MY WIFE IS KINDA DUMB.. 

'ARGUMENTATION' loooooooool who even uses that word lmaoooo guy needs to get off his high horse!!

Dude literally googled synonyms for common words and threw them in there to sound #iamverysmart. I honestly feel bad for his wife.

maybe the husbands the problem not the wife.

I love how this "smart" man uses "argumentation" incorrectly. 😂 It causes arguments bro, not argumentation.

Imagine being married for 11yrs with 2 children only for your husband to divorce you cos he realised "your too dumb for him"😐😐😐 something don't add up

Emotional intelligence is so important, and people often disregard it. You can be the smartest person in the world but if you can't be empathetic and handle interpersonal relationships, you won't get anywhere in life.

[pauses video] [Brings my Oxford dictionary]

Just because she is not academic does not mean that she is dumb

i have a PhD in clinical psychology. Last weekend I was invited to a dinner, I was drinking tea after dinner, and wanted to look on my watch... i burned my lap with the tea whilst trying. My point is.... degrees are not an indicator for intelligence XD also you (the person who sent the e mail) sound a bit pretencious... my fiancé didn't have the opportunity to have the education I had, cause he lived in a war zone for quite a while. He is by far the most intelligent person I know. Wonderful artist, deeply kind to others cause he has seen so much bad and he is absolutely hilarious. He might not know what I know.. but he knows so many different things. Maybe try to see what she is an expert in, cause we are all experts in something

To be honest, I don't think the thing that causes the issue in their relationship is the ''lack of intellectual stimulation'' as he claims, but rather the fact that the guy has some kind of superiority complex and considers himself superior to his wife solely because he thinks that he is ''intellectual''. I mean, what does he even really mean when he says that she is not smart enough? Are we speaking academically? Perhaps she might not have a high education and be an expert in that field, but she could excel in other areas (I'm only assuming of course!). Maybe she knows a whole lot about being a kind and loving mother and wife? Or I don't know, maybe she's an expert on a certain issue, she has a passion for climate change or she cares a lot about the rights and history of women or ethnic minorities? And if she doesn't, maybe she is willing to listen and learn? It has always felt so strange to me that we choose to categorize people as clever or not clever, solely based on their academic/educational background. Doing great in school does not necessarily define your intelligence. Sometimes when we think that an obstacle arises in our lives due to external factors, it can be so much more productive for us when we choose to look inside of ourselves rather than blaming everything else. That is truly when we realize that our egos can ruin a lot for us. Trust me, this is something that I try to remember myself because it's an issue I struggle with as well, it's something that we all struggle with given that we all possess egos. I do agree with the advice that Sid and Dina gave. It is true that a divorce can do more good than bad, and that the issue of divorce needs to be talked about more in the muslim community. However, I don't think a divorce will fix the problems he is dealing with inside himself. If this guy chooses to divorce and is possibly interested in another relationship, the exact same issue will most likely arise if he keeps considering himself superior to others. So brother, if you're reading this, I'd like to share some wisdom from the great philosopher Socrates, who once said: ''To know is to know that you know nothing.'' Hence being a ''knowledgeable'' and ''smart'' person lies in the art of knowing that you, essentially, cannot know everything, and that there is always something to learn from the World and the people around us, wether we consider them ''smart'' or ''dumb''. Also, as Kendrick Lamar so beautifully put it in his recent song ''Humble'' : B**** sit down, be humble.

this e-mail pretty much sums up why I'm scared of marriage lmao

Dina, you had a solid point at 8:01. There are different types of intelligence. Someone can be academically smart, or musically talented, or kinesthetically talented etc. Just because you are a person who is for example, intelligent in the logic and mathematics department doesn't mean another person who is not so talented in this area is dumb. I mean, honestly the only thing that is dumb is that kind of logic.

