Expectations vs reality. Never come to Thailand for the sole purpose of woman. Despite the women, the culture is Amazing. There’s actually decent women who have legit jobs.
In a way he got luckier than many other that fall very deep and she wants his money. She might have been really into dating. May be when She saw him, he wasn't of her liking. Once again she could have pretended she like him and suck money out of him but she didn't. it would be good if you would help us get the Age difference and aspects of his and her appearance. this would help us understand. specially if this was a true dating try and not a "pulled out of the bar" story.
I flew and moved from China to Thailand (just after my contract) to try and find a Thai gf/wife eventually while teaching here. BUT I was looking for normal, educated women with no kids and a good job. Been here 7 weeks and stay away from bars/bar girls and freelancers. Did my fair share of horror story video watching beforehand. (Which EVERY guy should before coming here)
@@muajin a lot of my friends moved from Korea to teach in China. They say it’s a lot more money and time off. One guy is seeing a Chinese chick. Good luck with the move!
This is why when I talk online I would rather stay friends . I give one or two days, if it doesn’t work then I will just keep my options open. Moving on too fast before you meet them is a big mistake and if the women wants to move on faster before meeting them in person ; I consider that a red flag . Love takes time to build
If a women says she is not looking for something serious it in reality means she is not interested. David has done everything wrong. Why wait to the final day he should of got rid of her after the first day!! My opinion she not asked for money or sponsorship she met him at the airport and when she saw him thought I don't like the look of him but felt spend time with him because she felt obliged to after coming from dubai to see her. If a girl mentions just friends or nothing serious they are not interested simple as that walk away. After all who wants to be friends wiirh a women. Their is a difference being lonely to being desperate. Pattayia is not the place Togo if your lonely or desperate. You have to understand it for what it is have your fun with these girls then walk away and don't look back. Don't get it how you can think your in love or in a relationship with someone you met on Thai friendly after a month it's just the actions of desperation. Some guys shouldn't visit Thailand they are not mentally stable to enjoy it for what it is without running into problems be financial emotional or both. Just don't suite alot of people.
I had a scenario like that back in England travelled three hours to meet this woman. I was gonna stay with her the whole weekend. We've been talking for ages soon as I met her. She was cold as ice and I knew nothing romantically was going to happen after that. 🙄
Sometimes online romance doesn't translate in person. David learned this the hard way. I have a suggestion. Ditch online dating and just come to Thailand and meet girls in person. Immediately you will be able to disqualify or go forward through person-to-person interaction.
I was waiting for the boat to return for my parachute ride when a street merchant approached me and offered to sell some cheap trinkets so I bought one and gave her an extra dollar then she yelled out something and in a moment I was surrounded by quite a few more girls hawking their cheap products it was disgusting to see how greedily they would push each other aside until all that I could see was a myriad of hands in my face. a $3. lesson that helped me through Pattaya. I will not go back there.
You have to do what your heart tells you. You only live once and life is what you make it. Just live for the day, the future takes care of its self. The only thing that matters when you have a 40ty year age gap is between both of you and what other people think is not important. If he is not happy with his wife of 20ty years then he has to move on, his wife will be ok because she will say he did not want me so let it be. Sorry that I say this but it is the reality. Good luck to all 3 of them.
Thailand is a great country with great people, but there is a different understanding of relationships. It is easy to be caught by the beauty and the friendliness. The Western picture of love is not universal and Western people are victims of the picture. A big point in this VDO is that dreams let someone run into dead-end streets.
He should have figured out that his Thai date didn't like him. Instead of walking away , he kept trying. She could also sense his desperation and loneliness. Also the dude works and lives in Dubai and he still couldn't pull women?
@@fredwillis638 She should have made things clear before he made the trip over. She didn't make it incredibly clear before he took the flight. My opinion. I flew to China from USA to meet the person I met online. It worked out for me and we have been married 7 years so far.
David has a serious psychological issue. He creates a fantasy world that he rxpects her to think of him the same way as he thinks of her. He deserves to get hurt. She is quiet because she is shy and doesn't know him. She is not going to tell him evetything about herself. They nust met and he becomes romantic. she doesn't wsnt that. He is a stranger When i was young if a man did that to a female she would leave and never come back. She would hate him fir life for being rudeike that. She said it is okay thst they separate because she wanted to be friends when he creates a fantasy world of his own punishment. She isn't goi g to be more than friends She isn't goi g to just marry him because he thinks she wants him as much ad he wsnts her. It was his own fault.
