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I mean why .. why sorry for 1st wife . .. wo log e r thy jo sabr r khush ikhlaqi sy zindagi guzarty thy ajkl k km zarf r km hosla logo me ye features ni h...
@@shahrukhgilani4880 apko samjh nhi aayega ek ladki ko pta chalega ki kya feel hota h aur first wife ki kismat kharab ki aise aadmi s unki shadi hui aaj kal k mard sirf maze k liye do teen shadi krte h
@@aribim1636 exactly, wese yeh log luxurious life guzarte hn tb Islam yad nh ata but shadi k Liye inko Islam yad ajata h. Tb nh kehte hm modern log hn. Tb Muslim ban jate hn.
Doosro ke shauhar ke sath taluq rakhne wali aurat compromise nhi krti aisi aurto ka character pta chalta h shadishuda admi par niyat kharab karna what a shame
Men in our society marry for their desires because he knows that he can get away with it if the first wife is not financially independent and can't leave because of the kids...if that was not the case he would have never gone for it. The women usually who are financially independence and are supporting a low income husband...in that case you will neve see a man thinking of getting a second wife😃
Obviously sautan berdasht krna itna aasan nai hai, zahir hai unho ne comprise Kia hoga blk or 2no ne hi 1 dusrey k Saath compromise Kia hoga tb hi Ghar Mai sakoon rha Hoga agar nai krti Ghar jahanum ban jata
First wife can accept second wife happily only when she (first wife) has zero interest in her husband, else it’s almost impossible to tolerate another woman
@@fouziabanu793 میرے ماموں کی ہیں دو ،جب ماموں نہیں ہوتے تو کوئی ایشو نہیں ہوتا ایک دوسرے سے اچھا رویہ ہوتا ہے بچوں میں سوتیلا پن بھی نہیں ہوتا لیکن جب ماموں موجود ہوں تو جو پہلی ہیں انکے لئے مشکل ہوتا ہے برداشت کرنا
Jab shohar dosri kr lay toh pehli ko chahye shohar ko chor day. Saari zindgi grudge k sath guzarnay ka kya maqsad. Usay smj w nahi ati k sirf vohi nahi rahi. Yay behen bhai ka rishta thori hai jo lazmi rehta. Or agr vo esa nai krna chahti toh sarti rahay.
LOL 4 din pehlay shadi ke salgiri thi aur apni pehli biwi se keh raha tha har janam me me tum se he shadi karonga. Aik number ka harami hai tumhara shohar. 2 ghar walian hain pata nahi kitni bahar walian hongi.
@@reviewofreality4997 again u can't fight Allah rule..still better than committing zina or affair than choosing halal..many women knows their husband do zina and affairs and live with that but don't tolerate halal 2nd marriage...iwoulld be 100 okay
men have it made in our society if he loved his first wife he would have been faithful to her and would have been honest with her it is true that islam allows for four marriage s but it not a rule that you have to marry four times people are not so quick to follow other things in islam a man can be happy with one marriage
music, movies, pictures, Gold, Interest, Globes, speakers, living under non Muslim economy etc were haram in Islam but maulvis changed the rules. when are they going to change this humiliation and belittling of women?
@@thatcoffeefeel8 bilkul.. aurat ka haq he agr chahti he to bache na hone pr shihr se mehr le kr talaq le.. aur sb se ziada zulm b aurat krti he dusri aurat k bache pr wrna soteli maa b sagi hoti.. jb aurat ki apni aulad hojae wo dusre bache se jnsaf ni kr pati.. aur secondly adoption me mehram gher mehram ka issue ata he han agr wo apna dudh pila de to..
Yup credit goes to first wife .. who welcomed her .. nicely But some women backstabbes .. When ur own best friend .. starts .. firting with ur own husband
She is making it sound so okay and so normal. Allah kabi aisa waqt nah laye kisi ki zindagi main k hum kisi k saath na insaafe kare , this is common here in India.
It’s really sad that she’s defending her husband’s decision to marry a second time without the first wife’s permission or knowledge. What could that first wife have done especially when women are financially dependent on the husband?
In lslamic law, its no need to get permission from 1st wife to marry 2nd Time. Plz update you knowledge, its only Pakistan family controversial law that man should get permission from 1st wife.
@@AMC68 in Islam women also has a right to leave her husband if she's not happy update your knowledge and if you hurt anyone God will never forgive you.
It's always the second wife who agrees to the second marriage obviously...may be that's the reason she is so depressed today, Kisi ke Ghar ke uper Ghar nai bnana chaiye
@@AMC68 - You’re welcome to do what you like. I’m not interfering in your religious beliefs either. But human nature is somewhat the same the world over despite religious differences.
