What I’ll never understand is why the wronged individuals are relentlessly targeted by family members and friends to instantly forgive and forget that it was a “mistake” or insert generic BS excuse they need to accept that this is done, because you better believe that if it was on the other side they’d have to accept it
I understand that some people are not a fan of these type of stories but there are similar stories do happen in real life believe it or not. People perfer revenge stories but it rarely happens in real life unless you are wealthy, cunning, or have strong conviction. Most cases people just go with the flow attitude when dealing with their ex or hope to get out of situation. Besides men are mostly unfortunately anyway no matter what they do regardless if the woman is at fault unless the men have the upper hand. These stories happen when a family always tried to maintain family peace no matter the cost even the support the cheating spouse.
I understand that we don't necessarily seek out revenge stories. We recognize that a husband can become complacent, relaxed, and deeply in love with his wife, thinking she can do no wrong, but when that fairytale is shattered, we all have to make our own decisions and not rely on others to make them for us. Whether these stories are fictitious or real, I don't comprehend how a man can drag his feet and avoid making any decisions. I come from a place where, after 22 years of marriage, I discovered that my wife had been cheating on me for seven of them. I listen to these kinds of stories to see if I made the right decision in how I handled everything because I still have people telling me that I was wrong for filing for divorce and breaking up the family. They say I should've given her a chance, been a man, and worked it out instead of walking away. I mean, I didn't go totally ballistic, but I didn't let her control the narrative either, nor did I let other people dictate how I should feel or what I should do about it.
@@ravwood7277when I said that "people prefer revenge stories" because the people in the comments were saying the story didn't have a strong impact, and many of the comments wanted OP to take a strong approach in the situation. I also stated that these things happened whether it was real or not so it depends on the person what actions they are willing to take based on their impressions. Each person has their own reasons that will define their decision at the very end. I even stated that some people outside of the marriage will try to persuade in order to maintain family peace no matter the cost even painting you as a villain and cheating spouse as a victim. No matter where you stand, people will try to make you stay and hope you can move past it even if it eats you away. At the very point it's up to you how you want to live your life.
My dad did this to his older brother. I never understood how my uncle could stand to not only have his ex-wife in the picture, but eventually my dad. It created this strange dynamic that I still don't understand today. It wasn't healthy for any of them, and especially not for the nine children involved. I can't say my mom was any better as she was having an affair with the man who would eventually be my stepfather at the same time as dad was sleeping with my uncle's wife.
Op should have left town after the divorce and change his phone number and block Tommy and Rachel on social media and be thankful that he didn't get his wife pregnant story 1
So much of blah blah blah, the story is diluted. The story worth may be 10 min, not more than that. The youtube should display number of dislikes. Will save a lot of time of patron's.
