My Life, My Wife and Kilimani Mums - Hillary Lisimba

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When you are young and in love, you'll easily promise to go to the end of the world for the love of your life. You promise to love and support her dreams. You promise that you will do anything to make and keep her happy. What happens when you are called to put your words into action? Are you willing and capable of going the whole hog?
Hilary promised to support his wife and her dreams and ambitions. When his wife Brenda got a long coveted job outside the country, his commitment to support her was put to the test. How did he fare? Watch the video and find out.
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@EngageTalk 5 лет назад

Watch, Subscribe and Share. It may be what someone needs to hear. ru-vid.com

@wasilwasteve195 5 лет назад

Hilary my wife also works away since 2014, we have 2 children who i parent. A boy and a girl. Its the most satisfying thing ever. The sacrifice pays off. I have slept in wards as well, i take my daughter to the salon and wait for her to be done her hair. I help with their homework everyday .

@shantelkaris5901 5 лет назад

Wow your kids are proud of you, best father

@stellahrabach2664 5 лет назад

God bless you

@JoyMissAfrica 5 лет назад

I wish my dad took me to the salon when I was young..Its a very loving thing to do,she will never forget even when she is older...

@vickywamboi4814 5 лет назад

Good men r still out here

@stacywambuli3741 5 лет назад

You are doing great! God bless you!

@kheylam 5 лет назад

I like Kenyan accent, their shows, skin tone, humour. Much love from Namibia 🇳🇦

@Receedinghorizons7 4 года назад

We love u back Namibia , sounds exotic

@nataliekylie5803 3 года назад

We love Namibiam culture tooo

@Kambopavisaccentric 3 года назад

Awwwww. We love you too...

@ireneirene9834 3 года назад

Aaawww..much love

@martinndichu7154 Год назад

We love you right back!..3yrs later 😊

@SuperSoap12345 5 лет назад

I stay with my three kids too. My wife works outside Kenya. Since my first child was in class four. She is now a form one in Lugulu...and still going strong

@sillohomutesh4093 5 лет назад

kudos

@petito53 5 лет назад

Three things Hilary... 1. You're hilarious 2. God bless You!!! 3. May you and your wife prosper to the very core.

@payonnakami2530 Год назад

Amen!!!

@kymkymarts7822 5 лет назад

I might be the breadwinner in my family, but i always tell my wife she plays the biggest and hardest role in our lives taking care of our boy.

@kirimikajuju 5 лет назад

Who said all men are the same??? Sending you love and light Hillary💝...keep doing what you do

@Blurrybianca 5 лет назад

I appreciate an AFRICAN father and husband who is PRESENT! Yes! Go against that grain, unlearn, learn and relearn. I hope other men are inspired. Good job Hillary.

@jemmiejemmie2015 5 лет назад

Kilimani mums members, this is our own.😂😂😂😂....... This is why i always say, Always be kind to people. U never know what they are going through 😂😂😂😂😂 The guy is so funny. This are the men our Society needs. Kudos brother Wait .....sister😂😂😂😂

@truxiemkenya5477 5 лет назад

jemmie jemmie our very own

@jemmiejemmie2015 5 лет назад

😂😂😂😂give this man a bra, whoever told him this, mungu anakuona🤣🤣

@lilianchybire9610 5 лет назад

@@jemmiejemmie2015 haki... 😂

@florencewilson4821 5 лет назад

One of us......the original kilimani

@mwaikadu7474 5 лет назад

Kilimani mums and dads 😁😂

@pauldiaz8335 5 лет назад

I have slept in wards too ... gone to school played with dolls Had nail polish..not to talk about make up ......its all worth it ...big up

@EngageTalk 5 лет назад

Bless you. Your daughters are very lucky.

@SW-qw4kn 5 лет назад

I love it when people chose to live life and define love in their own terms. Most often when a man has to leave the family and work far/abroad he is simply providing, but when a woman does the same people accuse her of "abandoning" her child. As long as all you do is for the wellbeing of your family, no one should have an issue with that. I am just glad that you made a commitment to support her dream and when the time came, you rose to the occasion. Such integrity is rare.

