Na wa ooo,if this is true then it’s sad that Nigerian women in diaspora are constantly taken advantaged of by men and its not fair,women in diaspora be wise ooooo hmmmm
That’s my big sis from another mom ❤😍A very lovely sweet lady, super mom , artiste , multifaceted content creator and a lot more. She deserves the very best and I pray she reaps the fruits of her labour .
“I’m not in control of how people treat me but I’m in control of how I treat myself and how i move on" letting go is a key part of self development and a happy life. That’s my take. Good one sister. God bless you
Ladies, know this! Never carry the financial burden of any single man who can't champion his marriage to you.. No man should feel comfortable with that if he is responsible...RED FLAG!
It takes two to tangle like the lady said but its notbthat easy. We have only heard from her side. We are yet to hear from the guy in particular. So let's not really condemn anybody yet. This Same thing happened to me just a year ago. Got married to a lady, sent her to Canada to school and now she is acting strange to me. Most ladies believe they travel abroad and once its not working for them, then all they wanna do is to start sleeping around with men. I get that the pain the woman in this video is going through is not easy but what if she's very much at fault in her approach when dealing with the man nko? God will help us all. To get a loyal and God fearing man or woman is nit easy these days ooo
it seems you inexperienced about women. I have lived in UK for 20 years now. My guy! Soft voice na scam sometimes. If when things don’t go their way and London babes handle you ehn! You will wish you were never born. Their exposure and expectations from a man is far greater than your normal Naija way of handling relationships. Dating them sometimes is like walking on egg shells and they only calm down after 40 but having said all this, there are very few good ones though!
VDM 95% of the marriage relationship breakdown because of money issues. Most of the men in the Diaspora don't want to take charge as the man in control. How can a man be the Boss if he doesn't want to take financial responsibility as a family head.
Sometimes, our expectations in others, particularly when it comes to marriage, can be a source of disagreement and disappointment over time. These often lead to hatred as opposed to love that holds marriage together. I can imagine the reasons for most failed relationships? Good luck to everyone with the Grace to fulfil marital obligations. Appreciate this lady for speaking the truth about 10 years waiting time. God bless her, VDM, and all watchers.
exactly....mke we forget big big english if woman get money pass their man, dem no dey get respect women sabi abuse power well well......na till i hear the guy story i fit talk,bt judging from how women with men are,she was the problem,u cant turn an igbo man to ur boy ,its not done....he wont adhere to that
How could VDM claim that Yoruba or Edo people are inherently bad in relationships? Good and bad individuals exist in every group, regardless of tribe or origin. Furthermore, many families abroad experience breakdowns due to financial issues. Financial challenges abroad are far more intense compared to those in Nigeria.
VDM no involve for relationship matter.😂 Good people always meet bad ones Her last statement was sweet saying she’s not regretting cos sometimes GOD just use people to help others.
@@philjasper2541 if you cant see it, then you'd have to listen to her again and decipher it for yourself. its pointless for me doing that for you when you clearly misinterpreted my reply. i never said she was the problem. "follow for d problem"
VDM, these men are like that ooh!! And you think Igbo is not bad 😂😂.. This her story sounds familiar.. I am her age mate and yes I have seen so many of my friends being used for papers! They are heartless and can lie ooh! I’m telling you it is bad. And they use women any how! 🤦🏾♀️. I am Anambra so I know trust me 😂. I feel for her . But she be fine.
Menn you won't understand why the guy isn't there anymore if don't live in the UK. You might be shocked when you hear his side of the story and there's a big question inside the six months that he tried! We have a culture and our women forget that, and embrace the laws designed like it was made for them. Again even if they're not using it against you they make sure they threaten and remind you everyday just to just have full control over you and before you know it... You are a mumu man! I'm not trying to exonerate him but African don't want to function like and she has to keep the man if she wants them to stay😢 Only a few women hold their men high in UK and that's a rare wisdom to own a man's heart forever.
She brought him, do everything.... Their problem was finance... I live in London and that is the way most women reason.... She should have been more patient... The guy noticed her as been controlling so my guy ashmushy....
Vdm focus on your good work , you don’t need this distraction . You don’t need all this distraction. And somethings u come to say on your page doesn’t . I think you will grow as time goes on but u should avoid some discussions and u can do that at your private convo. Bro u gats mature . For real . U r doing a great job . Move differently pls . When u come here and do this kind of stuffs , you align yourself with what we r used to seeing . Pls brother it’s a honest advice
If he do saga video you people say why is he fighting people? Now he's minding his business and catching cruise, you people still condemned it. I don't understand anything 😕.
We have heard her side, can we hear his own side as well? This woman is married twice and is collecting child support despite supposedly sponsoring her dependant.... something is not right about this story
But women can wait o. My dad died and my mom and step mom didn't remarry and no man . Even my dad's family told them to remarry they both refused . Especially my step.mom she was still very young at that time but she no gree remarry o.
I waited for 9 years without naki after my separation from my husband, I focused on my children and my job, when started dating God, there are lots of gold diggers in London.
This can be examples to 9ja women generally , i can see this woman hard working woman ,I appreciate this women 🙏, relationship or marriage is perfect but you both need to go well to each other,I wish her best luck in life and good health 🙏 stay blessed, I base Europe and I understand her well
This is true what she's saying is true but the problem is they feel like they know all, and tell you what to do, they also think they are doing you a favor so you should worship them. but it's not like that here and they can nag UK women can nag both the black women kudo for that man wey run for his life.. If you ask this woman if cares not taking she came from a polygamous home. With what you've said the man never breeth u don dey remind am say he supposed be man wey em know say em be.. 😢
This kind of issue is for the wise to counsel. VDM doesn't have this kind of capacity. Please focus on anything that being intelligent and smart can solve. Thank you!
Things shouldn't be judged from just one perspective. This woman's story is emotionally compelling, especially as she was being used to gain entry into another country by the supposed man. However, she might have been responsible for her own problems. We weren't there to see how she treated the man while they were together. Being wealthier than him, she could have used hurtful words that triggered him to leave her or acted the way he did. We shouldn't curse someone based on a one sided story. I've seen a supportive woman who still belittled her partner at every opportunity, and in the end, she labeled him as bad just because he decided to leave her.
Mine is almost 15 years now and ready to continue without a man, the love of my life walked away with my heart no man, no sex, I don’t know how I did it ooo😳😱
