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@brexxy21
@brexxy21 Год назад
And then the narc has the audacity to easily get jealous when they stay doing triangulation...
@ShaTerrykaLee
@ShaTerrykaLee Год назад
It's scary how so many people have met the same demon in different bodies. I didn't realize that even the times I thought were good was a lie as well. Thank God for healing! 🙌
@bellamorenita6138
@bellamorenita6138 Год назад
Seriously very scary!
@treva460
@treva460 Год назад
Wow I just said that. It's a spirit. A strong hold. So so sad.
@Blah504
@Blah504 Год назад
Wow lady your message is deep to me wow thankyou Godbless you
@neimanmarcus8899
@neimanmarcus8899 Год назад
Frfr
@CVICURN1
@CVICURN1 Год назад
It’s crazy isn’t it?! Accepting that what we thought was “the good” was all a lie is so hard. We are all there with you. Stay strong.❤
@terasaknox7168
@terasaknox7168 Год назад
I left mine looking stupid. I abandoned them when they thought that I never would. Out of nowhere. Left them stunned. Tried to make me jealous, didn't work. What could they possibly do next?😂
@cajuncrackerranch7990
@cajuncrackerranch7990 Год назад
All true! The Narcissist and The Empath is a battle of the soul; armor up! Stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️
@robinsnow7779
@robinsnow7779 Год назад
Amen ❤
@sherimascote7495
@sherimascote7495 Год назад
Amen 💯👍
@Blah504
@Blah504 Год назад
Thankyou will do Amen
@Neanksecond2none6905
@Neanksecond2none6905 Год назад
Jesus protect me in your HOLY NAME
@lb1798
@lb1798 Год назад
When I read that I thought...that's crazy...but the narcissist and the empath....is truly a battle....WoW!!!
@margaritagomez3490
@margaritagomez3490 Год назад
When someone shows you who they are believe them the “first time”
@deb2319
@deb2319 8 месяцев назад
💯🎯🎯
@kerrysuzanne8819
@kerrysuzanne8819 Год назад
He's been triangulating me with his ex, and she's playing ball. I'm not playing the game anymore, it's game over!! ❤️❤️❤️
@YoulandaSampson
@YoulandaSampson 8 месяцев назад
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤kno😢u right never going be just you and that person thankGod I finally out thanks terrell 😂
@spiritgurl1111
@spiritgurl1111 Год назад
"you being able to validate yourself is a defense mechanism against their manipulation" SAY IT AGAIN LOUDER !
@bellamorenita6138
@bellamorenita6138 Год назад
I hate it when he comes to pick up the baby, and he brings his supply. He wants to intimidate me. She just stares at me and smirks! I don't want him girl keep your demon pet.
@NARCASSASSAIN
@NARCASSASSAIN Год назад
I know karma is on the way don't react. That will only give the narc fuel. With her ugly ass and the damn crutball the DUMMIES.
@ckmodele
@ckmodele Год назад
"...Demon pet repellent..." putting that on a t-shirt or bumper sticker
@garysmith4796
@garysmith4796 Год назад
Sounds like she got some problems. Her biggest problem she doesn't see YET. She is with a narcissist and it is going to be a hell of a ride for her (or probably already is).
@karriesaunders8597
@karriesaunders8597 Год назад
I don't let the demons have the child,I'm saving to leave the area,I'd sooner be totally on my own and start again than let the child go to an abusive,sick,psychopathic family of liars and bullies. I've cut all seeing both of us.
@bellamorenita6138
@bellamorenita6138 Год назад
@@garysmith4796 I agree completely I just pray for my child before going there and after coming back
@1butterflybluestitch
@1butterflybluestitch Год назад
My ex suggested we bring another woman into our relationship so he could get her pregnant and we all live together as a family…..that was the last straw for me! I don’t get down like that, I don’t share and he’s got me fucked up! ✌🏼 and I told him I’m not collateral damage!! He had a hard time breaking me down, even after 17 years, I’m too head strong for the bullshit and that pissed him off!!
@manuelgarcia5961
@manuelgarcia5961 Год назад
That’s crazy that some dudes really be straight up with shit like that. Good head on your shoulders love 💪 god bless
@Valentino2vaild
@Valentino2vaild Год назад
She probably was already pregnant by him
@funkymonk542
@funkymonk542 Год назад
Damn the audacity! These people are monsters.
@Pugetwitch
@Pugetwitch Год назад
​@@manuelgarcia5961 at least he was straight up about it. The majority of them just do it without permission.