@EngageTalk 5 лет назад

True

@ednahednah5198 2 года назад

And my mum calls again 😂.... A Mother's love is just immeasurable ☺️❤️

@mohmed8286 5 лет назад

I wish my baby daddy would watch this and learn from it...

@iankhisa5582 5 лет назад

This should have had a warning for viewers to procure insurance covers for our ribs. too Hillariously inspiring

@nellyrobi 5 лет назад

Right? 😂

@zipporahnyambura8106 5 лет назад

Yes 😂😂😂

@makhatha4723 5 лет назад

True 😂😂

@willhector9478 5 лет назад

Ian Khisa you are most likely to be an insurance guy, you are innovative, I will try that policy.

@irenemunyua3136 5 лет назад

His soo funny.. 😂 😂

@gladwellkaruoya2214 5 лет назад

Mlisema men like these wanapatikana wapi...you are strong and you guys are going far...i love this

@yvonnemogaka6606 5 лет назад

I remember how people used to ask what is a man doing in this group. You survived the bashing and became one of the mums especially after explaining your predicament. Kudos Hillary

@livingchoice8491 2 года назад

And btw. Kilimani. Mum's waligrow

@TheKecho1 5 лет назад

Sadly,the patriarchy has also boxed men into roles. Raising your child is part of life...the child is YOURS. Thanks for sharing your story. Men, vulnerability is strength.

@theafrinado 5 лет назад

I love that you and Brenda are defining what marriage is for you and making decisions based on what is right for both of you as opposed to what other people believe you should do.

@yourstrulyKe 5 лет назад

You can say that again!! 🥂

@btsfangirl3087 5 лет назад

Inspirational! Almost always it is women who give up their careers, to stay at home and raise their family, when a man recognises the potential of his wife and is ready to step up and give her a chance to explore, it is absolutely commendable. Life is changing and some situations will need the man to make unconventional choices.

@clickprofileimage 5 лет назад

This is awesome. The guy is so intelligent not because he's doing chores that are traditionally meant for the woman but because he understands one simple concept - the most important person in the relationship is not you but the other person. Both women and men have got to understand this if we're to make the world a better place.

@carolinemusimbi9232 5 лет назад

He is so wise

@moniquegin4337 Год назад

Absolutely beautiful, you are simply amazing

@keziamweresa5808 5 лет назад

Awesome father. You should try stand up comedy too, very funny guy.

@winskitchen.602 4 года назад

I left my baby at a age of 7 months for green pastures ,I know how it feels,crying day and night when I remember the years back,Glory be to God ,she is big enough now

@nanawonders6078 5 лет назад

If only men knew the worth of women, the society would be a better place

@luwanysworld7753 5 лет назад

AMEN TO THAT

@eventorganizer2548 5 лет назад

Verse vasa

@edithkabaki5666 5 лет назад

i cant add a dime to that.kudos

@AlbertMakambi 5 лет назад

Men have worth too. Men matter too. The world wouldn't be where is it without men. "Bad" is not a man problem, its a human problem.

@qmatics497 4 года назад

It should be men actually,the problem we have nowadays women love marketing themselves too without focusing on the core significance of men. So irrational and sad

@kathesya 5 лет назад

Dude i remember you from Kilimani mums :) I had to even go back and search your posts once more. yeah i was one of those supporting mums ;)

@zacharygathogo 5 лет назад

Hahaha...God bless you 😂

@kabenn 5 лет назад

Kathesya God bless you. But you are a different woman. I would not expect anything else.

@daisyumutoni8957 5 лет назад

Now that is true manhood ! I wish there was an option for 1000 likes . Hope there are more guys like you out there 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

@jacobmalova4891 5 лет назад

Hillary...thumps bro ...taking risk, daring to step into the unknown...Hila The MAN! tough times never last but tough pple do!