The man's own insecurities show with how hard he's trying to sound smart - but resulting in sounding a bit pompous cos he's using 'fancy words' in the wrong context. These kind of stories concern me because a lot of women in a lot of cultures are discouraged from getting an education and pressured to stay at home and be a 'good wife'. In psychology, these issues fit something called the "content model" by fiske, cuddy and glick. It's the case of "high warmth = low competence" - the warmer someone appears to be, the more likely they will be perceived to be less competent. It's so unfair for a lot of women who are restricted into these traditional roles due to culture because they're trying their best to fulfil their community's idea of being a 'good wife' but all the while, they are also seen as incompetent. Lose lose situation and it's even worst when people like this guy admits to belittling/undermining his wife. I love Sid and Dina for showing everyone that people don't need to follow traditional gender roles anymore (eg woman cooks, man makes the money). It's 2017 and every marriage is different so do what works for your marriage and don't bother with what gossiping aunties have to say about how you do things.

This is the classical story of guys running after "pretty girls" and aren't attracted to girls that study at a young age, but then realize what they did a decade later

when she tells him he's the smarted person she knows

Good grief, dude sounds so annoying in the email. Needs to take a chill pill asap. But good luck to the both of them.

Right.. This guy is trying too hard to seem 'smart'.

That "hii guys" that makes the whole room look at you with your phone

That email was shallow af. Not trying to say having intelligent conversations aren't important but you seem like an arrogant person and maybe the issue is you and your blunt personality . Lighten up . If you want a divorce get it but don't make someone feel inadequate just because they're not like you as not everyone was raised the same .

He sounds so pretentious and up himself, I feel sorry for his wife 🙄

Was she reading a English literature essay or what?

his question is me when im trying to reach the essay word limit so i throw in a bunch of words i dont rlly understand lmao

At the end of every single video: Sid: "I'm not really sure we gave you any tips" Dina: "I think we really did" 😂😂

Argumentation? Wtf

Coming from a family where my parents divorced when I was 5,I find it so strange when people mention divorce like its something to do if you're not happy. I also find, that children who come from families where their parents are still together, talk about divorce more easily as a solution rather than the last option. I grew up thinking divorce it's normal , it's something that everybody does...let me tell you what I think now , after growing up without my father and marrying out of love. Marriage is not easy and love is not enough to get on with married life. Don't give up easily because the way it affects our kids is beyond our understanding..and I know that because I now started to understand some underlying issues I had with my husband... Nobody is perfect and we all have our short comings... Think before you get married , because our kids shouldn't pay for our mistakes ....that's what I think

This guy is using words that aren't even contextually correct... it looks like his wife has had a massive impact on him.. Or just to show the difference he's trying to portray himself as a smart guy (Interpreted in many ways) But this guy just needs to calm it down.. lad the word argumentation? Really lad? Reallyyy

SID'S HAT MATCHES DINA'S HAIR #COUPLEGOALS 😭😂 EDIT: Sounds like the guy needs to stop "trying" so hard to appear smart cos you're not fooling anyone but yourself with those unneccessary I-sound-smart-if-I-use-these-words in the email, I can only imagine how irrating (exasperating is the synonym he'd use) and damn right snobby (imperious is the synonym he would use) he must be to live with and if anything I feel sorry for the wife having to put up with this clown. 🤦 This video/email should've been titled I'M A DOUCHEBAG DEGRADING HUSBAND WHO THINKS MY WIFE IS DUMB 🙄

Who's in bed watching this😅✌🏽

Love how much empathy you both have towards this question! Bless you both x

Wtf is that guy in the email even saying?

Sometimes women who get depressed shut down from any interests and if the guy played a part in damaging her self worth there's a huge chance she's actually depressed but hiding it.

