Narcissist as Social Misfit (Social Learning Theory) 

“I would prefer $10 over a $10 word - because I am a Jew,” made me laugh aloud!

I got a lot of answers from this video. The malevolent eldest sibling stole the lives of two siblings who were younger, one driven insane, the other driven to addiction. The Machiavellian Narcissist seems very satisfied these two are dead. The enabler, younger sibling is proping up this oldest sibling to ensure the abuse continues. I am the target. Great video. So much valuable information. Thank you Professor.

What a video, especially the last minutes. 🤯👍 To get to know the "inner world" of narcissists piece by piece intellectually is fascinating and (at the same time) frightening. Their "emptiness" (in the sense of "non-personality") was - thanks to your great understandable explanations - palpable. I have had this experience in my life otherwise only in direct personal contact with some narcissists. I have always felt these people as cold, not "tangible". No matter how friendly or charming they were on the outside, no matter how long we had contact. Now I understand why ... And in general: Envy is in my opinion an absolutely superfluous feeling. Far too much suffering in this world is based on envy or grudge ...

👌 👏 another masterpiece of a video. I can't thank you enough. May you forever be blessed.

When I’m public my ex would walk up super close to strangers and not realize that this should not be done. Many times they turned around and wondered what she is doing. Even when I told her she never got it.

My ex covert narc is a teacher. There is always weird problems with his coworkers. I honestly don’t know how he pulls it off

I found your overt vs covert comparisons very accurate to my own personal experience. It is also very interesting how you make the link between overt and psychopaths. If you have material on this I would be very interested in seeing it, or perhaps a future video?

❤Thank you Sam❤

Das ist ein ganz wichtiger Beitrag der ganz neue Bewertung von Motiven unternimmt! Ganz neue Betrachtungsweise und so verstaendnisvoll ❤️👍

Is there any correlation with narcissists or borderlines and slovenliness? I'm not talking about the average person going through a time of overwhelm or grief, and not having energy/time to clean. There seems to be a pattern, especially with covert borderlines, of devaluing their own belongings, and leaving trails of possessions when they leave situations or people. They don't seem to care or want their old stuff, yet they can't be bothered to dispose of it properly.

I just added you to my social profile ❤️‍🔥🙏🏾

“I’m a outcast ,,nobody likes me “ famous words from female ex partner

Thank you Professor. As always an insightful, accurate, informative lecture of yours. 👍👏

An another master piece

Sam, in one of the shorts videos you speak about self improvement that is not goal oriented. Please make a video on this.

You have the best sense of humour 😂

I've got coffee: I'm ready for this video. "Stand up and be counted. For what you are about to receive. ...Hail, to the good times 'Cause Sam's got the right of way. ... For those about to rock, I salute you." -AC/DC I confession: I already had the coffee.

How to know that you're probably not a narcissist? I was diagnosed with ASD, but I always try to adapt by camouflaging. Sometimes It ressemble NPD so much. It terrifies me to think that I may be a black hole.

My Ex Narc has very poor people skills! Especially around groups of people. Totally incapable to solve conflicts.

I googled and learned the meaning. Thanks!

Look it uppp haha! You’re the best

My ex has fits all cluster b disorders. Mostly narcissist and borderline. She always complained about her mom. She is at home for 10-15 years with “depressions”. She also sends pictures and messages to random men to make the husband (ex father) jealous. My ex also said she is like her mom but she is not that bad because she has her horses. Can her mom be the cause of her craziness?

Sam, You are so funny. I really enjoyed the toxic and toxin joke.

My genius

Can you get better from this disease? I am afraid i have it.

Got to love your tocsin

Thank you so much Dear Professor ❤

so how do you do if the narcisistic is yourself or how do i do if I am the narcisistic?

What happens when you become numb to everything (freeze 🥶.mode) C-PTSD from Narc Mom to Narc Stalker receiving threats after moving several times??? Roomate gaslighting with Narc predator. Quit an addiction and unable to cope