Cheats on him for four years, has unprotected intercourse countless times, gets knocked up twice by affair partner, lies to this guy’s face for almost 30 straight years… …and he forgives her for her stupid ‘mistake’. Geeze, no wonder she cheated on him…
Those first comments are 100% correct. She took those 2 hours to come up with her lies. 4 years, of unprotected sex, who knows what diseases she could've passed to her husband. Carried two pregnancies to term while screwing this guy, and only after she realized she was making a mistake? Nah, he left her for real. Also, 4 years is not a mistake, is a very long list of continuous choices.
She resented being off the market, but "never regretted" marrying him. She didn't want to lose him, but cheated on him and had another guy's kids instead of his. Her heart only belonged to him, but the other guy was her escape from routine family life. She needed a couple hours to come up with some bullshit, then had more time after he sent her away and this pile of contradictions is the best she can come up with?
He will. His identity is changed, his wife made sure of it. He will find a new woman, probably wont end up starting a family with kids all over again, but definitely wont stick to his wife.
@@_Thunderball_ idk, I think she got big power over him. I think She biting her time. She knows, she doesn't have anything to demand from him now but after when he gets confertable, she will start demanding staff from him. She got him where she want him. Remember she hidden a 4 year affaire and given birth for her AP. And kept it a secret like for 31 years. He is under her spell. If he didn't run and didn't look back like he did last time with a moment of clarity, she will get away with it.
you've married early, then found out 2 eldest child were from an affair... he did not ss himself, did not snuffed his wife, did not made it hard for everyone (atleast did not verbally or physically abused his wife), still communicate with his children, actually his doing better... he just emotionally moved out on the relationship... i think what he did is better than divorcing his wife, it's like living with a housekeeper that you go to bed with... it's like punishment for the wife while making himself learn to cope with the stress and misery in his life...
Whatever is coming from the mouth of the cheating wife, you cannot trust if it is 100% or not. She is not feeling remorse if she decided to take the secret to the grave, she just feeling guilty of being caught and even plan the 2 hour to think of a plan to wiggle herself out of it, or else she would have come clean straight out. 4 years having unprotected sex while passing her 2 illegitimate daughters is just cruel.
2/3 kids are not yours but don't let this stupid MISTAKE ruin what we have XDD I feel sorry for the guy. But I am glad that in all this mess he found things to be happy about.
All that talk to said at the end im a simp and im ok that my wife had an affair for 4 years and my 2 daughters aren't mine, this is crazy, he just show to his son that it's ok to get cheat on or cheat on their spouse.
The two older kids told him as soon as they found out. Just like him, they thought he was their dad. He's not legally responsible for them if he doesn't want to be after the revelation, but they were not at fault. This was 100% on the wife.
I'm all for reconciliation, but it needs to be done properly, and success is still not a guarantee. She needs to live with the title of an adultress and deserves any future insults. And OP needs to make sure that she's truly remorseful because the wife has the benefit of her AP not being alive to confirm things.
She is going to take her infidelity secret to her grave?... I doubt about it... Probably she is going to hide it till your grave 🤣🤣🤣 Forgiving her... Yes of course But doesn't mean you let it free off Scout... She still need to received her punishment... If you let it slide... That's mean you justified her infidelity 😂😂😂 and all your children gonna adopt your life example
OP can forgive her so he can let go of his emotions, but that's it. There doesn't need to be reconciliation at all. She is a lying cheating POS who would take everything to her grave if OP hadn't found out. Also, OP should just divorce and leave. Why stay when there is nothing else between them anymore? What are the kids' feelings about it? Hope OP told everyone from friends and family about her infidelity and lies. SHE IS A BAD PERSON, TWO CHILDREN FROM AP, YEAH HELL NO!!! Hold that over her for the rest of her life and go out and find someone who won't 'screw' you over a loving relationship for four years out of 33 years together and for what!!!!
It's onvious their is a mot more going on. Daughters are over 3 years apart and both not his that's why after 4 yeats she "realized" he was the perfect husband and she should end it. She used those two hours to destroy all evidence of everything else that had happened or that was still going on so she could say that was all that happened