My boyfriend and I having been dating for 5 years and are both still virgins waiting for marriage. Thankfully we are engaged and are getting married next October! :)
Don't worry I was a Junior in college before I even kissed anyone (had first kiss and first time the same night) it's not a big deal in the scheme of things, don't rush it haha
About to be a junior and have only had a peck on the lips a few times. It's all good though, when you think about it we're all still quite young and we have a whole life to live 😊
I was 19, he was 21 and we were both virgins, it was awkward but sweet. 13 years later we are still together and have 2 kids. I was lucky and I have no regrets now. But I do remember being like 16 or 17 and all my friends were starting to lose their virginity and I felt like a total alien and a freak, I wish I could talk to that girl now and tell her it gets better, you'll meet that someone that makes you feel special and beautiful and comfortable.
I was 18 she was 18, we were friends since primary school. We weren't together she knew I was gay before I did but, we both wanted to lose it so thought to each other was the best option than a complete stranger etc. So, we went to a classy hotel, had dinner I bought her flowers, she bought me condoms lol ( had some too) The first time was very quick and over in 5mins (shamefully on my part) Then we relaxed had a laugh, drank cheap champagne and did twice more. Was an excellent night which I'll never forget. My BFF is married now but we are still close!! My first time with a guy, on the other hand, was cheap and quick and really forgetful. Until I meant my boyfriend of 8 years and learned what love really is about and sex was really like with someone you love. (extra note- we're are thinking of having a child and my BFF has offered to donate an egg and carry)
I was 15 the guy was 19 and i wasnt dating him. I went to his house and we started to watch finding Nemo then next thing i know things are getting hot and heavy. While in the middle of the whole thing the part of finding nemo that has dory speaking whale came on and i started laughing so hard i cried. The guy got off and said he was going to go downstairs. We never talked again 😂😂😂😂
Roos Klerks good for you. Don't worry about boys right now. There is plenty of time for that later. Focus on getting an education. That's the one thing in life that no one can take away from you.
I'm going to be a senior in high school.. And honestly... I'm not waiting until marriage but.. I want it to be the right person. But whatever happens.. Happens in my opinion.
Sam Harris dont put that pressure on yourself dear! Enjoy being a teen and all the freedom that comes with it. Sex is heavy stuff and it is something that you should do when you are ready, in a good place, and mature and with the right person. You wont be a teenager forever. One day you will be 40 and you will wish you spent your teenage years being free and happy without baggage. When adult life comes, play time is over! It so okay being a virgin at your age. Dont lose it because everyone else is doing it.
rxxrcousin it’s a not.... you can’t ha be sex at 13 y.o it’s wrong... you can’t say it’s personal.... you can’t have sex feeling at that age... it’s just copying others for the trend..l not real or in the moment...
lost it at 16 its a maturity thing and if you meet the right person at the right time. Trust me I didn't think I would till I was like 18 but it happened. Even though were broken up now, we are still good friends and I don't regret it at all
I was mature at 16 I think you meant the opposite because only dumbasses lose their virginity so young! You have a life to live don't live it trying to grow up too fast!
Fabricio P I don’t think it’s true at alllllll I dumped my bf my senior year after like two months after losing my vcard to him Bc I lost all interest lmaoooo
In some ways that's better. Because I had my first kiss with a guy I didn't like at all, and don't get me wrong he is a good person and stuff and I knew he liked me for like months before he flirted with me all the time but I just really really didn't feel anything for him. Long story short it wasn't anything special because I didn't have feelings for him so it would me amazing if your first kiss is with someone you actually like.
I had my first kiss when I was 17 at a party & was tipsy, Because I wanted to get it over with. Don’t get me wrong, no regrets and stuff, but it’s nice if you like the person.
Babe if it hasn't happened yet, do not worry! If people look down on you because of this, they can go fuck themselves or someone else during a black out. Be loud and proud about it.
My first was with my current boyfriend when we were 17. I was so so nervous and he was a sweetie. He noticed that it was hurting so he slow down and started kissing me everywhere so I relaxed. And he came and it felt so good at the end. It hurts af, for reals, but if you do with someone that loves you and you love him/she back, it's amazing! It is not something that you should rush. The first will always be kinda awkward so do it with th right person at the time. I was so happy! And btw the second time it will also hurt, less, but it will
It's not actually supposed to hurt. You should be aroused to have sex or your vagina doesn't widen nor is wet enough and it'll hurt especially if you're not used to regular sex. I don't like people telling others that it will hurt like it's supposed to happen. Like no, people are told to wait until they are ready for a reason.
@@sugarflowerjam it hurts because it's you're first time and a foreign object that big hasn't ever been in you're vagina before. Don't tell people it's not suppose to hurt because it is. A penis is stretching your vagina, nothing is painless about it. Even if you're wet enough, you'll be sore after. Once you start having sex regularly it'll stop hurting but the first time is going to hurt some type of way, whether a bit of stretch, or soreness it will hurt.
