MY GRIEF UPDATE W/PICS 

This is one of the most beautiful videos I've ever seen. Even in your times of deep grief and sorrow, you are thinking of and helping others in their times of deep grief and sorrow...and those who will experience it one day, as we all will. Thank you for sharing your journey, your love, your compassion. Jayla was and is a beautiful child of God, and her beauty, inside and out, was and is deepened and guided by you, her beautiful mom. My prayer is for healing, finding new normals, and that every child in the world would be loved as deeply as Jayla was and is loved by her mom and family. Psalm 23 💖

Thank you for always sharing your daughter's life with us, she was blessed to have you as a mother! 🙏🏼💘😢 May God continue to give you the strength to continue living Mrs determine to be...

Heartfelt! I truly understand exactly how you feel! I still struggle on special days and almost every Saturday! When you said “ I miss being her mom” I felt that in my soul! I love you Sis! I’m always praying for you❤

I am so very sorry for your loss. Some days it’s okay if all you can do is breathe. I learned this from my own grief journey. You are a strong beautiful woman of The Lord. You, your daughter and your family are beautiful loving people. I can see it even in photos. I’ve read a lot of the comments on this video. You have touched many of us. I believe that I know some of the amazing women (your purse sisters) who are your support group from watching you alls’ RU-vid WIMB videos. I’m glad for you to have them. Many blessings to you. 🙏🏻🫶

I am grateful you did this update on your journey . This will help so many people Chelle chelle ...you sharing your journey letting your you-tube viewers know how loveable Jayla was and how they can get thru their own grief of a love one. 💗💖💔 you can grief as long as you want like I told you before ,no one can give you advice on how long to grieve. 🙏🙏.. love you "Oldest"

I’m so sorry you lost your daughter. She sounds like she was special treasure in your family. God bless you. Thank you for sharing with us.😞💕

Michelle I commend you for being able to speak out and talk to us about this difficult journey. You’re so right, everyone handles grief differently. God really has His arms around you and I pray that He continues to guide you through this process. Your necklace is so beautiful ❤. I love you so much sister. Virtual hug for now but we will have to have lunch very soon🤗🙏🏾.

I thank you so much for this video my son was murdered in 2020, also in 2022 my mother passed. I suffer with depression, anxiety and my grief level is so high. I truly feel your pain. I cry almost everyday and even though I smile, I’m struggling. I love you and I’m sending hugs and prayers your way. 🙏🏽💞 God has truly encouraged you to make this video to help others such as myself. I still have to take care of family during my time of grief, so I’m continuing to grieve silently and all I can do is ask The Lord to strengthen me and Bless my heart ❤️ TFS 🙏🏽

My deepest condolences to you and your family. Thank you for sharing this. Praying for you and your family. It's gd you letting all this out.

I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray for your strength, healing, peace, and comfort.

Sending you a big hug from Michigan. My condolences to you and your family. You are in my prayers.

I commend you for your strength. There is no words I can say to know what you are going through. Grief is different for everyone. I totally understand when you can not come on RU-vid. Life is first before RU-vid any given day. Taking care of you is first every day. Your baby girl is with you every second watching over you and the family. She will be with you on your graduation day as well cheering you on. You are so strong to just be able to reflect on everything. It is something that no one ever knows to prepare for or be able to get over. Praying for you and family every day. Hugs to you and now I need a tissue just remembering seeing you that day.

I’m so sorry for the heartbreaking loss of your beautiful daughter! Praying for strength to get through this unimaginable time🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤

Thanks for sharing. I was over here crying my eyes out. I remember seeing her in your video and thought you had an awesome relationship with your daughter. Continue to pray 🙏🏽 for you and your family

My deepest condolences. I recently just found you a few months ago. This just hit my heart so hard. You will remain in my prayers. It's hard! Keeping it together can is so hard. Our oldest grandson was murdered he was only 14 years old. It's been 3 weeks. Our daughter hasn't moved. So we are helping with her other children. I cry alone to not overwhelm everyone else with my grief. It hits us all at different times. Because we don't know..... why? 😢😢😢And it hurts so much. Thank you so much for sharing this. You have such beautiful heart. ❤ 😢

My deepest condolences 😢. I found your channel because of the bags, but this was meant for me to see right now. God knows what he's doing. I lost my nephew to a motorcycle accident just over 1 month ago. He was older than your daughter, but still a young man. May God help us 🙏 and continue to give us strength. 🤗