Mery Sath b yehi hoa Jb mery 2 bety or 1 beti thi mjhy pta b nhi Chala or mery husband ki bv Ghar agyi main b khamoosh ho gyi lkin andar se toot gyi hn.
Sister read quran surah nisa . Allah pak ny permission dee hai mrd ko 4 marriages ki . Gunah sy behtr hai nikah kray. I am women and jb sy quran ko smjh kr perna shuru kiya my thinking is totally change . Yay Allah pak ki hdood hain . Aap ko aap ka ajr mily gaa. Be strong and try to be happy. This life is short just test. So try to read quran with meaning and give quran knowledge to your children. May Allah bless you. Aameen
@@ilovequran.9301 Mera beta or beti MASHAALLAH hifz kr rahy hn. Shadi ki ijazt tu h insaf k b Kaha h lkin hmary mard B's yehi janty hn k 4 shadio ki ijazt h. Maine b parhi h surah Nisa agr insaf kr Sako tu 2'3'4 kr sakty ho agr nhi tu 1 hi Kafi h.
Masha Allah boht khushi hoi sn kr. Masha Allah aap too Allah pak ki hdayat ky rastay pr hain alhmdulillah. Mrd insaaf nhi agr krta too us ny Allah pak ko jawab dayna hai. Issi liye ALLAH PAK nay day of judgment rkha hai. So don't worry. Allah pak say apna relation itna mzboot kr lain aap trust on Allah aap ko hr aazmaish aasan lgy gee. Or Allah pak apnay naik bndoon ko he aazmatay hain .
@@ilovequran.9301 islam me zyda aurto par hi sab cheez ke paabandiya hain esa kyu?wo bhi to insaan hi hai unke bhi feelings emotions hain. agar itna hi paabandi mardo pe hoti to aajkal mulle log bachho ko molest nahi karte
@@user-ef5nd3ho3n sister if you will read quran with turjuma and tafseer in every single verse of quran infact in every single word of quran their is hdayat for us. Main ny bhe jb quran perna shuru kiya with turjuma and tafseer in mujay bhe aisa lga itni pabandiyaan orat ky liye. But jb aap quran ko iss niyat sy party hoo turjuma or tafseer ko ky yay ab mayray zindgi pr mayre life per apply krna hai. Mujay quran kay rstay yani sirat e musteeqm pr chlna hai. Tb aap ko aap ky hr swal ka jawab milna shuru ho jata hai. Laykin sb sy pehly zrori hai aap yay decide too kro ky aap ko hdayat ka rsta chahiye ky nhi. Allah sy apna relation bna ky dekhoo . Duniya ky sb ristay aik din khtm ho janay hai. Sirf wohi zaat baqi reh jani hai .
I feel something wrong in this story, vrna inki kya majboori t jo kisi sadi suda se marriage kre. Bechari first wife ne to sb kuch kho diya or jo kiya wo sb majboori me Mai sb smjh skti hu,qk meri b do saas h jisme se pehli wali majboori me rista nibhati chli aa rhi h or meri saas hr cheez pr apna kbza, ex- husband pr, property per Papa ki pension me b second wife hi nominee h Pr wo to bchhe smjhdar nikle jo dono ko sath lekar chl rhe h. Pehli wali hr baat pr sbr krti h or dusri hr bat pr behas. To pehli wali axar gaav me rehti h jb b bimar hoti h to aa jati h.to mmy unse sbke samne to axe se treat krti h pr akele me mne taad liya h. To mai to unke liye behas kr jati hu.or mere husband b. Pr wo axar choti choti bat pr bchho ko behkati rehti h. Pr unka bda beta or beti mostly second wali k favour m rehte h qk wo din rat unse fon pr chipki rehti h or second illetrate h. Wo kehte h na jinke pass paisa h duniya usi ki trf muh krti h Pr khuda ka sukr h k hm miya biwi ko sch ankho k samne dikhta h. Allah unhe hr sbr ka jawab de. Aameen
The latest interview of Zara Noor Abbas , says Asma Abbas was a single mother to her eldest son,wen she married her second husband ( the army officer) i think she was divorced with a kid.. Ye apni taraf ki story she didn't share... bas bataya k shadi shuda aadmi se shadi ki. I really admire and respect the dignified and golden soul the first wife was. may Allah bless her highest place in Jannah.. Ameen
Rest assured, they will deal with any situation with patience and respect. They will remain dignified jesay k abhi inho ne itnay pyar aur respect se apnay husband ki pehli beewi ka ziker kia
Because most liberal ladies of today's media are fond to lead same kind of life. They are setting a trend to avoid and escape from following the teachings of Islam and our cultural values.