I'm seeing a lot of comments by 13-16 year olds (or younger) saying how they lost it to someone over the age of 19+ with loads of likes etc... Statutory rape is not okay. It really isn't. I know that at that age you think you're the shit and you know everything about yourself and life and how everything is 'fine'. But it's not. People who are over the age of 19 are a lot more mature or at least are aware that they should not be having sex with a minor. If you are really truly in love with someone who is underage ( which I don't know why you are in the first place) at least have the decency to wait until they are overage. By then that person will either realize that the relationship was not alright or that person will want to continue the relationship (which would both be legal but also morally correct). I know it's a lot harder to see it as rape as its not 'forced' but when you actually realize that you're having sex with a child.. I repeat a CHILD it becomes pretty fucked up, regardless of how old they look or 'mature' they are etc.
Lola Rose It depends on which country you are in to how the Law sees Statutory Rape. Many, like the UK, it is 16 and in others it's lower than that. I think 16 is about right and as with all things, you will have some who are mature and others who are less so.
Not everybody lives in the US. Not every country has the same laws as the US. How many times do I have to tell self centered Americans about this. The most common age of consent is 16 in most places, some even 14. I haven't seen anybody comment them being 13 or 14 and having sex with way older people. I've seen a lot of 16 or 15 years old talking about having sex with a 19 or 22 year old, and I assume where they are that it is legal or it wouldn't be happening and they wouldn't be talking about it on a public forum. Again, the US is it's own country, and not every other country on the planet has the same laws of statutory rape that we do. If it's legal in their country, let them do it. As long as there is consent, and it's legal where they are from, they can do whatever they please. A lot of the 13 or 14 year old's I've seen have done it with people their own age. Kids have sex. That's just a given. Teach them to be safe and careful about it, but don't expect them not to do it. Most parents would be fucking hypocrites for telling their children not to have sex. If you don't tell kids about it, they're going to find out about it some other way, and that some other way may not be the right information or right way of going about it.
Madison Thomas you are really young! Enjoy your 20s being single! Go out, travel and meet people and live life. Once you are in a relationship it will no longer be just about you...
You're very cute and pretty. As much as I'd like to show you a whole new world and give the song a new meaning, you have an aura of innocence about you that almost seems wrong to penetrate, almost.
"Omg you're like inside of me like actually inside of me right now like at this very moment I'm losing my virginity like oh my goD can you believe this man?!?!?" DEAD 😂😂😂😂👌🏻
My first time was kinda unremarkable to be honest. It was with my best friend when I was 19, and it hurt for like a second but it went away fairly quickly. Only things I really remember was him being patient with me and checking in to see if I was still okay a couple times. And that the movie Hellboy was on tv. Lol I've never been able to see anything Hellboy without remembering that.
My first time was great. I was relaxed, I was grown and comfortable in my body, and it was completely consensual with someone I am still with. But my expectations were kind of medium. I was more prepared for it to hurt than anything, but it was mostly comfortable after the first few minutes.
Im a 24 virgin. I just met a guy but I dont think I could lose it to him because I am really ashamed about my body and I am afraid of getting pregnant :(
BIRTH CONTROL is your best friend, girl. Don't ever do anything you don't feel comfortable doing! I was super scared to get naked in front of someone else but the guy I was with made me feel soo comfortable, so if he doesn't make you feel comfortable then maybe he isn't the right one.
Lost it at 15 to one of my best friends (who is still one of my closest friends thank god) and it happened to be around the time of his birthday, I was also house sitting my mothers friends house, so we would go up there every now and then whilst I was house sitting, and one night he asked me, and of course I was extremely nervous but I trusted him and I knew that he would respect my wishes if I wanted to stop or needed anything, so it happened and then later found out that the house we were in, was extremely haunted😅🎉and people may say I was to young but it's all about personal choice and when your ready, you may say the personal choice is bullshit but it's really not, it was my decision to loose it then, and it's your decision that I and many other people have been too young. But some up, my first time was great and I'm so thankful for still being friends with him.☺️
I know it's not as common anymore but I'd like to wait till marriage when I'm okay with having kids. That's me though, I don't judge anyone who doesn't wait but that's how I want to do it.
I'm a senior in high school and personally would rather wait til marriage, my purity ring means a lot to me so when I do decide to lose it I want to truly love the person not just do it to do
I was around 14 when I lost my virginity, my parents were still together and they went out for a date night. Texted my boyfriend, (still together), and told him to come over. I was watching The Best of Me when my doorbell rang. Long story short, it was on my couch in the living room and it hurt a little bit, but over time it got better. My mom ended up finding out and took me to the OB/GYN to put me on birth control and my dad still doesn’t know anything.
I lost mine at 14, on the couch in my living room on my moms birthday. I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone that young honestly I wish I waited til I was 16-17 but 🤷♀️
No shame in waiting for the wedding night either. I will be 100% honest with you. I was too young when I lost mine. I wish I had waited longer, maybe even until I found Mr Right.