Hi @determinetobe! Thank You for sharing with us what seems to be a very emotionally transparent reality. Your daughter sounds like she was a beautiful soul, with a beautiful heart...❤❤❤ I understand that Grief can take you away from everything just to cope. I do not presume to understand the totality of your feelings though. I only pray that God continues to wrap his holy arms around you when you need him, that God continues to Bless you and your family with people who will surround you with Love, Humor, and Sincerity...❤❤❤ I'm grateful for you and your handbag channel...🥰🥰🥰 God Bless You...🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾🥰🥰🥰🫶🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

I’m so glad to know that you’re doing well. Grieving is a process in many people have different ways of grieving. You are correct, no one can tell you how long to grieve as everyone heals differently. I believe it’s harder when you lose a child versus a parent because parents don’t think that they will outlive their children continuing to pray for you and your family strengthen healingMrs. Q

Thank you for sharing your feelings. Grief is an awful creature...sometimes hiding for a bit then attacking when you least expect it. I am happy you do have a wonderful support system. Please know I will keep you in my prayers.

I found your channel a few months before the loss of your beautiful girl. Sending you love. Sending you respect. ❤

🙏🏾❤ Thank you for the update. Thank you for such a powerful, heartfelt, inspiring video. I was so intently listening I never noticed a green light until you mentioned it, then I didn't notice it again because I went back to focusing on what you were saying. Like you, I wouldn't wish this on anyone. But if I know someone is going through this I will share your video with them. ❤

My condolences she is beautiful and yes I believe she definitely smiling and playing with the children I have an a experience with it and I'm a believer I will pray for you god bless 🙏💕💕💕

Wishing you blessings on blessings!! I will continue to keep you in my prayers. Continue to keep her memory alive in action and your heart ❤️ ❤.

Determined to be God bless you. Thank you for sharing l will continue to pray for your strength daily. You are amazing.

I am so sorry for your loss. I remember your RU-vid duo. God bless and stay strong🙏🫂💙

Your precious child will always be your beautiful angel , hugs of loving comfort sent your way ...❤️❤🙌🏽✨️

Thank you for sharing Mrs. Michele. I'm praying for you and your family.

I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. Prayers for you through it all. But as I listen to you. God has you. He’s right there with you though it ALL. Thank you for sharing, sending prayers and hugs🙏🤗 to you.

Thanks for sharing this with us. Praying for strength and peace for you and your family. I love you 🩷

Sending you so much love and prayers 🫶🏾🙏🏾. I’m so glad to see you doing so much better. I know it’s not easy o know it’s hard. Please allow yourself to grieve. I haven’t lost anyone that close thank goodness but my husband lost his mother. That was the closest I’ve been to loss. Everything you said is 100% what I see him go through. She lived with us due to an auto accident she was paraplegic. So her bedroom we kept closed for a year and my husband found the courage to go in there and clean it out. With that said we kept a bag of her clothes. ❤❤thank you for this video because I’m sure it’s going to help someone in their time of fried.

I’m new to your channel so I didn’t know. Thank you for being brave and sharing your grief journey. My heart goes out to you! {{{{{HUGS!}}}}} You are in my prayers! God bless you sis! ❤️🙏❤️

So heart warming to see you speak of your beautiful Jayla, her spirit is real and there. How does one get over it, my goodness you don't, you just adjust to walk differently, breathe differently, wake up in the morning differently, go to sleep differently. I really truly believe talking about her is the best best therapy for your heart, love to see your smile when you speak of her. I can never imagine the loss of a child. Love how Jayla in spirit is doing a wonderful auntie role! Only hugs and thank you for sharing wonderful pictures and memories of her. God bless you both!! XO

❤First and foremost, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I watched your beautiful video of Jayla who was/is beautiful inside and out. There is no rhyme or reason as to why😓I give you credit as you are dealing as best you can.. I feel your sincerity and your beautiful ❤️.. I lost my 37y/o son July of 2022. He was my only son and my youngest. I live with the struggle of loss daily. As you say, some days are better than others. I have 2 daughters, 42 and 45.. I have also adopted my son's daughter.. ages 8 and 9.. They give me strength to live my life.. Thank you for sharing your Jayla with us . I will look for your updates . GOD BLESS🙏

You are so Brave to do this video I am in awe of your strength Your daughter was your twin 💔 I am so very Sorry for that loss My daughter passed in 1993 at 7 yo and I still have my bad days You definitely feel her as I feel mine and see the number 11:11 all the time and know it's her I called her kk and still cry when I see a license plate with Kk on it your Jayla's mission Seems like yesterday my child passed but as you see it's been years God is good and will get you through 🙏🏽 praying for you xoxox Know you are not alone Grace and Mercy is def needed at this time

We love you Lady M!

