lynn Ngugi i thank you alot you are a beautiful lady god blessed you always keep doing what you do best thats helping people i would love to see you in BARBADOS . peace and love staysafe .

The preacher probably was mistreating his own wife hence why he was talking that mess.

Very true

True

I can't agree more 😭😭

very true

Very true.

Thank you so much🙏🙏🙏🙏

Yes indeed we should support her to fulfill her goals

God bless you

its difficult to heal from such things,,not even difficult,,its imposible,,all she needs is strength to survive through that experince

Yes we can

Why men always think giving food and shelter is all children need from them....I wish Kenyan government can protect women right so strictly....

🙏🙏

Very true ☺️

Very true

I wish my husband can read this...On point

The worst experience this remaids me of my marriage and I don't think I will ever go back to it

Thanks for calling all the irresponsible dads

Thank you.

By her word to you have passed judgment. I wanna hear this guy's story.

This reminds me of Son's irresponsible Dad,8yrs down the line without any help.

ooh GOD these is too painful 😢

She schooled with my daughter in rrp, this is sad.

Which school????

@@nantongosuzan5815 riara

I resonate with this. Children must be protected from parents conflicts. As an adult I have never overcome the pain I was subjected to. The man walked away. More than half of my years he has never featured. Now that I have turned to be someone he wants to come bothering. I am one very disappointed and hurting child. I wish I never existed to witness that

Yes

Touching story,but God cares

God is Great n always available in all situations

He is a bafoon

Such a stupid guy. Instead of empowering her first family he is finishing them. Stupid

Wow I truly support your comments. Shame on him but God will take her and her mom far

A year later i hope he is already paying for his sins such a hopeless mammal of a man

Yes tell them,women should learn to love themselves and leave useless marriages which are not working

You can never understand why a woman did not leave...no woman is stupid to stay just for the sake..when they say for the kids...its much deeper than that...only when in that shoe will you know why. Some women have been abused and damaged emotionally such that to leave is the hardest thing.some women are threatened and live in fear...and most women have many people saying leave leave but no one out there to support them when they leave....a woman will leave when she can do it...it's never her choice...so never judge. And many women keep quiet and avoid talkong about their situation because all that society will say is....why don't you leave??lets support this women...lets pray for them and understand how strong they are

YES it does so much damage and kids will need therapy when they are older.

@@parrotfish1988 thank you, it could not be explained any better

i concur,the damage can never be restored,the man had no love for the mom whasoever.

Wow what a pure sobber soul and mind of a Godly man on earth God grant you more wisdom be blessed Sir

The narcissist can’t do all that u r saying.i wish it was that simple.

True about narcissist, my kids are suffering even though we are seperated, he finds ways to torture us emotionally and psychologically.

Zoe, May God wipe your tears. May he grant you his peace, comfort and Love. I don’t know you in person but I do feel you and love you.

She has contradicted how her dad took her moms money, by forging her signature, yet the mom said she agreed to a joint account where any can sign, so he did not steal !! There is a hidden story here

True kepha

these issues in the family sometimes are spiritual.. No normal father can treat a daughter like this

too painful

sure❤

It sure is, I call my mom my firstborn girl.

I love this expression

You are a true follower of Lynn....I always spot your comments Gifty

Very true Gifty.i feel she is talking on my behalf as I come from same background of Domestic violence and life long anger on men .

very hard

True

She is really intelligent.

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why don't you connect her to your dad to help her achieve her dream

She can be a great motivational speaker It's traumatizing to hear the pain she went on with her lovely Mum May the Lord who heeds from heaven hear your prayers and answer

God was with her.

I'm shook! 😥

True its only God protected and rescued the little angel

so so sorry mama. May God protect you

​@@shaniquepauliiiii

This is so painful to watch Zoe is such a brave young gal and her mom is such a strong woman

Amen 🙏

Shine usa 🇰🇪New Jersey You are strong stay tight, Zoe.hugs and all the best.

My sentiments too. She was being prepared for greatness

What a wise young lady, we are blessed I see a leader in her

There was an episode LNS with the mother. Check it out please

Thank you so much Kepha for tuning in. They will quote her in their future books🙏🙏

Her mum story is on tuko. One title of her story has a title close to "dont pray and fast for your cheating husbands"

@@merryzvi oooh thanks I think I remember seeing that story on tuko🤔🤔

I really like when I see men's😍😍 comments in such stories. It's a touching story.