I wanted to wait until marriage but as I got older that turned into just wanting to be sure it was with someone who I loved and loved me back and who understood how much it meant to me and understood the importance behind him being the only person I'd ever be able to give that part of myself to. I feel lucky to say I did find him and we've been together for over 5 years and I feel confident he will be the man I marry. I followed my heart and stayed true to myself and it all worked out. Can't really ask for much more. Also to any young girls, just know all my friends were having sex waaaay before me. I didn't lose it until 19. I also got broken up with a lot in high school because I wasn't willing to go there and even though at the time my heart was broken I am so happy I never gave in because guys who just want that won't stick around even if you give it to them. If you want it to be special then hang onto that! You'll never regret waiting.
lol my first time was with my now husband, and i was 22 ☺️ it was great, and awkward, but i truly am glad i happened the way it did. i initiated it, he wanted to make sure i was 100% ok, so i relate to Drew's story for sure
I lost my V at the age of 19 with my husband. I didn't knew that we would get married but i knew that i wanted to marry him. And we did. So it was the best that i waited for Mr. Right. 😊 6 years later still in love, and every day more. 🖤
I was 16 with my ex on his bedroom floor and all I remember is it hurting and looking up at his poster of Slash the guitarist. And some 80's music playing. I felt super shameful and gross. Lol it was fun...
I lost mine during my study abroad trip and I wasn't planning on it at all. I was 21 at the time and he was 24, I remember we had an amazing sexual chemistry and he was so fine! Lol! He was a gentleman. He took me to this rooftop bar that overlooked the city cause I mentioned that I was obsessed with rooftop bars, gave me a bit of a tour in the city, and we had dinner. Didn't plan to go back to his place after (i knew it was gonna be the end of my virginity cause I was deadass sooooo ready lol) and he literally convinced me/semi-sweet talked me to it. FInally went and i made him think i was just there to cuddle lol. So even he didn't know we were gonna do it. We did and it was great and dont regret a thing! Also, he didnt know it was my first time. Hahaha!
I'm 21 and still a virgin. I heard it hurts and it seems like it'll be awkward so I wanna lose it to someone I'm comfortable with but at the same time, I'm getting impatient
I’m actually really impressed how almost all of them were around the age of 20 and none of them were like 14 - 15 when it happened like how kids nowadays are doing it
I lost my virginity two hey guy I had been friends with since I was 11. We started dating when I was 17 and he was 19. We we're both so in love with each other. I remember it had to be really planned out though. Only reason my dad let him spend the night his because my cousin said she would watch us. That actually sounds really weird when I think about it now... But hey you got to do what you got to do. My cousin was fully aware of the plan. My dad had to work that day from like 6 a.m. to 11 a.m. . At 6:30 a.m. we woke my cousin up and told her it was time for her to. I think she was actually kind of mad that we woke her up LOL. He was very compassionate and I do not regret my experience. Life took us in different directions for about 10 years we never stopped loving each other though and he has reenter my life. Looking forward to the future.
I was 14 he was 15 when we lost ours. We’re still together and it was in April. We’ve been together since may 2017. It was our decision and we’re both still happy with it and we love each other greatly. He’s 16 in two weeks.
Ahsid Letap until the marriage burns up in a ball of flames and you're left like "well I guess he wasn't the right person" and then you get a divorce and move out and get a tinder looking for love again and 2 years down the line you're still single because every guy you've met from tinder looks nothing like his tinder so now you lay in bed watching clevver videos and eating saltine crackers with your cat on a Thursday morning. Anyone? Just me? Ok.
I would rather chose someone I marry and even if we divorce, at least we were together for a little bit vs losing on a one night stand and never seeing or hearing from him again
I was 16 and lost my virginity to my then boyfriend. For me it did hurt and I started bleeding but it was still okay. We started out as good friends and then we became a couple. He was super sweet and a good guy that I still sees around town sometimes :)
I lost mine when I was 14,and me and my first real bf were dating for 9months and he was a virgin too,it was really magical, but we did it in his older brother's broke down blue econoline van that was parked in the back of his house,it really was an awesome experience, and I'm glad that it happened the way it did,cause it was an awesome experience!!!
I was 18 and my bf was 28 (still together 12 yrs later) and I made him wait months and he was great about it. One night we were watching a movie and I just said let's have sex and it was really sweet... He was considerate and patient and I couldn't be happier with it.
My first time was so awkward cause me n my ex were just chilling and then we feel asleep together and when I woke up she was naked and I was like wooaahhh😍😍 and yeah we did it she screamed alot to the point I was like be quiet the neighbors will hear us but I'd say it was 6/10 from there we did it better
"I do this all the time" definitely not the best choice of words when you're in a monogamous relationship and that's you and your significant other's first time having sex together
bethanymargret one of the regrets in life I have is that I didn't wait until I was with someone who I was in love with and had a connection with to lost my virginity to. Not my husband or the man who was gonna end up with, but someone who I loved. It would have been nice. I think that's cool you wanna wait until marriage. You won't regret it.