I just sent a message on ista this is so amazing of you to share with us all.. we can see the love you have for your daughter and It’s amazing you are a awesome mom

Thank you for sharing your journey. ❤🤗🥰😘 Take your time don’t rush yourself through this process.

My deepest condolences for your loss. I hope you sharing this will aid you getting some ease throughout this difficult Journey. Continued prayers for easier days ahead.

May God continue to strengthen and comfort you along your journey.

Thank you so much for this wonderful gift I dealt with grief as well ❤ praying for you oxox

Psalm 31:9 “Have mercy upon me, O LORD, for I am in trouble: Mine eye is consumed with grief, yea, my soul and my belly.” ‭‭Psalm‬ ‭31:16 “Make thy face to shine upon thy servant: Save me for thy mercies' sake.” ‭‭May the Joy of the lord continue to be your strength Michelle🙏🏽

Love you Sis! God is Good! Yes he is!! Mind Regulator! None like him🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 What I always say to you Sis? Move how you need to move!! Btw you are so Gorgeous! Love the hair 😘

My deepest condolences💔 ur daughter will forever be ur angel🪽

Loving the face to face Hair is gorgeous

❤I am so sorry for your loss. 😢 My deepest condolences 💐 to you & yours. Hugs 🫂 🤗❤️

Thanks for sharing your grief story, you are such a beautiful and wonderful lady xxxx

God Bless you. I am praying for you, sister in Christ.❤

I’m praying for you sweet lady! 🙏🏽💕🌸💕🌸

❤ sending you prayers and love my dear friend 🙏❤️🙏 I always say a little prayer for you and your family ❤️❤️❤️ I’m here for you anytime ❤️

Prayers for your continued healing Sis❤

God Bless you and your beautiful family.♥🙏

Prayers for your healing. ❤

My deepest condolences to you and your family!

💙💙🌼🌺 Keep talking about her 🌺💛

When you said, He is a mind regulator!!!!! You said a WHOLE message. Because if it were not for Him there are times I would have lost MY entire mind. I can’t IMAGINE your loss. I am in awe of you. I am grateful to God for blessing you with so many beautiful experiences & memories of her. So many awesome pictures you can pull in your mental Rolodex to bring you joy. I pray God pour even the more joy from thoughts of her. New subbie. Keeping you & your family lifted up in my prayers. 💜💜💜💜💜

Thanks so much for sharing 💕 prayers 🙏

Psalm 46:1-3: “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. On another note, you look so pretty in this video. Have an amazing day/week.

You are amazing. ❤🎉

Lovely where did you get your earrings oh my there are beautiful your daughter is a beautiful spirt yessss ma'am she talking with her nieces and nephew 💕

I'm sending you a big hug 🤗

Thank you for sharing this journey. I knew you had lost your beautiful daughter, Jayla, and often prayed when you went "missing." I felt you were grieving. I can't even comprehend the sorrow, but it's so good to know the memories of your relationship with her are much more often than the sad memories. You are a beautiful soul, and your joy when sharing your bags puts a smile on my face. Much love, Michelle. I am certain Jayla is looking down on you and very proud you're her mother. 💜🙏😍

You are such a beautiful woman of God , His love shines through you and just know you are blessing people by sharing your journey with us! May God continue to strengthen and keep you ❤🙏

I hope you know that your strength and courage in sharing your grief has touched and helped many people. Thank you for your open and honest discussion. My prayers are with you.

