Mysta would rather adopt a kid rather than allow a woman to go through this type of suffering. 

Overpopulation is a myth Like for real Unless you want everyone to use as many resources as rich suburban americans that is

We don't have overpopulation, we're just not spread out enough so we overpopulate some areas. Really, we have plenty of room on this planet.

Nah cuz same

I’m sorry that I’m your 666th like, but I agree with you

the amount of crazy parents in murica that sue schools for the dumbest crap and demand the stupidest shit.

true, but adopting kids has its downside too. im not saying all adopted kids are like this, but a lot of them rebel and mistreat their caretakers. or after they find out theyre adopted, they run away. its usually because of trauma that hasnt been treated, which makes most of them act negatively to cover up their trauma of being abused or mistreated by their parents. or, some were thinking why did their bio parents give up on them? again, a lot reacted negatively, and since most cant meet their bio parents, they take out their anger and frustration on their new caretakers.

True, but also there are parents who act as if their kids owe them everything and are their property, not individuals with their own desires, needs, and dreams. They'll question why they were born, and other mental struggles are kept to themselves; they can't take them to their parents. It's seen as ungratefulness for everything they've done for you and for giving you life, so bam, depression or something. Not everyone is privileged to be born into a well-off family. They experience trauma as well, but they're just better at hiding it from their parents. With parents or not, every kid suffers one way or another. It's the world that's making it harder to survive physically, mentally, and financially every day. They're both preventable with good parenting, but one of them is totally out of the adoptee's control, like being an orphan. The adoptee couldn't prevent that.

The same goes for adoptive parents, and there's been SO MANY cases of biological parents having their babies taken away from them despite no abuse and the system doesn't allow them to get them back

Dude same , I wanna adopt too . I don't want my creation to be a failure like me

Yup! I agree

The thing is, after child birth tonnes of certain hormones and chemicals get release into the brain and make the mother happy, forget the pain, and want to have another child. So really, mothers aren't the ones who should be telling you that, even though most of the time it's the mothers who do.

Honestly yeah. If some people want to have children, doesn't mean others want to have children too. Also most people (especially mothers) that keep telling people who don't want children go "Oh that's just what you think now" or "You'll grow out of that mindset soon". No, I do not want the pain of childbearing, thank you very much

@@pinkmiku12 they're going down but they're still there. The chemicals work later

@@Allyfyn And then treat the children like shit

I'm just curious, is childbirth more painful than some exposed fractures? Asking because I don't know anything about this.

@@alissondantas6452 Well, it really depends on the person. For example, there are people out there who can have a lot of kids and still be active and healthy, for others; childbirth can be traumatizing and painful. What comes out might not be the same as they expect it to be. I'm not a professional nor have I been preggo before but overall I think certain things have different effects on others and it all depends on how mentally and/or physically strong that person is.

@@KNT1336 well, makes sense, thanks for the answer.

okok,, sorry

yeah, even the ass can get somewhat ripped apart too if the person is unlucky enough, it's insane

💀💀💀 that sounds horrific

No it's the chemicals that get released into the brain after birth that makes them forget and it also make them happy. It's not the joy that makes them forget, it's the hormones.

Yup. My biology teacher is one of those men who actually respects women/females for all we go through

Same

Oh god! But from what I understand I think it went well, so congrats on motherhood

His genes do pass on to girls though? Each parent gives 50% of their genes to each child

oke,, thank's. i'm sorry

@@purplishch Like I said, it's a common mistake when listening+writing. I fuck up transcribing Spanish all the time!

I think it’s actually something that can possibly happen. I don’t think it’s a super common occurrence though. But I’ve heard somewhere that when that does happen the midwife/doctor has to kinda push it back in which I find super disturbing.

Meanwhile some loving parents also have their children taken away from them and never allowed to even see their kid again despite no abuse... It's heartbreaking on both sides 💔

That's really wonderful, I just wish people won't shove that down every female's throat though. I'm SICK of it. Everyone's different

It’s unlikely for your uterus to fall out afterbirth, but if you’re unlucky enough then-

your uterus does not falls out during birth, the placenta is what falls out, which is very normal

Well alright it's not selfish. Some people want kids of their own (as in blood related) and that is perfectly fine. Those who want to adopt would adopt, that's all.

@@miruslerret See, that logic itself is why I think it's selfish. Is blood relation the only thing that enables them to love the child? If so, then these people aren't fit to be parents.

@@Dina-kc77 It's literally not a slight bit selfish. That's just things are ,,supposed to be" for the lack of a better term. It is not their fault that some people just have children and leave them at the orphanage, which in itself is awful (not counting those who did it because of financial reasons, rape etc.). As I said, some people just want to have children themselves. You literally have families with both blood related and adopted kids. Both feel like fulfilment for different parents.

@Milica Petrovic I understand what you're saying, and I agree with some of it. But let's just agree to disagree :D

Just saying here as I personally do not like your comment, it's completely fine if couples do not want to give birth their own children/be childless or adopt children as there's lots of children in orphanage and deserve home and love and loving parents, it's also fine for couples want to have their own children giving birth etc, it's fully based on couples/or single ppl who can financially,mentally and many aspects ready to build their own family in their own way, in their own timing as I believe building a family is a really private and personal thing. If couples have every aspect ready and mature, outsiders should have no right to butt their "opinion" in it, I firmly disagree there's a "right" way to build a family. I think it's really common sense, but I hope you don't judge a pregnant lady/ppl for being "selfish" just for being pregnant, I understand ppl have different opinions but pls, don't judge pregnant ppl, at very least, don't judge them openly.(or you don't, thankfully, but your wording in ur comment makes me really angry)

No one should take seriously the opinion of someone who, unironically, calls normal people "breeders."

​@@GamePlayuh9510str8 ppl are anything but normals

@@maliciousqueefer3427 But the alternatives are? Cope harder.

i would not agree that masculinity as a whole is demonized, but i (kinda?) get it. Two genders have very different struggles, sometimes even the opposite of one another. As difficult as it is to be a girl in my part of the world, i WOULD NOT change this life for a life of a man in the place where i live, this stuff seems like pure hell

@@yannikovsky7041 It's not _entirely_ demonized, but that's only because there's a subconscious understanding that it's necessary for men to be men. That's why women will cry out for supposed equality, but they don't sign on to work on oil rigs, dig ditches, or do construction work.

@@GamePlayuh9510 if you dont see how crushing the expectation of being "the manly man the breadwinner, the protector, the money maker, macho strong masculine" then i dont think we are in the same train of thought. well, in my part of the world the reason why i wouldnt choose the life of man, IT IS because of these freakish expectations that men require to meet in order to be considered masculine and ReAl MaN. I have seen with my own two eyes how these things kill and abuse people' psyche, fucks them for a lifetime to the point of real dysfunction.

@@GamePlayuh9510 there are many complicated reasons as to why women tend to choose different careers as apposed to men. these things are studied heavily in sociology, psychology and even political sciences, and the answers are much more complicated than you think. firstly, many jobs simply DONT allow women to take very physically straining jobs like you listed earlier. Secondly it is that out social expectations and our environment is very much responsible for our choice of careers, and if its not actively encouraged by the government and our social groups, the % of you choosing said career goes to none. IT IS the same reason why there not many men in caregiving positions (nursing, babysitting, social workers, veterinarians) is because of societal judgement and very heavy discouragement from all around the place. The equality you are talking about very feeble and goes out the window as soon as you start retrospectively study this stuff from different points of view

@@yannikovsky7041 Let me just ask, why do you think women would be excluded from physically demanding jobs?