This talk is very inspiring and the speaker has unveiled one of life's greatest secrets. A secret that states that your outer world is very much a mirror image of your inner world. If you change your thinking, you change your life. It’s that simple!
It’s not “that simple”. People often have very real challenges & limitations, this mindset of “just changing your thinking” can help, but also potentially make someone feel very inadequate & not good enough, making things worse.
I once believed nothing could touch me..Until it did. It was then I realised that I am just as vulnerable as everyone else. That one's life can change in a mere second.
"When the mind has no motive, when it is free and not urged on by any craving, when it is totally still, then truth is. You do not have to seek it; you cannot pursue or invite it. It must come." Krishnamurti This was your gift in disguise: You stopped thinking-about-being and began being. Thank you for sharing.
Luca Willington I sincerely thank you for your clarity in choice of words of truth. A sincere humble journey to have shared my life's switch moment Onwards & Upwards! Always, 👍 SukhiWahiwala.com
My mind feels a much needed quiet and peace as it witnesses this exchange between Luca and Sukhi from 2 years ago, with the backdrop of Krishnamurti. Thank you all for this moment of being.
I was focused on this talk for the first 3 minutes... But it took me 15 minutes to regain my focus. 😢 Now I have to watch this talk again and again and again!
Like many, I thought this about NDE but interestingly enough, found it of great benefit. I’ve always done lists to organize my thoughts and tasks, however, he’s right, they can also distract and overwhelm due to the nature of the mind/brain. By using his process of narrowing ones focus, you do free yourself to dive into the task at hand and the “moment “.
It was an awesome experience meeting you last night and learning so much from you! I know this teaching is just what I needed at this point in my life, can't wait to start getting more focused on my tasks now!!! Thank you so much Sukhi!!! 🙏💜
I dont mean to be so offtopic but does someone know a way to log back into an instagram account?? I stupidly lost my password. I love any help you can offer me
Face it, We're all seeking to be happy, every single person on this planet wants to achieve a state of happines, you know and I know it. The problem is this... Our minds start to judge situations as good or bad .... a lot to do with conditioning placed on us by society and other people. So, we have beliefs that some situations are good and some are bad. We create pleasure (happiness) in the situations that are good, and pain in the ones that are bad , We seek total fulfillment but the only glimpses of happiness we have are fleeting situations that are bad. So, what do we do? We try to figure which situations appear to make us most happy, eroneously believing that a situation could really cause us to feel happy... and we try to find more of those situations, and we try to avoid the opposite situations but life being life, it's impossible to maintain this. We have to work, have to do things that are less than pleasure inducing and we get pissed off. We are also detached from our higher self, which is a consciousness that is felt to be connected to all consciousness, and is also the understanding of the world that is beyond the mind. When we reach that, bliss and happiness is so abundant it's intoxicating. We can get so high on this beautiful feeling, that nothing else matters. And the world is reduced to a mere illusion. We are all seeking our higher selves, but we're seeking for it externally, which just leads to more disllusionment and pain. We seek for it externally because we know, perhaps unconsciously, that some experiences are more pleasurable than others. So logically we conclude "if I keep seeking out those experiences I like, I will be truly happy". But it never happens, because it's the programming that differentiates good or bad, that defines some experiences as unpleasant and to be avoided and some experiences as pleasurable and to be sought out, that causes us to feel unhappy. Happiness is within you, not external!
“To consider that after the death of the body the spirit perishes is like imagining that a bird in a cage will be destroyed if the cage is broken, though the bird has nothing to fear from the destruction of the cage. Our body is like the cage, and the spirit is like the bird. We see that without the cage this bird flies in the world of sleep; therefore, if the cage becomes broken, the bird will continue and exist. Its feelings will be even more powerful, its perceptions greater, and its happiness increased.” ‘Abdu’l-Bahá
Many Christians will deny this truth, because it doesn't fit the boundaries of their belief system. They are land-locked in grace, trinity, forgiveness, and think afterlife is filled with rewards, gold, and as such. They can't get over original sin and Christ dying on the cross, and reject any truth, where ever it may come from.
hi sukhi, I met you at the business start-up you are giving your talk about focus and I really enjoyed it thanks for letting me know about your TEDTalk I thoroughly enjoy it I'll strive to be more focused person thank you for sharing your story
Agreed, I got rather bored from this talk since I expected something much more interesting. Could you describe your experience a bit? I'm always looking for more of these stories, so fascinating!
Oh, what a fine eloquent speech Mr. Sukhi! Truly engaging, enlightening, but also a session on how to be a fine, elegant, graceful, grammatically fine speaker. Respect!
