MY WIFE MY PAIN : She Abandoned Me with Our 7 Children 

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When u treat her like a baby making machine obviously she will abandon..no sympathy with u..stop producing like animals and treat women like humans.

Running away from your own blood, a special gift that God has given her is that an option , though we do not know the problem she is facing, if you go and get a better place but have no children any more , she will begin calling family and friends as witches and when that happened and she comes back and all her children are dead how will she feel, at least taking the twins along should have been better, she wanted freedom and now she has gotten it, the law of Karma is always at post.

Hi… I’m from South Africa… I would love to help.. is there a direct number that you can provide?

May be he wz mistreating the I don't see or I can't believe how a normal mother can abandon his children No No or it's just a clout

She is very wicked mother to abandon her beautiful children 😢

@@salomewamuhu2252 so you run and punish the innocent children even small twins

At least she should have gone with the twins and leave others

Maybe she was suffering from postpartum depression we cannot judged a book by its cover we are only hearing one side of the story whe clearly there is always 2

Exerctly

Yes yes

U never know

Most likely mental issues ; could be other reasons " who know"??

My grandmother did this to her family. I learned my dad was only 7 when that happened.

@@ramonaneyrinck2292 so sad to a lady to do that me I can't leave my children behind waal

Just like when the man leaves woman with her children alone. The shoes on the other foot now😳

There is something called depression, it affects the state of mind and usually culminates into making wrong decision. The mother needs help to overcome feeling of fear and inadequacy. 7 children is a lot to deal with, it is good to plan family carefully. The wife may have post natal depression.....

Exactly. We might never know but i can say she might needs some medical attention.. or she might have been VERY unhappy and lonely yet married for society.

You people before we blame this woman kindly, its better to first think heart and ask ourselves why she really left her kids behind, where ever she is she knows why, and even if she comes out to tell the public what forced her to leave your likely to not to believe in her. What I have realized, people wants to see someone dead bse bse of mistreatments in marriage, there you will come out and start saying sorry to a dead person, many women have died bse of violence caused by men, there are women out there w cannot fight tor themselves and the only option is get out, let's ask our selves members why she didn't leave with her kids, me and you we don't know what she has been going through. Wait surposed this women is dead, God forbid, wouldn't the man look after his kids,

@@kesiimesharon7991 There is surely be a reason. Why didn't HE use protection and continued having children?🤔 She was probably NOT having a voice in the marriage.

@@OdopaTruelove your very right man, people are facing many difficulties in marriage, as you have said she had no say at all.

Goodmayes you will make it,may be she is not well mentally, if she did this on the purpose ,she is cruel but they will grow by the grace of God,do your best you will get help from kind people.

May God bless this man and give him Strength

Exactly what I have noticed in such stories, the husband are usually abusive. Some they force themselves to sleep with their wife even if the wife is not in the mood . In one story a husband slept with the wife immediately after giving birth.

Even if she was living in any condition, she must take the young ones. No excuse in such action to deny 9 month old with breast-milk

@@j.mehnmontokpa7154 Take them to where? Do you know where she went? Tell us so we can go and look for her if she is sane please.

It could be that the mother of these seven beautiful children is very distressed emotionally, financially, mentally, physically and may be also experiencing severe postpartum depression.

Exactly,people always judge women without knowing the truth and if the same thing happens to a woman raising these kids alone no one talk about it 😏it's normal

YOU gonna see family members when AFRIMAX starts getting help for him with the kids. For now there is no money it will be no one to help.

The kids are a blessing from God, and then a woman walks away leaving 7 children with the father, Those kids beautiful and handsome enough, God will take care.

very true my dea .....its obvious there are sad and painful reasons that lead this woman to leave everything behind.on my opinion i think this man was abusive

I thought about that even before reading your comment. Children are a blessing but look at the age gap. I am sure the woman had no strength left to take care of the children, all chores she is expected to carry out. We need to find her, she may be in need of help , mentally.

For whatever reasons, how do a mum abandon innocent breastfeeding babies, really

This woman maybe under depression

But am sure you won't say this if it was a man that did same.......men are beast but a woman will have a reason to do same .....hypocrisy everywhere

Mental health could be the reason.

Before you cast a curse, stop and think. She maybe going through post-mortem stress and that has affected her mentally. His seven children don't look worse than any other children. He is doing a good job. God will help him to continue. All he has to do is to submit to God.

Amen

It's failed bcz men has left family planning to women only,and maybe a woman it doesn't work.. men should learn to do vasectomy or use protection in danger day's, but our African men can't dare

Very true because most of them early thirties 6/7 children and in big poverty

God be with u n get all the support u need in many ways blessings r coming for u n kids will grow coz u r a loving father🙏🇿🇦

God has a plan for this family take your family planning to the demonic culture!

Exactly my question.

What a loving and patient father.His children will always remember him.

Exactly

Ok if the mother is sufferning from depression why make that amount of kids and then run

Amen

Yes mother can leave !!!!!!!yes

I don't care the reason no matter what I am not going to leave my twin baby and gone that is how most African man woman r

Poverty is the reason she left, but she could have taken the twins with her 😭😭

@@bobbettewilliamson2850 Have heard of MENTAL HEALTH!! She might in need of medical attention!!😃🤨

Even if there is a reason, what about the children she is just heart less

@@catherinechiwome3674 The children have a father who is also capable of looking after them. Mother could be anywhere with mental breakdown and she needs urgent support.

I know, this is a situation of lack of awareness, and probably the resources too coz they are in the rural areas. Contraceptives are needed! The wife was overwhelmed and couldn’t take it anymore. And definitely going through postpartum depression. Am sure, she opted to leave, to seek tangible help otherwise, there would be a high chance of getting pregnant again if she remained. She could never say No to her husband, and how strong can she be to fight that. She painfully left and I know, she can’t stop thinking about her children. She is a mother, with a real bond to her children. I pray that she gets help from where she has gone. The Lord is with both of them, something had to be done. She will come back to her children, because her heart is with her children. She just had to do what she had to do to make it work. I would kindly request Afrimax to follow up on the family and give us a report. And thanks to all those reaching out and also the comments section for it’s a free discussion. I couldn’t stop crying 😭😢 looking at the cute innocent twins. May God be with this family and look out for them🙏🏿

Lonely???what do you mean lonely children ?????they have their father

Exactly that's what I've been saying.

There are 3 side to a story the wife side, the husband side and the truth.

I don't know the reason why she left no one run from good but the lord will make away somehow

Children are a gift it's not your place to tell anyone the number of children one should have. God provides.

Exactly

@@sallygachui3191 that's why Africa is so poor because of peoppe like u, we can see people in Europe monitor the population we are so many