@Cali001
@Cali001 Год назад
They always have more than one cell phone or device. If you ever go thru there devices you’d be on the floor as to what you see. They are messy individuals. Some have a whole other Life abd situation going on you don’t know about
@empress9857
@empress9857 Год назад
Yep 👍
@toshajones1191
@toshajones1191 Год назад
I get it. Triangulation sounds like a setup/stage or a game
@operationnarcnemesis2383
@operationnarcnemesis2383 Год назад
Definitely is,all to get a reaction
@alphaclemons4075
@alphaclemons4075 Год назад
He tried to triangulate me and said he was trying to wake me up. He woke me up alright I filed for divorce and put his ass out And told him I will not compete with trash on no day. I’m worth more than that! He played himself trying to play me. God stripped him of everything except his freedom. Thank you lord!!!
@Vermillion73
@Vermillion73 Год назад
Facts brother, “when you’re starving you’ll eat anything” Narcs are so damn weak and fragile only they would think of these manipulation tactics. I noticed recently that all the narcs I’ve known are actually literally afraid of me, their behavior is a bizarre thing to observe.
@reneef.874
@reneef.874 Год назад
Facts. They are very afraid of the ppl they violate because they know that God’s wrath is greater than our own. They’re not in the clear, there’s a price for almost everything.
@karriesaunders8597
@karriesaunders8597 Год назад
They are crazy.
@Vermillion73
@Vermillion73 Год назад
@@karriesaunders8597 🤣 you made me laugh they really are
@LOVETHYSELFDAILY
@LOVETHYSELFDAILY Год назад
They sense your shine. They don't even have to see it. But, you see them, which scares them
@Vermillion73
@Vermillion73 Год назад
@@LOVETHYSELFDAILY yeah it’s pretty easy to tell who has darkness and evil in their eyes. They’re always trying to put on a show, it’s so uninteresting I just stare at them with a blank face then they get scared. They’re the most boring people.
@res193g6sjj
@res193g6sjj Год назад
I worked for my ex covert narc in his office. He adored and admired me, wined and dined me on the weekends, then wouldn’t touch me at the drop of a dime. He had at least 2 other women and asked for permission to date us all. He gave the impression he liked my sister then called me crazy for pointing it out. He pit me against other employees and tossed out my flowers when I began dating someone else. He is egotistical, sneaky, cunning, manipulative and selfish. I cried, cried and cried and still no change. After 3 1/2 years of begging for a commitment, I quit and blocked him. I hear his business is failing now and he wants me back. My credit score is going up and I’m in law school. Good riddance!
@Blah504
@Blah504 Год назад
Good for you his lost never yours yes stay strong sister 💪
@margaritagomez3490
@margaritagomez3490 Год назад
Just remember they don’t change, you deserve better
@garysmith4796
@garysmith4796 Год назад
Go, go, go. Good for you. I am having to stay with my narcissist wife for a few more months for my protection (financial). I see the light at the end of the tunnel and it is good that you are already in the light and doing well.
@feliciabennett2729
@feliciabennett2729 Год назад
I thought. How Dare You.............Cheat On Me! Yes I was Hurt Mad and Sad for a darn year Traumatized to ...Da. Max ! The disrespect ...you have to pay attention to what they show you instead of what the say to you. They pull a Lie out the Sky.
@Columbiadwk
@Columbiadwk Год назад
Every upload homie does, it helps thousands of people. It should inspire a lot of you watching that you can use that pain, betrayal, and confusion as fuel to find your purpose in life and have hope. If you become successful and a much better person after the relationship with the narc ends, it will eat them alive for the rest of their lives.
@a6a34007
@a6a34007 9 месяцев назад
That's right on the mark. Success is the best revenge.
@HorizonHipHop
@HorizonHipHop Год назад
Narcs like to project too, mine would always accuse me of cheating even tho I was loyal for 9 years.
@izzyoda7867
@izzyoda7867 7 месяцев назад
Before I was discarded, my Narc would have people he slept with meet him at the grocery store while we shopped for food for the house. It was very disrespectful they think they are slick, but that's when u leave them they are using you to make themselves look good to the new supply
@yasminakarraz7562
@yasminakarraz7562 Год назад
The funny thing is that my narc said literally!; that he was giving me breadcrumbs (and that he wish he could give more); instead like you explained he gave me less and less. So happy I find the strength to say goodbye. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@Pugetwitch
@Pugetwitch Год назад
it's a trip because mine came back after 2 months, about a month ago, he knocked on my door at 3:30 a.m. asking if he could use a bathroom and wait to catch them first bus to his neighborhood, and before I went back in my room to go back to sleep, he started muttering something about hoovering! he specifically said he was there to Hoover and he was back on his Hoover s***, and I question him on it, he said you heard me and I'm not talking about bloods and crips, either? cuz he knows I used to roll with the bloods... I know he's been stalking my s***. I know he watch all my s***. he knows what the f*** he's doing. I just ignored it though I went right back to bed.