Really sad what type of people are these. Her hubby had to inform his wife if he had taken that decision of getting re married. The guy who loved his wife so much yet he didn't choose to inform his wife. Really sad if u truly follow Islam u have to inform ur wife. And if u don't have kids nowadays their are different ways to have either go for surrogacy or ivf second marriage is not the only option And he's an army officer really cheap shows how dedicated he's to his profession shame on him....
Sometimes log apnay baray main sach bol rahey hotay hain lakin hum Loug samajhtey nahien Asma Abbas said Bv sey itna pyaar kernay waala jab iss k haath charrhaa tou bv ko 2 maheenay main hee bhool gya she also mentioned k main uski first wife ko bola k deikho Bibi ab jo hona thaa woh tou ho gaya main tou kaheen jaaney ki nahien tou tu ab khamosh ho jaa aur woh bechaari phir kabhi nahien boli. Moral: Asma abbas nain apnay barey main sahee bataya hai ab kisi ko samajh naan aaey tou kya karey .
This story is more than 30 years old. What ivf and what surrogacy? And if he was from a feudal background,the waris mentality is very real. Glad times are changing now and ppl are agreeing that having kids is not the most important thing.
Islam never encourages second marriage... It's allowed in islam and there are conditions for that too....Men only knows it's allowed so they should be married for second or third time but you have to get permission from the first wife and if you can't treat both wives equally you are not allowed to get married for second time.... Seek knowledge from islam and read about the life of Prophet PBUH how he equally treats His wives....
Her husband was flirting with her, wtf. A hidden marriage is not permissible in Islam. 🤮🤮🤮. This fool has no idea how she is exposing herself, her parents and her husband.
4 din pehlay shadi ke salgiri thi aur apni pehli biwi se keh raha tha har janam me me tum se he shadi karonga. Aik number ka harami hai tumhara shohar. 2 ghar walian hain pata nahi kitni bahar walian hongi.
Mai first wife hoon but mujhe itni izzat nai maili vo to mare husband ko he lagi 😢but husband bhi change hogai kids aane k baad mujh kids se he nai mailaye Ajtak bas ya dua hai alha mare husband aur unki kids ko acha rakhna aur unki wife k sath khush rakhna ❤❤❤
LOL 4 din pehlay shadi ke salgiri thi aur apni pehli biwi se keh raha tha har janam me me tum se he shadi karonga. Aik number ka harami hai tumhara shohar. 2 ghar walian hain pata nahi kitni bahar walian hongi.
I don't know kyu log positive samjh rhe h usse biwi k hote hue dusri aurat s flirt Kiya shadi ki aur biwi ko pta nhi aulad to allah ki marzi s hoga jab dusri biwi k bache honge to obviously unhe hi zyada tawajuh milegi aur pehli k pass n hi aadmi aur n hi bache kuch nhi Khali hath aise Dil ko dukhana sahi nhi h agar mashwara krke dusri shadi hoti to smjh aata pr nhi m India s hu pr m sach m dil s bura lag rha h ek ladki hone s m unka dard takleef smjh rhi hu plzz awam ko mt behkhaye ye tarika nhi h
Orat ak bar qabar main pohnch jati ...jab us ka hasband dosri shadi krta chahy bachy na ho ... adopt kr liya krn log ... Kuch bachy asy hoty hn jin ko maa baap chaye hoty ..
Sorry i can't do this.. pta ni us ka kia hal hoga.. dil ka hal to khuda janta h but as a woman I can't handle this situation. 😢 how she handle this.. bcho ki wjha se shyd manna pra hoga usy
Seriously Allah yeh din kisi dushman ko bhi na dekhaye. Comment krty huway dil kanp rha hai hum auraton ko ijazat hoti 4 shadiyon ki to kya yeh mard bardasht krty ? Pta nhi 1 py sabar kyun nhi hota
Hmmm wonder if she will be as respectful and remember teachings of Islam if her daughter’s husband gets into a 2nd nikah. It’s high time people realize this is NOT ok! Marrying a second girl behind your wife’s back is cheating!
Janane k baad v ussne usska ghr tod diya or abhi look the way she defended it , issne jaan bhooj k kiya or 1st wife ko jata diya k she is lefy with no other option. After listening her I feel she literally trapped that man
Bechari 1st wife ko dil pe patthar rakh ke maanni pari kyuke unki baby nahi ho rahi thi! Shame on asma abbas and her husband for taking that advantage and hurting a woman!!!
Bachchon ki koi waja ni h...wallahi jinhe biwi k ilawa dusri aurat chahiye toh bs chahiye bachchon se kuch Lena Dena ni h.....aise mard sirf khud se muhabbat krte hai unhe kisi se muhabbat ni hoti ....wo apni khwahish k Malik hote h.....
This is what also shown in our drama. Snatching each others wives and husbands. Promoting hate and vengeance even between close family relationships. Every drama channel is producing drama with same stories twisted here and there.
