My most BRUTAL rejections for over 6 minutes… (Matt & Lynn React) 

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he's got balls too approach, i think he just needs to slow it all down and relax more. He needs to practice in his bedroom what he's going to say and how he's going to say it... just repetition

Glad I found this RU-vid channel

Loved the video Lynn and Matt. Will be taking the Attractive Man Mentorship soon :)

That's why the attractive man is the best channel on dating advice

Great video Matt I learned a lot about approaching lady's 👍

Awesome

Im watching this as an attactive woman myself, (Ive been told many times) and I can say I have had my fill of guys creeping me out, and learned from an early age to answer with a very sharp tongue. To state my boundaries loud and clear. It then usually ends up either with the guy insisting on being friends, or getting aggressive and threatful, or I muster up a lot of courage, stare him straight in the eye without a hint of a smile and say: HOW WOULD YOU RESPOND TO A BIG, STRONG, HORNEY, LOVESICK AND STUBBORN GAY MAN ACTING THIS WAY TO YOU? When he goes "eeeh Im not gay, I go, "well you can avoid gay bars, but I obviously cant avoid you! I would be thankful if you could accept that I dont want you, without any nagging, harrassment or drama - like all the others before you!" Oftentimes I get into conversations about "men has to make the first move, bla bla bla" so I try to make a point of teaching guys how to empathaphise with women, in order to not creep them out. Because it happened to me so many times, I get seriously stressed out, frustrated and uncomfortable whenever Im around men. I dont feel safe. I always need to be on guard. On top of that, being an extrovert, men either assume Im flirting with them and get butthurt when I tell them I was only being social, or turn out creepy later if I do become friends with them. I totally get men can be shy and insecure. But what are they so scared about? Rejection. And what are women scared about? What happens if they do... Or if a woman make a move, they guy will escalate from 0 to 100 creeping her out that way instead. Happened to me many times. I like being the one to make a move, because it feels safer to get rejected, than having to do it. However, to many escalate to fast and that creeps me the f*ck out. If you want to make a move, learn how to handle rejection as a safe and stable person. Worry more about how comfortable she is in your presence and if she is interested back, WHILE talking to her. Dont get in your head and stare at her like a hungry cat waiting to jump on a mouse. Women are acutely aware of being fysicly smaller and weaker than you. Her safety is, sorry to say it, way more important than your mojo and your fluctuating selfasteem. Dont say you're nice. Be a safe person to reject. She might change her mind. Or be a safe person a woman can hit on. Be a safe person in general, regardless of your gender or sexual orientation. A woman has no clue wether you're a potential rapist or just a clueless guy, and she is rather safe than sorry. So by all means, show intent, but be prepared to back off graciusly if and when someone rejects you, for any reason. Again, imagine that big gay man having his eye on you, not caring about wether you want him or not. Dont be him to her. 😬

You should upload more practical videos like these. After watching so much dating advice and content for a long time, I want to see more videos of men actually talking to women and having a breakdown of what they've done right and wrong and how we it can be improved.

Your assessment would’ve been much better if you also reacted to at least one of my successful interactions on my channel, and used the rejection video as a way to show your audience a balanced reality of approaching women.

While I appreciate the feedback, why are you guys critiquing another person's rejections when your vid says 'my most brutal rejections?' So strange.. 🙄 was hoping to see your actual rejections and feedback on how you could've improved.

Look, my parents NEVER taught me confidence growing up. I am partially a confident man, but my goal is to be FULLY confident. I rarely approach women because I run out of things to say😡. You guys have a nice channel, but this video is going to make me stay in my head while approaching women. My other goal is to not be stuck in my head and not care about rejection. I already knew not to approach from the back. I agree that it is creepy. Have positive energy and things should fall into place.

Another thing i noticed is that hes running his words like a train and takking wayy too much. Hes not even giving the girls a chance to speak or even form a sentence. Lol

You should go look at his videos where he shows successful approaches... he has a tone of them and he's pretty good.

Talking to a girl without energy and vibe is pointless

I have seen some other videos of his where his approaches are much better. I think he actually admitted in another video that these approaches that you have shown are his worst.

Further confirmation that I was right.

If the attractive man channel is as good as I've been led to believe, I don't see that you are being objective, the video title says it all, it's a compilation of rejections, I would love to see if you can be objective and review his good approaches in his other videos, I've seen you guys do compilation of good ones but I've never seen you being real and showing when you are rejected too.

What if he's deliberately being bad at it?

Very curious fact: I realized that the Black Small Indian guy was very more sucessful with girls than him, even looking great. Here the Attractive Man became true to me: it’s all about How You Do That.

Yup, men take 100% of the risk and effort when talking to women or when interacting with the other sex

Right...and I'm supposed to believe all these PAID MODELS who swear up and down that these guys' confidence went up in a matter of days in a boot camp???

need help approaching women It's been a long time.....ll'I book call...