Me too I cry to God everyday to bless me so that I can be able to help my mom, I have been struggling with anxiety disorder and panic attack since primary school because of what my mom and I was going through

My story is just the same , l have been throgh alot , l hope one day l will tell my story to inspire some alse

Oh dear children. My heart goes out to you. Keep praying and believing, God will see you through.

Amen lucy..

When a man violates the rights of feeble, helpless and harmless women, the Lord God doubles the grace and countless angels are sent to spread their wings around them! God will definitely make him pay for He is the strongest man in heaven and in this world!

He will show up in her ruracio.....

@@HummingBirdske abusers knows who to prey on,if there prey is one of a timid,submissive nature then it's game time for them,women who fight back they won't try it to,me,he would be chopped up long ago,I love knives and machete's.

Jinga ni jinga tu

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Yes it's very rare. I feel she was and is mom's pillar during the ordeals. Even for her to approach the dad and tell him to his face what he was doing. Which child would be that brave to ask those type of questions

But the damage inside her mind....... Some of it will never heal

Wow

Sure

I agree

Jesus Christ

Yes we should

Amen

Ohhh Nooo. It's too much they went through. So sorry.

It's so heartbreaking 😭😭

Aki hata sisi

I broke down on this

That part...😭😭😭

Thank you so much:)

@@LynnNgugi ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-paHXOWKpYvE.html

Very true

Love and hugs to you my sister from ,🇰🇪

"They have to go through" really?

I am so sorry for all that she went through! Oi 😭

Hugs. You may consider connecting them to a therapist, she will do what you may struggle to do. I hope you have actually sought help for yourself.. There is an appropriate way through which we process inner wounds and traumatic experiences. As you pray for forgiveness, hopefully you aren't self blaming. Don't entertain such self defeating feelings. Have self compassion. You probably didn't know better and so you did your best under the circumstances. Glad you are now speaking about it as a past. Point to note, the past lives with us in our present until we deliberately settle it to where it belongs

Get out please don’t stay

Exactly

Very true

And never build or invest in inlaws land

Waaaooo just admiring the maturity of that young woman she is going far. Very mature and wise. God bless her

Amen!

Do you know that vow is not from Jehova. It's from men with incomplete and imperfect wisdom

😁😁😂😂true

I wish God can give every person (man or woman) in an abusive marriage the courage to walk out so that they can shield their children from what Zoe and other kids are going through... Amen.

Waw! This is an amazing story and I so relate. Been though the same as a mother. I hope to work through with my kids as we reprogramme. Thank you, very insightful!

Am proud of you! I also reprogrammed my mind through therapy

@@janetngare1003 Thank you so much and all the best

@@esthermwangi221 Amen

Yeah mum and I went through the same. It really hurts.

Ooh poor girl! Thank God she eventually managed to get to her level of education besides the man's evil shenanigans. Surely the God of Israel will see her throughout her studies successfully

Zoe you are a brilliant girl may the almighty profill your wishes

Yes. She says love is action. Spot on!

Very smart child. Give her time & she definitely will be at very NOBLE & high places. The father is a criminal.

She is so eloquent

What a story,May you heal from the childhood trauma.Such a brilliant girl.May your star Shine beyond the borders.

I know a 12.year.old going through same thing in the hands of her late mom's brother,who is a monster and a liar who makes everyone believe he doing right,the girl can't sleeps without headache tablets, i am tired of reporting the matter to the family because they all listen to his.lies non of them care to listen to the.poor girl.

@@phindiwentshinka1164 just take abold step,, report this matter to children department, let them take a step, separate them, take the girl to children home

I also wish to heal by God's grace 😍

@@Mimik70-w3t coming on this platform is the best thing she did team Lynn and Monica even the DCI don't joke with them.

@Georgina Prucha that's why she needed to be heard here! I felt for her!

@@Mimik70-w3t I thought so. I think it would be good if they went to an new, fresh environment. They totally need protection asap.