I thought this was a story about a man who almost died who focuses on nothing but work and realised family and spirit were more important after his near death experience,....but alas it was about as man who almost died and then went back to work and refocused himself on work.
mackerel69 Thank you for your comment and I sincerely appreciate it. I actually did take a change in life and. Started to help others on their paths in life. My focus these days is sharing the learnings that I was gifted to move others on in life in a more meaningful way. Hope to share with you some day if you feel happy to connect with gratitude
The title states that the talk is about what his NDE unveiled to him. I don’t know why so many people are getting bent out of shape because this wasn’t specifically about the event. Read the title COMPLETELY and you’ll see that it is correct in saying that he is talking about WHAT was unveiled to him; not how. Just because he prefers to keep sacred things private but still share the wisdom of the experience, don’t discredit his NDE out of disappointment due to not being capable of understanding such a simple title. GREAT VIDEO! 👍🏽👍🏽
Well for all the people here who are going on and on about how this is not a real nde, I have read and watched and heard hundreds of nde's in the last 20 years and I think you guys are totally missing the point. There are tons of the other classical ndes were people talk about going to the other side blah blah blah. I am in the midst of doing my purpose on Earth and I definitely need help with time management skills. I need to actually get something done and to try to do it in a spiritual way and this message from him really helped me. I am trying his techniques now and so far I feel a lot better as far as trying to get stuff done without getting stressed out. So maybe there is some gold here for those who need it.
Everything this guy talked about regarding being distracted....its the exact description of living with ADHD. Its the same pattern day after day after day.
Yup, agreed--I'm a therapist. I think it's interesting that he has symptoms after illness; it could have caused an injury and/or rewiring in his brain that would cause ADHD or ADHD-like symptoms. I'm also dealing with something similar, where my symptoms got a lot worse after an illness, but have also had symptoms since I was a child. ADHD is a spectrum and environmental factors can also make things manageable or worse.
This talk is about avoiding overwhelment. At 14:10, I'd deduced the moral. Here is clear and specific instruction for leading through balancing ones own life via work-life balance
Any evidence for that? At all? I've been waiting my whole life for someone to give me something other than a personal experience or a scripture from there book of genocides and fairytales. I Haven't gotten anything yet though. I doubt I ever will.
@@cherikkuamarak4053 I have read it through. I grew up a devout Christian. I spoke tounges. You don't know me and you are full of yourself. You are too weak to accept that your personal beliefs may be wrong, because then you have no purpose left. I simply believe that the truth of the origins of the universe and of life and existence is unattainable, at least right now. Nobody has irrefutable evidence of anything, including there own existence. Your beliefs are as baseless as mine and everyone elses and I hope one day you'll have the humility to understand that. And enjoy life, because this is probably the only one we get.
Summary of the method - Daily Focus Time 1. Start with a clear question. 2. Write down everything that comes to your mind. 3. Select the 10 important task that have to be done today, write them on a seperate peace of paper and throw the first list away . 4. Reduce the 10 tasks to 5 top tasks and take a pause. 5. Reduce them again down to 3. 6. Put them in Order (1,2,3). 7. Do the first task immediatly then the second and the third. 8. Repeat as often as you want.
I feel like this would have more views if it was titled properly.... it seems as though it is a talk about the afterlife, when really - its about focusing and productivity. It seems confused. The content is excellent and would have better reach with proper branding/titling, as its the same level of other ted talks. Its a shame :(
Most of the women I know can manage their time, prioritize AND multitask and get a helluva lot done, in the time it takes most men to decide what to have for breakfast. And they still make time for their kids.
Lubos Jurecka Hi, I am very blessed to have been of value to you in your life and journey. 🙏😊 Thank you for using the DFT Method and sharing your post. Enjoy and create Focused Action everyday Onwards & Upwards! Always, 👍
The title states that the talk is about what his NDE unveiled to him. I don’t know why so many people are getting bent out of shape because this wasn’t specifically about the event. Read the title COMPLETELY and you’ll see that it is correct in saying that he is talking about WHAT was unveiled to him; not how. Just because he prefers to keep sacred things private but still share the wisdom of the experience, don’t discredit his NDE out of disappointment due to not being capable of understanding such a simple title. GREAT VIDEO! 👍🏽👍🏽
Um. I had a being dead death experience 3 months ago where I had been gone for almost 2 minutes. In that time I went from feeling great to everyone around me telling me I'm fine now and that they loved me. I also had one of those monitor things they attach to your finger. It was confusing since I had no idea what they meant. Once I was told what happened everything clicked and my assumptions about where I might go after death had been weirdly confirmed. Cessation of consciousness and no memory of the death part. Like anesthesia except instead of resuming the countdown they have you do, it was a point a to point c with a subtracted point B I wasn't aware of. No unlocking of the mind. Just me...not existing. No time passing since I was dead, and didn't need time. I would not have known I was brought back had I not been. I wish it could have been something else. Anything else, I didn't want to be right. Yet here I am. If there really is a me to be.
It was special...like i got a new spirit...or another extra soul ...saw...a person without a body only clothes..and i felt so save ...old souls ..do they had more than other...expieriences more than other...thats why we understand and feel it more...people animals...etc...
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Great! You are blessing in my life right now! Why? I have distraction problem mostly over thinking, RU-vid video but cannot able to complete important task in hand to complete. Your seven steps are good and project real being in life and act single minded on one task. Can you guide me how to focus single minded and to complete task in hand? If you can?