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m glad I heard your story because it lets me know everything I feel is normal. I lost my mom and dad within a year of one another. I wish people could understand that there is no time limit to grief. I’m praying for you and know that God is with you 🛐♥️

Oh Michelle u have me balling 😢 over here the love you have for your daughter is unmatched I can’t begin to imagine what it is like to lose a child I have 1 child my only daughter and the thought of losing her I would definitely lose my mind my life would end the same time I send u hugs and love and prayers and yes God is able Not to be off topic u look beautiful today ❤ the hair and nails Do continue to honor your beautiful daughter and grief any which way u like I will be here watching your videos whenever u upload 🙏❤️

I'm truly sorry to hear this. As someone fairly new to your channel, I had no idea. The cherished moments and memories you've shared will undoubtedly keep her spirit alive, and I just know that she's there talking with and watching over your grandbaby! Sending prayers for strength to you and your family ❤️

Prayers for your heart ❤

Love you Michelle❤❤❤❤

I am so deeply sorry for your loss of your beautiful daughter. May you have peace and strength and feel her love

God Bless you❤

❤😮Im new and didn't know. My belated condolences. Praying for your peace of mind, darling lady.

I love all the pics and stories you shared, sending prayers and virtual hugs 🫂 ❤

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Psalm 34:18: "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit"Gracious God, we come before you in sorrow and grief, having lost our beloved daughter. Our hearts are broken and our minds filled with despair. We are overwhelmed by the pain and anguish of her absence. Yet, we know that you can provide us with solace and understanding in the midst of our sorrow. Help us to find comfort and peace, trusting that you are with us even in our darkest hours. Wrap us in your loving embrace and fill our hearts with hope. Grant us strength to navigate this difficult journey, instilling within us courage and resilience as we face each day ahead. Guide us towards a place of healing, where one day we can look back on this time of loss with peace and acceptance. We ask that you fill us with joy and happiness as we honor the memory of our daughter, cherishing her life and celebrating the precious moments she shared with us. We thank you for your divine guidance and unending love in this difficult season, Lord. Amen. Prayer for Guidance This prayer seeks guidance, wisdom, and clarity in understanding the purpose behind the loss and finding a way forward. Heavenly Father, we come before You in this time of sorrow and grief. We feel such immense pain at the loss of our beloved daughter, and we struggle to find a way to go on. We turn to You, asking for guidance, wisdom, and clarity as we try to understand the purpose behind this tragedy. Help us to find solace and peace in Your presence, trusting that You will show us the way forward. Give us courage in our darkest moments, reminding us that we are never alone. Open our eyes to the beauty of this world even amidst the shadow of pain, helping us to cling to hope and stay strong. Lord, grant us the wisdom to cherish and celebrate our daughter’s life in ways that honor her memory. Help us be reminded of the precious moments we shared together, and fill our hearts with gratitude for all she could bring into our lives. In Your infinite love and understanding, help us move forward on this difficult healing journey. Amen. Prayer for Hope This prayer asks for hope in the midst of despair, believing that brighter days will come even in the face of tragedy. Heavenly Father, we come to You in this time of sorrow and grief. In our deepest despair, we cling to the comfort that You can bring us hope and strength. We thank You for the precious gift of life that was shared with us, for the time we had with our beloved daughter. Yet, our hearts are heavy with the pain of her absence, and our minds are overwhelmed by sorrow. Help us to find solace in Your presence and guidance as we strive to make sense of this tragedy. Grant us hope for brighter days ahead, reminding us that You are sovereign even in the face of despair. Fill us with courage and strength, knowing that You are with us each step of the way. Help us to be thankful for all the blessings in our lives and to see the beauty still present in this world despite the sadness it holds. In Your infinite mercy and understanding, Lord, grant us peace as we seek healing in this difficult journey ahead. Amen. Finding Comfort and Strength: The Power of Prayer After the Loss of a Daughter Please know you are not alone. Losing a daughter is a profound loss that leaves parents in the depths of grief. In these dark moments, loss of daughter prayers serve as a beacon of hope, providing comfort, strength, and solace. Through prayer, parents can find the guidance, healing, and resilience needed to navigate the complex journey of grief. The pain will never fully subside, and prayer offers a way to connect with a higher power, find meaning and purpose, and seek solace in the midst of unimaginable loss. Remember, you are not alone in your grief. Reach out to Ian’s Place, your faith community, or seek professional help if needed, and know that there are others who understand and empathize with your pain. In the meantime, our loss of daughter prayers can be a source of strength and hope as you navigate the challenging path of healing. HEALING THROUGH HOPE Amen🙏

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