"We should get a thesaurus and a dictionary" 😂😂😂

I hope this guy doesn't actually talk like this cause I would punch someone in the face if they came up to me and started using a bunch of long ass words

“Bro you are using some words you don’t need to use”😭😭😂😂I cant

If anyone has seen the movie Brick Lane, this guy reminds me so much of the husband. He arranged for them to get married knowing she was a village girl and spent years thinking he was superior to other foreigners for his knowledge and English skills despite even his kids being more proficient than him 😂

TBH I think he's the problem. He's trying wayyyy too hard to be wickedly smart you can see how he's trying to use the big unnecessary words in the email he's so extra

Honestly MOST of the marriages in my culture (that I personally know of) are the same storyline as this guys marriage. They stay together because they have kids and only because of 3aysh w mel7 n nothing else. No love. No nothin! Love comes with time they say lol

You guys are overkilling the uploads now lol! Just kidding, keep it up please as no one really posts regular content and it gives people like us something to look forward to 👍👊

Asalamualaykum Sid and Dina I Liked this before watching👍

15 mins to film...but it's 19 mins long HAHAHA

I hope they continue to do these videos forever 😭 They're the best at giving advice!!! I genuienly enjoy watching Ask Sid & Dina and I always learn something out of it.

Wow! Sid and Dina's chemistry is sooooo good. Hope my would-be and I have such good chemistry :)

This is genuinely bloody fantastic. This video was 100% one of my top 3 of you two. Everybody and their mother needs to watch this. Bravo, hats off to both of you, well said, and well done.

bruh i felt dumb listening to that email lol big words ahah

Shocked at how much wisdom and insight these two have. MashaAllah. Really mature advice. Wow.

I started to say " HEY GUYSS BACK WITH AN OTHER VIDEO " with dina

Sids such a good father ma sha Allah

ahahahha u guys have the most hilarious references.....I ate the twix because you ate the kit kat....u guys are sooo amazing....love these videos.....and so happy they are back and regular

My father raised me and my brother alone (my mother expired when we were very little) he taught me to cook and everything else :) may Allah grant him the highest place in jannah, daddy's are angels

I like Dinas view on intelligence - that everyone is intelligent but how well they are encouraged will determine how hard they use their brain

This is one of your best answers yet! As a couple you should support and motivate each other.

It is so relaxing to listen to you guys, giving advices and all Love ya

100% agree on the difference on the people who are academically smart and those who are smart smart

I totally agree with Sid and Dina about the "staying for the sake of the kids" thing ! My parents stayed together for my brother and I and to be honest I thing it was a mistake cuz I've always seen them unhappy like all my life ! Tbh I've seen them hanging out together like not even in my home they always in seperate rooms and when they talk it's an argument ... rarely I see them laughing about something and I'm like Wtf ?! And it's been like this for 20 years so when people don't wanna divorce because of the kids, obviously there's a lot of differente situation, it might be the best thing for everyone ! Growing up in a non-loving unhappy parents kind thing is unhealthy.

"We should get a thesaurus and a dictionary!" 😂😂

“I hate the twix cose u ate the kitkat“ 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I like how the video goes on dina gets closer to sid and loops her arm around him 😍😍

to whoever sent this e mail: i know its hard and your marriage feels more like a chore than something beautiful, but do try for the sake of your children!

Lolz! "Bruh, you are using words you dont nees to use"

I really freaking love how Sid and Dina really breaks it down to the core of gender roles and how some things are considered taboo in certain cultures. Thank you so much guys.

This is one of your best videos yet. The general advice is what alot of people need to hear about right now.

I applaud you guys for always coming at people's situations from different perspectives 👏 The guy who sent the email has gotten some great advice!

"I ate the twix because you ate the KitKat" lmao so me.

was gonna go bed early but nm

Noooooo school starts tommorow 😭😭😭😭

Literally stopped everything to watch this. Keep up the good work Sid and Dina 👍🏼💖

Just as I was about to go to bed cus tomorrow's my first last day of school but Sid and Dina are my priority rn 🤷🏾‍♀️

You two are freaking adorable. Always giving such good advice mA!