@heidipearson4609
@heidipearson4609 Год назад
I picked him up in Chicago to come buy a car from my neighbor. He stayed and helped me for a few months, bought the car and a couple weeks later we knew he would go home or go back to staying with family. We text for a month and a half then out of the blue he breaks up with me in a text saying he knew from the day I came to get him it would be the last time we speak. He just wanted me to see his good side then dropped me like a bag of hot rocks and he'd stay in touch. WTF ... That was the most rotten thing ever. We made love, laughed and had such a good time and I actually wanted to take time off to go visit him on his turf ....and BOOM he's done 😢 and he knew the whole time we loved he was leaving
@heidipearson4609
@heidipearson4609 Год назад
He has such a paroinid and suspicious mind ...I even tried to add him to my Google maps, like my family always knows where I'm at and he refused but would ask what took so long for me to get home
@n0426
@n0426 Год назад
16:40 So true it’s repulsive and makes me want to throw up and throw them all out of my life. They are so low and cheap they will never be able to afford having the real you. Never in a healthy way.
@angelad3706
@angelad3706 3 месяца назад
Please cover the topic on narc destruction of one’s property, and how they are protective of their belongings.
@sianmeredith30
@sianmeredith30 Год назад
Key!! Always a third party!! I was never a priority! 20 fxxxing years! Still trying to do the same thing. Thankyou sweet for the confirmation 🤗🇦🇺💗👍🙏
@introvertedways6976
@introvertedways6976 Год назад
This is so true I felt my self esteem low so I was comparing and I started trying to look better by working out, going to the dentist, buying more fashion clothing, and then starting to become a wealthy man someway somehow. Like I literally got a better job cuz I was with the narc and first day at the new job I called her phone found out she cheated got discarded quickly and I wasn't focused as much almost cost me the job but after couple days I wanted to improve
@JumpWatsonYT
@JumpWatsonYT Год назад
Awe that's so sad!!
@elizaveta2407
@elizaveta2407 Год назад
wow, seems like you actually improved your life as a result of being with the narc - surprising positive side effect of narcissistic relationship.:)
@introvertedways6976
@introvertedways6976 Год назад
@@elizaveta2407 I wouldn't take it that far. That love bomb was incredible at first I smoked smoking marijuana for 4 months trying to get this job because she had 3 kids and I had 2 it was a dream come true I can finally have a family I was there for her and kids until the end of us. She made my dreams into a living nightmare, what made me believe and stay with her ignore all the signs was based on what she told me which I know now (I think) is a lie. Telling me you are the perfect boyfriend, I don't want these guys in 2022, and I only want you she made me feel incredible about myself... Whenever I did try to break her off she would act and say the sweetest things I was a fool
@Pugetwitch
@Pugetwitch Год назад
​@@elizaveta2407 That's the thing about painful situations, they can always help us grow. we can use pain and anger as fuel by transforming it alchemically through our psychology.
@rainbowlight144
@rainbowlight144 Год назад
Brilliant video, thank you. The crazy thing then is they start accusing you of the very thing they are doing! I’m out and staying out 💪
@operationnarcnemesis2383
@operationnarcnemesis2383 Год назад
Definitely projections are confessions
@bkchills718
@bkchills718 10 месяцев назад
I had a narc try me. I'm an Aquarius and we are known for intelligence. I played the game just to see how far they would go. I noticed every move and waited till their birthday to ghosted and blocked them. Bet that clown won't forget me...😂😂😂
@lauradarsey1
@lauradarsey1 Год назад
That is what made me walk away! After 30 years! He always had some needy bitch friend on his phone I felt like I had to compete with for his attention!! Now I realize what he was doing all along! I busted him trying to get a hotel room With her! When I asked him about it he denied it! So i sent the text to him that i had gotten off his phone and he still denied it so i left!! Thanks for the info!!
@garysmith4796
@garysmith4796 Год назад
You go girl. Good you already went. I will have my day soon, very soon. Good for you.