@raiseyourfaithwithabby7904 5 лет назад

Hillary your humor stands out, irrespective of the different phases of life you've encountered with your son. Thank you for standing our, for giving a fresh breath to African fatherhood. For being present in child care you're force worth reconning. Kudos. Respect!

@nikoyabiblemoments 5 лет назад

Thank you for changing the narrative of Parenthood, especially fatherhood

@isabelomolo8853 5 лет назад

Powerful ending there......love is knowing that sometimes the most important person in a relationship is not you but the other person

@eyereen5672 5 лет назад

I can relate to that...I too had to leave my child while breast feeding,i can say its the worst feeling a mother can experience..But am glad the sacrifice worth it all..

@wanjikunganga277 5 лет назад

This guy is one in a million.. Very few would stand up for their spouse

@shiromaina4236 5 лет назад

Hillary Lisimba Ambani from 52 weeks Savings Challenge I have really loved the story. You doing great

@asigikeviner5138 5 лет назад

Wow! You actually did the two things she had requested; Taking her as she was And Supporting her Ambitions and Dream. And most important, its not always about you, but the other person in the relationship.

@CoolkenyanInisrael 5 лет назад

Hilary u r so hilarious..bravo for being exceptional. Inspiring!

@kapuchu16 5 лет назад

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@MrBabujinga 5 лет назад

May I posit...big thanks to your mother...I can clearly tell so easily: you had a great relationship with her(your mum) You can only give this much LOVE if you also received!!

@violetngigi3001 5 лет назад

Respect! Much Respect and More Grace💖

@dolphineemali3399 5 лет назад

Bravo Hillary! Beautiful storytelling.

@modesterongachi 5 лет назад

The Much Awaited! Thank you Hillary😘😘😘😘❤❤❤

@ritaroggs Год назад

I live in Las vegas Nevada and I work with alot of Filipinos... yur life is exactly like they do. the women work. the me. stay home. theen.pick n drop them to work. the women are the 90% bread winners... so you good! you are not alone. ...n am.proud of you.

@wereskikate5259 5 лет назад

Wow. Just wow. Its good to see great men and great fathers. Good job hillary. GOD BLESS you

@pasomimucha8677 5 лет назад

This has warmed the cockles of my heart. Your storytelling skills are on point, and you're hilarious! If only all married people would constantly remind themselves that they are a team, and that each member of the team needs to do what's best for the team. Brenda pursues her dream and it is paying off for the family, you're doing a fantastic parenting job, your child has a good, caring parent and constant contact with his mum... I'd say it's a win win win situation. Kudos, on breaking the stifling molds that previously defined the roles of spouses.

@TheKenyangirl0916 5 лет назад

Enjoyed every bit of this!!! Thanks for sharing, Hillary! The amount of support and love for your wife is unimaginable. Be blessed.

@wallacemwangi2795 5 лет назад

This has to be the best talk of all I have watched.

@faithwanga5438 5 лет назад

I respect this guy and all who are like him. This clip is amazing

@rahabgithua7378 5 лет назад

So inspiring! God bless the family. Bravo Hillary n keep on keeping on!

@jemimahmaticha5978 2 года назад

There should be a like button worth 1M likes here.I love his practical humour,how engaging the whole story is and how they sacrificed for their family. May the Lord keep them.

@margaretmuthoni1020 5 лет назад

Wow! So true, brave, and strong soul ,God bless you, bless your family, great destiny

@bettykoech6830 5 лет назад

Wow!! Thanks for taking such a bold step...I love your finishing about love 😍

@cafaett 5 лет назад

Such an encouraging piece. I salute you and your wife, Mr. Lisimba. Both of you went against the grain. It takes courage to do life together, and not have the fans 3rd wheeling in your marriage. Shut the noise out and do you. Amazed at what you do for your wife and son.