This video deserves a million likes ... its the best one yet

do not break your marriage - this is the best thing shaytan loves... your children will be destroyed arent your parents together - Umar RA said to a man who was thinking of divorcing his wife: “Why do you want to divorce her?” He said, “I do not love her.” ‘Umar RA said, “Must every house be built on love? What about loyalty and appreciation?”Al-Bayan wa at-Tabayeen, 2/101; Fara’id al - Kalam, p.113.

His question sounded like he went on thesaurus.com and just found unnecessary synonyms to normal words 😒 he should get off his high horse. Everyone is smart in their own ways. Just because he's not married to Einstein doesn't mean she's not smart.

I don't know why but I can't stop staring at Dinas teeth?

Do you know what! This guy actually does sound like a know-it-all and he sounds a bit up his own arse. Maybe his wife isn't intellectual but I bet she knows her stuff about topics she likes and she's interested in. Maybe he should try and get into some of her interests and connect on a different level. oh that's basically what sid and dina said...i should have waited til the end of the video :')

I'm an adult and my dad is still teaching me how to cook, its great!

"I ate the Twix coz you at the KitKat" 😂😂 I laughed so hard at that😂

"Well it's good that you hate yourself for it"😂😂

“I ate the Twix because you ate the KitKat” 😂😂😂😂fucking broken

The best Muslim couple on RU-vid long live your family and salaam 2 u.

The colour sid was wearing is called Mink :)

'Thick as a fuckin bag of bricks' ~ Sid 2017

I understood half of the letter. But my English knowledge has just boosted tremendously. Thanks writer and thanks Sid and Dina for this unexpected educational video! xxx

this reminds me of my parents with my dad being like 14 years older than my mom so they're on way different pages

It's 2AM, I just came back from work and what better to do than catch up with Sid n Dina. Hope you are well iA xx

Wow just watched dinas new video NOW I GET TO WATCH THIS!!😂👍

they should go on a vacation to a country where they both don't understand the language so that will make him realize that he can't be that clever to know everything.

Salam! I watch your videos all the time and think the two of you together are so hilarious. Anyway, I think this is probably some of the best advice the two of you have ever given. Keep it up!

You guys are so cute together Mashallah

Sid is what you call 'street smart', mashAllah a good quality just like the colour he's wearing

Guys this is one of my favorite of your advice videos. It's so helpful to so many other types of relationship problems. It isn't a clickbaity kind of issue (not that those aren't important but it's nice to see some diversity in the questions). And mashaAllah you two really sound like you know what you're talking about with this one. I hope that the emailer is able to find some solutions from this. I definitely got a lot.

What if this guy places all those words there in the email just in case he doesn't get caught with his wife because he thinks she won't understand if she did listen to that email.....? Lmao

I agree with Sid.. if he leaves her and tries to find better he might find worse. I dont even think its that big of a deal to divorce someone for.. imagine someone thinking low of him and bringing out his insecurities that had when he was young or even cheating on him.. those are a call for divorce

This man isn't smart at all. He just searched up some synonyms to sound smart b/c none of those words make sense in that context his explaining in the email. He needs to get off his high horse. 😑

I just Found you guys today and I think you two are hilarious! I'm from Texas but worked in the Middle East for several years and will be travelling there in the very near future.

"I ate the twix because you ate the Kitkat" - this needs to be an official quote lol 😂.

Thesaurus LOLLL!!! Also, good advice. Twix/kitkat hahaha, love you guys, more vids please!

Dayum! Dinas teeth are glithening!! 🔥👌👌👌

It really upset me when you guys said "if we ever break up". Just couldn't imagine you not being together. Great video x

yoo this was one of the best advice you guys gave! you said such smart things i love it i was paying so much attention as if i was in class lol!!

Your advice was on point. I hope this helps the individual who reached out to you. If he gives it a go and follows through on your suggestions, I feel there's a possibility that things might work out for them. Wishing them both the best of luck.

"u ate the twix so i ate the kitkat" 😂😂🤣🤣