@tonyx2802
@tonyx2802 Год назад
Terrel. I've even done this myself because I copied what I saw growing up. Its not until you hear people speak as you do that you realise whats happening. Start by looking in the mirror. Using people makes us feel bad. Period. Identify the behaviour and break generational curses people. Lets become better human beings. With much love from England 🙏🏽
@kaystephens2672
@kaystephens2672 Год назад
Yes. I agree. People are finally hanging out their family's dirty laundry. There is no excuse for disrespect to another's soul and spirit. The most damaging thing anyone could do is to another person's heart. There's no excuse to try to hurt the people who try to make the world a better place for our children and their children.
@shannonsmith5419
@shannonsmith5419 Год назад
Omg so blessed to be almost 3yrs. No Contact. Keep disposing Them Terrell 🙏🏾🙏🏾💜❤️💜❤️
@feliciabennett2729
@feliciabennett2729 Год назад
No No Hell No when I found out about the sidepiece. And He rejected me more than twice. 3 strike you're out Get Yo Gear and Go ........ NC. I'm free
@natasharichard3900
@natasharichard3900 Год назад
So true!
@lejardin5538
@lejardin5538 11 месяцев назад
Amen brother!!!!! 🙏
@KarenWalker-pq4vf
@KarenWalker-pq4vf 3 месяца назад
Soooo true!! These narcissists are so skilled at manipulation.
@yolandaspencer3240
@yolandaspencer3240 3 месяца назад
Omg! I experienced all of this! I'm so glad that the Lord is a healer and a deliverer! Amen!
@leciab8654
@leciab8654 Год назад
It’s definitely a method to the madness with these Manipulators 🎯🎯🎯
@feliciabennett2729
@feliciabennett2729 Год назад
I was starving for emotions affection and Sex when that which kept me holding on was gone. "Game Over ". I began to have pop ups on Toxic Relationshipd just like Revelation Once you know You Go
@Kissthebottle68
@Kissthebottle68 Год назад
When your heart is starving you’ll eat lies .
@lonewolfbynight
@lonewolfbynight Год назад
15:07 Sealed The Deal! God Bless You Mr. Andretti. ❤️
@tashacooper4261
@tashacooper4261 Год назад
You are speaking ALL FACTS 💯🎯✨ My ex is a narcissist and everything you describe. I have recently called him out on his BS in front of mutual friends and associates. He wanted an apology and he ain’t get it what so ever 😂✨
@tonyarmstrong7141
@tonyarmstrong7141 10 месяцев назад
I wish my Narc only triangulated me with just 1 person. She threw everyone at me even strangers. Of course none of these people ever said anything to me.
@charlenedeshazier1414
@charlenedeshazier1414 5 месяцев назад
Yup. I once tweeted how I love everything about myself from my skin tone, one dimple, my pretty smile etc & the next time I saw him he tried to break me down by calling me fake. Asking me why I wear fake hair or feel the need to wear make up, how I look like a reptile etc. he kept nitpicking & was going in on me.
@PhePhe-do7hn
@PhePhe-do7hn 7 дней назад
Message well received.
@81onechosenwon
@81onechosenwon Год назад
🗣 I swear you articulate your thoughts immaculately ‼️👏🏾✨️
@tamika358
@tamika358 7 месяцев назад
So true 😮😮😮😮
@toshajones1191
@toshajones1191 Год назад
Yes I was breadcrumbed but I was never programmed into thinking it was enough or being grateful
@dawnmarshall1290
@dawnmarshall1290 Год назад
I had a situation with a girl who claimed, then proved that she was my ex's offspring. She came to visit unannounced. She then tried to climb in my bed with her dad. He threw her out. I was okay with his behavior...but then he proceeded to validate her and slowly made her into someone I shouldfear because she 'didnt like me'. Every time we would fight she was suddenly important. It was sick! Triangulation at its finest!
@celesteeastland9804
@celesteeastland9804 Год назад
exactly, that is so true the things you talking about I lived it for 36 years now to actually here someone breaking it down is really heartfelt !!!!
@operationnarcnemesis2383
@operationnarcnemesis2383 Год назад
Thank you and yes it’s all from experience
@debrajenningsbrown
@debrajenningsbrown Год назад
I totally agree and have a much better understanding of narc behavior as I also lived it for over 29 years, with God's strength I ask him to release healing and restoration for myself and anyone that has or is going through this type of pain!
@MzzzTbaby
@MzzzTbaby Год назад
You're absolutely on point. Thank you for this. I needed to hear this message. Btw, being from Detroit, I love the old english D. We rock those faithfully
@kellimeer3698
@kellimeer3698 Год назад
Thank you! This has been one of the best videos, hits me deeply. Just today, I closed the door. Call me “Gray Rock.”