واہ زبردست۔ مثبت سوچ اور حوصلہ انسان کی زندگی کو پرسکون اور خوبصورت بنا دیتا ہے۔ سچائ کو تسلیم کر لینا اب سوتن لفظ ہی لڑائ کا دوسرا نام ہے لیکن جس سے آپ کو محبت ہو اصل محبت تو اس کی پھر ہر چیز سے محبت ہوتی ہے اور یہی آپ کی اصل محبت کا امتحان بھی ہوتا ہے۔ گریٹ اینڈ ونڈرفل سٹوری۔ ❤❤❤ ایک دوسرے کو نیچا دکھانے کی دوڑ تو ساری زندگی رھتی ہی ہے لیکن ایک دوسرے کو عزت دینا یہ بہت بڑے ظرف کی بات ہے اور اس سٹوری کے تینوں کردار انکو شاباش ہے۔ 🌺🌹🍂
Bht afsos hoa comments perh k.being a Muslim we believe k rishte asmano pe bnte hai.aur roh k is Dunia me ane se pehle he ye decision ho jate hai.isliy chahe 3hon ya 4marriages.kisi ko koi Hal nae k mzak urae.mrd ki mrzi k bger dosri nae ati .aur 90% 2nd wife ko Jo chezen brdasht krna prti hai .aur wo itni respect se baat kr ri he 1st bv k liy.
Exactly second wife servive more than first wife , i always sit on back seat of husband car while my sautan sit infront seat, my husband named her property for her happiness and i still have nothing, my husband give her more time and care to her than me. But he love me alot too and forgive me easily . First wife take toooo much advantage if husband marry secondly, while there nothing remain for the second one.
The both women are lucky and sensible... Isi liye sazishain krny k bijay wo dost ban gai... Allah bhi khush aor shohar bhi... Pehli bivi mai jo kami thi wo us ki allah ny is se purri ki... Or shohar ki nasal bhi barh gai.... Koi burai nhi dusri bivi banna... Or dusri ko accept krna....
First k liye bara Dil dikhana majburi thi us bechari k Pas or koi option bhi to nhi tha. Esy logo ki stories sun Kar to mjhy Apne hubby pe doubt Hone lagta hai xhahy jitne bhi promises Kar len sukoon hi nhi ata...k baii Dekho asma k husband ne bhi to apni wife ko cheat Kia na or Kuch din phly hi wo apni wife wife ko promise de Raha tha k 10 janam bhi hon Gy to tum hi se shadi karu ga
Allah apko salamat rakhe jis ke aqlaq ache ho allah bhi jodne walo ka sath dete apki bat aur ap ho itni pyari ap sab bahene ache hai ache aqlaq aur achi zindagi se ye sab hota zindagi ka safar aur sab se badi bat sabr kiya ap ne allah apko shihat de khushiya de salmati de ameen 🤲❤🌹👍👍👍👍❤💯❤🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Not at all... Aurat Kylie mard ki dosri bv bnana as an ha but khud PR sotun bardasht kurna mushkil ha. Thk ha zindagi mn compromise kurna purta but aurat ka dil mar jata ha.
Not at all... Aurat Kylie mard ki dosri bv bnana as an ha but khud PR sotun bardasht kurna mushkil ha. Thk ha zindagi mn compromise kurna purta but aurat ka dil mar jata ha.
unusual rather than progressive as it would be in any society...and I really don't believe that everything is that simple as she is making it to be...my father had two wives and for the same reason of no kids from first marriage as told by the lady but with the consent from the first wife(now my mom).My father died when i was 8 and i am youngest of the siblings.And although my two mothers are exemplary loving people to each other where they defend each other to the extreme in each others absence but there are still days when they are fighting with each other😂my brother is the only son and feels the need to take responsibility and take care of two moms more than I do and feels upset when they fight but i enjoy these ups and downs as i know that they both are gonna be talking to each other within a few hours of fighting.
Hahaha wife was out of country he had an affair gaari main petrol shetrol dalwa k deita raha chori chhup k shaadi bhi ker li and Asma nain uski first wife ko bola ab jo hona thaa ho gaya main tou kahien nahien jaaney ki tou tu ab side pey ho jaa aur woh bechaari gum sum ho gai phir boli hee nahien . Greatness of Asma Abbas 😂 .
If you are concerned with that women that she will be hurt and she loves her husband she can't accept you then why another women accept this kind of proposal to get married with a man who is already married... Doesn't matter how nice you behave with the first women she can never forget That pain and loss which she suffered because of you.... Never ever the parents should be agreed to marry their daughter with a man who is already married.... Don't forget you will die one day and you have to be answerable for your deeds...
