Narc verbal abuse by partner while try not to argue further. Did it slow it down faster? 

Earlier in the night our daughter (5) mentioned she ate a cupcake provided at school. I told her that if she bleeds in the next couple of days (issues with rectal bleeding since Jan) that we may have an understanding of the why behind it. (I supply her preschool with allergen-safe cupcakes and send her lunch and snacks with daily.) Immediately after stating that her father told her not to listen to me.
I expected this because he would not speak to, look at, or brush against me the rest of the night, keeping our daughter away from me for her last active 90 minutes of the day.
The video runs long, but as I've been working to stay grounded in those moments, you can notice how quickly it calms, by comparison, while later he contradicts himself vs the things I'm accused of.