Every minute of every day for the last 3 years of my life since my accident is consumed with one sidetrack after another. Someone needs to write a book about my life. Anything is possible. No matter how impossible it may seem
Im practising DFT daily and its has big results in my life. Sukhi, what to do if you have 20 small tasks with same priority and which you can or couldnt (is not depend on you) finish? (for example progress of tasks, sales calls etc…). how to process Daily Focus Time in this situation?
Stanislav Pittner - Thank you Stan, this is such a gift to hear that you are already using and deeply integrating The DFT Method in your daily life, is heart warming. 🙏😊
I see people here have written a lot about not hearing about NDE. Go watch Peter Fenwick, Mary Neal, and many more inspiring people before you listen to to this great man. It will give you a more sense of meaning. I will make these rules a part of my life. Thank you!!
So he talks about business but just because he had a trip in the hospital doesn't mean that there isn't stuff to be done in the world. You know every day you got to take care of the business of life I don't care how spiritual you are so the fact that he gives us some techniques to do our busyness in a more spiritually aligned way the more intuitive way that's more peaceful I think that's a good thing.
Modern research on Near Death Experience by Raymond moody, reincarnation memories by Ian Stevenson/Jim trucker and past lives regression by Brian Weiss all independently but coincidentally show that our consciousness survive death, we live many lives and our thoughts and actions matter in the hereafter. So be kind and helpful to others, be virtuous, meditate and cultivate ourselves to higher spiritual levels. Cheers.
Listen with an open mind without any expectation from the title. Perhaps then you might think the talk wasn't too far afield as you'd imagined in the start...
Its was so peacefull..i wanted to go.. said ..im ready...than realy weird things happend ..so weird..like believing in someting after...native things..it all just made sense...and that i was traumatist.en that i did not need to keep it a secret.....it had hurt me ..and that was valid...2 ...all the trauma became something i overcame.......so many trauma...i had the wright to speak up ...en why i want to be a psychologist...i just understand life...and why they do what they do...thats hard...becease nobody...does thinks on purpuse...hope we Learn about chainging your brain...everyone can do it...
Concepts are endless and are the prison of the self. We replace one coffin for another. Death is actually a brief escape from coffins, and more for some.
Yes the goal of life is to get free from the cycle of birth and death and to put an end to the reincarnation from one material body to another in the 8400000 species of life in the material world. The goal is to go the spiritual world or Vaikuntha which is free from all kunthas or anxiety , where there is no more birth, disease , old age or death. Human birth is very rare because in this body one can achieve the aim of life. For details - Read Bhagavad Gita and Srimad Bhagavatam
RHT SIRIYA what an amazing way to see things, we are truly immortal as we are remembered after our current life. This is also known as a legacy in a-humble way. Warmest regards sukhi
Remember trauma ..they try to ..let you see it different ..neuroplastisitie...yes there was nobody...on the side of my bed...it woke me up ..about..what was i doing..nobody cares....neuroplasricity...had never done anything for myself without feeling guilty and there was nobody there...it changed me ...
So..go from myriad tasks..edit it down to 10 then 5 then 3..then do the one task.. find a nice space and Learn sitar. Every day spent learning sitar is a day Not Wasted.
Interesting. What started out as search for himself, turned into an organizational video. Not bad, it just suprised me. I was under the impression he was searching for his true self, but seemed like he went back to his previous self. Oh well
I didn't get it either but this is what he says in another talk about the first step "Ask yourself an enquiry questions, which is the KEY! The first thing is, what is my current challenge? What am I facing right now? What am I having a challenge with..."
If God only favour believers regardless of their righteousness, then he needs to have an egoistic and nepotic character like Satan, worldly tyrants and corrupt politicians. The idea that one can go heaven without cultivating himself to higher spiritual standard is as silly as cramming unrefined squatters into premium residential estate.
this would have been a better talk if the end were at the beginning, i.e., why you "discard" the choices that you do. without that he could have been giving guidance for how to be a successful anything. also, focusing is good but the discard process could be ignoring/repressing/suppressing one's self. and, that could overflow into our relationships with others. i.e., we discard others rather than invite them to be part of who we are and what we value. and build together.
Angie Steele thank you for watching the video and sharing, I simply would love to help as many people I can in my life. "1 Small Step At A Time" Onwards & Upwards! Always, 👍
so, if the human mind is distracted every 3 minutes, (I'd better type fast so I dont get distracted :) )and it takes 15 min to get refocused, then that is 18 min, which is the allocated time for a TED Talk. Makes you wonder. or wander (mentally) off.... Where was I? Oh, Yea.....
Get right with God friends, don't wait another day! About 500 prophecies fulfilled hundreds and thousands of years in advance prove the Bible is God's word. Believe and repent, Romans 10:9-10!
I cant chance other brains...if they dont want to...you can leave your mark ..im me...and i dont want to change life is a rollercoaster this was fhe time i learnd so mutch.....yes it reduses your iq...multitasking....i know...