@mfcmxtt6490
@mfcmxtt6490 Год назад
You are rock solid Grey rock professional You win! They lose They couldn’t take you and break you. They just broke a toe trying to kick you Your soul said NO!
@Breezy777-j4c
@Breezy777-j4c Год назад
Your calming tone and relaxed mood was helpful. You really articulated what it’s like dealing with someone who has narcissistic tendencies. You explained things in a helpful and professional manner. Thank you for your content! 😊
@AbdurRauf7
@AbdurRauf7 Год назад
This video is important. You knocked it out the park.
@thereallisa1
@thereallisa1 Год назад
You are so right. So smart.
@NiqueSpeaks
@NiqueSpeaks Год назад
The women my Narc was dealing with were older than me. So he always compared me to them as far as how unaccomplished I was. How "business savvy" they were and things they had. I'm sure he would bring up my youth when he got into with them as a way to throw a dagger at them. Or if I would bring up how I didn't like him dealing with me and these other women because I don't like to share, he would talk about how "immature" I was and how much of a "little girl" and a nag and complainer I was. I remember one time he told me "older women know how to treat a man." I said well why are you here with me go be with them old hoes then smh. One of the women was married, she didn't have the time or energy to "nag" him like I did because she had a whole damn husband smh. I was feeling insecure at first, but I was like fuck that you're literally comparing to bitches that old enough to be my mother smh. He had me involved business wise with these women I met one of them. When she saw me she seemed shocked by how "pretty" I am and she asked me how old I was particularly so that gave away that he had discussed me with her before smfh! I cut him off back in October, I was done with him making me a part of his harem. I deserve better than that.
@prettyllady
@prettyllady Год назад
i hope you learned from this life lesson. That the next instance that ANY man brings up another women to you, That you instantly CUT HIM OFF‼️ Show him you don't play that sh*t! Either your the only one, or he won't have you at all 💯 When you value yourself, these men have no choice but to step up or SHIP OUT!
@NiqueSpeaks
@NiqueSpeaks Год назад
@@prettyllady I've most definitely learned my lesson. I just really thank God I have learned this is my 20's. Unfortunately those other women are in their 40's and 50's and still haven't learned and still are around for his abusive and toxic behavior.
@Valentino2vaild
@Valentino2vaild Год назад
Well dont call them old hoes just because hes an asshole. You to will become older , god permitting.
@gerneviegeorge9979
@gerneviegeorge9979 Год назад
My ex-narcissist use to do this to me as well. He was a lawyer and all the women he dated were older then me and some married. He would throw them in my face constantly especially when I blocked him for a few weeks - because of his abuse. I was the only young woman in the harem. I told him to forget my existence and go be with them. He just would not leave me alone...
@Pugetwitch
@Pugetwitch Год назад
I'm 43 years old and I'm dealing with a 31-year-old man and he's been talking to a little girl who's 22, fake lips, BBL. All that s***. I'm a bodybuilder and up have done personal training before, I'm shredded right now and got my six pack, I got a sculpted glutes and toned as f*** ass biceps and arms, basically I'm the opposite of her. I'm 5'7 is she's 5'2, we both weigh 120 lb... but yeah, she calls me grandma, she's been harassing me. she's been stalking me. she threatened to shoot me. I ran into them over a week ago and I beat the brakes off of her after he busted me in my face in public. she's a coward and a punk. I think it's horrible that she's trying to use the fact that I'm older as an insult to my intelligence when in reality she doesn't know anything about me. I'm autistic and she's clearly a narcissist just like the guy who she's with. she was bragging about how she was going to have him come beat my ass after she was posting pictures less than a month before where he had busted her in the face and split her lip on social media. then all of a sudden she took those down and started harassing me and saying she was going to send him over to beat me up. I was like you better stay in your position and get beat. you got me f***** up. I'm a grown ass woman. And I told her in the beginning I wasn't even interested in him like that! He's an artist out here from Philadelphia and I was mentoring him. He's new to my graffiti crew and as a founding member of 206 Zulu out here, I'm heavily involved in the graffiti scene. I also work with substance use disorder recovery and he got a lot of addictions and I was trying to get him some assistance and some resources out here. All of a sudden I started getting harassed and prank called! I told that b**** I didn't even want this dude, I'm a grown ass woman what do you think I look like dating a whole bump? I diagnosed him with APD in my own mind, not professionally of course, but I told him he needs to go talk to a psychiatrist because he's clearly a sociopath. I've given him a lot of insight to himself but it's not my job to take him to therapy. That's on his b****! The same one who he beats up that brags about how he puts hands on women. I told dude from jump Street that I am happily single and I've been single for 6 years and I'm not planning on dating. In order to protect myself further, I told him I'm not able to fall in love with people and then I'm gay.😂 but he was really mad that I rejected him, and this is how that all started.