@kezmwaura 5 лет назад

Oh Hillary, you’ve reminded me of my younger days with my dad and me and my siblings he played both roles the best he could,wards, parents day, salon runs, clothes, homework et al ....iam so happy these men still exist and my prayer is for more women to experience this kind of men .You are amazing God bless you and your family

@moniquegin8840 5 лет назад

Very inspiring, well done! Your mum raised you well!

@deborahbeautiful1802 5 лет назад

My Dad was my mum and my dad... Since my mum died at 8 yrs he was the best I applaud you

@niominiomi7212 5 лет назад

Well done. I almost didn't listen to your talk. I'm glad I did. Excellent

@joymuriithiwanjala6193 5 лет назад

awwwwww HILLARY LISIMBA!!!! How proud am I that I know you!!you are one in a million!

@florencenjeri1698 4 года назад

Best true love story.. I have listened to so far. Love can enable one manouvre where you ordinary thinking wouldn't take you.

@shirleyodongo6439 5 лет назад

A dying breed of men...hilarious too! Good job Hillary. Wishing you love and joy in your union.

@josephaleto8708 5 лет назад

What a dad, I am glad you went against all the odds and made the best decision. God bless you and your family. A great dad you are.sense of humour also on point.

@gracenjenga9053 5 лет назад

Hillary this is a well articulated talk n very inspiring, marriage has no manual it's just what the 2 of you decide on.. All the best sir

@canyango5457 5 лет назад

True parenting Hilary! there's no manual...we all stumble along as we go. love your boldness and sense of humour and the courage to be unconventional. Stay blessed!

@joziebush 5 лет назад

So proud of you.... Definetely a memorable day! 😄😄😄

@watiri_m 4 года назад

This has been the best speaker of 2019 with a catchy start... Laughed from inception...

@chacho2339 5 лет назад

You are a great ninja, kudos man

@margaretmuniu352 5 лет назад

support group for mothers !!! wooooooow. Congrats man! that was a great piece

@nyawiraochola5841 5 лет назад

Changing the narrative! Thank you Hillary, and all other men out there doing this!

@mutumakirima8813 5 лет назад

now i know we are many..my dota today is in class 5 and i was left with her wen she was 1yr.its such a wonderful experience.

@anitahachieng3073 5 лет назад

This is one of the most beautiful things i've seen in forever.God bless you and all other men breaking social norms.

@MetienneVlogs 5 лет назад

Woow am glad I stumbled on this. Love is sacrifice and no matter the distance and other struggles, it always wins.

@cocobetter2113 5 лет назад

Kudos Hillary you are one in a million may God keep you to enjoy those two.

@peterkoreart 5 лет назад

So impressed by your sacrifice, keep on. He who achieves much sacrifices much. As for social media, the mouth speaks from the abundance of the heart, negative people are full of negative experiences and spew it all over.

@amosnjeru5011 5 лет назад

Amazing Presentation.Bless Up Brother!

@alex51559 5 лет назад

Thank you so much for sharing vulnerably!

@zandilentsipho1150 5 лет назад

Wonderful husband and Father , love that you are changing the narrative , in our culture it is unheard of that a man looks after the baby while a woman pursues a career.

@phanicewangila9335 5 лет назад

That is wonderful, caring Daddy, husband,good inspiration to many people out here,how i wish all men to watch this and learn something from it bravo bro

@youtube_NinjaKE 5 лет назад

Humbling story bro. Love truly.... is sacrifice. God Bless!!!

@sheee470 4 года назад

This is an absolutely amazing story. Even a year later. God bless your family

@edgarasunda8143 5 лет назад

Always on point, Hillary Lisimba

@janemwangi1489 5 лет назад

I have mad respect for Hilary. Kudos!

