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KATY! This is probably one of the best videos you couldve filmed/posted. I truly adore you and your transparency about these topics. I wish we were bffs in real life, love you!🥰
Coming from a 37 years old that had a lot of relationships long term and not (married for 5 years now), every couple is different, I loved your answer, do whatever the hell makes you happy, once a day, once a year, who cares as long as you're both happy, communication is the key. Not only on frequency but as you said, showing and voicing what you like, if they feel awkawrd or offended, they are not the right partner for you, bealive me girls, good men exist, don't settle.
14:00 I also learned this recently as well. it’s so important it is to be with a guy who you’re comfortable with and makes you feel secure about your body. Turns out hookups aren’t as fun and “empowering” as some people online swore it was lol. Personally i think it feels degrading to be treated like a used tissue and not a human being with feelings! Intimacy and sex is 100% better when you’re with somebody that genuinely values you. 💯
So thankful for this video! I can really relate to having those kinds of mental blocks and I'm still trying to overcome them (more or less successfully). I think it's just nice to hear that other people are struggling as well and not everyone has the perfect sex life and body image, because sometimes when you feel insecure, you assume so...
LOL Yes girl! I love making out too. I always think of that scene in Grey’s Anatomy when Amelia says something like “why doesn’t anyone wanna just make out anymore!”
Thank you so much for opening up and discussing these topics that are not covered nearly enough. It is reassuring to know that I am not the only one with these kinds of questions! You made this video feel like I was having a normal conversation with a friend!
Love you for this video Katy - especially around the holidays when emotions and insecurities are at a high. Appreciate how honest you have always been on your channel 💓
Love this video so so much! Thank you for speaking on so many topics! Not enough people talk about the struggles with BV and it's soo soo common. Love you Katy
Best video ever!! I wish morr women wether on this platform or in private with their closest friends shared and uplifted each other. We can all co-exist as women and be happy for one another. This is healthy conversation and we shouldnt look at another woman as competition. We need to value ourselves and be kind to each other. I have seen many platforms were women bash each other or ridicule and it doesnt have to be that way. Lets celebrate the woman in is and love her❤
I think this is one of my favourite videos of yours that you’ve ever filmed. So honest, raw and candid and respectful. We’re the same age and I really related to a lot of what you had to say. I’d love to know where your necklace is from. Lots of love from Ireland 🇮🇪
So awesome to hear about you wanting to be a mom! I’m in the same boat and it was my fav part of the video to hear. Consistently so so happy for you and Jack - wishing you guys the best holiday season and new year ❤
Katy, I enjoyed your video so much! Thank you for sharing, being honest and being yourself❤ I’ve followed you for quite many years and I’ve struggled with similar things. Thank you again, I appreciate you😊
I came to the conclusion that masturbation is not required to get to know one’s self and really not required to have good sex with partner. Sex with a person and masturbation are two different things and one doesn’t prepare you for the other. I think it’s okay not to have experience with masturbation, sex toys etc and this doesn’t mean that the sex with your partner will be any less satisfying. As you said, communication and feeling of comfort with your partner are key things if you want to have a good sexual and none sexual relationship. Honesty, openness and communication are very important. I just wanted to say this in case some girls are overwhelmed with popular advices that suggest that you have to masturbate and experiment with toys in order to have a good sexual life.
Thank you for this comment, I don’t use sex toys idk I feel weird but I’ve been with my partner for soo long so when people judge me that I don’t use sex toys I’m doing it wrong or I’m not having good sex it really gets in your head.
Well said ! Totally agree!! Also this is what I found is beautiful when married, because you have you whole lives to continue to get to know yourself and your partners mutual desires to have a great sex life!
You look fabulous… and I wanted to tell you that you’re amazing thank you for this video …. It brings a lot to perspective and I love everything you do and all your vlogs as well…. Also loving that’s you found your person and you both are ridiculously adorable… anyways I’m from Dominican Republic and I watch you all the time and I love you!!
Hi! Been here since the YoungLife days and it truly feels like we have grown up together!! Just so fun how your video content has always been relevant in all different stages of growing up! Thanks for sharing!! :)
Such a great video Katy! Thank you for your vulnerability and being such a great example of figuring yourself out and knowing your worth. So happy for the love you’ve built with Jack ❤ all the best!!
You are a rock star. You are a beautiful woman very pretty. But this video!! You are a goddess. I appreciate your raw honest information. You are amazing. Thank you
Katy, your vlogs are so refreshing! Your authenticity shines through, and you're absolutely stunning. Wishing you a magical holiday season filled with warmth and coziness. Sending heaps of love from India! 🌟💖🇮🇳
You give me girl mom vibes. Maybe I'm projecting because you've given your majority female audience advice, support and community. You would be a great mom to a daughter (or son).
I personally never wanted to get married or have children. I made this decision in the third grade because I watched my mom who was a young widow struggle to pay the bills and put food on the table. The only decision I regret is the children. I made this decision at too young of age understand the consequences of that decision ❤
This video is why you are my favorite influencer! RAW & HONEST! 🤍🥰 I know filming these type of videos might not be the easiest thing to do, but I’m so glad you did. THANK you, Katy!
I had my first kiss and time with a guy at 25. That was a few months ago during my NYC internship this past summer. I don't know if it counts because I feel like he didn't go all the way in? I just ended up blowing him and calling it a day lol. Now I know if I don't want to cringe at intimacy, I need a personal connection with someone. Great video!