@alexusleach1282
@alexusleach1282 Год назад
I needed to hear this bc I really thought I was doing something by not answering his calls immediately. I’d answer 3 days, weeks, or even months later not truly understanding that I was still getting high/addicted to him & the bond we had. Doing the work now and your channel is truly helping me during my healing process
@lonewolfbynight
@lonewolfbynight Год назад
No Contact Is The Best Contact! No Communication Is Communication. Stay Strong! 💪🙌💯
@The4s
@The4s 11 месяцев назад
All true statements, Nothing but the truth 🙏🏽
@Gthing84
@Gthing84 Год назад
Damn I never looked at it like that, thank you for opening my eyes up
@carmenzillah3786
@carmenzillah3786 Год назад
Thank you so much for reading my comment asking you for this video on triangulation I appreciate you thank you for reading the comments and getting involved like you are in helping us heal. I'm 5 yrs into my healing thank you God bless you . This made my day
@Patricia-ij5jc
@Patricia-ij5jc Год назад
Yes ,you are right let them go. 🙏🙏🙏
@elizaveta2407
@elizaveta2407 Год назад
Whoa, you are so right, the purpose of triangulation is to move the focus and expectations off of them onto you! Thank you Terrell!! Oh a side note, I'd like to add that I believe we all have the same value as humans which doesn't depend of our looks or talents etc. At the same time we are different in terms of achievement, that is also true. But it only affects our self-esteem, not value as human beings.❤
@sandragalindo105
@sandragalindo105 Год назад
40 years!! He never changed! Only got worse!!
@fionahawkes1758
@fionahawkes1758 Год назад
This makes so much sense, you are really clued up on every detail of their behaviours... Brilliant 👏
@operationnarcnemesis2383
@operationnarcnemesis2383 Год назад
Thank you and know em like a book
@cd7327
@cd7327 7 месяцев назад
Man. The stories I have. His triangulation were business partners. I learned he had relationships with every business partner. Then he tried to talk about them and I wouldn't allow that then they would disappear. They were no longer business partners. He once tried to get me to supervise one of them. No sir you hired her. What an eye opener.
@christiedunlap6214
@christiedunlap6214 Год назад
Heck no I did not do this! I just waited a few months for him to decide if he wanted a wife or a girlfriend, & when he couldn’t choose I filed for divorce. I should’ve let him go many years ago when he cheated the first time.
@INFJ2
@INFJ2 Год назад
You know how we know we are all talking about Narcissists? All the comments relate, T's comments sound like the SAME person we know. ITS DEFINITELY THEM NOT US FAMILY ❤️❤️❤️
@crosskross
@crosskross Год назад
Amen brother AMEN 🙏 and you did not go off topic at all, you hit the nail on the head.
@operationnarcnemesis2383
@operationnarcnemesis2383 Год назад
Thank you my friend
@ChosenByJehovah
@ChosenByJehovah Год назад
Me and my lady going through something last night she over my house she showing me videos of my kid. As she scrolls through thr video up pops a screenshot of some dude on ig. I said who is that she said that don't concern you I was sending that to my cousin I have to be loyal to thr group and not let you see the name.i instantly felt sick to my stomach and never said another word to her.she end up leaving I said drive safe good night. I'm not dealing with triangulation good riddens
@operationnarcnemesis2383
@operationnarcnemesis2383 Год назад
And never look back G believe it was a tactic
@deirdre5940
@deirdre5940 Год назад
Excellent video. Right on with this topic. Be aware of your partner saying that a relationship with the opposite sex is just a so called "good friend". No - this is all a game to them for a pathetic way to get a reaction out of you. It is never going to be just you as a couple. It gets worse with time. Take my word for it. Get out and get out now.
@CVICURN1
@CVICURN1 Год назад
This was my first main mistake, as I was being triangulated from the very start, and I should’ve left in the very very beginning. There are so many women in his life, and none of it made any sense, and he kept saying that they were friends and ex-wives and masseuses, and he kept saying for me to not to even ask for them to not be in his life. That was my first red flag and even though I didn’t like it, I let it go and I should never have done that. It would’ve saved me years of hell.
@RoseGoldDay
@RoseGoldDay Год назад
🔥🔥😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨 bro . All Praises To The Most High !💪🏽
@brittanym8114
@brittanym8114 Год назад
Wow every video you share is spot on. I’m married to one for 9 years he tried to attack me and hurt me bc I told him I wanted a divorce and for him to get his things and leave. I had to call the police bc he started destroying things in the house. He went to jail & the next day I found out he had been cheating with the same supply from previously. I confronted him about it and haven’t heard from him since. He is still incarcerated one month later. What do you think he is going through right now ??
@garysmith4796
@garysmith4796 Год назад
9 years wow. He might be getting his carma in a painful way in jail now.
@KATKattalestv
@KATKattalestv Год назад
You know what you are TALKING about 😻💜
@nitrostarling6263
@nitrostarling6263 Год назад
You are so on point with everything that came out your mouth. 💯
@charlenecabell4039
@charlenecabell4039 Год назад
He kept flirting with other women in front of me while having dinner at a restaurant. I got tired of it and stopped going. Then started chasing behind the neighbor that come over every week. I told him to stay there with her. He refuse to do that just to prove me wrong when I know the truth. I'm doing no contact also. thank you for your videos
@minajeetjemineetje3002
@minajeetjemineetje3002 3 месяца назад
My ex was friends with an amazing amount of exes and he slept at their place and they slept at his place. He called me insecure for having an opinion about it.
@TiffanyPS1104
@TiffanyPS1104 Год назад
The realest sh*t I ever heard ‼️
@operationnarcnemesis2383
@operationnarcnemesis2383 Год назад
Amen ✅
@anasimoes2487
@anasimoes2487 Год назад
Already kick like button before the video start because I know is gonna be spot on! 🙌🇬🇧😘so many demons on disguise..for me the worst battle is with my own mind and thoughts and all the rumination and the anger some days just want seek revenge..God give us strength 🙏 by the way hitting the gym thank you for your support and your music👏
@onlytruth3354
@onlytruth3354 Год назад
Omg i wish i had someone like him to talk to
@doityourselfqueen
@doityourselfqueen Год назад
My narc would always use hypotheticals using triangulation. We could never have a discussion without him dragging someone else into our chat. I asked one day if we could stay focused on us and not bring anyone else into the discussion and he was LIVID. I was is the ninja crazy😂? We both were highly intelligent intellectuals, but he needed to give me these long drawn out, made up scenarios when checked on his behavior. His behavior never made me want to do more, his behavior made me want to do less. I knew he was stiff arming me. For a minute, he had me confused with the triangulation but once I figured it out and called him out, he began treating me different. I matched his energy and he moved on himself. I didn't chase him. I let him go. I think that made him angrier. I kept traveling, doing stuff I enjoyed. I wouldn't tolerate his breadcrumbs. I turned him down. I'm proud of myself for walking away. We were friends for almost 30 years. I was shocked when the mask fell off, but I'm glad I never got sucked into that life. That little taste was enough for me.
@tevaristorres8535
@tevaristorres8535 11 месяцев назад
I'm in the middle of some ish now. i saw him narcing a mile away and tried my best to gray rock. I get the impression he wants to make her jealous and be insecure but he's garbage. I wish she'd get rid of 'em so we all can live in peace.
@margorolle9453
@margorolle9453 6 месяцев назад
I blocked his and her a$$ on all cylinders. How dare he try to pit me against that big foot bremelo 😂😂😂
@manuelsantos3779
@manuelsantos3779 Год назад
Thank you sir knowledge is power but knowledge not apply is worthless never again I be play for a fool
@kimberlyalexander8689
@kimberlyalexander8689 Год назад
No lies told here 💯💯💯
@wendysmith3656
@wendysmith3656 Год назад
Best and truest video I’ve ever heard!
@sueayres494
@sueayres494 Год назад
Man, all so true! U keep seeing them seeking outside attention and they say they're not and they get mad at you to prove it...until you start questioning yourself! I finally decided to listen to myself, not him...and I got the picture...they do it alll on purpose to screw with you. Hard wayto learn to listen to yourself/ your own intuition!
@goretedaluz5001
@goretedaluz5001 Год назад
My Narc has turned my kids against me. They took my ex-husbands side on our divorce. The funny thing is they were 1, 2 and 4 and do not remember that part of their life. They catch him in a lie and give him a pass. He was caught spelling his daughters name wrong. Tell me is there ever a reason a father doesn't know how to spell their daughters name and made up a lie to try and cover it up. He told my daughter that I had taught her the wrong spelling and that girl asked me if her asked me if that is the correct way to spell her name. My daughter was 10 years old at the time. I showed her the birth certificate to prove he was lying. She gave him a pass and doesn't talk to me
@INFJ2
@INFJ2 Год назад
They really do anything to make you look like the messed up individual. Blatant lies and denial of reality.
@workinprogress3085
@workinprogress3085 Год назад
All 3 narcs have done this to me. #1 the ex husband tried calling his mistress in front of me, she answered, he said he wanted to come over, she denied him, I laughed he got mad and attacked me 😂, #2 left me when I gave up everything/everyone for him, when I found out about the other woman and still wanted to stay with him, I became the "other woman" that was terrible. #3 he went from seeing me every time he came back home from work to spend time with me on the weekends, then he went to barely answering my texts, I knew he was bugging and wanted me to blow up his phone and make him look more important than he wasn't, I didn't fall for it and told him just that, now he mad and hasn't spoken to me since 🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂. Standing up for yourself burns them up inside 🔥🔥. My Peace of mind is Not for negotiation.
@marshaedwards3826
@marshaedwards3826 2 месяца назад
This is my wake up call
@roxannewaltman3364
@roxannewaltman3364 Год назад
Everything you say hits home with me.thank you
@markwoody4168
@markwoody4168 11 месяцев назад
These videos line up like you telling my story
@viewerwatching5712
@viewerwatching5712 10 месяцев назад
Dont play their game, they are not even worth it!
@lovelock1994
@lovelock1994 Год назад
No contact is good in hindsight, but I still struggle with just wanting to talk to him 😢. I’m fighting to kick this “addiction “. I have been getting better and doing better tho. But he still crosses my mind from time to time. Just recently I had a dream about him back to back.
@Liz-Leia
@Liz-Leia Год назад
It's natural, stay strong. You got this!!
@lovelock1994
@lovelock1994 Год назад
@@Liz-Leia thankyou so much. This is so different than a regular "disconnection"😩
@usernamea99
@usernamea99 Год назад
+1 here.
@phylliscowans3433
@phylliscowans3433 Год назад
I am so happy to have found content like this because for 17 years I did not know what to call this abuse that I suffered. I knew I wasn't crazy, although I thought I was sometimes. So happy to be out of this situation and even more happy to find out that it is a name for this disorderly conduct from the narc. Thanks for breaking down triangulation because that was a constant in my relationship.
@OhPeachy
@OhPeachy Год назад
Always spot on 💯💯
@dclarke1896
@dclarke1896 Год назад
I can't believe I fell for this! Smh! Thank you for the information!
@truthisinfinite8
@truthisinfinite8 Год назад
Yup, same spirit different people, I'm thankful for the awakening, it sets you free 🙏 A narc once told me "I found a girl that look like you." I chuckled because I just had this feeling he was bluffing. Well, he ended up marrying a fat chick with no talents who looks nothing like me. Lmao He only said that to make me feel less than, to make me feel like I'm easily replaced. He hoovered me recently after 8 years of no contact. Automatic BLOCK. THIS VIDEO IS WORTH GOLD 🏆 🏆
@handfulloflove
@handfulloflove Год назад
Thank you for all of this bro
@RondaSmith144Empress
@RondaSmith144Empress Месяц назад
Facts on facts Woo Lordtt!!!!!! Stop accepting breadcrumbs and know you deserve the entire loaf and I prefer an organic one😉. Uphold your will and refuse to be trauma bonded and that includes family and friends 🙏🏽.
@queenazucar800
@queenazucar800 Год назад
I def want a one on one.... I have a HIGH MAINTENANCE LOW Common Sense NARCISSIST.. PLEASE HLP..
@cindydelgado1111
@cindydelgado1111 Год назад
Well stated and perfectly delivered! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@terrancekilson829
@terrancekilson829 Год назад
Facts bro there is no hope and there is no just you and them… Dam bro you talk shit. My narc was trying to triangulate me but I caught on. Thanks homie you definitely are a inspiration for me. Keep pushing this shit out and we going to be in contact soon. Stay blessed god talking to me through you.
@Anita1984isuponus
@Anita1984isuponus Год назад
I'm confused, when you say shit, do you mean it's good or bad?
@terrancekilson829
@terrancekilson829 Год назад
It’s good a thing. Sorry for the confusion
@Anita1984isuponus
@Anita1984isuponus Год назад
@@terrancekilson829 Thanks
@LOVETHYSELFDAILY
@LOVETHYSELFDAILY Год назад
Very good video! Thanks!
@operationnarcnemesis2383
@operationnarcnemesis2383 Год назад
Glad you liked it!
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