@maureenwangati6593 5 лет назад

Fantastic yes you did the right thing and kudos to Brenda for trusting you to raise the baby without her. You're one strong man and you even deserve a man bra if they ever design them. You know the ones that have baby bottles with milk in them. I pray your family will have a chance to live in the same country soon because I am in the same long distance marriage and I understand how much you miss your partner. That baby is blessed to have such strong parents he will be an achiever like you both. You're a great role model to society. Yes love is sacrifice and the other person matters more than you. Great quote told with so much humor.

@nicholaskhainza3329 5 лет назад

Mr. Lisimba,people will always talk.Wheather good or bad,but they don't offer a single solution. Thanks for being bold on your decision n standing firm for your love.God bless you.

@wamz9191 5 лет назад

Wow! Amazing amazing story from an absolutely amazing man! God bless your family!

@AscendinSoul 5 лет назад

Strength and humility...a real man.👏🏾👏🏾

@catewambui9528 5 лет назад

Encouraging and inspiring..kudos Hillary

@cessakinyi 5 лет назад

Hillary has cracked me up. This is so inspiring. May God bless your family

@johnjimngugi6053 5 лет назад

Waaaaaaooooow Mr Hillary congratulations.. This was a well articulated talk and you have clearly showed us the pains our wives or mothers go through when we the husband chooses to just send money. You have always proved to us that long distant marriage works . I bet your marriage is working because you fulfilled your promise of letting her achieve her dreams.. Sometimes in love the most important individual is the other person and not you. Wonderful

@stellaoigo8442 5 лет назад

So proud of you Hillary. You are intelligent man

@lizndegwa4021 5 лет назад

Wooow. This is absolutely fantastic! You are a symbol of strength. We need more men like this. Hands on parenting

@missiesnr441 5 лет назад

Am inspired though its difficult raising my own siblings after the death if our mother in Nov last year..you have given me strength to move and see their dreams mature.

@josphinenanzala8083 5 лет назад

wow!!just wow!! May God bless you and your family.

@gloryolomi7 5 лет назад

Your sense of humor is remarkable. God bless your marriage.

@rebeccahwanjiru4393 5 лет назад

Awesome story. Hats off Hillary and Brenda.

@samnjoroge 5 лет назад

Nicee, boss thanks for sharing this info, men out there need to hear this. That way they will learn to respect there wives, I myself have been there, was in the maternity when both of my kids were born, witnessed the whole thing and trust me not. It was the greatest experience I have ever had, I've grown to respect my wife/women more. Its fantastic and most men should go through this, trust me, u will never cheat on ur wife.

@danielnjorogekiriungi1224 5 лет назад

Wonderful. You are a strong man and a rare one for that matter

@fridahbaariu6530 5 лет назад

Inspiring and true...my dad would take care of us while mum was doing her degree.

@makhatha4723 5 лет назад

Wow, 👏👏👏. Nice story, very encouraging

@millionairess9680 5 лет назад

Love love love, glad you made a decision for your family not society. I’m glad you stepped up as a father, Mother’s are not the only parents. I admire your baldness. To the people who are quick to throw stones jamaneni STOP! May God bless your family

@lorraineanjili 5 лет назад

oh wow!! you are very courageous for doing that in this conventional-minded society that we live in. Keep it up, and may your marriage be blessed

@sherylingeoffrey9266 5 лет назад

The name kilimani mums have brot me here

@wanjiruwalucy8116 5 лет назад

me to 😂😂😂

@njerikangethe9557 5 лет назад

Hahaha. Me too

@annshanti4102 5 лет назад

Same

@salmasash8003 5 лет назад

Same here 🤣

@kelvinogaro6948 5 лет назад

Mm hapana hehe

@yvonnegichamba6845 5 лет назад

Wow! Kudos Hillary .. Its very rare to meet a man like you who is selfless enough to let their women chase after their dreams. Most men believe that a woman's job is to always be in the house doing house chores and take care of the kids... Sorry for all the insults you got from kilimani moms but I'm proud of you for not letting them get to you instead you stood tall and faced them. If most men were like you, this generation could've been so far.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾keep it up.