MY HONEST THOUGHTS ON HAVING MORE KIDS | Spend the day with me as a mom of 4 boys

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@GirlGoneLondon 4 месяца назад

I feel like your personality is coming through a lot more since you've returned to RU-vid. Really enjoying your videos again! :)

@teddybear283 4 месяца назад

Your boys are so blessed to have each other. Built in buddies for life

@HereIs_My 3 месяца назад

You said it lovely! Have that big family, I don’t know why people care or make comments when others have lots of children or no children. Is it their life??? Also, I love that you have the headphones on to re-center yourself while the kids play. Such a great idea! Thank you for uploading and your hard work in doing so ❤

@Kay-tt9wd 4 месяца назад

You have plenty of time to have another child! Don't worry about the phases they're all in, etc. Just have it when you are fully ready. When that happens your new baby will fit into your family just as they were supposed to 🩷

@MadelieneVanMarter 4 месяца назад

❤️❤️🥹

@naomimcfadden2030 4 месяца назад

You remind me of me as a younger mum 😊, I hope you have all the babies too, I'm pregnant with my 9th now - a big family is the best thing - one of God's great blessings ❤

@clairesanders1456 4 месяца назад

Amen! Big families are awesome!

@samarasea4444 4 месяца назад

People need to mind their own business when it come to how big or how small you and your partner want your family to be. That goes for all family members as well. If they didn't have it in them or struggled or if it was more of burden to them to raise and really value what it takes to be a mom or a dad, then their opinion really doesn't matter. It's a blessing, Turley, to be gifted the chance to me a mom. Its not always easy but always worth it❤

@andrea15338 11 дней назад

You can have as many babies as you want . You are sooo young!!! I just had my first and only baby at 36 and now I know why this is much better when you are in your 20s.

@KitKat10281 Месяц назад

Girl, my kitchen is a DISASTER rn, and I 100% understand what you mean about being unmotivated by your space not being functional, or your aesthetic or whatever! I HATE my kitchen, and I used to LOVE to cook and be in the kitchen. It's falling apart and is in such a dysfunctional layout. It's impossible to enjoy! 😢

@thk383838 4 месяца назад

I had my daughter 13 years ago and now have a 6 month old son .. Major age gap yes but omg watching them together absolutely melts my heart. So regardless of when you decide to have another baby those boys will love that little one so much and they will fit perfectly with your family ✨💕 Love your videos gorgeous

@theashwoodfaerie2 3 месяца назад

Lincoln is so cute! I love his big brown eyes. My son is about two weeks younger than him

@deonnapittman621 4 месяца назад

Praying everything works out and you will qualify for the bed 🙏 And I'm right there with you. I want #4 so bad. I'm blessed with 3 beautiful children and I do feel that society puts judgement on others for having large families. Unfortunately I have received this from family and it's just not ok to say these things especially when it is such a personal decision. It's hurtful. You are totally right you won't have regrets on the size of your family but you'll see the legacy you have created ❤️

@xkayladollx 4 месяца назад

I totally hear you on the timing of having another kid. We had our first two 18 months apart and have waited to have the third for 3 years due to my trauma from hyperemesis in my second pregnancy. Really wish I’d been able to get through that sooner though as I’m worried about a potentially 4 year age gap between number 2 and 3 now. Not the end of the world, we are so blessed with the kids we have but I just know it would have been great to have them close together and also not be completely detached from the baby stage before having number 3 ❤️❤️ good luck on making the decision, you’re such a natural mother. I’m probably 10 years older than you but I look up to you and your parenting style so much. Love from New Zealand xx

@sharonlewis3408 4 месяца назад

Have you thought of painting your kitchen cabinets a calming colour white linen or something like that and changing up the handles can calm things down.x

@MadelieneVanMarter 4 месяца назад

I would loveee too but i'm renting this house :/ so unfortunately I can't update much

@sharonlewis3408 4 месяца назад

@@MadelieneVanMarter Yes that makes it hard but you can buy a roll of removable vinyl to cover your green tops, a lot of renters do it. If you can't tell I've watched too many design channels lol. I love your content so much it reminds me of the fun and love of bringing up my own children and still trying to be me at the same time. All grown up now but happy memories.

@hammettgirl 4 месяца назад

I'm the oldest of eight and I loved having lots of siblings!

@colemancrew 4 месяца назад

I am one of thirteen kids and I LOVE it!

@LauraB86284 4 месяца назад

I think this time if yall do have another baby, yall will probably have a little baby girl 🥹 my mom had 4 boys before she had my sister 💕

@ilenavr 4 месяца назад

This video is a nice surprise, yesterday I was thinking omg my favorite motherhood youtuber will no longer be a motherhood youtuber lol. You are the sweetest and most genuine. Thank you for your videos, they are inspiring and educational. I see you from Chile by the way.

@ADG247 4 месяца назад

I don’t think as women we ever feel fully done. I think we probably all think “what if” and how would the family look with another sibling. I have two boys and work full time and my husband really want a third. However I feel totally burn out already with the mental charge or both kids and work. I just want to be a good mother. I think it really comes down to how much energy you have to take care of those children on your own. From your videos it looks quite intense already. Good luck ❤

@monicaandrade4049 Месяц назад

I have 2 babies. 15 month old and a 3 month old. I’m running on caffeine all the time

@DanniL 4 месяца назад

The cups are so pretty! 😍

@catemiehle5783 День назад

I finally went looking for where tf you went cuz I miss your videos and now I know 😅 come back soon! 🎉

@brittjamesjoeyviolet 4 месяца назад

Have as many kids as you can! They are beautiful and make life so much fuller. I have 3 and my daughter is now 9 months and honestly bitter sweet about her being the last. Sadly I cant have more but if you feel like your not done yet then try for more! Your an amazing mom! ❤

@tiaratran 20 дней назад

Just saw your pregnancy announcement!! I have 1 girl and 2 boys and just found out I’m pregnant with a 4th boy so you are definitely a HUGE inspiration to me! ❤

@MadelieneVanMarter 19 дней назад

Congratulations!! & thank you 🥹🫶🏻

@TrueCrime.and.DeathMetal 4 месяца назад

You were totally born to be a mother, and I’m sure you would be fine adding another child to the family! My husband is one of 5, and they all have such a great bond. And his mom and dad were clearly just naturals at it.

@ANM5437 4 месяца назад

I was thinking after you mentioned the counters. I’ve heard of a peel and stick cover for counters idk just a thought!

@1121annika 4 месяца назад

I really hope you get that bed, I looked into it when it first came out and was shocked at the price! They are amazing though.. hopefully you get approved for one. The glasses you got are absolutely stunning!!

@lisaveenstra7098 4 месяца назад

The picture you choose is so good:) you are doing a great job:)

@Tori-to9jm 4 месяца назад

I’m so sad you live in New York!! I live in Florida & I feel like we’d be such good friends!!!! We have so much in common & I really related to your last video talking about your mental health too. And pretty much everything else you say😂 Sending you prayers & love!!❤️❤️

@megannohr2980 4 месяца назад

You could do a wall paper sticker thing for your counter tops! My sister in law did it with her kitchen and it looks so good and vibrant now

@jessicam1478 3 месяца назад

I've always wanted a big family, I think its awesome

@OrdinaryEnglishMum 4 месяца назад

You're so sweet 🥰 I had 3 boys, 2 girls and have just had another boy and everyone was saying it would be nice if I had a girl to equal my numbers and I just didn't get that haha so I know how you feel ❤

@Princesss93 4 месяца назад

I have two boys and am definitely considering another. They’re 18 months apart 🥺 Can you link your LTK?

@trinity_2724 4 месяца назад

Thank you for linking the things you mentioned. I’m going to check out the learning cards

@danip.882 4 месяца назад

I looked on your LTK to see where your tan long sleeve shirt is from, but I didn’t see that it wasn’t linked. If you don’t mind me asking where is it from? Also, love your vlogs🥰

@julieathome6965 4 месяца назад

Where is your giant white board from? Love it!

@danni533 4 месяца назад

Shouldn’t matter what anyone thinks, I have 3 and love being a mum. Have as many as your family wants xx

@Allyscot24 4 месяца назад

Thinking about a baby girl with 4 older brothers... kinda obsessed ❤

@FreeBeLove 4 месяца назад

I need those headphones! My AirPods help a lot but I think I’d like full covering of my ears lol. I get really overstimulated too esp in the evening when I’m trying to cook dinner and they are hungry and tired. I love listening to podcasts casts while I do dishes as well. 🥰❤️

@1121annika 4 месяца назад

I have 4 kids and decided to go for a 5th. I’m never going to regret having another child but I will always wish I did if I ignore that feeling. Don’t mind other people if they’re negative. People always have something to say so just do what makes you happy ❤ I agree what you said about your kitchen.. I rent too and can’t stand the way it looks but can’t change it. So chaotic and even if you clean it still looks messy and ugly. Your environment absolutely affects so much and yeah you can be grateful for at least having a house and all that but you’re absolutely allowed to say I don’t like this and want to work toward something that’s more my vibe. I make Pinterest boards of the house I want one day and ignore my ugly kitchen for now 🙃

@katievanderport5996 4 месяца назад

Its so frustrating how many hoops and how long the wait-list to get services for special needs. Love your content. I'll have to try noise cancelling head phones for the after school chaos. 3 boys here.

@laurafruhwirth5913 4 месяца назад

try to do them the opposite way: what`s this? Alligator. And what`s the first letter in Alligator? A.

@hugsforlove 2 месяца назад

❤❤

@teddybear283 4 месяца назад

I was only brave enough to have one kid 😂. She’s 12 now

@kimsmith6054 4 месяца назад

Maybe you can ask the landlord if you can paint it and give the color swatches to show them. It's really only going to benefit them if you pick neutral colour's.

@marinase-rq3ho 4 месяца назад

Love your vlogs ❤

@cuedan8700 4 месяца назад

It has been almost 1 year that we applied for the cubby bed and even though my son really needs it they keep asking for more and more steps! They approved it but it hasn't come yet...

@KitKat10281 Месяц назад

That seems ridiculous! Like, I know they want the people who get them to be the ones who need it, but by the time you get it, your little may ha e outgrown the need! Sigh...

@easyveggie620 4 месяца назад

Your kids are cuties ❤❤❤❤❤

@chawkns 4 месяца назад

I live in a rental too and I get wanting your space to be calming and beautiful but not being able to do much.

@BABYMOMY-kx8bq 3 месяца назад

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘

@kaylalacaille1039 4 месяца назад

Aww I love how you said you don't care for a girl you'd like a brother for Lincoln. That's exactly me I have 2 boys 17months & 4 years and I had to stop cause I'm afraid the next one would be a girl and I just wanna be a boy mama ❤ even though they raise a little hell I wouldn't want it any other way! 😊

@YODIEH38 3 месяца назад

Whats the age gap between Hudson and Lincon? They look almost the same so cute 🥹😍

@theashwoodfaerie2 3 месяца назад

I think around 2 years and I think Lincoln is Darin's lookalike

@veronicavelasquez557 4 месяца назад

I had bought a roll of contact paper in white marble and covered my pink counter tops I hated how it looked so much and it definitely made it less chaotic I would consider doing that and when you move you can just peel it off🫶🏻