Catherine... Same for me as well, luckily we have no kids and aren't married so it's less painful to walk away... It's hard because I seem to specifically attract these type of men and it feels like I can't unlearn traits that make me attracted to narcs or forget the trauma growing up. Dad used to leave us and come back repeatedly leaving us with a fear of abandonement and the cycle repeated in my relationships. There was emotional, verbal and physical abuse in the household as well. My ex has an impeccable image to the outside world and I felt very invalidated because even though he never laid a hand on me, the emotional and verbal abuse was terrible. So much so to an extend I returned the same energy he gave and the reactive abuse made me publicly seem like the unstable one. Of course there were good times so I was in constant confusion. I realized I was dealing with someone on the spectrum displaying traits of covert narcissism. I don't even want to vilify him and make myself seem innocent; he's the most selfless man I know when it comes to lending a hand...I think I suffer from bipolar disorder and that we both just need serious therapy from unhealed childhood trauma. To love ourselves better as well as others. Love for oneself is very important and I think we both lacked in that. I know I need therapy but it's incredibly hard as I'm in a foreign country and language is a barrier. Therapy in general needs to be paid for and I'm a student so that's an expense I can't afford. Also, the therapist needs to be well equipped to deal with trauma survivors and have knowledge of narcissists and NPD otherwise it's pointless, some therapists can traumatize survivors all over again. I'm glad Zoe shared her story, her story really resonates with me.

You have your future in your hands.You can choose to stay and get more bruised emotionally and mentally or walk away when the sun shines.

@@jessieschatz9611 Hey! Sharing is the beginning of healing. Glad that you did. Now, prayer is the best form of therapy, and it's free. I call it deep intimacy. You can start by asking yourself questions about how your feeling and answer yourself in detail. Always keeping in mind what the word of God has to say. A bruised self image is usually what keeps us going back to narcs. We shall overcome this toxic cycle. More power to you Jessie

@@laceyloops Thank You so much for taking the time out to write this. It is hard to explain but everytime my ex and I would pray there was always a sense of calm between us. Peace. Things were going well.. It is when we stayed long periods without prayer that things simply just went bad beyond repair, some moments we really felt like we were under spiritual attack. You're so right, I've come to understand that prayer is everything. Will definitely start there. May God bless You abundantly 🙏

All women had bad father's and husbands.... no sane man fights woman without a reason.... When you poke bear expect anything.

She would make a good lawyer. So smooth, keen, intelligent, bold and the list is endless.

True true true, very true they age like they never were anything while the women go down the road gracefully. True true true

true. and nasty diseases

This is the comment!!

So true...

True

OMG💯💯

Co parenting is better than living withan abusive partner....kids will understand when they grow up

I’m still healing, my dad is a Narc still married to my mum but she has been through hell. I have cut off communication with him for my own sanity and to heal . I don’t blame her mum for not leaving sooner. My mum is still stuck with him.

May God see this girl through

Amen..may God restore you and your family too #Cidner Baraka

Such a strong young Zoe. May God continue to use her to bring hope and peace to other's going through similar pains.

You will make it dear. Trust in God who maketh a way where there's no way.

These fights will not end until the abused leaves.You could try watch the video with the abused parent.

Marriage is Not apriority on this current life

And so intelligent

You are blessed my dear girl you shall live many years and be star in your family.

Pole Njokie, may your ulcers be healed.

I can't help crying from the moment this beautiful gal started narrating what she experienced with her mum 💔 it's soo heartwretching I'm soo sorry but you will overcome it's beyond what that animal of a man did,he should be in prison rotting there.My heart is bleeding for you and your mum may restoration come speedily in Jesus name.

Please do, and i pray you have healed completely.

Pole sana Cynthia.. Sending so much hugs and love. I pray you find your healing!

Lets pray 4 the two dear 🙏

That's true dear. Amen

Aaawwwwwwwww 🥲🥲🥲🥲

Never feel embarrassed of your virginity.infact congratulations for holding yourself for that long.am double sure God is very proud of you.

Loosing your virginity is not an achievement, believe me you are not missing anything. Stay on course you are doing well sis

Congratulations for keeping yourself pure. There's absolutely no shame in that. May God guide your steps.

God eti you feel embarrassed gal ❤️? Congratulations wish you will never be involved until God bring a right person for you...that sin by the way is the source of all evils ..I wish I never know what is sex ..your a wonderful person Infront of God your prayers will always go through instantly in the ears of our creator ..kudos gal keep it gal .we regret alot out here.

There is no emberassment in being a virgin many are.Achieve ur goals and always remember to pray daily for a responsible n God fearing Man to ur life.

Zoe you are a light in this dark world. May you forever keep shinning

Its painful

This is the only comment I was looking for in the comments section. She's so articulate and sounds intelligent 🧠

She will in Jesus name

Very true......so inconsiderate of 'that' man!

I have cried a lot in this episode.May God come through and salvage marriages.Amen