I faced each nd every thing, even after being mtech(assistant professor), jisne Sirf 6 months Ka job break liya for initial days of wedding, sb kuch kiya khana se le k safaeya tk, nd accidentally conceived, was going through tuff pregnancy - - - imagine after doing everything for 6 months, my mom in law said- hmne kya bche paida nhi kiye, hmne ghar ka kaam nhi kiya.... Nd she was lady jinki khud ki mominlaw ne poori life unka ghar sambhala nd dn it became my duty.......... I was pushed away from my dreams, still I m into depression, but trying to cope up nd excel in my career again.... As my daughter in 5 years old now nd remote works r dere for software engineers.... But a great topic to discuss.... Huge respect nd love dil se🙏😍😍😍😍
You both have had a wonderful upbringing. All families go through rough times but if the man of the house is mature and understanding than any situation can be dealt with. MashaAllah you guys spoke very honestly and gave us really good pointers. Thank you so much
Well-done Superb Vlog 💗 so much meaningful vlog ...very well educated families ❣️and the Saas is the role model for every mother in law ...agar dunia ki tamam saasain esi hi Jein tho duniya ki tamam gharoun main sakoon hogaa... Kyaa zabardast lady thein...Allah un ko jannat ul firdous ata Karen ...air myjhee bhe Bilal jaisa husband aur apki Saas jaisi Saas mille ❣️💗😍💓💋💕💞😗😘😙
I am your silent viewer. I do not watch any other vlogger except for u when I am doing household chores. It feels like I am not alone. Hearing 'Phalia' from bilal bhai made me really excited and happy. My maternal side is from Phalia. I was also born there. Whenever I have mentioned it infront of anyone, it was a new place for them. Never came across a single person who had ever heard of this place.
Enjoyed a lot . Nice vlogs we are also from mandibahauddin near phalia , punjab culture is really strict but my mother in law is very nice person .indeed Alma’s is ronak of your home she complains but she works a lot .
Basic pyar aur respect aik dosrey k liye ho toh har baat buri nahi lagti aur har tarha ka waqt guzar jata hai Allah hum sub k ghar shad.o.abaad rakhey Ameen
First of all I cried literally bcs main apni dadi nani se India Pakistan partition sun sun k bdi huyi hu so I understand the pain of dat generation kyuki khi na khi vo log ye nhi chahte the🙏 dey both r no more, , malik sbko jnat Mein jgah de....
Very nice family Masha Allah, Allah aapp ki family ko salamat rakhe. I have a question for you Mrs. Bilal; why didn’t you pursue your career in medicine? I mean USMLE.
There is a difference between educated and degree holder. Families who are educated and well brought up treat everyone with respect including bahus and respect their privacy. The families you are talking about are the ones who might have degrees but are jahil by core. My mother in law was only inter pass and she always respected our privacy and we treated each other with mutual respect.
Well said, agr ghar manage krne k bad hum women job kregi tohh bs time hi nhi milta, ofcourse agr a girl has to do job toh chahey hoti h - Cook, support etc. jo hum punjabiyo k culture Mein Aaj tk bhi nhi h....... Each nd every thing i have faced wat u ppl said....
Huge respect for such parents.. jo choton ko itni respect dete hain .. they were good role models for you and this shows that Almas will be an awesome mother in law too 🤩
It's nice to see someone who hasn't been pressured to call their in laws mom/dad because pressure mei aake ammi abu bolne bht bekaar baat hai and I sadly I have done that under pressure. In laws chaahe jitna he educated kyu na ho.. unhe ye zabardasti ka expectation hamesha hona hai apni bahu se
Mjhe lg rha tha apne susral main achi life guzari ho gi …. Because positive ap achanuk se nhi ho jty ap main bachpan se hoti insan k andhar …. Ap blkl b typical nhi hai ❤️
Its big role of your in laws they have a big heart but it should be both ways only in laws are not always good if they don’t ket daughter in law do anything all hones can’t afford househelp etc so if daughter in laws have to do house work nothing bad in it
Susar Ka Kam krna mayoob samjha jata? Punjabi culture mn baap Ka Kam krna sohar ya bhai ka help krwana sub Kuch e mayoob samjha jata. Koi ba shaooorrrr bnda krna b chahy to taanyy jo milty k ap khud e Kam Kar do behter rahy ga. Physical sakoon k chakar mn zehni mareeez ban jao.
I hate the desi culture, in laws and husbands expect kertay hain ke aap tray sajah ker pesh kerain. Deen humain kuch or teach kerta hai. Bahu Apni khushi se khidmat keray Tu bohat achi baat hai. Lakin uss se expect kerna wrong hai. Parents ki khidmat unh ke apne olad per ferz hai. Bahu per nahi. Deen ka shaoor bohat important hai.
She first needs to learn how to make vlogs. She is derailing from the main topic. Her husband is trying to bring her back on the track but she doesn't seem to understand it.
