My mother-in-law has her fist so deep in my husband that she's convinced him our son isn't his... 

First pin pls ❤😊

The fact that he went ahead with the paternity test at the insistence of his mother shows that no matter how abusive his mother gets, he will always be on her side not yours. Also, I grew up in a home where the parents stayed together for the sake of the children. You have no idea how toxic that environment was. If he refuses to stand up to his mother, leave. Take a Space Shuttle to get out as fast as possible.

I would've prefered for op to give an ultimatum. I give you the paternity test but you go NC with your toxic mother or divorce. There is no need to make MIL apologize, just expose her as the reason on why the marriage failed and why he is only going to have visitation rights.

I heard the movie "A fistful of dollars" but my first time hearing and seeing about A fistful of divorce papers. It is probably one of the greatest/embarrassing divorce "fistfight" ever

I get why she is willing to work on her marriage, but i hope she is still willing to leave if he doesn't change.

Honestly I understand op... All we need is for our man to be our rock who we can rely on and be sure that no matter what this person will be on my side... If he can't meet this one requirement then I'll just run and break things off no matter how much I love him

Never ask for the test. You're a parent too, you can just go do it yourself. Asking for the test literally just shows your hand and starts a fight. If she is cheating she's gonna get defensive, and if she isn't she's going to be ready to kill you because you just accused her of cheating over something she has no clue looked suspicious. Asking for the test only gets you anywhere if you already have proof she cheated and are deciding if you want to fight for custody.

Well, that went nowhere.

How did OP apparently get so many awful comments? wtf

Op seems like a doormat

This women has 0 respect for herself

Where's the rest????

Please stop flashing the words,it can be a trigger for seizures.

Talk is cheap. 😅

Always just get the test, fussing about it just makes you look guilty no matter how innocent you are.

Yeah I'm not a fan of women jumping straight to divorce, if paternity tests are wanted but I get it in this case to a degree, men have insecurities too and someone whispering in your ear all the time doesnt help, not that he's justified, just that I can see his perspective too.